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By *rchie300 OP Man
over a year ago
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Recently I’ve received some very sexy and heart felt messages from someone who I was sleeping with ... we had an amazing relationship both with sex and just being a couple .... circumstances changed and we had to say goodbye.... recently we’ve be drawn back together through work .... although I receive messages from her .. saying how much she misses me etc when it comes to face to face she totally ignores me ... it’s very confusing... so any insights would be good from my fellow fabsters x |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Recently I’ve received some very sexy and heart felt messages from someone who I was sleeping with ... we had an amazing relationship both with sex and just being a couple .... circumstances changed and we had to say goodbye.... recently we’ve be drawn back together through work .... although I receive messages from her .. saying how much she misses me etc when it comes to face to face she totally ignores me ... it’s very confusing... so any insights would be good from my fellow fabsters x"
Do you look like Shrek or the Elephant Man under that beard? Maybe she just doesn't want to be seen being affectionate with you in public?
Only kidding!
Who knows? Women are funny things and if anyone works them out they'll be set for life and worth more than Bill Gates.
Good luck! 
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"Recently I’ve received some very sexy and heart felt messages from someone who I was sleeping with ... we had an amazing relationship both with sex and just being a couple .... circumstances changed and we had to say goodbye.... recently we’ve be drawn back together through work .... although I receive messages from her .. saying how much she misses me etc when it comes to face to face she totally ignores me ... it’s very confusing... so any insights would be good from my fellow fabsters x"
What time of day do the messages generally come through? Is she texting at night when maybe she's dr@nk or needy?
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Send her one message and one only asking what she wants from you as you're confused by the mixed message she's giving you. What you do next depends on her answer. This is the only way you will find out what's going on.
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By *rchie300 OP Man
over a year ago
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I’ve replied positively....saying what’s all this about ...she ignores then comes back a couple of weeks later saying stuff like ...I’d do you right now and I want your hands all over me ...I’m so wet right now ...being I guy I fall for it every time brain moves to my cock and I get super horny ...she’s not single either I forgot to mention |
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"I’ve replied positively....saying what’s all this about ...she ignores then comes back a couple of weeks later saying stuff like ...I’d do you right now and I want your hands all over me ...I’m so wet right now ...being I guy I fall for it every time brain moves to my cock and I get super horny ...she’s not single either I forgot to mention "
Then she's messing with you, which means she's trouble. |
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over a year ago
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"I’ve replied positively....saying what’s all this about ...she ignores then comes back a couple of weeks later saying stuff like ...I’d do you right now and I want your hands all over me ...I’m so wet right now ...being I guy I fall for it every time brain moves to my cock and I get super horny ...she’s not single either I forgot to mention
Then she's messing with you, which means she's trouble."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was me I'd get super shy around the person I really liked. I'd find it easier to message but would clam up in fear of rejection and probably come across as frosty. While on the inside I'd be hoping that I'd get an invite for a drink after work.
Just wonder if it could just be that ?
I could be wrong of course
Eski
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"I’ve replied positively....saying what’s all this about ...she ignores then comes back a couple of weeks later saying stuff like ...I’d do you right now and I want your hands all over me ...I’m so wet right now ...being I guy I fall for it every time brain moves to my cock and I get super horny ...she’s not single either I forgot to mention "
tell you what some men and some women are as bad as each other for being head fucks. Tell her not to message you again and block her
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By *rchie300 OP Man
over a year ago
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Thanks all this is all good stuff ....it’s not her new partner I’m sure ...just what she says and thing we did ...guys write texts differently to girls ....I’m totally into getting back but I’ve not been expresssive about it but I did admit that I missed her badly and wanted her back my bed....my friend from outside of fab thinks she’s playing me to see if I still like her ...but with that she knows this already....so it’s all very confusing |
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"I’ve replied positively....saying what’s all this about ...she ignores then comes back a couple of weeks later saying stuff like ...I’d do you right now and I want your hands all over me ...I’m so wet right now ...being I guy I fall for it every time brain moves to my cock and I get super horny ...she’s not single either I forgot to mention "
Didn't see this while I sent my reply... Erm id leave this one alone if she's playing games. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks all this is all good stuff ....it’s not her new partner I’m sure ...just what she says and thing we did ...guys write texts differently to girls ....I’m totally into getting back but I’ve not been expresssive about it but I did admit that I missed her badly and wanted her back my bed....my friend from outside of fab thinks she’s playing me to see if I still like her ...but with that she knows this already....so it’s all very confusing "
Do women say 'I'd do you right now'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks all this is all good stuff ....it’s not her new partner I’m sure ...just what she says and thing we did ...guys write texts differently to girls ....I’m totally into getting back but I’ve not been expresssive about it but I did admit that I missed her badly and wanted her back my bed....my friend from outside of fab thinks she’s playing me to see if I still like her ...but with that she knows this already....so it’s all very confusing
Do women say 'I'd do you right now'? "
Speak to her face to face and find out what she wants. Don't let someone play games with you |
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By *rchie300 OP Man
over a year ago
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Hahah Morgan she actually said Fuck but it’s her , I know how she texts .... but I think I’m just going to ask her out right why is she behaving the way she is .... I really appreciate the comments it was good of you all to take the time too comment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve replied positively....saying what’s all this about ...she ignores then comes back a couple of weeks later saying stuff like ...I’d do you right now and I want your hands all over me ...I’m so wet right now ...being I guy I fall for it every time brain moves to my cock and I get super horny ...she’s not single either I forgot to mention "
So block her and tell her to concentrate on her husband/boyfriend unless she is on here with his knowledge (which it sounds like she is not)
And take your brain out of your pants too |
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By *rchie300 OP Man
over a year ago
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No she’s not on here .... block her ...I think I might ...if somebody want you so much don’t they just be with you ...I mean I think I may be played by her but I can’t understand why maybe that’s the problem I’ve got ...maybe I’m searching for the answer that I want to hear not the truth ...I’m going to have it out with her though ..that’s for sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No she’s not on here .... block her ...I think I might ...if somebody want you so much don’t they just be with you ...I mean I think I may be played by her but I can’t understand why maybe that’s the problem I’ve got ...maybe I’m searching for the answer that I want to hear not the truth ...I’m going to have it out with her though ..that’s for sure "
Actions speak louder than words. If she wanted to be with you she would be. Sounds like she's using you for an ego boost.
You deserve much better than being treated like that.
I wouldn't bother saying anything and just ignore it all. She wants the drama. |
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"No she’s not on here .... block her ...I think I might ...if somebody want you so much don’t they just be with you ...I mean I think I may be played by her but I can’t understand why maybe that’s the problem I’ve got ...maybe I’m searching for the answer that I want to hear not the truth ...I’m going to have it out with her though ..that’s for sure
Actions speak louder than words. If she wanted to be with you she would be. Sounds like she's using you for an ego boost.
You deserve much better than being treated like that.
I wouldn't bother saying anything and just ignore it all. She wants the drama. "
Totally agree, block her & move on. Don't let someone treat you like an option, she either wants to be with you or she doesn't & she's still with the other guy. That tells you all you need to know. |
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"No she’s not on here .... block her ...I think I might ...if somebody want you so much don’t they just be with you ...I mean I think I may be played by her but I can’t understand why maybe that’s the problem I’ve got ...maybe I’m searching for the answer that I want to hear not the truth ...I’m going to have it out with her though ..that’s for sure "
You've hit the nail on the head.
I have a friend like this, she drip feeds guys then pushes them away. One guy has wasted five years on her. |
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By *rchie300 OP Man
over a year ago
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I’ve had a lot of long term relationships... I’ve only started playing this game a few years ago maybe I’m being naive and expecting girls to be up front and direct like me ..I’m referring to her not everyone |
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