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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done it a few times when not been in stealth mode. Then you realise oh dear once you click on someone that you are clearly not interested in and they message you. It's not too much of a problem unless it's someone that you are really interested in or chatting to .
I don't want to come across as a stalker by looking at their pics and profile often.. Like you do .. lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ever had that heart stopping moment where you can’t remember if you selected not to show on “who’s looked at me”?
heart stopping?  "
Slight exaggeration but kind of when it’s someone you used to shag a year ago! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ever had that heart stopping moment where you can’t remember if you selected not to show on “who’s looked at me”?
heart stopping?
Slight exaggeration but kind of when it’s someone you used to shag a year ago!"
He might not even look at his who looked at me. I'm assuming he's fit, so probably gets lots of views so won't notice one pop up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems a bit voyeuristic to browse from behind a bush! Personally, if someone views my pics I may have a gander back and perhaps fab some. Just because I might view them several times doesn't make me a stalker ... I just like their pics ... take it as a compliment!
I may very occasionally message if the profile suggests we could get on and I'm within the other person's stated preferences. It's what Fab's about isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But why is this a bad thing?
It helps people identify your interest from my perspective.
E.g. I am in talks with a couple of ladies who kept looking at my profile when my images were public |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I’d say the majority of women view in stealth mode.
It’s like if we fab a guys picture, it might just mean we like the picture and don’t really want to be messaged. I imagine if we appeared on a guys looked at me page it would encourage them to message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But why is this a bad thing?
It helps people identify your interest from my perspective.
E.g. I am in talks with a couple of ladies who kept looking at my profile when my images were public"
You assume that everyone who looks is interested in meeting you.
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"But why is this a bad thing?
It helps people identify your interest from my perspective.
E.g. I am in talks with a couple of ladies who kept looking at my profile when my images were public
You assume that everyone who looks is interested in meeting you.
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Exactly, I look at profiles for all sorts of reasons, the majority of them I wouldn't necessarily want to meet though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But why is this a bad thing?
It helps people identify your interest from my perspective.
E.g. I am in talks with a couple of ladies who kept looking at my profile when my images were public"
Looming doesn't mean they want to meet? I nose plenty of people who post, to see who I'm engaging with. I've no intention of meeting them. |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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Seriously the amount of people who use it as an excuse to message you.
“Thanks for looking at my profile, hope you liked what you saw”
Well if I liked it that much I might have sent you a message!!
It’s why I turned stealth mode on ours and blocked single male accounts. I go looking for my own
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Look Miss Hooves, remember what happened last time when we had to go through all that nasty court business and I had to live in that safe house for a year because I kept finding you naked behind my bins with a pair of binoculars, I just can't handle all that upheaval again   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ever had that heart stopping moment where you can’t remember if you selected not to show on “who’s looked at me”?
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I think you should roll with it...
Stop being a peeper and start being confident about who you like.
(In the nicest possible way)
I go on people's profiles and it doesn't mean I am wanking or perving. Often I'm just reading the profile of some person I am not attracted to.
....I hate when they assume I'm "perving"....it's a narcasistic assumption because I'm mostly browsing.
You should use that excuse. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Look Miss Hooves, remember what happened last time when we had to go through all that nasty court business and I had to live in that safe house for a year because I kept finding you naked behind my bins with a pair of binoculars, I just can't handle all that upheaval again "
I was just looking for vegetable peelings for my allotment. I told you this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But why is this a bad thing?
It helps people identify your interest from my perspective.
E.g. I am in talks with a couple of ladies who kept looking at my profile when my images were public
You assume that everyone who looks is interested in meeting you.
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Nope - but if someone keeps looking at my profile, then they are interested in something. Otherwise they wouldn't keep looking. I am glad I reached out to them because I now have my first genuine fab friend and we haven't even had sex. It's was more about closely tied philosophy. I don't message someone because they have looked at me, that's just desperate
I message people "I" am interested in. |
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"But why is this a bad thing?
It helps people identify your interest from my perspective.
E.g. I am in talks with a couple of ladies who kept looking at my profile when my images were public
You assume that everyone who looks is interested in meeting you.
Exactly, I look at profiles for all sorts of reasons, the majority of them I wouldn't necessarily want to meet though. "
The vast majority of profiles that I like, and fab their pics, wouldn't want to meet me, (I'm a 56 yr old bisexual smoker lol), but fab their pics I will  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never use the ninja mode.
I look at at all types of profiles including guys profiles and iam straight.
I still feel iam fairly new to the site and look at various profiles for different reasons. Some people i like, some i desire others for how they have constructed thier profile and what type of pics they have which may make my profile more interesting to others.
The fact that these profile owners know i have looked does not effect me in any way and hope that they feel when i fab any pics of thiers it is because i appreciate the picture.
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 welcome back OP
Thank fuck for stealth mode!! I've developed a macabre fascination lately with checking one local profile and they would probably think I fancy the tits off them (the person is actually pretty fit).... But in fact its just that I'm always completely mesmerised by the sheer filth of their bedroom. Even just looking at the photos makes me glad I've had a tetanus shot in recent months. It looks like it has that kind of smell that would make your eyes water..... |
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"Look Miss Hooves, remember what happened last time when we had to go through all that nasty court business and I had to live in that safe house for a year because I kept finding you naked behind my bins with a pair of binoculars, I just can't handle all that upheaval again
I was just looking for vegetable peelings for my allotment. I told you this. "
Save it for the judge can I have my Vivienne Westwood boxers back that went missing off the washing line though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" welcome back OP
Thank fuck for stealth mode!! I've developed a macabre fascination lately with checking one local profile and they would probably think I fancy the tits off them (the person is actually pretty fit).... But in fact its just that I'm always completely mesmerised by the sheer filth of their bedroom. Even just looking at the photos makes me glad I've had a tetanus shot in recent months. It looks like it has that kind of smell that would make your eyes water..... "
oh crikey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this? "
Maybe there is an algorithm that show you in their search once you looked at them more than once.
A bit like when you look at a product online and it appears on your facebook's feed. |
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this? "
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you. |
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you. "
Duhhh... Wrong way round...  If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you.
Duhhh... Wrong way round... If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates! "
Do people still get that update if you're in stealth ? |
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you.
Duhhh... Wrong way round... If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates!
Do people still get that update if you're in stealth ?"
Yes. It appears in your hotlist updates as 'xxxx' viewed your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you.
Duhhh... Wrong way round... If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates! "
thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ever had that heart stopping moment where you can’t remember if you selected not to show on “who’s looked at me”?
You know platinum members can still see you  "
No way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah yes, could be that. Thanks x
You're welcome can I fuck you now ?
If you weren’t my sons age
Mom is that you ??
Could be .......  "
Well if it is you can you add some yogurts to the shopping list please |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you.
Duhhh... Wrong way round... If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates!
Do people still get that update if you're in stealth ?"
Say it ain't so! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone knows if I look.... I don't care....
Don't mind people knowing I've looked, because the ones I'm actually interested in will know I like 'Em any road.... Messaging and forums are good for that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you.
Duhhh... Wrong way round... If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates!
Do people still get that update if you're in stealth ?
Yes. It appears in your hotlist updates as 'xxxx' viewed your profile. "
What!!?? So if someone puts me on their hotlist and then I view them, it will say I viewed them?
Can someone test this, put me on your hotlist and let me know if it says I viewed you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you.
Duhhh... Wrong way round... If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates!
Do people still get that update if you're in stealth ?
Yes. It appears in your hotlist updates as 'xxxx' viewed your profile.
What!!?? So if someone puts me on their hotlist and then I view them, it will say I viewed them?
Can someone test this, put me on your hotlist and let me know if it says I viewed you. "
Can't be true.... As it removes the "control" of the person not wanting to be seen viewing. Otherwise as a bloke you would add everyone to your hot list |
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you.
Duhhh... Wrong way round... If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates!
Do people still get that update if you're in stealth ?
Say it ain't so! "
There's a few folk on my hotlist who check my profile every now and then. It always appears in my hotlist updates when they do, but doesn't show in my 'looked at me'. |
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you.
Duhhh... Wrong way round... If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates!
Do people still get that update if you're in stealth ?
Yes. It appears in your hotlist updates as 'xxxx' viewed your profile.
What!!?? So if someone puts me on their hotlist and then I view them, it will say I viewed them?
Can someone test this, put me on your hotlist and let me know if it says I viewed you.
Can't be true.... As it removes the "control" of the person not wanting to be seen viewing. Otherwise as a bloke you would add everyone to your hot list"
Do blokes not do that anyway? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you.
Duhhh... Wrong way round... If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates!
Do people still get that update if you're in stealth ?
Yes. It appears in your hotlist updates as 'xxxx' viewed your profile.
What!!?? So if someone puts me on their hotlist and then I view them, it will say I viewed them?
Can someone test this, put me on your hotlist and let me know if it says I viewed you.
Can't be true.... As it removes the "control" of the person not wanting to be seen viewing. Otherwise as a bloke you would add everyone to your hot list
Do blokes not do that anyway? "
Categorically not.... Some of us are quite selective don't you know |
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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you.
Duhhh... Wrong way round... If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates!
Do people still get that update if you're in stealth ?
Yes. It appears in your hotlist updates as 'xxxx' viewed your profile.
What!!?? So if someone puts me on their hotlist and then I view them, it will say I viewed them?
Can someone test this, put me on your hotlist and let me know if it says I viewed you.
Can't be true.... As it removes the "control" of the person not wanting to be seen viewing. Otherwise as a bloke you would add everyone to your hot list
Do blokes not do that anyway? "
No only have 3 on mine  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you.
Duhhh... Wrong way round... If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates!
Do people still get that update if you're in stealth ?
Say it ain't so!
There's a few folk on my hotlist who check my profile every now and then. It always appears in my hotlist updates when they do, but doesn't show in my 'looked at me'. "
I need a more panicked emoji than this |
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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you.
Duhhh... Wrong way round... If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates!
Do people still get that update if you're in stealth ?
Yes. It appears in your hotlist updates as 'xxxx' viewed your profile.
What!!?? So if someone puts me on their hotlist and then I view them, it will say I viewed them?
Can someone test this, put me on your hotlist and let me know if it says I viewed you. "
It doesn't for most people, the exception being the welsh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't be the only person who's noticed this discrepancy surely?? "
Not sure..... I have views from my hotlist... But others who I know have looked (they've told me and fabbed the pics!) don't show up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you’re on someone’s hotlist and you view their profile if you are stealth mode it still doesn’t show.
Most guys don’t bother with stealth so that’s probably why you can see them view you when they’re on your hotlist. |
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"I can't be the only person who's noticed this discrepancy surely??
Not sure..... I have views from my hotlist... But others who I know have looked (they've told me and fabbed the pics!) don't show up"
You don't need to look at a profile though to fab pics... If you Fab them from updates feed or hot pics you don't have to view the profile at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't be the only person who's noticed this discrepancy surely??
Not sure..... I have views from my hotlist... But others who I know have looked (they've told me and fabbed the pics!) don't show up
You don't need to look at a profile though to fab pics... If you Fab them from updates feed or hot pics you don't have to view the profile at all. "
Yeah but the fabs I'm talking about are on pics from 12 months ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see it as a compliment when a woman views my profile.
If I've never messaged her before I say thank you and leave it there
Next move is hers.
Always nice to see you |
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"Ever had that heart stopping moment where you can’t remember if you selected not to show on “who’s looked at me”?
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I always think it's a shame when someone has looked at us and we can't take a look back as normally the profile pic looks good |
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"If you’re on someone’s hotlist and you view their profile if you are stealth mode it still doesn’t show.
Most guys don’t bother with stealth so that’s probably why you can see them view you when they’re on your hotlist. "
Not just guys maybe it's a glitch... But views show in my hotlist updates even when they don't appear in 'looked at me'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest I don't bother using it. Hopefully it comes across as being nosey and not a crazy stalker bitch "
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I think its nice when a woman’s not in stealth mode, makes a nice change and it’s always good to see, in amongst all the cocks that have looked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not convinced stealth mode always works. Like many ladies I’m always in stealth mode but I’ve found that after looking at someone a couple of times they message me. It happens quite often. Could be a coincidence,but I’m not so sure
Does anyone else get this?
If you're on someone's hotlist, it does say in your hotlist updates that they've viewed you.
Duhhh... Wrong way round... If you've hotlisted someone and they look at you, it appears in your updates!
Do people still get that update if you're in stealth ?
Say it ain't so!
There's a few folk on my hotlist who check my profile every now and then. It always appears in my hotlist updates when they do, but doesn't show in my 'looked at me'.
I need a more panicked emoji than this "
Ive never noticed this but I tend to forget I have a hotlist updates and barely look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest I don't bother using it. Hopefully it comes across as being nosey and not a crazy stalker bitch m
I think its nice when a woman’s not in stealth mode, makes a nice change and it’s always good to see, in amongst all the cocks that have looked."
I shall flash my known mode badge with pride
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