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In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday) |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)"
Men are more interested in NSA sex than women.
Women would be judged more for being on a site like this. |
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
Men are more interested in NSA sex than women.
Women would be judged more for being on a site like this. "
Certainly the bit about men being more into nsa sex is true , not so sure about the judging but though .
You only need to read women’s profiles , then men’s to see that they are after very different things .
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)"
Because women aren't supposed to enjoy sex
Sex is for men
Everyone knows that  |
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over a year ago
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I'm gonna say, lots of women have suffered at the loins of inexperienced, selfish partners in the past and don't realise just how awesome sex can be with the right people. Some (myself included for a long time) would rather just have a wank than go through the kerfuffle of an unsatisfying shag.
You only realise it's liberating when you are open to real enjoyment of sex, rather than it being a chore.
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I think plenty of women are just as interested in NSA sex as men, and judgement is a huge factor in why they don't pursue it. I've even experienced guys on here being judgemental towards me for also being on.
People bring up women not sending face pics first quite often, as evidence that they're being arrogant but I think it's more about fear of judgement if they're recognised. A guy outed on here would likely get a ribbing and some 'you dirty dog  ' comments, people would generally be much more harsh on a woman for it. So they don't sign up. |
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over a year ago
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Must be women posing as male profiles.
Sidenote; why does my predictive text on iPhone feel it necessary to always capitalise Male but never do so for female...? Disturbing. |
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
Because women aren't supposed to enjoy sex
Sex is for men
Everyone knows that "
According to who, can’t be men, cause the more women enjoy sex, then the better it is for levelling the playing field ?! |
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)"
The conclusion is wrong I think.
Male vs Female is nearly always outweighed in “normal life” by male tendency towards sex than women, despite the roughly 50/50 split in population distribution. Look up certain stats on for example sexual harassment, or other indicators you’ll see the similar imbalance that correlates to the ratio of men vs women on here |
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"I think plenty of women are just as interested in NSA sex as men, and judgement is a huge factor in why they don't pursue it. I've even experienced guys on here being judgemental towards me for also being on.
People bring up women not sending face pics first quite often, as evidence that they're being arrogant but I think it's more about fear of judgement if they're recognised. A guy outed on here would likely get a ribbing and some 'you dirty dog ' comments, people would generally be much more harsh on a woman for it. So they don't sign up."
The only judgement I have for you is why you have to live so faaaar away from me?  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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I suspect that Fab imitates real life.
This is in no way intended to come across as exist, but if a woman wants uncomplicated, commitment free sex she can use any one of a variety of methods that are harder in the real world for men - pubs, clubs, social media, any one of the 'non-swinging' dating apps designed for relationships. When men use the normal routes they're often disparaged for just looking for easy sex and a quick fix, so come on here thinking that as that's all they want that any women on here will be looking for the same thing, without considering the imbalance in numbers.
They think it'll be easy. How wrong they are.........
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"Must be women posing as male profiles.
Sidenote; why does my predictive text on iPhone feel it necessary to always capitalise Male but never do so for female...? Disturbing."
That’s a good question on the female and male thing . I just typed this on an iPad and it didn’t do that , but it could be because I have the predictive text on and have never differentiated between the two . I believe predictive text predicts from your previous writing what to capitalise ?
Perhaps if you factory reset your iPhone it will learn not to do this ? |
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"I think plenty of women are just as interested in NSA sex as men, and judgement is a huge factor in why they don't pursue it. I've even experienced guys on here being judgemental towards me for also being on.
People bring up women not sending face pics first quite often, as evidence that they're being arrogant but I think it's more about fear of judgement if they're recognised. A guy outed on here would likely get a ribbing and some 'you dirty dog ' comments, people would generally be much more harsh on a woman for it. So they don't sign up.
The only judgement I have for you is why you have to live so faaaar away from me? "
Haha mens' one track minds could also be factor I suppose ! |
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"Must be women posing as male profiles.
Sidenote; why does my predictive text on iPhone feel it necessary to always capitalise Male but never do so for female...? Disturbing.
That’s a good question on the female and male thing . I just typed this on an iPad and it didn’t do that , but it could be because I have the predictive text on and have never differentiated between the two . I believe predictive text predicts from your previous writing what to capitalise ?
Perhaps if you factory reset your iPhone it will learn not to do this ? "
And yet a number of my friends said their iPhone does the same! I shall have to conduct an experiment!  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
Men are more interested in NSA sex than women.
Women would be judged more for being on a site like this.
Certainly the bit about men being more into nsa sex is true , not so sure about the judging but though .
You only need to read women’s profiles , then men’s to see that they are after very different things .
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Society judgement as said below.
Also probably why some men when they message women on here have no respect too. |
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"I suspect that Fab imitates real life.
This is in no way intended to come across as exist, but if a woman wants uncomplicated, commitment free sex she can use any one of a variety of methods that are harder in the real world for men - pubs, clubs, social media, any one of the 'non-swinging' dating apps designed for relationships. When men use the normal routes they're often disparaged for just looking for easy sex and a quick fix, so come on here thinking that as that's all they want that any women on here will be looking for the same thing, without considering the imbalance in numbers.
They think it'll be easy. How wrong they are.........
A"
Simply put men are easy while women are harder work |
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)"
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples."
Cultural thing. |
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In general men join the site expecting a queue of sex hungry women to fall at their feet. Women join expecting nice gents who want to meet, chat, spend cosy evenings by the fire followed by sensuous candlelit love making.
Unfortunately the reverse happens. Women leave quicktime, men stick around hoping.
This may not be true |
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Men think differently to women.
I can see why a site like this could be off putting for women.
Would a man approach a strange women in the street and ask for them to go for a drive in the middle of the night.. guys need to use common sense and have a basic understanding of respect and personal safety
Then maybe the numbers will increase |
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples. Cultural thing."
Cultural in what way? I dont understand |
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples. Cultural thing."
Don't they share? |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples. Cultural thing.
Don't they share?"
I don't know for sure it's a just a guess really.
I have seen interracial couples black man/ white woman and vice versa but never a black couple.
Going from movies and TV shows though they don't seem the type too. |
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" Going from movies and TV shows though they don't seem the type too. "
Sorry to break your illusion, but movies aren’t generallly factual  nevertheless I do wish Emma Stone would fall for me with simple words and a dance or two  |
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples. Cultural thing.
Don't they share?
I don't know for sure it's a just a guess really.
I have seen interracial couples black man/ white woman and vice versa but never a black couple.
Going from movies and TV shows though they don't seem the type too. "
So, you've based your opinion on what you've seen on tv?
Thats funny |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples. Cultural thing.
Don't they share?
I don't know for sure it's a just a guess really.
I have seen interracial couples black man/ white woman and vice versa but never a black couple.
Going from movies and TV shows though they don't seem the type too.
So, you've based your opinion on what you've seen on tv?
Thats funny"
I know it's not necessarily true.
These shows and films are generally written by people from the same culture though so there might be some element of truth in it. |
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples. Cultural thing.
Don't they share?
I don't know for sure it's a just a guess really.
I have seen interracial couples black man/ white woman and vice versa but never a black couple.
Going from movies and TV shows though they don't seem the type too.
So, you've based your opinion on what you've seen on tv?
Thats funny I know it's not necessarily true.
These shows and films are generally written by people from the same culture though so there might be some element of truth in it."
It’s first priority is entertainment for the masses, try being a bit more critical in your analysis, who, what why when where is a good start. 5/10 for effort |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples. Cultural thing.
Don't they share?
I don't know for sure it's a just a guess really.
I have seen interracial couples black man/ white woman and vice versa but never a black couple.
Going from movies and TV shows though they don't seem the type too.
So, you've based your opinion on what you've seen on tv?
Thats funny I know it's not necessarily true.
These shows and films are generally written by people from the same culture though so there might be some element of truth in it.
It’s first priority is entertainment for the masses, try being a bit more critical in your analysis, who, what why when where is a good start. 5/10 for effort "
Just a theory. You got more insight then? |
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples. Cultural thing.
Don't they share?
I don't know for sure it's a just a guess really.
I have seen interracial couples black man/ white woman and vice versa but never a black couple.
Going from movies and TV shows though they don't seem the type too.
So, you've based your opinion on what you've seen on tv?
Thats funny I know it's not necessarily true.
These shows and films are generally written by people from the same culture though so there might be some element of truth in it.
It’s first priority is entertainment for the masses, try being a bit more critical in your analysis, who, what why when where is a good start. 5/10 for effort Just a theory. You got more insight then?"
Yes, see my first post on this thread, happy to debate it once you caught up  |
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples. Cultural thing.
Don't they share?
I don't know for sure it's a just a guess really.
I have seen interracial couples black man/ white woman and vice versa but never a black couple.
Going from movies and TV shows though they don't seem the type too.
So, you've based your opinion on what you've seen on tv?
Thats funny I know it's not necessarily true.
These shows and films are generally written by people from the same culture though so there might be some element of truth in it.
It’s first priority is entertainment for the masses, try being a bit more critical in your analysis, who, what why when where is a good start. 5/10 for effort Just a theory. You got more insight then?"
Just use fab membership as evidence surely? I've found a few, but most only wanted to swing with other black people. Of course I'm not suggesting they're not entitled to have a preference. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples. Cultural thing.
Don't they share?
I don't know for sure it's a just a guess really.
I have seen interracial couples black man/ white woman and vice versa but never a black couple.
Going from movies and TV shows though they don't seem the type too.
So, you've based your opinion on what you've seen on tv?
Thats funny I know it's not necessarily true.
These shows and films are generally written by people from the same culture though so there might be some element of truth in it.
It’s first priority is entertainment for the masses, try being a bit more critical in your analysis, who, what why when where is a good start. 5/10 for effort Just a theory. You got more insight then?
Yes, see my first post on this thread, happy to debate it once you caught up "
You have given no possible reason why. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples. Cultural thing.
Don't they share?
I don't know for sure it's a just a guess really.
I have seen interracial couples black man/ white woman and vice versa but never a black couple.
Going from movies and TV shows though they don't seem the type too.
So, you've based your opinion on what you've seen on tv?
Thats funny I know it's not necessarily true.
These shows and films are generally written by people from the same culture though so there might be some element of truth in it.
It’s first priority is entertainment for the masses, try being a bit more critical in your analysis, who, what why when where is a good start. 5/10 for effort Just a theory. You got more insight then?
Just use fab membership as evidence surely? I've found a few, but most only wanted to swing with other black people. Of course I'm not suggesting they're not entitled to have a preference. "
And what I've seen in clubs. |
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Because even in 2018 it still isn't accepted by the mainstream for women to own their sex lives and enjoy sex with no strings or commitment.
Women are still judged for their sexual appetites, only a certain kind of woman is allowed to be sexy or sexual by society and also to some extent by people on Fab (all those threads about ordinary women having the cheek to "punch above their weight" , have too many veries, the wrong kind of veries, the wrong kind of body etc etc) .
Men would probably still be patted on the back for being on here, women would be seen as sluts or worse.
Hence the disparity.
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"Because even in 2018 it still isn't accepted by the mainstream for women to own their sex lives and enjoy sex with no strings or commitment.
Women are still judged for their sexual appetites, only a certain kind of woman is allowed to be sexy or sexual by society and also to some extent by people on Fab (all those threads about ordinary women having the cheek to "punch above their weight" , have too many veries, the wrong kind of veries, the wrong kind of body etc etc) .
Men would probably still be patted on the back for being on here, women would be seen as sluts or worse.
Hence the disparity.
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Thats pretty much the size of it.
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"Because even in 2018 it still isn't accepted by the mainstream for women to own their sex lives and enjoy sex with no strings or commitment.
Women are still judged for their sexual appetites, only a certain kind of woman is allowed to be sexy or sexual by society and also to some extent by people on Fab (all those threads about ordinary women having the cheek to "punch above their weight" , have too many veries, the wrong kind of veries, the wrong kind of body etc etc) .
Men would probably still be patted on the back for being on here, women would be seen as sluts or worse.
Hence the disparity.
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples."
I came across a black only party profile on here with quite a few black couple attendees.
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"It’s first priority is entertainment for the masses, try being a bit more critical in your analysis, who, what why when where is a good start. 5/10 for effort Just a theory. You got more insight then?
Yes, see my first post on this thread, happy to debate it once you caught up You have given no possible reason why."
You’re right I wasn’t explicit, by nature is my “reason why”
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"It’s first priority is entertainment for the masses, try being a bit more critical in your analysis, who, what why when where is a good start. 5/10 for effort Just a theory. You got more insight then?
Yes, see my first post on this thread, happy to debate it once you caught up You have given no possible reason why.
You’re right I wasn’t explicit, by nature is my “reason why”
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"In normal life, there are more women than men BUT here on fab (where there are no gender requirements to join) men outnumber women massively.
What could possibly be the reason?
Signed ( bored black male on a quiet Saturday)
I often wonder where all the black couples are? Plenty of black guys, but very few couples.
I came across a black only party profile on here with quite a few black couple attendees.
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I think you've proved my point. |
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"It’s first priority is entertainment for the masses, try being a bit more critical in your analysis, who, what why when where is a good start. 5/10 for effort Just a theory. You got more insight then?
Yes, see my first post on this thread, happy to debate it once you caught up You have given no possible reason why.
You’re right I wasn’t explicit, by nature is my “reason why”
Would be good to hear your more insightful input though."
I would be happy to, but think you may need to read up the motive forces of evolution and the particular driving mechanisms suggested by a lad named Darwin.
Maybe then we can talk insightfully?
otherwise I fear I’ll be taken down a rabbit hole with your so called theories based on false axioms. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"It’s first priority is entertainment for the masses, try being a bit more critical in your analysis, who, what why when where is a good start. 5/10 for effort Just a theory. You got more insight then?
Yes, see my first post on this thread, happy to debate it once you caught up You have given no possible reason why.
You’re right I wasn’t explicit, by nature is my “reason why”
Would be good to hear your more insightful input though.
I would be happy to, but think you may need to read up the motive forces of evolution and the particular driving mechanisms suggested by a lad named Darwin.
Maybe then we can talk insightfully?
otherwise I fear I’ll be taken down a rabbit hole with your so called theories based on false axioms. "
You have a potential career in Politics. |
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"Men think differently to women.
I can see why a site like this could be off putting for women.
Would a man approach a strange women in the street and ask for them to go for a drive in the middle of the night.. guys need to use common sense and have a basic understanding of respect and personal safety
Then maybe the numbers will increase"
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New women profiles get bombarded with messages from men before they've even got any pics up. Many women probably just leave within a few days of joining. |
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