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Random question your be reading profiles thinking they sound interesting rather nice on the eye then you get to the bottom it states must be 8” plus and must send face picture with messages when there own profile doesnt show a picture ? Also size is not everything especially if you cant use it all which surely is a waste ?? And its not all about size as girth is also good and if your good with your tongue too sirely thats a bonus |
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"Random question your be reading profiles thinking they sound interesting rather nice on the eye then you get to the bottom it states must be 8” plus and must send face picture with messages when there own profile doesnt show a picture ? Also size is not everything especially if you cant use it all which surely is a waste ?? And its not all about size as girth is also good and if your good with your tongue too sirely thats a bonus "
I'm guessing you have things on your bucket list that you want to try? Or find some things a turn on/off?
Unless you are one of the many that will fuck anything....
So, some people want what they want. If it happens to be 8+ inches, it's just what they are looking for. |
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"Random question your be reading profiles thinking they sound interesting rather nice on the eye then you get to the bottom it states must be 8” plus and must send face picture with messages when there own profile doesnt show a picture ? Also size is not everything especially if you cant use it all which surely is a waste ?? And its not all about size as girth is also good and if your good with your tongue too sirely thats a bonus "
coz if they say 8" they may get 5"or 6"fisherman's tales and all that
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It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre. |
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"Random question your be reading profiles thinking they sound interesting rather nice on the eye then you get to the bottom it states must be 8” plus and must send face picture with messages when there own profile doesnt show a picture ? Also size is not everything especially if you cant use it all which surely is a waste ?? And its not all about size as girth is also good and if your good with your tongue too sirely thats a bonus "
Not me, couldn't agree more  .. x |
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre."
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others. |
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"Random question your be reading profiles thinking they sound interesting rather nice on the eye then you get to the bottom it states must be 8” plus and must send face picture with messages when there own profile doesnt show a picture ? Also size is not everything especially if you cant use it all which surely is a waste ?? And its not all about size as girth is also good and if your good with your tongue too sirely thats a bonus
Not me, couldn't agree more .. x"
Hello beautiful we don't see you here much |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others. "
Yep. This. 
There's been many a person we've got on great with platonically, met socially and enjoyed banter with that we'd never think of playing with.
Doesn't mean we don't have preferences when getting jiggy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People have all sorts of wish lists, I wish I had an Audi but I'm happy with a kia. What people say they want is not always what they are happy with. Anyway where do you start to measure 8 inches from its all subjective isn't it  male |
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over a year ago
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For them, size is everything. No matter how much you try to convince them that your less than 8 inches will achieve the same feeling as an 8 inch, it won't.
Accept it and go find women who aren't looking for 8 inches plus- there's a lot of us on here. |
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"Maybe because they want 8" plus?
Do you not have any preferences stated on your profile or would you meet anyone?
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We all have preferences for sure and no i wouldnt just fuck anyone there needs to be an attraction too doesnt mean i want a relationship we all wanna have fun and yeah bucket list things to experience and try of course we all want 3sums , kink etc |
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others. "
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't. |
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"People have all sorts of wish lists, I wish I had an Audi but I'm happy with a kia. What people say they want is not always what they are happy with. Anyway where do you start to measure 8 inches from its all subjective isn't it male "
Totally agree its not like us guys have a tape measure on us all the time and go to the toilets and compare guys also get paranoid about size and way we look its about having the most of what we have and how we look |
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't."
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe because they want 8" plus?
Do you not have any preferences stated on your profile or would you meet anyone?
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We all have preferences for sure and no i wouldnt just fuck anyone there needs to be an attraction too doesnt mean i want a relationship we all wanna have fun and yeah bucket list things to experience and try of course we all want 3sums , kink etc "
So you've answered your own question then?
We can't be everyone's cup of tea. I'm no use to someone looking for a black, 20something, gym fit, long haired guy with a small dick.
I don't lose any sleep over it as I can't change what physical characteristics I have to meet the wants of others.
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line. "
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I think it's just a case of people wanting what they want.
This place is a strange old mix of people; some are here to meet others, some here to chat, some are here to fulfil fantasies or to experience things that they haven't before. This is just a case of someone wanting a specific thing.
Personally I just move on to people who's wants or desires I do match and go from there. |
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental. "
Maybe. But consent overrides any of that. If I decided tomorrow to only date someone with a certain bicep size, no one gets to force me to do otherwise, even if it's ridiculous, and even if it upsets people around me. My life, my choice, end of discussion. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Random question your be reading profiles thinking they sound interesting rather nice on the eye then you get to the bottom it states must be 8” plus and must send face picture with messages when there own profile doesnt show a picture ? Also size is not everything especially if you cant use it all which surely is a waste ?? And its not all about size as girth is also good and if your good with your tongue too sirely thats a bonus "
Because they have massive vaginas. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental. "
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out? |
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
Maybe. But consent overrides any of that. If I decided tomorrow to only date someone with a certain bicep size, no one gets to force me to do otherwise, even if it's ridiculous, and even if it upsets people around me. My life, my choice, end of discussion. "
Uhh okay? It's your choice yes. |
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out? "
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say."
It is usually the guys in couples interested in big dicks because they view their woman as a pornstar.
Not many single women are that bothered. |
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
Maybe. But consent overrides any of that. If I decided tomorrow to only date someone with a certain bicep size, no one gets to force me to do otherwise, even if it's ridiculous, and even if it upsets people around me. My life, my choice, end of discussion.
Uhh okay? It's your choice yes."
I'm not sure what your point is, then. People make choices. They may not suit you, you may not like it. Things may need to change, but it's not going to happen on Fab.
Meanwhile, people (particularly minorities and women) still have to fight hard to have their consent honoured or even a chance to give it. That's a very real fight for a lot of us every day, especially on Fab. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
It is usually the guys in couples interested in big dicks because they view their woman as a pornstar.
Not many single women are that bothered. "
Not necessarily true at all.
Fox was single when I met her. She had preferences and that included size. I've never dictated to her any standards that have to be met. I've also met plenty of single women who have size related preferences - be it large or small.
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"Maybe because they want 8" plus?
Do you not have any preferences stated on your profile or would you meet anyone?
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We all have preferences for sure and no i wouldnt just fuck anyone there needs to be an attraction too doesnt mean i want a relationship we all wanna have fun and yeah bucket list things to experience and try of course we all want 3sums , kink etc "
And they are here for their bucket list and not to provide charity sex to men they aren't looking for. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
It is usually the guys in couples interested in big dicks because they view their woman as a pornstar.
Not many single women are that bothered.
Not necessarily true at all.
Fox was single when I met her. She had preferences and that included size. I've never dictated to her any standards that have to be met. I've also met plenty of single women who have size related preferences - be it large or small.
A"
Yeah, they get carried away because of their power on here.
I don't ask for vaginal measurements. |
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"Maybe because they want 8" plus?
Do you not have any preferences stated on your profile or would you meet anyone?
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We all have preferences for sure and no i wouldnt just fuck anyone there needs to be an attraction too doesnt mean i want a relationship we all wanna have fun and yeah bucket list things to experience and try of course we all want 3sums , kink etc
And they are here for their bucket list and not to provide charity sex to men they aren't looking for. "
Side rant. So many guys think I'm going to fuck them because they deserve it or because they like me. Hi, I have choices here too? |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say."
I don't agree with you in any way shape or form on this.
No one is missing out, it's just people expressing a choice as to their sexual preferences. If you walk into a bar with the intent of meeting people is everyone 'fair game'? Of course not, you might be too short or too tall for some people, someone might find your nose the wrong shape to be attractive.
You might consider it to be arbitrary but it is their choice and however you may see it, that's their prerogative.
I do think that this attitude your displaying smacks a little of entitlement and a lack of respect. Everyone is entitled to make their choices, if that rules you out then so be it, I'm fairly certain that no one will care. No one owes you anything! |
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
I don't agree with you in any way shape or form on this.
No one is missing out, it's just people expressing a choice as to their sexual preferences. If you walk into a bar with the intent of meeting people is everyone 'fair game'? Of course not, you might be too short or too tall for some people, someone might find your nose the wrong shape to be attractive.
You might consider it to be arbitrary but it is their choice and however you may see it, that's their prerogative.
I do think that this attitude your displaying smacks a little of entitlement and a lack of respect. Everyone is entitled to make their choices, if that rules you out then so be it, I'm fairly certain that no one will care. No one owes you anything! "
VERY well stated! |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
I don't agree with you in any way shape or form on this.
No one is missing out, it's just people expressing a choice as to their sexual preferences. If you walk into a bar with the intent of meeting people is everyone 'fair game'? Of course not, you might be too short or too tall for some people, someone might find your nose the wrong shape to be attractive.
You might consider it to be arbitrary but it is their choice and however you may see it, that's their prerogative.
I do think that this attitude your displaying smacks a little of entitlement and a lack of respect. Everyone is entitled to make their choices, if that rules you out then so be it, I'm fairly certain that no one will care. No one owes you anything! "
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People are allowed to put up their requirements.
It’s simple , if you don’t match their requirements then your paths won’t cross.
Plenty members of fab will have requirements that you will fit into.
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It is what it is..
I personally have no interest in finding out the size of their cock before I meet.. but I have many other things that I'm looking for instead. We are all here to find people we are attracted to on some level and it's nobody else's place to decide that this criteria isn't acceptable.
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
I don't agree with you in any way shape or form on this.
No one is missing out, it's just people expressing a choice as to their sexual preferences. If you walk into a bar with the intent of meeting people is everyone 'fair game'? Of course not, you might be too short or too tall for some people, someone might find your nose the wrong shape to be attractive.
You might consider it to be arbitrary but it is their choice and however you may see it, that's their prerogative.
I do think that this attitude your displaying smacks a little of entitlement and a lack of respect. Everyone is entitled to make their choices, if that rules you out then so be it, I'm fairly certain that no one will care. No one owes you anything! "
May I add that I don't feel I'm missing out when someone says they don't have sex with fat women.
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
It is usually the guys in couples interested in big dicks because they view their woman as a pornstar.
Not many single women are that bothered. "
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
It is usually the guys in couples interested in big dicks because they view their woman as a pornstar.
Not many single women are that bothered. thats twice in 1week we have agreed i think my head may expode "
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"Random question your be reading profiles thinking they sound interesting rather nice on the eye then you get to the bottom it states must be 8” plus and must send face picture with messages when there own profile doesnt show a picture ? Also size is not everything especially if you cant use it all which surely is a waste ?? And its not all about size as girth is also good and if your good with your tongue too sirely thats a bonus coz if they say 8" they may get 5"or 6"fisherman's tales and all that "
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"Size I get.. but its a bit silly when someone asks for a photo when they arent showing one.
Somewhat hypocritical, I think."
Those are profiles to ignore!
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over a year ago
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I’m looking for women with huge baggy vaginas, that’s my choice. All these women messaging asking me to make a exception for there tidy, tight ones. Well, jog on ladies, it’s big and baggy all the way for me. |
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
I don't agree with you in any way shape or form on this.
No one is missing out, it's just people expressing a choice as to their sexual preferences. If you walk into a bar with the intent of meeting people is everyone 'fair game'? Of course not, you might be too short or too tall for some people, someone might find your nose the wrong shape to be attractive.
You might consider it to be arbitrary but it is their choice and however you may see it, that's their prerogative.
I do think that this attitude your displaying smacks a little of entitlement and a lack of respect. Everyone is entitled to make their choices, if that rules you out then so be it, I'm fairly certain that no one will care. No one owes you anything! "
Who said anything about owing anything to anyone?
This is the standard defensive response to the arguments I've put forward here. It's people's choices yes i'm aware of this. Just a very very common choice based on how we're influenced in society.
I personally don't care if you disagree with me or not.
If you don't think there are perfectly nice men and women out there who are missing out on fulfilling relationship or sexual intimacy because they don't look normal then you're just being ignorant and trying to protect the status quo. Not arsed really but try and think about it.
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
I don't agree with you in any way shape or form on this.
No one is missing out, it's just people expressing a choice as to their sexual preferences. If you walk into a bar with the intent of meeting people is everyone 'fair game'? Of course not, you might be too short or too tall for some people, someone might find your nose the wrong shape to be attractive.
You might consider it to be arbitrary but it is their choice and however you may see it, that's their prerogative.
I do think that this attitude your displaying smacks a little of entitlement and a lack of respect. Everyone is entitled to make their choices, if that rules you out then so be it, I'm fairly certain that no one will care. No one owes you anything!
Who said anything about owing anything to anyone?
This is the standard defensive response to the arguments I've put forward here. It's people's choices yes i'm aware of this. Just a very very common choice based on how we're influenced in society.
I personally don't care if you disagree with me or not.
If you don't think there are perfectly nice men and women out there who are missing out on fulfilling relationship or sexual intimacy because they don't look normal then you're just being ignorant and trying to protect the status quo. Not arsed really but try and think about it.
I'm out."
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
I don't agree with you in any way shape or form on this.
No one is missing out, it's just people expressing a choice as to their sexual preferences. If you walk into a bar with the intent of meeting people is everyone 'fair game'? Of course not, you might be too short or too tall for some people, someone might find your nose the wrong shape to be attractive.
You might consider it to be arbitrary but it is their choice and however you may see it, that's their prerogative.
I do think that this attitude your displaying smacks a little of entitlement and a lack of respect. Everyone is entitled to make their choices, if that rules you out then so be it, I'm fairly certain that no one will care. No one owes you anything!
Who said anything about owing anything to anyone?
This is the standard defensive response to the arguments I've put forward here. It's people's choices yes i'm aware of this. Just a very very common choice based on how we're influenced in society.
I personally don't care if you disagree with me or not.
If you don't think there are perfectly nice men and women out there who are missing out on fulfilling relationship or sexual intimacy because they don't look normal then you're just being ignorant and trying to protect the status quo. Not arsed really but try and think about it.
I'm out.
You're missing my point and the whole point of choice and preference though. No one is missing out, if they only looked past the thing that they want they'd find something rewarding? Do you realise how ridiculous that sounds? "
But they are, because we live in a very superficial society. We're on fuck fab for God's sake, we all know better than anyone that's how it is.
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"Random question your be reading profiles thinking they sound interesting rather nice on the eye then you get to the bottom it states must be 8” plus and must send face picture with messages when there own profile doesnt show a picture ? Also size is not everything especially if you cant use it all which surely is a waste ?? And its not all about size as girth is also good and if your good with your tongue too sirely thats a bonus coz if they say 8" they may get 5"or 6"fisherman's tales and all that
Which one of those is yours? "
Lol should of guessed that was coming and im different because of jiw i was born and surgery so ive lost some because of that however it doesnt change the fact that i can still please a lady but will say yes it gets me paranoid and self conscious like that especially when you see some of the guys on here |
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"All women want 8 and over do they??? First I knew about it.
Mate not everyone likes big ones get your facts straight first"
Never said all it was just a statement from reading profiles where a few state must be 8”plus and must have pics attached its a general question fot debate on here |
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I personally have no interest in finding out the size of their cock before I meet.. but I have many other things that I'm looking for instead. We are all here to find people we are attracted to on some level and it's nobody else's place to decide that this criteria isn't acceptable.
You're simply not a match.. as I am not a match to many. That's life. "
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
I don't agree with you in any way shape or form on this.
No one is missing out, it's just people expressing a choice as to their sexual preferences. If you walk into a bar with the intent of meeting people is everyone 'fair game'? Of course not, you might be too short or too tall for some people, someone might find your nose the wrong shape to be attractive.
You might consider it to be arbitrary but it is their choice and however you may see it, that's their prerogative.
I do think that this attitude your displaying smacks a little of entitlement and a lack of respect. Everyone is entitled to make their choices, if that rules you out then so be it, I'm fairly certain that no one will care. No one owes you anything!
Who said anything about owing anything to anyone?
This is the standard defensive response to the arguments I've put forward here. It's people's choices yes i'm aware of this. Just a very very common choice based on how we're influenced in society.
I personally don't care if you disagree with me or not.
If you don't think there are perfectly nice men and women out there who are missing out on fulfilling relationship or sexual intimacy because they don't look normal then you're just being ignorant and trying to protect the status quo. Not arsed really but try and think about it.
I'm out.
You're missing my point and the whole point of choice and preference though. No one is missing out, if they only looked past the thing that they want they'd find something rewarding? Do you realise how ridiculous that sounds?
But they are, because we live in a very superficial society. We're on fuck fab for God's sake, we all know better than anyone that's how it is.
Whether it's good or bad who knows. Just sayin' that's how it is. Disagree all you want."
Define 'normal'?
Are you saying that no person that falls outside your parameters of 'normal' has ever had a relationship or sexual experience? Because i'd be happy to argue otherwise. I know plenty of people, disabled, with physical scars/defects, looks outside what is commonly perceived as 'attractive' and of all manners of shape and size that have proved otherwise.
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"It is what it is..
I personally have no interest in finding out the size of their cock before I meet.. but I have many other things that I'm looking for instead. We are all here to find people we are attracted to on some level and it's nobody else's place to decide that this criteria isn't acceptable.
You're simply not a match.. as I am not a match to many. That's life.
And thats a fair comment and agree there should be an attraction also "
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Fab can be a 'build a partner workshop'. That's just how it is, people have size preferences & that's ok. Its no different from wanting someone a certain height or body type.
The photo thing is hypocritical and you can decide for yourself if the profile is intriguing enough for you to send a blind faith photo, or if you want to meet someone who has a list of demands.
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
I don't agree with you in any way shape or form on this.
No one is missing out, it's just people expressing a choice as to their sexual preferences. If you walk into a bar with the intent of meeting people is everyone 'fair game'? Of course not, you might be too short or too tall for some people, someone might find your nose the wrong shape to be attractive.
You might consider it to be arbitrary but it is their choice and however you may see it, that's their prerogative.
I do think that this attitude your displaying smacks a little of entitlement and a lack of respect. Everyone is entitled to make their choices, if that rules you out then so be it, I'm fairly certain that no one will care. No one owes you anything!
Who said anything about owing anything to anyone?
This is the standard defensive response to the arguments I've put forward here. It's people's choices yes i'm aware of this. Just a very very common choice based on how we're influenced in society.
I personally don't care if you disagree with me or not.
If you don't think there are perfectly nice men and women out there who are missing out on fulfilling relationship or sexual intimacy because they don't look normal then you're just being ignorant and trying to protect the status quo. Not arsed really but try and think about it.
I'm out.
You're missing my point and the whole point of choice and preference though. No one is missing out, if they only looked past the thing that they want they'd find something rewarding? Do you realise how ridiculous that sounds?
But they are, because we live in a very superficial society. We're on fuck fab for God's sake, we all know better than anyone that's how it is.
Whether it's good or bad who knows. Just sayin' that's how it is. Disagree all you want."
I do and will disagree.
What you're saying reads like sour grapes dressed up as some awful social inclusion rhetoric.
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
It is usually the guys in couples interested in big dicks because they view their woman as a pornstar.
Not many single women are that bothered. thats twice in 1week we have agreed i think my head may expode Only because you didn't understand when I was right. "
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over a year ago
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
It is usually the guys in couples interested in big dicks because they view their woman as a pornstar.
Not many single women are that bothered. thats twice in 1week we have agreed i think my head may expode Only because you didn't understand when I was right. huh "
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
I don't really see what your point here is?
Is it that you don't meet these standards and feel like you're missing out?
Many people miss out due to these arbitrary standards yes. My original point was that its quite sad that we judge people negatively for being open minded when it comes to meeting or choosing people in a sexual context. Depressing, you could say.
It is usually the guys in couples interested in big dicks because they view their woman as a pornstar.
Not many single women are that bothered. thats twice in 1week we have agreed i think my head may expode Only because you didn't understand when I was right. huh Exhibit A "
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"Random question your be reading profiles thinking they sound interesting rather nice on the eye then you get to the bottom it states must be 8” plus and must send face picture with messages when there own profile doesnt show a picture ? Also size is not everything especially if you cant use it all which surely is a waste ?? And its not all about size as girth is also good and if your good with your tongue too sirely thats a bonus "
If I read a profile that stated they were wanting an tall athletic woman I'd just move on, as they are obviously not for me.
Not sure why it upsets you to know your not compatible with some women. This is life. |
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"Random question your be reading profiles thinking they sound interesting rather nice on the eye then you get to the bottom it states must be 8” plus and must send face picture with messages when there own profile doesnt show a picture ? Also size is not everything especially if you cant use it all which surely is a waste ?? And its not all about size as girth is also good and if your good with your tongue too sirely thats a bonus
If I read a profile that stated they were wanting an tall athletic woman I'd just move on, as they are obviously not for me.
Not sure why it upsets you to know your not compatible with some women. This is life."
To be honest i do and wouldnt say it upsets me it was a question for debate and your right its life and its personal preference at the end of the day |
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
Maybe. But consent overrides any of that. If I decided tomorrow to only date someone with a certain bicep size, no one gets to force me to do otherwise, even if it's ridiculous, and even if it upsets people around me. My life, my choice, end of discussion. "
Of course but that wouldn't prevent you from being a not so nice human human in that regard.
You are essential saying, i have power, why can't i use it how i like?
This is distinctly contradictory to most other things you say particularly when talking about people with power |
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Is that really an expectation?
I dont think it's unreasonable to expect a face pic if there is a possibility of a meet. Earlier the better, it saves pointless messging |
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"If you're not 8" plus then go no further on that particular quest. It is what it is 
Dammit 2mm out. I blame the weather."
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"It does sadden me that being open to anyone and not having a type is seen as a negative. In a platonic context that is seen as a very positive thing but in a sexual context its seen as a very negative thing. Bizarre.
I'm not sure it's a negative thing (although having genuinely no standards is bad in any context).
But drawing the line where you want should be acceptable particularly sexually, and people need to respect the wishes of others.
It is to almost everyone on here in my experience. Standards are subjective for a start.
But in the same way people should respect "high standards" people should also not disparage people who are open minded no?. In my opinion they shouldn't.
I'm open minded. But everyone needs some standards. Mine include (not limited to) hygiene, respect, and rapport. I think someone who is OK meeting someone who hasn't bathed since October and wants to beat them up has issues. That's what I mean by standards here. Everyone needs some, it's just where to draw the line.
Right but I think there are very arbitrary standards that are dictated by society that exclude a lot of people and condemn to a much shittier life because they don't meet this stupid expectation. Height, fashion, body type etc etc.
But yes hygeine and respect are fundamental.
Maybe. But consent overrides any of that. If I decided tomorrow to only date someone with a certain bicep size, no one gets to force me to do otherwise, even if it's ridiculous, and even if it upsets people around me. My life, my choice, end of discussion.
Of course but that wouldn't prevent you from being a not so nice human human in that regard.
You are essential saying, i have power, why can't i use it how i like?
This is distinctly contradictory to most other things you say particularly when talking about people with power "
I have choice. I use it.
Other people have choice. They use it.
You can be nice without being a doormat and sacrificing your principles, autonomy, or consent.
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"If you're not 8" plus then go no further on that particular quest. It is what it is
Dammit 2mm out. I blame the weather.
I'll bring the ruler with the faded numbers "
Bring the one from the pound shop, that all the blokes on Fab use, it converts 5 inches to 9. |
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"If you're not 8" plus then go no further on that particular quest. It is what it is
Dammit 2mm out. I blame the weather.
I'll bring the ruler with the faded numbers
Bring the one from the pound shop, that all the blokes on Fab use, it converts 5 inches to 9."
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"If you're not 8" plus then go no further on that particular quest. It is what it is
Dammit 2mm out. I blame the weather.
I'll bring the ruler with the faded numbers
Bring the one from the pound shop, that all the blokes on Fab use, it converts 5 inches to 9. Sold out "
I’ll ask 9InchCockNot5Honest if I can borrow his. |
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"Is that really an expectation?
I dont think it's unreasonable to expect a face pic if there is a possibility of a meet. Earlier the better, it saves pointless messging "
Yeah its good to see who your talking to but if ur gonna ask for a picture off someone you should be able to send one of yourself too ?? |
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"If you're not 8" plus then go no further on that particular quest. It is what it is
Dammit 2mm out. I blame the weather.
I'll bring the ruler with the faded numbers
Bring the one from the pound shop, that all the blokes on Fab use, it converts 5 inches to 9. Sold out
I’ll ask 9InchCockNot5Honest if I can borrow his."
Just slap it in my hand. I'll figure it out somehow. |
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"If you're not 8" plus then go no further on that particular quest. It is what it is
Dammit 2mm out. I blame the weather.
I'll bring the ruler with the faded numbers
Bring the one from the pound shop, that all the blokes on Fab use, it converts 5 inches to 9. Sold out
I’ll ask 9InchCockNot5Honest if I can borrow his.
Just slap it in my hand. I'll figure it out somehow. "
I’m like that with boobs, I can only work on one at a time though, I wink at the other one and say I’ll get to you in a minute. |
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"Is that really an expectation?
I dont think it's unreasonable to expect a face pic if there is a possibility of a meet. Earlier the better, it saves pointless messging
Yeah its good to see who your talking to but if ur gonna ask for a picture off someone you should be able to send one of yourself too ??"
I do, it's not a one way transaction. No point meeting up and they don't like me |
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