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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?"
Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal, does too many put you off OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No because often people with a lot of verifications are people that tend to go to clubs and parties. So you can often end up with multiple verifications just from one club visit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well it doesn't matter how many plus some or most might be from parties, clubs, events so you can get 10 verifications and never played with anyone but had an amazing social night.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No because often people with a lot of verifications are people that tend to go to clubs and parties. So you can often end up with multiple verifications just from one club visit. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm honest I have looked at some and thought wtf
But when you read(if you can) most with high numbers are from clubs with people they didn't play with |
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Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal"
I thought the whole point of a swingers site was to have sex with lots of different people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I'm honest I have looked at some and thought wtf
But when you read(if you can) most with high numbers are from clubs with people they didn't play with"
The ability to read I can, thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal
I thought the whole point of a swingers site was to have sex with lots of different people"
No it’s to sell garden furniture eg swings |
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Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal
I thought the whole point of a swingers site was to have sex with lots of different people"
Well yes.
On a swinging site, it's strange people are put off by other people being promiscuous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal
I thought the whole point of a swingers site was to have sex with lots of different people"
Let the judges judge  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, perhaps with alot of profiles I have read (yes I can read) seem tonwabt a regular fb ( excludes club meets). On that basis is it similar to how many clocks...not cocks on the car  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal
I thought the whole point of a swingers site was to have sex with lots of different people"
I think the whole point of this site is whatever you want it to be. I think you might find that not everyone on here wants to have sex with lots of different people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I'm honest I have looked at some and thought wtf
But when you read(if you can) most with high numbers are from clubs with people they didn't play with
The ability to read I can, thanks."
Oh dear
I meant the ones that don't hide the actual verification text  |
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Depends on the type of veri tbh... 100s of veris along the lines of 'cock to die for', 'made me gush like the Trevi fountain' and 'battered my back doors like a viking raider' would probably put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I'm honest I have looked at some and thought wtf
But when you read(if you can) most with high numbers are from clubs with people they didn't play with
The ability to read I can, thanks.
Oh dear
I meant the ones that don't hide
the actual verification text "
Apologies, wasn't aware you can hide them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I'm honest I have looked at some and thought wtf
But when you read(if you can) most with high numbers are from clubs with people they didn't play with You been stalking my profile  "
Yes you dirt bag |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I'm honest I have looked at some and thought wtf
But when you read(if you can) most with high numbers are from clubs with people they didn't play with You been stalking my profile "
Obviously, you slut you |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"If I'm honest I have looked at some and thought wtf
But when you read(if you can) most with high numbers are from clubs with people they didn't play with You been stalking my profile
Yes you dirt bag "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal
I thought the whole point of a swingers site was to have sex with lots of different people"
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Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal
I thought the whole point of a swingers site was to have sex with lots of different people
Well yes.
On a swinging site, it's strange people are put off by other people being promiscuous. "
I get any number of messages telling me that they're going to be my new boyfriend and take me away from here. You'd think the veris would be a clue... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal
I thought the whole point of a swingers site was to have sex with lots of different people
I think the whole point of this site is whatever you want it to be. I think you might find that not everyone on here wants to have sex with lots of different people. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal
I thought the whole point of a swingers site was to have sex with lots of different people"
I completely agree, hence I said it doesn’t make sense to me either. I always look to see if it’s social or clubs etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?"
It doesn't turn me off as such but I won't meet anyone with more than 4 sex veris showing on their profile. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal
I thought the whole point of a swingers site was to have sex with lots of different people
I think the whole point of this site is whatever you want it to be. I think you might find that not everyone on here wants to have sex with lots of different people. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
It doesn't turn me off as such but I won't meet anyone with more than 4 sex veris showing on their profile. "
What’s your reasoning for not meeting them? I’m curious now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
It doesn't turn me off as such but I won't meet anyone with more than 4 sex veris showing on their profile. "
That's what I mean, it makes a difference how many veris are on the profile. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
It doesn't turn me off as such but I won't meet anyone with more than 4 sex veris showing on their profile. "
So you were just being nice saying I wasn't your type. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say put off
At first glance if they have a 100 I do tend to dig deeper into how long they have been on the site(as count stops at 1yr)
Not judgy as such but if they are all from seperate people over the course of a year they probably aren't going to be the regular if ideally like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
It doesn't turn me off as such but I won't meet anyone with more than 4 sex veris showing on their profile.
What’s your reasoning for not meeting them? I’m curious now"
Because I feel that they are looking for adventurous people that meet often. The type of people that are exhibitionist in that they show who they met. I'm just not what they're looking for.
I'm aware that people meet off site and number of veris on their profile in no way shows their entire sexual history. |
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
It doesn't turn me off as such but I won't meet anyone with more than 4 sex veris showing on their profile. "
*rushes off to hide 3 veris. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
It doesn't turn me off as such but I won't meet anyone with more than 4 sex veris showing on their profile.
So you were just being nice saying I wasn't your type. "
No I said I'm not your type. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
It doesn't turn me off as such but I won't meet anyone with more than 4 sex veris showing on their profile.
What’s your reasoning for not meeting them? I’m curious now
Because I feel that they are looking for adventurous people that meet often. The type of people that are exhibitionist in that they show who they met. I'm just not what they're looking for.
I'm aware that people meet off site and number of veris on their profile in no way shows their entire sexual history. "
Thank you, for me even if there are a large number of club/social meets it can still be off putting as that’s not my scene and would be concerned that I’m not what they’re looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Veris mean nothing.
We have no real evidence of what anyone on here is really up to.
I've said it a million times the
" straight single male " you met last night could be married and into creampie dogging gangbangs with other men.
Don't believe the hype |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
It doesn't turn me off as such but I won't meet anyone with more than 4 sex veris showing on their profile.
What’s your reasoning for not meeting them? I’m curious now
Because I feel that they are looking for adventurous people that meet often. The type of people that are exhibitionist in that they show who they met. I'm just not what they're looking for.
I'm aware that people meet off site and number of veris on their profile in no way shows their entire sexual history.
Thank you, for me even if there are a large number of club/social meets it can still be off putting as that’s not my scene and would be concerned that I’m not what they’re looking for. "
We think alike. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have lots of veris some are repeat meets some are social meets but if people don't want to meet us because of that then that's there choice we are allowed a choice xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
It doesn't turn me off as such but I won't meet anyone with more than 4 sex veris showing on their profile.
*rushes off to hide 3 veris. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No,They could be shagging a 100 people off fab and only have 2 veris. It does not matter to me.
Matters to me.
If they were shagging 100 people off site and had 2 veris you'd never know. "
Indeed, so...whilst it seems to be important to have veris before even considering a meet...who knows what happens off fab?
Stipulating "veris on profile" means absolutely nothing? |
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"No,They could be shagging a 100 people off fab and only have 2 veris. It does not matter to me.
Matters to me.
If they were shagging 100 people off site and had 2 veris you'd never know.
Indeed, so...whilst it seems to be important to have veris before even considering a meet...who knows what happens off fab?
Stipulating "veris on profile" means absolutely nothing?"
So it doesn't matter to you? |
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?"
It's utterly illogical to take any notice of the number of verifications shown as it is no reflection of the number of people someone has had sex with.
I've been shagging for over 40 years, 9 of those years with people I met here.
I could have hundreds of hidden veris or none and it's still no reflection of the amount of sexual contact I've had. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have few on here , out of choice because I meet "privately" with off the radar Bi couples - which is fine - gifted horse and all that lol
I am however a male tart on fabguy's site, but if you think about it, if conversely you had the option to post a "veri" every time you had sex with you partner, you'd have multiple hundreds lol |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
It's utterly illogical to take any notice of the number of verifications shown as it is no reflection of the number of people someone has had sex with.
I've been shagging for over 40 years, 9 of those years with people I met here.
I could have hundreds of hidden veris or none and it's still no reflection of the amount of sexual contact I've had."
You ÷ what a man tells you by 3
x what a woman tells you by 3 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I'm honest I have looked at some and thought wtf
But when you read(if you can) most with high numbers are from clubs with people they didn't play with"
This.. |
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
It's utterly illogical to take any notice of the number of verifications shown as it is no reflection of the number of people someone has had sex with.
I've been shagging for over 40 years, 9 of those years with people I met here.
I could have hundreds of hidden veris or none and it's still no reflection of the amount of sexual contact I've had."
True.
I've met and had sex with people at clubs who aren't on Fab.
Some of my meets, sexual or social, can't verify me due to my filters.
Veri numbers are little indication of anything much IMHO. |
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It's the 'quality' of veris I'm interested in, not the quantity. I can just as easily be put off by two or three rubbish ones which impart info that doesn't appeal, as I can be attracted to many more which give away something about the person(s) concerned that I like. If anything I'm even more interested in the veris someone leaves because that can indicate how respectful, discreet, and kind they are (or not).
The quantity really means nothing anyway. People pick and choose what they show, they can hide their summary, they might not get a veri at all from some meets and/or past veris have disappeared when their authors left the site. I'd never rely solely on veris and see them as a very minor part of sussing someone out (and very often as a source of amusement!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No,They could be shagging a 100 people off fab and only have 2 veris. It does not matter to me.
Matters to me.
If they were shagging 100 people off site and had 2 veris you'd never know.
Back at you?
Indeed, so...whilst it seems to be important to have veris before even considering a meet...who knows what happens off fab?
Stipulating "veris on profile" means absolutely nothing?
So it doesn't matter to you? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep I view all of them and if I don't like who they slept with will not meet them hahaha and I check for stuff like r they using protection if not no meet as to many fifthy disgusting barebackers on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
It's utterly illogical to take any notice of the number of verifications shown as it is no reflection of the number of people someone has had sex with.
So why are alot of women profiles stipulating veris ?
I've been shagging for over 40 years, 9 of those years with people I met here.
I could have hundreds of hidden veris or none and it's still no reflection of the amount of sexual contact I've had."
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?"
Couldn't give a toss. I had over 100 on my old solo profile - never caused any problem. We've a fair few on this one now but as they're hidden nobody can tell if they're play or social ones. Makes me chuckle that we had negative remarks about the TV one though - seems saying hi to Tina at a forum social goes against the societal norms of some. They can go fuck themselves as far as we care.
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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No, because once they've been on the site over a year, there's no way of telling if it's 100 veris in 13 months or 13 years.
Plus, I don't assume that everybody's entire sex life is the sum of their veris. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"I have a TV veri. If people don't like it they can piss off. (it's my one non play veri, not that it matters!) "
I have male ones on the same basis. Fuck all I can do about it. If anyone's going to jump to conclusions, fuck all I can do about that either! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Does anyone actually believe that every sexual encounter that someone on Fab has in their life will be documented for posterity in the form of a veri?
That people don't have sex via other means - the outside world, clubs, other sites, random encounters in pubs/bars/hotels/fish and chip shops?
That they don't meet people on Fab and not leave a veri, or have repeat meets that aren't statistically recorded?
If you're making an assessment of someone purely on what you see in their veris and hoping that it's accurate then good luck. Because it's most likely as accurate as your average Met office weather prediction and you've more chance of hitting all six numbers on the lottery than being right about the number of someones sexual encounters.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the 'quality' of veris I'm interested in, not the quantity. I can just as easily be put off by two or three rubbish ones which impart info that doesn't appeal, as I can be attracted to many more which give away something about the person(s) concerned that I like. If anything I'm even more interested in the veris someone leaves because that can indicate how respectful, discreet, and kind they are (or not).
The quantity really means nothing anyway. People pick and choose what they show, they can hide their summary, they might not get a veri at all from some meets and/or past veris have disappeared when their authors left the site. I'd never rely solely on veris and see them as a very minor part of sussing someone out (and very often as a source of amusement!)"
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"Does anyone actually believe that every sexual encounter that someone on Fab has in their life will be documented for posterity in the form of a veri?
That people don't have sex via other means - the outside world, clubs, other sites, random encounters in pubs/bars/hotels/fish and chip shops?
That they don't meet people on Fab and not leave a veri, or have repeat meets that aren't statistically recorded?
If you're making an assessment of someone purely on what you see in their veris and hoping that it's accurate then good luck. Because it's most likely as accurate as your average Met office weather prediction and you've more chance of hitting all six numbers on the lottery than being right about the number of someones sexual encounters.
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"It's the 'quality' of veris I'm interested in, not the quantity. I can just as easily be put off by two or three rubbish ones which impart info that doesn't appeal, as I can be attracted to many more which give away something about the person(s) concerned that I like. If anything I'm even more interested in the veris someone leaves because that can indicate how respectful, discreet, and kind they are (or not).
The quantity really means nothing anyway. People pick and choose what they show, they can hide their summary, they might not get a veri at all from some meets and/or past veris have disappeared when their authors left the site. I'd never rely solely on veris and see them as a very minor part of sussing someone out (and very often as a source of amusement!)"
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The only time I'm influenced by verifications is if my target audience has 30 veris from 30 year old body builders with tattoos, beards and a huge cock.
Pointless me contacting them, I'm clearly not their type..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once saw a man with nearly 100 veris. I thought men could only have a max of 5.  You know what thought did  "
do tell iv heard yhis phrase before but never heard the answer |
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The number doesn't mean much. Could all be webcam. Could be 4 people/couples who verify every time they meet but still only a small number of people they've been with. Could be socials. They might throw amazing parties.
The only veris that out me off are the very explicit ones and at that they only put me off the person who left it 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It matters not how many they have.
If they are enjoying themselves, I don't see an issue.
Some people with only a few veri's on here could be dogging every night and we'd never know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only time I'm influenced by verifications is if my target audience has 30 veris from 30 year old body builders with tattoos, beards and a huge cock.
Pointless me contacting them, I'm clearly not their type....."
Dunno mate, you could always have a shave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I might get my husband to verify me every time we fuck
I’ll get two new veris by new year Cheater "
I’ve never actually met anyone from fab, it’s just him verifying me every time |
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"The only time I'm influenced by verifications is if my target audience has 30 veris from 30 year old body builders with tattoos, beards and a huge cock.
Pointless me contacting them, I'm clearly not their type.....
Dunno mate, you could always have a shave. "
I shave the palms of my hands once a month, whether they need it or not.... |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I might get my husband to verify me every time we fuck
I’ll get two new veris by new year Cheater
I’ve never actually met anyone from fab, it’s just him verifying me every time "
Shouldn't be allowed. There is bias. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I might get my husband to verify me every time we fuck
I’ll get two new veris by new year Cheater
I’ve never actually met anyone from fab, it’s just him verifying me every time
Shouldn't be allowed. There is bias."
Yeah I’m unsure if you’re aware but it was sarcasm
We have verified each other once (for a wee laugh); however, how is it different to fuck buddys verifying each other? |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I might get my husband to verify me every time we fuck
I’ll get two new veris by new year Cheater
I’ve never actually met anyone from fab, it’s just him verifying me every time
Shouldn't be allowed. There is bias.
Yeah I’m unsure if you’re aware but it was sarcasm
We have verified each other once (for a wee laugh); however, how is it different to fuck buddys verifying each other? "
Yeah i'm too aware. It wouldn't say 19 men unless he had 19 profiles.
You don't veri when you become fuckbuddys, 2 veris max really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I might get my husband to verify me every time we fuck
I’ll get two new veris by new year Cheater
I’ve never actually met anyone from fab, it’s just him verifying me every time
Shouldn't be allowed. There is bias.
Yeah I’m unsure if you’re aware but it was sarcasm
We have verified each other once (for a wee laugh); however, how is it different to fuck buddys verifying each other?
Yeah i'm too aware. It wouldn't say 19 men unless he had 19 profiles.
You don't veri when you become fuckbuddys, 2 veris max really."
Why should there be a limit? The number of people you’ve met won’t go up, just how many meets. And it wouldn’t be lying? |
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"I might get my husband to verify me every time we fuck
I’ll get two new veris by new year Cheater
I’ve never actually met anyone from fab, it’s just him verifying me every time
Shouldn't be allowed. There is bias.
Yeah I’m unsure if you’re aware but it was sarcasm
We have verified each other once (for a wee laugh); however, how is it different to fuck buddys verifying each other?
Yeah i'm too aware. It wouldn't say 19 men unless he had 19 profiles.
You don't veri when you become fuckbuddys, 2 veris max really."
Says you.......
Why not run your profile your way and let's others do the same?
Fortunately you don't make the rules. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I might get my husband to verify me every time we fuck
I’ll get two new veris by new year Cheater
I’ve never actually met anyone from fab, it’s just him verifying me every time
Shouldn't be allowed. There is bias.
Yeah I’m unsure if you’re aware but it was sarcasm
We have verified each other once (for a wee laugh); however, how is it different to fuck buddys verifying each other?
Yeah i'm too aware. It wouldn't say 19 men unless he had 19 profiles.
You don't veri when you become fuckbuddys, 2 veris max really.
Why should there be a limit? The number of people you’ve met won’t go up, just how many meets. And it wouldn’t be lying? "
Meets go up, but not people counter.
People find that off putting and call it lampost pissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I might get my husband to verify me every time we fuck
I’ll get two new veris by new year Cheater
I’ve never actually met anyone from fab, it’s just him verifying me every time
Shouldn't be allowed. There is bias.
Yeah I’m unsure if you’re aware but it was sarcasm
We have verified each other once (for a wee laugh); however, how is it different to fuck buddys verifying each other?
Yeah i'm too aware. It wouldn't say 19 men unless he had 19 profiles.
You don't veri when you become fuckbuddys, 2 veris max really.
Why should there be a limit? The number of people you’ve met won’t go up, just how many meets. And it wouldn’t be lying?
Meets go up, but not people counter.
People find that off putting and call it lampost pissing."
I’ve never known anyone to think that  ah well! |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I might get my husband to verify me every time we fuck
I’ll get two new veris by new year Cheater
I’ve never actually met anyone from fab, it’s just him verifying me every time
Shouldn't be allowed. There is bias.
Yeah I’m unsure if you’re aware but it was sarcasm
We have verified each other once (for a wee laugh); however, how is it different to fuck buddys verifying each other?
Yeah i'm too aware. It wouldn't say 19 men unless he had 19 profiles.
You don't veri when you become fuckbuddys, 2 veris max really.
Why should there be a limit? The number of people you’ve met won’t go up, just how many meets. And it wouldn’t be lying?
Meets go up, but not people counter.
People find that off putting and call it lampost pissing.
I’ve never known anyone to think that ah well!"
Women are the worst they say "Oh you have played with her. I don't like her." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I might get my husband to verify me every time we fuck
I’ll get two new veris by new year Cheater
I’ve never actually met anyone from fab, it’s just him verifying me every time
Shouldn't be allowed. There is bias.
Yeah I’m unsure if you’re aware but it was sarcasm
We have verified each other once (for a wee laugh); however, how is it different to fuck buddys verifying each other?
Yeah i'm too aware. It wouldn't say 19 men unless he had 19 profiles.
You don't veri when you become fuckbuddys, 2 veris max really.
Why should there be a limit? The number of people you’ve met won’t go up, just how many meets. And it wouldn’t be lying?
Meets go up, but not people counter.
People find that off putting and call it lampost pissing.
I’ve never known anyone to think that ah well!
Women are the worst they say "Oh you have played with her. I don't like her." "
I don’t know how that’s the same as someone reverifying you when playing with them more than once...surely if you have only one verification from them and someone didn’t like them, it wouldn’t matter if you met them once or twenty times? |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I might get my husband to verify me every time we fuck
I’ll get two new veris by new year Cheater
I’ve never actually met anyone from fab, it’s just him verifying me every time
Shouldn't be allowed. There is bias.
Yeah I’m unsure if you’re aware but it was sarcasm
We have verified each other once (for a wee laugh); however, how is it different to fuck buddys verifying each other?
Yeah i'm too aware. It wouldn't say 19 men unless he had 19 profiles.
You don't veri when you become fuckbuddys, 2 veris max really.
Why should there be a limit? The number of people you’ve met won’t go up, just how many meets. And it wouldn’t be lying?
Meets go up, but not people counter.
People find that off putting and call it lampost pissing.
I’ve never known anyone to think that ah well!
Women are the worst they say "Oh you have played with her. I don't like her."
I don’t know how that’s the same as someone reverifying you when playing with them more than once...surely if you have only one verification from them and someone didn’t like them, it wouldn’t matter if you met them once or twenty times?"
It can apply for multiple and singular.
Multiple is more likely to get noticed though. |
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over a year ago
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"I might get my husband to verify me every time we fuck
I’ll get two new veris by new year Cheater
I’ve never actually met anyone from fab, it’s just him verifying me every time
Shouldn't be allowed. There is bias.
Yeah I’m unsure if you’re aware but it was sarcasm
We have verified each other once (for a wee laugh); however, how is it different to fuck buddys verifying each other?
Yeah i'm too aware. It wouldn't say 19 men unless he had 19 profiles.
You don't veri when you become fuckbuddys, 2 veris max really.
Why should there be a limit? The number of people you’ve met won’t go up, just how many meets. And it wouldn’t be lying?
Meets go up, but not people counter.
People find that off putting and call it lampost pissing.
I’ve never known anyone to think that ah well!
Women are the worst they say "Oh you have played with her. I don't like her."
I don’t know how that’s the same as someone reverifying you when playing with them more than once...surely if you have only one verification from them and someone didn’t like them, it wouldn’t matter if you met them once or twenty times? It can apply for multiple and singular.
Multiple is more likely to get noticed though."
Then ask them not to reverify you, hide it, or ignore when people moan that you’ve met people they don’t like. Simple  |
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"Veris dont bother me. But im still yet to read a bad one which makes me think how genuine they actually are"
I had a couple of bad ones. More than happy to have shown them.
Got to paint a true picture of what people who'd met me felt. |
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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago
up above the streets and houses |
"The only time I'm influenced by verifications is if my target audience has 30 veris from 30 year old body builders with tattoos, beards and a huge cock.
Pointless me contacting them, I'm clearly not their type....."
Don’t let it put you off |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I might get my husband to verify me every time we fuck
I’ll get two new veris by new year Cheater
I’ve never actually met anyone from fab, it’s just him verifying me every time
Shouldn't be allowed. There is bias.
Yeah I’m unsure if you’re aware but it was sarcasm
We have verified each other once (for a wee laugh); however, how is it different to fuck buddys verifying each other?
Yeah i'm too aware. It wouldn't say 19 men unless he had 19 profiles.
You don't veri when you become fuckbuddys, 2 veris max really.
Why should there be a limit? The number of people you’ve met won’t go up, just how many meets. And it wouldn’t be lying?
Meets go up, but not people counter.
People find that off putting and call it lampost pissing.
I’ve never known anyone to think that ah well!
Women are the worst they say "Oh you have played with her. I don't like her."
I don’t know how that’s the same as someone reverifying you when playing with them more than once...surely if you have only one verification from them and someone didn’t like them, it wouldn’t matter if you met them once or twenty times? It can apply for multiple and singular.
Multiple is more likely to get noticed though.
Then ask them not to reverify you, hide it, or ignore when people moan that you’ve met people they don’t like. Simple "
That's my point it is pretty redundant after 2 veris say.
You will lose some traction to your profile then though. Veris are networking, they help get more views. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Veris dont bother me. But im still yet to read a bad one which makes me think how genuine they actually are
I had a couple of bad ones. More than happy to have shown them.
Got to paint a true picture of what people who'd met me felt."
Ok. I stand corrected. Maybe not everyone is as honest as you |
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"The only time I'm influenced by verifications is if my target audience has 30 veris from 30 year old body builders with tattoos, beards and a huge cock.
Pointless me contacting them, I'm clearly not their type.....
Don’t let it put you off"
*goes to read veris |
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal, does too many put you off OP? "
Erm...2 or 3?
Shit. |
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal, does too many put you off OP?
Erm...2 or 3?
Shit. "
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal, does too many put you off OP?
Erm...2 or 3?
Shit. "
When I saw 2/3 would be ideal I died a bit inside...... |
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Me personally I prefer someone with plenty of verifications
Many people on here aren’t in my opinion genuine swingers who embrace the lifestyle but use it as they would dating sites.
Plenty of verifications especially those from socials and clubs show to me that they understand the true dynamics of swinging
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal, does too many put you off OP?
Erm...2 or 3?
Shit.
When I saw 2/3 would be ideal I died a bit inside...... "
I searched forlornly for the word "hundred" after.... sadly it wasn't there. |
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
Personally speaking it can be off putting if there are too many. I know it shouldn’t make a difference however. 2/3 would be roughly my ideal, does too many put you off OP?
Erm...2 or 3?
Shit.
When I saw 2/3 would be ideal I died a bit inside......
I searched forlornly for the word "hundred" after.... sadly it wasn't there. "
I'm thinking of deleting this profile and starting a new one....
Clearly I'm not very appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had loads of veris on my last profile because I was on her for so many years.
Most were from forum socials.
So lots of veris don’t necessarily mean disease riddled trollop.
I am a trollop though |
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"I had loads of veris on my last profile because I was on her for so many years.
Most were from forum socials.
So lots of veris don’t necessarily mean disease riddled trollop.
I am a trollop though "
True story. |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
Too many? Well only if they are back slaps at get together when half the people don't like each other but they do it because they are all sad playing for numbers that sort really put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had loads of veris on my last profile because I was on her for so many years.
Most were from forum socials.
So lots of veris don’t necessarily mean disease riddled trollop.
I am a trollop though
True story. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not that bothered, we're all here to meet people. Anyone with a lot of verifications, likely has been to social & clubs & been verified by multiple people there. The majority of mine are socials.
If someone is going to have an issue with the amount of verifications a person has, they should make sure to read them first. |
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"I had loads of veris on my last profile because I was on her for so many years.
Most were from forum socials.
So lots of veris don’t necessarily mean disease riddled trollop.
I am a trollop though
True story.
You’d know "
Also a true story. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had loads of veris on my last profile because I was on her for so many years.
Most were from forum socials.
So lots of veris don’t necessarily mean disease riddled trollop.
I am a trollop though
True story.
You’d know
Also a true story. "
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"A lot of people have varies from the same person. Thats ok. Showes they not trying to shag there way through fab."
Why? What’s wrong with shagging the whole of Fab?
What are some people justifying the amount of veris they have as being social ones?
It really doesn’t matter!
The amount of veris mean diddly squat and has been explained over and over and over again in hundreds of threads. If people are avoiding someone because of how many veris they choose to display then they are probably not worth meeting.
T. (Who has hundreds of veris, shows a few of them and has probably shagged more than the entire population of Fab in her 40+ years of shagging). |
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"A lot of people have varies from the same person. Thats ok. Showes they not trying to shag there way through fab.
Why? What’s wrong with shagging the whole of Fab?
What are some people justifying the amount of veris they have as being social ones?
It really doesn’t matter!
The amount of veris mean diddly squat and has been explained over and over and over again in hundreds of threads. If people are avoiding someone because of how many veris they choose to display then they are probably not worth meeting.
T. (Who has hundreds of veris, shows a few of them and has probably shagged more than the entire population of Fab in her 40+ years of shagging)."
Nail head and hit come mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?"
My previous account had over 300 veris. Didn't seem to put anybody off. |
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over a year ago
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"Looking about...as you do, is it a turn off when someone (male and female) has too many verifications and appeal goes?
My previous account had over 300 veris. Didn't seem to put anybody off. "
Exactly. It will attract similar people which is always a good thing I think. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
Couldn't give a monkies what anyone thinks. My single profile had well over 400 veris on it but that's been since the site began and I used to go to clubs a lot.
Think what you like, your opinion is none of my business. |
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