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By *irthandgirth OP Man over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Between being good in bed or being able to give/take a lot of dick?

I have been with women who I thought were incredible but had limits for how much they could take. I have also been with ladies that could take as much as you could give and still want more.

Do ladies on here feel the same about men?

I suppose you could almost say I am asking if sexual stamina equates to being considered being a good lover.

Would love to hear everyone's thoughts

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Sexual stamina alone does not make someone a good lover - you might be able to go for hours but unless you know what to do with it and how to find which buttons to press then it counts for nothing.

For me good sex is about BOTH people involved and finding a sexual chemistry and compatability that works between you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sexual stamina alone does not make someone a good lover - you might be able to go for hours but unless you know what to do with it and how to find which buttons to press then it counts for nothing.

For me good sex is about BOTH people involved and finding a sexual chemistry and compatability that works between you

"
spot on give that man a cigar its the whole package verstility imagination understanding of eachothers diferent sounds and movements and triggers and needs

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By *irthandgirth OP Man over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Sexual stamina alone does not make someone a good lover - you might be able to go for hours but unless you know what to do with it and how to find which buttons to press then it counts for nothing.

For me good sex is about BOTH people involved and finding a sexual chemistry and compatability that works between you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can fit a traffic cone in the pink and a dwarf in the stink. I must be soooooo good in bed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can fit a traffic cone in the pink and a dwarf in the stink. I must be soooooo good in bed.

What about the road worker who put the cone out open wide

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can fit a traffic cone in the pink and a dwarf in the stink. I must be soooooo good in bed.

What about the road worker who put the cone out open wide

That big bastard can go in my gob.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I can fit a traffic cone in the pink and a dwarf in the stink. I must be soooooo good in bed.

That's not what I thought you meant when you said you liked midget gems

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sexual stamina alone does not make someone a good lover - you might be able to go for hours but unless you know what to do with it and how to find which buttons to press then it counts for nothing.

For me good sex is about BOTH people involved and finding a sexual chemistry and compatability that works between you

"
this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can fit a traffic cone in the pink and a dwarf in the stink. I must be soooooo good in bed.

What about the road worker who put the cone out open wide

That big bastard can go in my gob.

P"
hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can fit a traffic cone in the pink and a dwarf in the stink. I must be soooooo good in bed.

That's not what I thought you meant when you said you liked midget gems

Bastard things, the icing falling off the biscuit is a frustration to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, let me get this straight, a woman is good in bed if she can take a lot of dick? Are we talking length, girth or how long she can be hammered for without tapping out?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, let me get this straight, a woman is good in bed if she can take a lot of dick? Are we talking length, girth or how long she can be hammered for without tapping out?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, let me get this straight, a woman is good in bed if she can take a lot of dick? Are we talking length, girth or how long she can be hammered for without tapping out?"

All of them I think.

I shall forever refrain from reading the body language and communicating with those I'm engaging in shenanigans with, and merely attempt to stuff them like a turkey for the length of time it takes to watch the Lord of the Rings trilogy. Onto a winner there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, let me get this straight, a woman is good in bed if she can take a lot of dick? Are we talking length, girth or how long she can be hammered for without tapping out?

All of them I think.

P"
calm down you proved earlier your lord/lady of the rings

gotta love midgets

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"So, let me get this straight, a woman is good in bed if she can take a lot of dick? Are we talking length, girth or how long she can be hammered for without tapping out?

All of them I think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, let me get this straight, a woman is good in bed if she can take a lot of dick? Are we talking length, girth or how long she can be hammered for without tapping out?

All of them I think.

P"
and after i questioned if you still had it shame on me

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Sexual stamina alone does not make someone a good lover - you might be able to go for hours but unless you know what to do with it and how to find which buttons to press then it counts for nothing.

For me good sex is about BOTH people involved and finding a sexual chemistry and compatability that works between you

Exactly right, you can go on all night but if you're not reading your partner then it's completely pointless. It's about meeting and matching, not playing out your own personal porn fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sexual stamina alone does not make someone a good lover - you might be able to go for hours but unless you know what to do with it and how to find which buttons to press then it counts for nothing.

For me good sex is about BOTH people involved and finding a sexual chemistry and compatability that works between you

Oh this ^^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, let me get this straight, a woman is good in bed if she can take a lot of dick? Are we talking length, girth or how long she can be hammered for without tapping out?

All of them I think.

Pand after i questioned if you still had it shame on me

Mwhahahahahaaaa

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By *exyEggsCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"...and merely attempt to stuff them like a turkey for the length of time it takes to watch the Lord of the Rings trilogy. Onto a winner there.

Presumably the extended editions?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Between being good in bed or being able to give/take a lot of dick?

I have been with women who I thought were incredible but had limits for how much they could take. I have also been with ladies that could take as much as you could give and still want more.

Do ladies on here feel the same about men?

I suppose you could almost say I am asking if sexual stamina equates to being considered being a good lover.

Would love to hear everyone's thoughts

If all a man had sexually was stamina, I'd read War and Peace again ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...and merely attempt to stuff them like a turkey for the length of time it takes to watch the Lord of the Rings trilogy. Onto a winner there.

Presumably the extended editions?"

With outtakes and alternate endings

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I can fit a traffic cone in the pink and a dwarf in the stink. I must be soooooo good in bed.

What about the road worker who put the cone out open wide

I have parked a Transit Van up yours, do you remember?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can fit a traffic cone in the pink and a dwarf in the stink. I must be soooooo good in bed.

What about the road worker who put the cone out open wide

I have parked a Transit Van up yours, do you remember?

Where do you think the road workers were hiding? Farted them out like bullets from a gun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can fit a traffic cone in the pink and a dwarf in the stink. I must be soooooo good in bed.

What about the road worker who put the cone out open wide

I have parked a Transit Van up yours, do you remember?

"
i dumped that shit ages ago

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By *irthandgirth OP Man over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"So, let me get this straight, a woman is good in bed if she can take a lot of dick? Are we talking length, girth or how long she can be hammered for without tapping out?"

That is part of my question. Is the "can go all night" indicative of prowess?

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By *irthandgirth OP Man over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"...and merely attempt to stuff them like a turkey for the length of time it takes to watch the Lord of the Rings trilogy. Onto a winner there.

Presumably the extended editions?

With outtakes and alternate endings

And the 11 hours of behind the scenes/interbiews/making of/ English to elvish course

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

In my opinion sexual stamina only equals a good lover if what you want is prolonged sexual activity. It's not what I'm looking for.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"So, let me get this straight, a woman is good in bed if she can take a lot of dick? Are we talking length, girth or how long she can be hammered for without tapping out?

That is part of my question. Is the "can go all night" indicative of prowess?"

I refer you to my previous serious answer - it's indicative that someone "can go all night" nothing more nothing less...love is the best (sorry my Madness side tracked me there

)

It doesn't indicate "prowess" at all unless coupled with a whole heap of other things and even then while it may indicate that with one partner, it doesn't automatically mean it indicates it with another.

Either way sex is about a lot more than being able to "go all night"

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Between being good in bed or being able to give/take a lot of dick?

I have been with women who I thought were incredible but had limits for how much they could take. I have also been with ladies that could take as much as you could give and still want more.

Do ladies on here feel the same about men?

I suppose you could almost say I am asking if sexual stamina equates to being considered being a good lover.

Would love to hear everyone's thoughts

If all a man had sexually was stamina, I'd read War and Peace again ..."

And probably find it more interesting

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

You already know my opinion

"Sexual stamina alone does not make someone a good lover - you might be able to go for hours but unless you know what to do with it and how to find which buttons to press then it counts for nothing.

For me good sex is about BOTH people involved and finding a sexual chemistry and compatability that works between you

Exactly this.

It doesn't matter how fit soneone is, how much stamina they've got, how big their cock is, or whether every women they've ever met before rates them as the best they've ever had.

For me, it starts in my head.

A mental connection, a certain spark.

Without that, sex is just sex, a physical act.

I don't want 'just' sex, I want my mind to be blown too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You already know my opinion

Sexual stamina alone does not make someone a good lover - you might be able to go for hours but unless you know what to do with it and how to find which buttons to press then it counts for nothing.

For me good sex is about BOTH people involved and finding a sexual chemistry and compatability that works between you

Exactly this.

It doesn't matter how fit soneone is, how much stamina they've got, how big their cock is, or whether every women they've ever met before rates them as the best they've ever had.

For me, it starts in my head.

A mental connection, a certain spark.

Without that, sex is just sex, a physical act.

I don't want 'just' sex, I want my mind to be blown too. "

Now where do you want the sage n onion?

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By *irthandgirth OP Man over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"So, let me get this straight, a woman is good in bed if she can take a lot of dick? Are we talking length, girth or how long she can be hammered for without tapping out?

That is part of my question. Is the "can go all night" indicative of prowess?

I refer you to my previous serious answer - it's indicative that someone "can go all night" nothing more nothing less...love is the best (sorry my Madness side tracked me there

)

Either way sex is about a lot more than being able to "go all night"

I totally agree, I suppose it is what someone wants or is after. I want to come out of a meet with my mind blown, not just feel like I have had a massive cardio workout.

I am sure there are people out there that want hours of jackhammer type sex. I'm not one of them (I would need a sit down with a cup of tea and a bacon roll at some point)

Personally I think a good (read skillful) lover is one who can synch quickly with a new partner. Sometimes initial meets go on longer because you are both trying to work out what works for your partner, whereas repeat meets or something longer term, you both have that cracked and you know pace/angles/positions/sensitive areas a lot better - so the sex is more efficient.

Just interested in other points of view. Especially when you see veris stating "Amazing, went all night" etc etc.. (yes I do take veris with a pinch of salt) And it is only natural to compare yourself against others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Between being good in bed or being able to give/take a lot of dick?

I have been with women who I thought were incredible but had limits for how much they could take. I have also been with ladies that could take as much as you could give and still want more.

Do ladies on here feel the same about men?

I suppose you could almost say I am asking if sexual stamina equates to being considered being a good lover.

Would love to hear everyone's thoughts

If all a man had sexually was stamina, I'd read War and Peace again ...

And probably find it more interesting

Omg much more stimulating

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"You already know my opinion

Sexual stamina alone does not make someone a good lover - you might be able to go for hours but unless you know what to do with it and how to find which buttons to press then it counts for nothing.

For me good sex is about BOTH people involved and finding a sexual chemistry and compatability that works between you

Exactly this.

It doesn't matter how fit soneone is, how much stamina they've got, how big their cock is, or whether every women they've ever met before rates them as the best they've ever had.

For me, it starts in my head.

A mental connection, a certain spark.

Without that, sex is just sex, a physical act.

I don't want 'just' sex, I want my mind to be blown too.

Now where do you want the sage n onion?

Next to the roast potatoes please x

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"So, let me get this straight, a woman is good in bed if she can take a lot of dick? Are we talking length, girth or how long she can be hammered for without tapping out?

That is part of my question. Is the "can go all night" indicative of prowess?

I refer you to my previous serious answer - it's indicative that someone "can go all night" nothing more nothing less...love is the best (sorry my Madness side tracked me there

)

Either way sex is about a lot more than being able to "go all night"

I totally agree, I suppose it is what someone wants or is after. I want to come out of a meet with my mind blown, not just feel like I have had a massive cardio workout.

I am sure there are people out there that want hours of jackhammer type sex. I'm not one of them (I would need a sit down with a cup of tea and a bacon roll at some point)

It's not even about being able to synch "quickly" - more about being able to synch, and you can only achieve that by being attentive and aware of how your partner reacts and for them to feel comfortable enough to give signals.

As the old saying goes, it takes two to tango, but if one of you is doing the waltz and the other the foxtrot, then there will never be a tango.

Sometimes it does come down to plain old fashioned compatability - where no matter how much you have talked beforehand, no matter how much chemistry there is, or how attentive you are, it just doesn't set the fireworks off.

I guess ultimately what I'm trying to say is there's no such thing as a "good lover" only a compatible one - that said there are plenty of selfish, and as a result, bad ones too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No good going all night if your partner fell asleep after the first half an hour.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

when i used to do gangbangs i could take a fair bit of cock most was nearly 50 in one day and i do have quite a bit of stamina but i much prefer a 3/4 hr session with soneone i connect witg. Quality over quantity

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By *irthandgirth OP Man over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I guess ultimately what I'm trying to say is there's no such thing as a "good lover" only a compatible one - that said there are plenty of selfish, and as a result, bad ones too

Liking your thinking there fella..sometimes the fit is just right.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Stamina is not the key.

Stamina can equate to tons of shit sex

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