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What questions won't you answer?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You're chatting to someone and they ask you questions.
What kind of questions won't you answer? Your location? Marital status? Last STI visit?
Can the type of questions they ask put you off meeting them? |
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"Private / personal questions , no one in this game really needs to know the ins & outs of our private life "
Exactly 
What I do outside of fab isn't really any of their business(as long as you're not a serial killer)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Private / personal questions , no one in this game really needs to know the ins & outs of our private life
Exactly
What I do outside of fab isn't really any of their business(as long as you're not a serial killer) "
I do ask what someone does for work. A certain amount of information to work with helps make a social feel a bit more relaxed. I don’t expect specifics or company names but just some vague idea to chat around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think whatever anyone is prepared to share as part of a conversation. As in non-Fab life you wouldn't tell everyone everything unless they've re e very close friends. But then some people on Fab become friends so ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're chatting to someone and they ask you questions.
What kind of questions won't you answer? Your location? Marital status? Last STI visit?
Can the type of questions they ask put you off meeting them?"
Are you horny or anything sex related |
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We’ve had quite a few ‘Are you lactating yet?” In the right context from naughty friends it might be ok, but these are from complete strangers that we’ve never had any conversation with. Needless to say, it didn't result in one. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Depends who's asking to be honest - someone out of the blue or who I've not chatted to a great deal then anything not related to Fab or my presence here is out of bounds - someone I've chatted to a lot or have met then I'm pretty much an open book |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
It depends on the context of the chat, usually thought it's a question of discretion regarding previous meets, who I've met, what they were like, the locations of the unmarked graves, that sort of thing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think whatever anyone is prepared to share as part of a conversation. As in non-Fab life you wouldn't tell everyone everything unless they've re e very close friends. But then some people on Fab become friends so ..."
Fair point. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It depends on the context of the chat, usually thought it's a question of discretion regarding previous meets, who I've met, what they were like, the locations of the unmarked graves, that sort of thing"
Never mention the graves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're chatting to someone and they ask you questions.
What kind of questions won't you answer? Your location? Marital status? Last STI visit?
Can the type of questions they ask put you off meeting them?"
Our biggest off put question is Can I fuck your wife tonight. Before even an attempt at a conversation. Generally gets a Fuck yourself as the reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're chatting to someone and they ask you questions.
What kind of questions won't you answer? Your location? Marital status? Last STI visit?
Can the type of questions they ask put you off meeting them?"
I answer all questions.
I am an open book.
If a woman says: "why did you say that to her" and I was just repeating something....
Basicly some people are deceitful and tell white lies....I don't...
Had a girlfriend briefly who blew her kid because she told me she was "moddeling" because of some pics she had....
I told her bitch friend...her bitch friend knew she was lying...
I got in troubble for repeating a lie...
I had an std a while ago but didn't mention it because I wasn't planning to shag. (Molluscome)
I say I'm from Manchester but really from a surrounding town. (Helps me stay private and harder to find) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't discuss our children.
We don't disclose our exact location.
We don't give specific job locations.
Basically anything that can lead someone to our door/place of work or our children's school's and potentially cause embarrassment/discomfort or put our family in a dangerous situation. Once we have met or are comfortable were a little more open but we keep in mind our family safety is paramount.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Anything about my little ladies. 
Why do people even mention that they have kids. "
Because for some people it's more than a quick fuck once in a while and they form friendships and connections with the people they meet - it also helps to explain availability in some instances.
Nothing wrong at all with telling people you have kids, they're as much a part of you the person as anything - it's how much you tell the people you meet about them that is key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When someone claims to be a Nigerian prince and states you have won the Euromillions rollover; and proceeds to ask for you credit card number, that's when you start to think...
"Should I give him just one card or two cards and double the prize money?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends on the context of the chat, usually thought it's a question of discretion regarding previous meets, who I've met, what they were like, the locations of the unmarked graves, that sort of thing"
That walk back alone from the middle of the woods.
I hate that too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends on the context of the chat, usually thought it's a question of discretion regarding previous meets, who I've met, what they were like, the locations of the unmarked graves, that sort of thing
That walk back alone from the middle of the woods.
I hate that too "
Especially if the shovel is heavy. |
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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago
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"You're chatting to someone and they ask you questions.
What kind of questions won't you answer? Your location? Marital status? Last STI visit?
Can the type of questions they ask put you off meeting them?"
Id rather not answer that thank you.  |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Personal stuff such as our address.
Well actually a lot of people ask "where are youse from" which annoys me for a number of reasons youse is not a word and where I am from is not the same as where I live.
Pedantic I know but it can be slow on Fab sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're chatting to someone and they ask you questions.
What kind of questions won't you answer? Your location? Marital status? Last STI visit?
Can the type of questions they ask put you off meeting them?
Id rather not answer that thank you. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When someone claims to be a Nigerian prince and states you have won the Euromillions rollover; and proceeds to ask for you credit card number, that's when you start to think...
"Should I give him just one card or two cards and double the prize money?"
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Always double it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anything about my little ladies.
Why do people even mention that they have kids.
Because for some people it's more than a quick fuck once in a while and they form friendships and connections with the people they meet - it also helps to explain availability in some instances.
Nothing wrong at all with telling people you have kids, they're as much a part of you the person as anything - it's how much you tell the people you meet about them that is key."
Fair point. |
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we all have a sixth sense and certain questions are really off putting .
it's easier for a guy
but I guess guys who ask women for a meet before getting to no them
or guys that won't take no for an answer
I'm sort of answering for the ladies here but guys that ask for your phone number before even arranging a meet
must go top of list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab and real life are completely separate for me so in general anything about my personal life i won’t answer. So on fab and forums in general nobody knows anything about me. There are a couple of good friends on here who I’d probably answer any question to and probably know more about me than a lot of my real life friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Questions that relate to what I'm into will put me off someone and not want to engage further. I prefer that type of chat, once I've gotten to know them a little. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fab and real life are completely separate for me so in general anything about my personal life i won’t answer. So on fab and forums in general nobody knows anything about me. There are a couple of good friends on here who I’d probably answer any question to and probably know more about me than a lot of my real life friends. "
Probably a daft question but what do you talk about with meets? Or do you make stuff up just so they have an answer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab and real life are completely separate for me so in general anything about my personal life i won’t answer. So on fab and forums in general nobody knows anything about me. There are a couple of good friends on here who I’d probably answer any question to and probably know more about me than a lot of my real life friends.
Probably a daft question but what do you talk about with meets? Or do you make stuff up just so they have an answer? "
I don’t really meet new people to be honest. No I don’t make stuff up, I don’t mean general things. I mean personal stuff like kids names, exactly where I live etc. No need for people to know that information. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It would depend on the person and how long I've known them and if I've met with them. "
Good point. The questions answered would depend on how well I knew them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab and real life are completely separate for me so in general anything about my personal life i won’t answer. So on fab and forums in general nobody knows anything about me. There are a couple of good friends on here who I’d probably answer any question to and probably know more about me than a lot of my real life friends.
Probably a daft question but what do you talk about with meets? Or do you make stuff up just so they have an answer? "
There's plenty you can talk about without giving personal information out. Like zombies and when to plant your zinnias. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fab and real life are completely separate for me so in general anything about my personal life i won’t answer. So on fab and forums in general nobody knows anything about me. There are a couple of good friends on here who I’d probably answer any question to and probably know more about me than a lot of my real life friends.
Probably a daft question but what do you talk about with meets? Or do you make stuff up just so they have an answer?
I don’t really meet new people to be honest. No I don’t make stuff up, I don’t mean general things. I mean personal stuff like kids names, exactly where I live etc. No need for people to know that information. "
That makes sense. |
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