Just had anothet gip-worthy ‘I know you well but I’m not telling you who I am’ message
Things I appreciate :-
1) I have my face on here
2) they have a right to anonymity.
This said:- my grandma taught me ‘if you’ve nothing nice to say do not say it at all’
I have nothing to hide as my partner and I are In a legitimate open relationship.
The question is: if you saw someone you knew personally, would you mail (& in essence taunt them as who knows the mindset of a newbie) or leave them be?
I don’t get it myself?!!
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By *exicolaMan
over a year ago
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"If I see someone I know, which is rare, I just block them with no contact. Their secret is safe with me, but they don't need to know that I know it. "
What I was about to write. I know two or three on here. I just either keep a distance or block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Discretion is paramount.
It doesen't matter how public your profile is, hiding behind a shadow saying "You don't know me, but I know you" is sad and likely to indicate someone who barebacks and / or routinely stealths.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The question is: if you saw someone you knew personally, would you mail (& in essence taunt them as who knows the mindset of a newbie) or leave them be
If I did recognise someone I would keep the secret. We are all here for fun and not grief |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I see someone I know, which is rare, I just block them with no contact. Their secret is safe with me, but they don't need to know that I know it. "
this, i block and even if they do see and know its me (face pic on profile) thats fine. i dont have cock pics on display so all they can see is my body and face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have seen a few people and a couple i know very well as in been friends for over 20 years..just blocked them simple as that. Doesnt bother me if they know im on here though. |
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"If I see someone I know, which is rare, I just block them with no contact. Their secret is safe with me, but they don't need to know that I know it. "
This
It seems to be more of a guy thing to do the whole creepy 'I know who you are' bit, in my experience. They also, bizarrely, seem to think it's cute and disarming |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I see someone I know, which is rare, I just block them with no contact. Their secret is safe with me, but they don't need to know that I know it. "
Yes. 100%.
I have found one or two I know on here, block and move on. None of my business. I can't get my head around goading someone or upsetting them, is it a power thing perhaps? |
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