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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A handy way for couples to know what messages have or haven't been read.
I routinely mark unread my messages, ok, message, just so I get the buzz of seeing one unread message. Ok, it is the message saying my site supporter has ran out, but an unread message is an unread message.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A handy way for couples to know what messages have or haven't been read.
I routinely mark unread my messages, ok, message, just so I get the buzz of seeing one unread message. Ok, it is the message saying my site supporter has ran out, but an unread message is an unread message...."
Just couples? It’s handy for me and I’m on here as a singleton  |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
If I can see the message is going to be abusive or nasty or one that’s sent for shock value, I will wait til the sender is offline and read it to make sure and then mark it as unread so it really pisses them off that their vile abuse or attention seeking has gone unnoticed. |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
"When I can't be arsed to reply, which is quite often.
25 unread faf messages and now I find out you couldn’t be arsed to reply - I don’t know why I waste my time!   "
Sorry, your 25 easily get lost in the 350 others. You've got my number  |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
" Could someone please enlighten me to the purpose of this button, if you have received and read a message why mark it as unread,
( curious ). Thanks "
So people don't know you have read their message and to irritate them that you haven't read their abuse.  |
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"If I can see the message is going to be abusive or nasty or one that’s sent for shock value, I will wait til the sender is offline and read it to make sure and then mark it as unread so it really pisses them off that their vile abuse or attention seeking has gone unnoticed. "
Exactly this
Or, Occasionaly, it's a nice decent message. The profile might interest me, but at that point in time I don't have time to send an adequate reply.
Mark unread so the sender doesn't think they're being ignored & I'll reply when I can |
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"If I can see the message is going to be abusive or nasty or one that’s sent for shock value, I will wait til the sender is offline and read it to make sure and then mark it as unread so it really pisses them off that their vile abuse or attention seeking has gone unnoticed.
Exactly this
Or, Occasionaly, it's a nice decent message. The profile might interest me, but at that point in time I don't have time to send an adequate reply.
Mark unread so the sender doesn't think they're being ignored & I'll reply when I can "
Good analogy, makes the most sense. Thank you |
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So you can treasure the fact that you have a message and an rejoice in implying to the sender that you have to wade through lots of messages# and that the sender one is in a queue.
# Singles blokes, this works for about 36hrs and the penny begins to drop that this is what you are doing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use it when I don't have time to reply but curious abt the message itself.
As I don't want to send the impression that the message was good enough to read but not to reply I use the unread button and reply as soon as I have more time. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"If I can see the message is going to be abusive or nasty or one that’s sent for shock value, I will wait til the sender is offline and read it to make sure and then mark it as unread so it really pisses them off that their vile abuse or attention seeking has gone unnoticed. "
Oh yes I do that as well, mark unread and ignore, don't give them the attention they're after |
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