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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a repost from another forum thread on Cuckolding which I thought was quite good. The original poster is no longer on the site so I cannot give credit where it is due - nor do I take any for myself :-
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ok, here goes.....we are a cuckold couple, we have seen this thread ticking over for the last couple of days and have been interested by the various responses that it has attracted.
Firstly, for us certainly, there is a real power exchange. She is very much empowered to seek what she wants with the emphasis eventually on finding someone that can visit regularly to take things onto a different stage. He, whilst certainly can satisfy her, appreciates that, in her, there is an animal that he can't. He also gets sexually aroused seeing or knowing that she is being sexually satisfied, sometimes better than he can, especially with by a guy who is VWE.
Some people that have commented on this thread and indeed do contact cuckold couples, simply do not understand what it's about, or are dreamers.
It's not about a guy coming round, fucking the wife or girlfriend in front of the husband or boyfriend. It never has been that and won't be. For the woman, thats just sex, for him, that's just him being a voyuer....it's not cuckolding!
There is also a seemingly large misunderstanding of what makes a bull....a bull isn't someone that says 'I would love to be your bull', it's something that someone becomes.
Also, and here's a few tips guys...if you approach a cuckold couple, spell it properly...it's a bit of a giveaway when you are trying to introduce yourself as less of a bull and more of a bullshitter if you can't spell it!
Cuckold couples are generally more mature in their outlook, not necessarily age. However, certainly in our experience, a real bull is likely not to be under 30. As part of conversation, no one wants to have to discuss when they are due to finish Uni!
Nor does any cuckold couple want to be thought of as anything other than people that should be treated (as a couple) with respect.
it has been said on this thread that it's easy to meet bulls...no it's not! There are a huge amount of timewasters that THINK they know what it's about, there are very few that do actually know and appreciate what its about.
Bearing in mind that true bulls are actually rare, they are a commodity.....and with this in mind, it's also worth understanding that the true cuckold community is quite small.....and we do talk! We do compare experiences and make introductions to each other. There can be quite a bond between cuckold couples, even though their kink is possibly one that is kept most secret.
We have made some good friends in the swinging world, however, we always cherish other cuckold couples and true bulls above all as it is our lifestyle choice after all.
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Plus all these things are of course open to interpretation.
