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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Or are there loads of stuck up people on here? I haven't been on for a while but nearly every profile ive clicked is like not meeting dont message me dont do this dont do that. Where the positive profiles at?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Or are there loads of stuck up people on here? I haven't been on for a while but nearly every profile ive clicked is like not meeting dont message me dont do this dont do that. Where the positive profiles at?"

If people arent meeting, how does that make them stuck up?

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

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That’s a shame that you’ve managed to hit those profiles OP. They’re not all like that luckily.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My opinion only but the females on Fab get fed up of incessant messages from people who haven’t read their profile. They create a profile of what they want and don’t want in the hope that someone will actually read it and will shine through.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS  over a year ago

Cornwall

I'm far too classy, posh, sexy and better than anyone else to be stuck up ...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I rarely read womens profiles unless they're on the forum as I'm really nosey

But I have to agree that some are SHOUTY and ranty

But just pass them by, don't sweat it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I spend time putting my profile together; try to put a detailed overview of why I’m here and a little insight into me.

It can be quite frustrating when I log on to a large number of messages where it’s obvious the person hasn’t read it. Then when I explain my reasons to them (which is always polite and respectful), I often receive abuse back.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Loads of us ain't meeting. Busy time of year

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I rarely read womens profiles unless they're on the forum as I'm really nosey

But I have to agree that some are SHOUTY and ranty

But just pass them by, don't sweat it "

I'm nosey too, I can't help it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks i was wrong then you lot seem perfectly fine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a bossy profile

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By *uckOfTheBayMan  over a year ago

Mold

There are thousands of good profiles out there, several hundred "bad" ones, and a few exceptional (both good and bad)

I believe that the positives definitely outweigh the negatives

At least the op seems to be taking the time to read profiles, unlike a lot of others who seem not to do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Loads of us ain't meeting. Busy time of year "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, loads, but saying not meeting isn't them being stuck up.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not meeting just means not meeting.

As others have said, it's frustrating getting umpteen messages a day that haven't read your profile, show no interest in you, and are crass, rude, or disgusting. It's very hard to resist the temptation to get shouty, because after the 500th message like that you begin to see red. I just want to be treated with respect.

I try to balance the positive and the negative, but I've tried a variety of tactics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

The sentence not meeting doesnt make them stuck up but usually what comes after. And stuck up is a strong term its more like moody

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By *estofbothCouple  over a year ago

Cardiff

Somebody messaged us not long ago with just

“Posh twats”

Can only assume he got that from reading our profile, apologies if ours does read like that, we’re very much not.

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By *l6789Man  over a year ago

croydon

If I was a woman and had 100 emails a day to look through I’d probably be a bit more harsh, I wouldn’t have time to answer them all. And given the standards of some messages they probably don’t merit a reply in any case.

I’m selective on who I message here anyway if I don’t like the profile or don’t find them attractive I don’t message. So I actually only maybe send a few messages a week. Most of the time I get a reply because I read the profile and could see we would connect quite well. But doesn’t guarantee a response, attraction is two sided.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple  over a year ago

Planet Ork


"Or are there loads of stuck up people on here? I haven't been on for a while but nearly every profile ive clicked is like not meeting dont message me dont do this dont do that. Where the positive profiles at?"

But you’re only here for a browse anyway OP.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS  over a year ago

west here ford shire

Hi op, I’m positive, in fact most people think I have been amazingly positive and inspiring ..

God knows why, anyway my point here is, some of us can’t meet, me for example..

But I love being Stella and love the banter and the friends I have made on here.

I’d say it’s more likely you just need to relax and chill a bit.

Life is tough, just because you’re not getting meets, perhaps look inwards into your self first?

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