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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have phases. It can easily become all a bit meh and uninspiring.
Take a break if that’s what you need. I was UNLOS from Dec 2016 to Aug 2018 (bar a couple of very minor brief flirtations back under a pseudonym). The break did me good and I came back refreshed!  |
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"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath "
Yep I agree it’s best thing about the site
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"I have phases. It can easily become all a bit meh and uninspiring.
Take a break if that’s what you need. I was UNLOS from Dec 2016 to Aug 2018 (bar a couple of very minor brief flirtations back under a pseudonym). The break did me good and I came back refreshed! "
That amused me...kind of like saying I've been off the biscuits apart from those two times I had my hand in the tin...but they don't count lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have phases. It can easily become all a bit meh and uninspiring.
Take a break if that’s what you need. I was UNLOS from Dec 2016 to Aug 2018 (bar a couple of very minor brief flirtations back under a pseudonym). The break did me good and I came back refreshed!
That amused me...kind of like saying I've been off the biscuits apart from those two times I had my hand in the tin...but they don't count lol.
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I knew I wasn’t meeting so came back for the forums only and put my location at the other end of the country! .. lasted about 2 weeks both times! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same here,only here for the forum,but alas even this isn't holding my interest anymore,to many people putting themselves on pedestals and pack attack mentality are ruining things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m here for the forums and enjoy it,I think just stay clear of the threads that can get a bit hairy and if it does get a bit much or frustrating just take a back seat for a while |
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"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath "
A bit, but, the forum is becoming fucking dull to be honest. Same shit different day. Repeat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath
A bit, but, the forum is becoming fucking dull to be honest. Same shit different day. Repeat."
Correct,just how many sucj fuck kiss bollox do we need |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you 
Try being a bloke on here "
I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath
A bit, but, the forum is becoming fucking dull to be honest. Same shit different day. Repeat.
Correct,just how many sucj fuck kiss bollox do we need"
yep true iv been finding myself on forum less and less |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you
Try being a bloke on here
I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit."
That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you
Try being a bloke on here
I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit.
That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further"
The only filter left is to block all men |
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"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath
A bit, but, the forum is becoming fucking dull to be honest. Same shit different day. Repeat.
Correct,just how many sucj fuck kiss bollox do we need"
I never thought I'd say it, but i actually prefer Twitter. Ignore people and things you don't want to read. Only see things you're interested in. What's not to like!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath "
Tonnes of us pal but eventually even the forums dry up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you
Try being a bloke on here
I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit.
That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further
The only filter left is to block all men"
Ahh well,it's hard being a hot woman I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you
Try being a bloke on here
I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit.
That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further
The only filter left is to block all men"
Maybe there should be a 'only here to chat' option on the forum listing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months
Event socials do you mean?"
Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Take fab out of the equation for a minute OP.
If you no longer enjoyed a TV programme would you still watch it? If you no longer enjoyed eating a certain food would you still eat it? If you no longer enjoyed wearing certain clothes would you force yourself to wear them?
Being on fab and using any aspect of it isn't compulsory. Nobody is holding a gun to your head.
It takes one click to hide your profile, another to log off and then you're free for as long as you choose.
Just don't forget your log in details.
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
portsmouth |
"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you
Try being a bloke on here
I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit.
That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further
The only filter left is to block all men"
That's what you should do and join us ladies on the dark side  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you
Try being a bloke on here
I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit.
That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further
The only filter left is to block all men"
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"It's whatever you want it to be..whatever works for you
Try being a bloke on here
I agree with the above. Maybe you could have a go at running my profile for a day. it's not all roses here either. Bull shit after bull shit then you meet Mr Bullshit.
That's not a bad gripe to have is it,plus you can alter your filters to narrow it down even further
The only filter left is to block all men"
But then you wouldn’t get the attention you crave!  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months
Event socials do you mean?
Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones "
Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath "
Sociopaths aren’t sociable. Do you feel lack of empathy for your fellow fabber |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months
Event socials do you mean?
Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones
Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x"
Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, finding it very dull here to be honest. Had my flirtations with a few that obviously are never going to meet, plus plenty of unwanted attention that, admittedly, I could set filters for. A high majority of women here have such attitude-filled profiles that regardless of how they look I'd never want to meet because of said profiles, but I get that it's a numbers game and women call the shots here.
The forum though - the occasional intersting topic gets posted, only for the usual forum dwellers to try and tear the post down with their oh so predictable "wit". Seems people are only interested in the banal "kiss fuck avoid", "what are your friday/saturday night plans", "how many views have you got" and "pegging, do women enhoy it" type of threads.
In fact I genuinely dont know why I bother with this site - it must be the lure of potentially meeting someone genuinely sexy and interesting. Sorry forum dwellers, but thats not the majority of you! Now feel free to exercise your pack mentality on me! |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months
Event socials do you mean?
Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones
Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x
Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x"
you can't beat face to face, good old fashion interaction |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months
Event socials do you mean?
Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones
Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x
Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x you can't beat face to face, good old fashion interaction "
And meeting people in that context is soooo much nicer than having a coffee and wondering if you fancy each other.. totally different! Absolutely loved it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months
Event socials do you mean?
Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones
Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x
Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x"
Im not that amazing
Ok ok il let you have your say |
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"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months
Event socials do you mean?
Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones
Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x
Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x"
I've been telling people this for years... get to the socials, you'll be surprised at how much fun they are!
If there isn't one near you... start one, it really isn't that hard! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months
Event socials do you mean?
Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones
Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x
Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x
Im not that amazing
Ok ok il let you have your say "
 ha ha you goon.. was an eye opener though wasn't it!?! |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months
Event socials do you mean?
Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones
Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x
Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x you can't beat face to face, good old fashion interaction
And meeting people in that context is soooo much nicer than having a coffee and wondering if you fancy each other.. totally different! Absolutely loved it "
takes all that pressure away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months
Event socials do you mean?
Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones
Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x
Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x you can't beat face to face, good old fashion interaction
And meeting people in that context is soooo much nicer than having a coffee and wondering if you fancy each other.. totally different! Absolutely loved it takes all that pressure away "
100% the way we did things in our youth ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do this a lot. But I've been branching out and actually enjoying the socialising over the past few months
Event socials do you mean?
Yes. They are such fun and I've actually made some really good friends as a result. I'm enjoying fab more now, than I have in a long time. You really need to get your arse to one of the Newport ones
Yep that's my direct in 2019 it's the way forward I think. Yep your face out there and actually meet people.x
Can't recommend this enough! Went to my first this weekend and it's opened up a whole new way of looking at fab and introduced me to some amazing people x
Im not that amazing
Ok ok il let you have your say
ha ha you goon.. was an eye opener though wasn't it!?! "
it was something i never tried i suppose a different kind of fun and enjoyment iv not experienced in about 20 years |
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"Take fab out of the equation for a minute OP.
If you no longer enjoyed a TV programme would you still watch it? If you no longer enjoyed eating a certain food would you still eat it? If you no longer enjoyed wearing certain clothes would you force yourself to wear them?
Being on fab and using any aspect of it isn't compulsory. Nobody is holding a gun to your head.
It takes one click to hide your profile, another to log off and then you're free for as long as you choose.
Just don't forget your log in details.
A"
Spot on.
If you don't like it, either start some threads about things that interest you or just don't read them and log off.
Is the wind making people extra whingey today ?
First world problems hey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Genuinely a little bored of fab already, but want to stay here solely for the forums as i find it interesting. Does anyone else here do this or am I a complete sociopath "
Yes most people are just here to play forum games as far as I can tell. They even get offended when you talk about sex or swinging rather than just innuendo, you'll be fine. Pretend your 12 again. |
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