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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in."
He may have read it and then marked it as unread. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in."
Good luck with this experiment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in."
Ha see now you know how it feels, he probably has read it as short message it's just gone over edge of message dump oblivion |
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in."
So your uptight about a guy who you clearly didn't want to meet not replying to you,
Seems to me your problem is a dented ego and nothing more, surely a message of what not even 20 words wasn't going out your way or much of an effort really, I can see it was a nice thing in your part to be polite but is it really a Big deal, surely there are more important issues in your life than this. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in.
So your uptight about a guy who you clearly didn't want to meet not replying to you,
Seems to me your problem is a dented ego and nothing more, surely a message of what not even 20 words wasn't going out your way or much of an effort really, I can see it was a nice thing in your part to be polite but is it really a Big deal, surely there are more important issues in your life than this. "
I think you'll find the OP was being ironic and more than a little tongue in cheek  |
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in.
So your uptight about a guy who you clearly didn't want to meet not replying to you,
Seems to me your problem is a dented ego and nothing more, surely a message of what not even 20 words wasn't going out your way or much of an effort really, I can see it was a nice thing in your part to be polite but is it really a Big deal, surely there are more important issues in your life than this.
I think you'll find the OP was being ironic and more than a little tongue in cheek "
That's a little naive of yourself tbh
Why start a thread in it then |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in.
So your uptight about a guy who you clearly didn't want to meet not replying to you,
Seems to me your problem is a dented ego and nothing more, surely a message of what not even 20 words wasn't going out your way or much of an effort really, I can see it was a nice thing in your part to be polite but is it really a Big deal, surely there are more important issues in your life than this.
I think you'll find the OP was being ironic and more than a little tongue in cheek
That's a little naive of yourself tbh
Why start a thread in it then "
I must be naive too, as that's also how I read it. Many people start tongue in cheek threads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in."
Patience is key ....... |
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in.
So your uptight about a guy who you clearly didn't want to meet not replying to you,
Seems to me your problem is a dented ego and nothing more, surely a message of what not even 20 words wasn't going out your way or much of an effort really, I can see it was a nice thing in your part to be polite but is it really a Big deal, surely there are more important issues in your life than this.
I think you'll find the OP was being ironic and more than a little tongue in cheek
That's a little naive of yourself tbh
Why start a thread in it then
I must be naive too, as that's also how I read it. Many people start tongue in cheek threads. "
Maybe so then, you all do have your little clichés though so hard to give an honest opinion I'd say
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in.
So your uptight about a guy who you clearly didn't want to meet not replying to you,
Seems to me your problem is a dented ego and nothing more, surely a message of what not even 20 words wasn't going out your way or much of an effort really, I can see it was a nice thing in your part to be polite but is it really a Big deal, surely there are more important issues in your life than this.
I think you'll find the OP was being ironic and more than a little tongue in cheek
That's a little naive of yourself tbh
Why start a thread in it then
I must be naive too, as that's also how I read it. Many people start tongue in cheek threads. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in.
So your uptight about a guy who you clearly didn't want to meet not replying to you,
Seems to me your problem is a dented ego and nothing more, surely a message of what not even 20 words wasn't going out your way or much of an effort really, I can see it was a nice thing in your part to be polite but is it really a Big deal, surely there are more important issues in your life than this.
I think you'll find the OP was being ironic and more than a little tongue in cheek
That's a little naive of yourself tbh
Why start a thread in it then
I must be naive too, as that's also how I read it. Many people start tongue in cheek threads.
Maybe so then, you all do have your little clichés though so hard to give an honest opinion I'd say
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in.
So your uptight about a guy who you clearly didn't want to meet not replying to you,
Seems to me your problem is a dented ego and nothing more, surely a message of what not even 20 words wasn't going out your way or much of an effort really, I can see it was a nice thing in your part to be polite but is it really a Big deal, surely there are more important issues in your life than this.
I think you'll find the OP was being ironic and more than a little tongue in cheek "
You think??? |
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in."
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in."
C’est la vie.. |
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By *l6789Man
over a year ago
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Thanks for putting the effort in although he failed to notice the next one might.
And from the men here that do put effort in to their introduction and get the same in kind it’s part of the online scene.
Try not to get too disheartened |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Maybe before he had an opportunity to check his inbox he found an alternative meet and weeks later is still chained to a bed/bathroom radiator or locked in someones dungeon getting shagged hourly with an assortment of root vegetables?
So many possible explanations.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friday sense of humour failure anyone?
Hohoho!"
It’s so hard to know who’s joking and who’s actually asking for advice. And then there is the odd blunt message that can be taken the wrong way.
I love a laugh but I genuinely wanted to support the original message. I’m unsure if to giggle or slap myself. Lol. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in.
So your uptight about a guy who you clearly didn't want to meet not replying to you,
Seems to me your problem is a dented ego and nothing more, surely a message of what not even 20 words wasn't going out your way or much of an effort really, I can see it was a nice thing in your part to be polite but is it really a Big deal, surely there are more important issues in your life than this.
I think you'll find the OP was being ironic and more than a little tongue in cheek
That's a little naive of yourself tbh
Why start a thread in it then "
How's it naive? Naive suggests showing a lack of knowledge and experience which is far from the case here
As for why start a thread? Why start a thread on anything?
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Oh and OP maybe he's marked it unread as he's trying to decide whether your message warrants a polite "thanks for letting me know" or an abusive one telling you you are all the things opposite to the things he told you you were in your original message or maybe one begging you to give him a chance...you know you'll not regret it |
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in."
Awww bless your poor ego |
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in.
So your uptight about a guy who you clearly didn't want to meet not replying to you,
Seems to me your problem is a dented ego and nothing more, surely a message of what not even 20 words wasn't going out your way or much of an effort really, I can see it was a nice thing in your part to be polite but is it really a Big deal, surely there are more important issues in your life than this.
I think you'll find the OP was being ironic and more than a little tongue in cheek
That's a little naive of yourself tbh
Why start a thread in it then
How's it naive? Naive suggests showing a lack of knowledge and experience which is far from the case here
As for why start a thread? Why start a thread on anything?
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Lol wake up and smell the coffee man and grow a pair, stop trying to defend her lol, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in."
Lol, your put out because he hasn't read or responded to your knock back note?
I send polite rejections all the time, no effort there 'thanks for the message but don't think for me sorry have fun'. The communication should end there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He does right. When my inbox is yellow it boosts my confidence and makes me feel wanted. Even if it's a "not if you were the last woman on earth!!" message.
Yellow makes me feel good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It was meant touché in cheek, but more so that people are starting a lot of threads complaining nobody ever replies to them, even to just say no thanks.
So I did and it wasn’t read. |
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"It was meant touché in cheek, but more so that people are starting a lot of threads complaining nobody ever replies to them, even to just say no thanks.
So I did and it wasn’t read. "
Obviously humour & irony goes right over some people's heads around here |
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"It was meant touché in cheek, but more so that people are starting a lot of threads complaining nobody ever replies to them, even to just say no thanks.
So I did and it wasn’t read.
Obviously humour & irony goes right over some people's heads around here "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Crikey.
I should have made some popcorn before seeing what was going off in this thread!
I can't be the only bloke who thought the OP was being funny, surely?? |
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in."
He is just waiting for his inbox to get overloaded so he can inadvertently do a bulk delete.... and then apologies to everyone and ask them to write to him again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He does right. When my inbox is yellow it boosts my confidence and makes me feel wanted. Even if it's a "not if you were the last woman on earth!!" message.
Yellow makes me feel good. "
You’re pretty cool..... you don’t take yourself seriously.... you have a great sense of humor...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s probably got lost in the thousand of other messages most of us guys get. As soon as I mass delete the messages my inbox is full again!
I’m going to have to employ a secretary to deal with my admin soon |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in."
Yeah if I could tell it was a rejection message it would get unread and deleted.
Completely redundant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone (female half here)
So I thought I’d be nice and sent a guy a polite reply as to why I didn’t want to meet him. I also apologised to him.
That message is sat in his inbox, unread three weeks later.
I’m wounded how he hasn’t read it after I put so much effort in."
I'm hoping I can see the deliberate irony and sarcasm in this. Looking forward to all the uptight replies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He does right. When my inbox is yellow it boosts my confidence and makes me feel wanted. Even if it's a "not if you were the last woman on earth!!" message.
Yellow makes me feel good.
You’re pretty cool..... you don’t take yourself seriously.... you have a great sense of humor...
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Thank you. |
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