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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Clowns 
They honestly scare the living shit outta me!
So i shouldn't ask you then if you'd go on a date with me to the circus then!"
Nope. My poor kids have never been to a circus  I can’t go |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I recently arranged to meet someone from fab....on an aeroplane...looked nothing like their photo....was dressed as a clown!! Freaked me out ??"
Sounds like a right nightmare! Hope it wasn't a long flight?! |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"I'm afraid of flying but force myself to as travel abroad a lot.
What are you afraid of and why?
Spending Christmas day with my mother. She's not been nice this year  "
Change mother for parents and its near the top of my list unfortunately. |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I'm afraid of flying but force myself to as travel abroad a lot.
What are you afraid of and why?
Spending Christmas day with my mother. She's not been nice this year "
I hope you have a good day with your mother and a peaceful one..Xmas Day normally seems to go by very quickly... |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Heights & I get stupid comments, like “but you’re so tall, how can you be scared of heights?!” Idiots.  "
I bet you get the you should be good at playing Basketball jokes also.
I'm afraid of heights hence being scared of flying! |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Cockroaches
I really have a fear of them
If they anywhere near me when we go abroad I just go mental"
How do you deal with them then?!...Those annoying mosquitoes on holiday late at night when you're trying to sleep can often drive me insane!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had a spider crawl across me arm and chest once. it just stopped there lifting one of its legs and lowering it as if it was prodding my chest.
didnt faze me at all until i was told later it was deadly.
only thing i cant stand are scorpions. i stepped on loads and we always had to knock shoes on the walls and clothing as they like to hide in dark places.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not being enough. "
There's only one person in this world you ever need to be enough for, and that's you.
While you're worrying about not being enough for another person you're simply torturing yourself. When you compare yourself to other people.... you're simply torturing yourself.
I'm certain you have qualities/attributes other people see in you that they wish they had, but you don't even notice these things because they're simply part of you.
Start focussing on the positives instead of the negatives all the time and you'll be far happier.
Take it from someone who's been there and got the t-shirt.
You WILL be enough.... for the right person.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Developing dementia in later life.
Not good for anyone.
A
My elderly Aunt has dementia which is very sad to witness but we help her as much as we can."
My dad has had it for years. Now has no quality of life, ability to communicate and has no idea who I am.
Sickens me that we're allowed to end the suffering of animals yet not allowed to choose our own time without legal ramifications. A DNR is all well and good but i'd much rather go the Dignitas route.
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"had a spider crawl across me arm and chest once. it just stopped there lifting one of its legs and lowering it as if it was prodding my chest.
didnt faze me at all until i was told later it was deadly.
only thing i cant stand are scorpions. i stepped on loads and we always had to knock shoes on the walls and clothing as they like to hide in dark places.
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Get a lot of Scorpions in Farnborough do you? |
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I am really afraid of huge boobs
The bigger the tits the bigger the fear....in order to combat this terrifying issue I have decided to face my peril full on.
So any exceptionally large busted ladies who can pm me with their photos and details will be helping me to overcome this life destroying situation.
Thanks so much....Meeting such colossal breasts would be an even more intrepid saga for me but one that I would simply have to endure.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Showing up to meet and they don’t look like their pics...
happened to me. she was not in shape as her pics suggested and felt a lot older.
Sorry about that "
you had the nerve to tie me up so i couldnt escape.  |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I am really afraid of huge boobs
The bigger the tits the bigger the fear....in order to combat this terrifying issue I have decided to face my peril full on.
So any exceptionally large busted ladies who can pm me with their photos and details will be helping me to overcome this life destroying situation.
Thanks so much....Meeting such colossal breasts would be an even more intrepid saga for me but one that I would simply have to endure...."
I dont have such a problem thankfully! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"had a spider crawl across me arm and chest once. it just stopped there lifting one of its legs and lowering it as if it was prodding my chest.
didnt faze me at all until i was told later it was deadly.
only thing i cant stand are scorpions. i stepped on loads and we always had to knock shoes on the walls and clothing as they like to hide in dark places.
Get a lot of Scorpions in Farnborough do you?"
trolling again i see.
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Not being enough.
There's only one person in this world you ever need to be enough for, and that's you.
While you're worrying about not being enough for another person you're simply torturing yourself. When you compare yourself to other people.... you're simply torturing yourself.
I'm certain you have qualities/attributes other people see in you that they wish they had, but you don't even notice these things because they're simply part of you.
Start focussing on the positives instead of the negatives all the time and you'll be far happier.
Take it from someone who's been there and got the t-shirt.
You WILL be enough.... for the right person.
P
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lovely post.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Getting old 
I've watched work mates and family members become shadows of their former selves..
Too see a man in his prime and then see him at his weaker old age.. scares the shit outta me, to think I'll be there one day.
Adam. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Failure.
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Afraid to fail at what?...If you don't mind me asking?!"
I don't mind anyone asking, I'm an open book.
I'm afraid of failure in certain aspects. A new job for example, I could do with a new job with better pay and more sociable hours. If I got a new job and failed, I'd feel like I'd let myself down, not to mention the implications it would have on keeping a roof over my head.
I was afraid of failing my son, of doing a bad mum job. He's fucking awesome though and already a mini legend so that's done and dusted.
I'm afraid of not giving my best, and letting myself and others down. This can sometimes go too far, to the point I'll sacrifice myself for others, and I'll be left fighting emotionally or financially just to make it easier for other people
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not being enough.
There's only one person in this world you ever need to be enough for, and that's you.
While you're worrying about not being enough for another person you're simply torturing yourself. When you compare yourself to other people.... you're simply torturing yourself.
I'm certain you have qualities/attributes other people see in you that they wish they had, but you don't even notice these things because they're simply part of you.
Start focussing on the positives instead of the negatives all the time and you'll be far happier.
Take it from someone who's been there and got the t-shirt.
You WILL be enough.... for the right person.
P
lovely post. "
Well it's true. Your "worth" doesn't come from other people, it comes from within.
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Getting old
I've watched work mates and family members become shadows of their former selves..
Too see a man in his prime and then see him at his weaker old age.. scares the shit outta me, to think I'll be there one day.
Adam."
Don't be afraid Adam!..
we will all reach old age eventually unless you're Peter Pan! |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
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"Failure.
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Afraid to fail at what?...If you don't mind me asking?!
I don't mind anyone asking, I'm an open book.
I'm afraid of failure in certain aspects. A new job for example, I could do with a new job with better pay and more sociable hours. If I got a new job and failed, I'd feel like I'd let myself down, not to mention the implications it would have on keeping a roof over my head.
I was afraid of failing my son, of doing a bad mum job. He's fucking awesome though and already a mini legend so that's done and dusted.
I'm afraid of not giving my best, and letting myself and others down. This can sometimes go too far, to the point I'll sacrifice myself for others, and I'll be left fighting emotionally or financially just to make it easier for other people
P"
Thank you for being so open...
I'm sure you wont be a failure at any of those things. |
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Spiders, I’ve been bitten by them previously and it bloody hurt!
Having my mouth covered , I can’t breath properly through my nose after 2 lots of surgery and I used to dream about being robbed and gaged, it was horrible and used to really shake me up. |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Can't say why but horses and motorbikes
And like another poster failure and feeling let people down or not made the most of my life"
Did you fall off a horse or motorbike when you were younger? |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"I'm afraid of flying but force myself to as travel abroad a lot.
What are you afraid of and why?"
Same here I don't like flying either. Its that feeling you get as you descend and ascend. |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I'm afraid of flying but force myself to as travel abroad a lot.
What are you afraid of and why?
Same here I don't like flying either. Its that feeling you get as you descend and ascend."
I thought it was only me who didnt like flying!...I'm normally okay when the plane is up is just the taking off and landing that scares me! |
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"Can't say why but horses and motorbikes
And like another poster failure and feeling let people down or not made the most of my life"
Ooh imagine a horse on a motorbike, you'd be weeing your pants!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not being enough. "
I have / had the same innate fear. The previous poster's reply is a lovely one and totally, profoundly true. Being enough for yourself is the only thing in one's control. |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Snakes ... after being bitten by an adder now my brain goes into hyper survival mode of total panic if I find myself near a snake "
where did it bite you without wanting to bring back too many painful memories?... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Snakes ... after being bitten by an adder now my brain goes into hyper survival mode of total panic if I find myself near a snake
where did it bite you without wanting to bring back too many painful memories?..."
On my hand ... through the skin between my thumb and finger, it felt like I'd been connected to the mains |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Can't say why but horses and motorbikes
And like another poster failure and feeling let people down or not made the most of my life
Ooh imagine a horse on a motorbike, you'd be weeing your pants!
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I'd need a drink if i saw that! |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Afraid of losing my sight, was shot with an air rifle when I was still at school, spent the whole summer hols in hospital, and had flashes across my eye for the next 2years,"
Hope they punished who ever was responsible? |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"General Anesthesia,always afraid I won't wake up. Had one in August for a operation and ended up with delirium for two weeks. It was awful!"
That must have been scary....2 weeks was a long time to recover! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't say why but horses and motorbikes
And like another poster failure and feeling let people down or not made the most of my life
Did you fall off a horse or motorbike when you were younger?"
Never been on either |
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"General Anesthesia,always afraid I won't wake up. Had one in August for a operation and ended up with delirium for two weeks. It was awful!
That must have been scary....2 weeks was a long time to recover!"
Very scary, I have another operation this Friday and I'm crapping it, but I know I'm in good hands. My hospital was amazing. |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"General Anesthesia,always afraid I won't wake up. Had one in August for a operation and ended up with delirium for two weeks. It was awful!
That must have been scary....2 weeks was a long time to recover!
Very scary, I have another operation this Friday and I'm crapping it, but I know I'm in good hands. My hospital was amazing. "
Good luck with your op on Friday..you have nothing to be afraid of and are in good hands.  |
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