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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many show face pictures in their opening messages?
Some people insist on one, but never return a picture in return... surely being visible and honest is a better way to see if there’s an attraction and connection - curious to understand your thoughts?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't tend to send one unless it's asked of me, further down the line of conversation (maybe 4 or 5 messages), but I would expect one in return, or I'd feel a bit too vulnerable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We usually send a face pic with a first message, rather that than messaging back and forth to find they aren't interested 3 weeks later.
Many local to us, seem to want to play blind date and don't send face pics - when we first joined around 3yrs ago I'd risk it, after many disappointing meets where there was no attraction and the whole awkward want to play question at the end of a coffee and having to find a polite way to say no thanks, I now refuse point blank to meet anyone without having seen a face pic, which doesn't go down well always - people think I'm a fussy bitch (shock horror - I am  ) |
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By *l6789Man
over a year ago
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My face is on my profile but given a first message to someone means they might not have viewed me yet I send one. It’s not a big deal it’s my face, my family history and financial status however is a bit personal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is Fab - a place where others expect you to compromise your anonymity whilst retaining theirs.
It's an age old tale
I just adopt a simple approach
I contact you, I send first
You contact me, you send first
It works for me |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"No point sending a pic in return if there's no attraction.
I don't understand why when people are turned down they ask for a pic back. No chance!!"
if whoever sees first, isn't attracted and did return a picture it'd be like bull's-eye..look what you'd coulda won.
I use the whoever contacts whomever first sends first. Attraction is a two way street both parties can say no thanks, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No point sending a pic in return if there's no attraction.
I don't understand why when people are turned down they ask for a pic back. No chance!!
if whoever sees first, isn't attracted and did return a picture it'd be like bull's-eye..look what you'd coulda won.
I use the whoever contacts whomever first sends first. Attraction is a two way street both parties can say no thanks, "
People seem to forget that men can say "no" too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always try to reply to messages sometimes it’s just impossible if I’m bombarded with messages when I do reply, If I receive a face picture I return a face picture even if I’m not interested(which I do state in reply) but it’s only fair they know who they messaged and what I actually look like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I generally send one
Ladies get so many messages that there are limited opportunities to stand out unless you can spell properly and send a picture to accompany it.... |
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