"Due to having cancer in the past I am unable to give blood.
I would f I was allowed to
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I used to as I have a rare blood type.
Then they stopped going to my local centre and the only one I can get during the hours they are open is about 15 miles away. Work have been really good about letting me have time off because of an op I had over summer so I just can’t do it anymore.
Wish they made it more convenient as I would go all the time. |
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over a year ago
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"I just dont want to
Now you could do it for us who can’t xbut i still wont"
The day may come when you’re depending on a blood donation, the system depends on healthy people donating. It’s quick and painless |
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over a year ago
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I choose not too. Likewise I would also choose not to receive and it would be divorce grounds if my husband ever went against my wishes on my behalf as I couldn't refuse. Just the thought makes me feel ill. |
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over a year ago
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"I choose not too. Likewise I would also choose not to receive and it would be divorce grounds if my husband ever went against my wishes on my behalf as I couldn't refuse. Just the thought makes me feel ill. "
Are you a Jehovah witness? |
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I used to give blood but they could never get the full pint out of me. My veins are deep and move around too much. I was retired as a donor after about 12 attempts.
I would definitely still donate if I could. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just dont want to
Now you could do it for us who can’t x
but i still wont
Any particular reason why you don't want to Blake, or just don't? " i dont like the thought of people taking my blood it creeps me out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just dont want to
Now you could do it for us who can’t x
but i still wont
Any particular reason why you don't want to Blake, or just don't?
i dont like the thought of people taking my blood it creeps me out"
That's fair enough, I was just curious that's all
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over a year ago
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"I just dont want to
Now you could do it for us who can’t x
but i still wont
Any particular reason why you don't want to Blake, or just don't?
i dont like the thought of people taking my blood it creeps me out
That's fair enough, I was just curious that's all
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over a year ago
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"I choose not too. Likewise I would also choose not to receive and it would be divorce grounds if my husband ever went against my wishes on my behalf as I couldn't refuse. Just the thought makes me feel ill.
Are you a Jehovah witness? "
No, though my husband's Nan has tried converting me many a time - the idea of eternal farming on my acre of land is not for me I'm afraid. I have a phobia of other peoples blood, my own doesnt bother me, but anyone else's and I come over faint, hot, bothered, nauseous - even my own children with a simple cut lip and I cannot cope. The thought of someone else's blood in my body makes me crawl.
I similarly wouldn't take an organ donation, if my body is massively failing I just consider it will be my time. I can see for others its a wonderful thing and can fully understand those who give and receive its just not for me. |
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"I choose not too. Likewise I would also choose not to receive and it would be divorce grounds if my husband ever went against my wishes on my behalf as I couldn't refuse. Just the thought makes me feel ill.
Are you a Jehovah witness?
No, though my husband's Nan has tried converting me many a time - the idea of eternal farming on my acre of land is not for me I'm afraid. I have a phobia of other peoples blood, my own doesnt bother me, but anyone else's and I come over faint, hot, bothered, nauseous - even my own children with a simple cut lip and I cannot cope. The thought of someone else's blood in my body makes me crawl.
I similarly wouldn't take an organ donation, if my body is massively failing I just consider it will be my time. I can see for others its a wonderful thing and can fully understand those who give and receive its just not for me. "
That's fair enough, I won't ever knock anyone for their personal opinions on subjects like this ... You have to do what you believe in 100% |
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over a year ago
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"I just dont want to
Now you could do it for us who can’t x
but i still wont
Any particular reason why you don't want to Blake, or just don't?
i dont like the thought of people taking my blood it creeps me out
That's fair enough, I was just curious that's all
becareful u dont start meawing "
Took me a minute but I get it now ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I just dont want to
Now you could do it for us who can’t x
but i still wont
Any particular reason why you don't want to Blake, or just don't?
i dont like the thought of people taking my blood it creeps me out
That's fair enough, I was just curious that's all
becareful u dont start meawing
Took me a minute but I get it now " ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"If you're willing to let a little kid die just because you can't be arsed to give something you have a limitless supply of, it weirds md out. "
Nice try, but I am not allowing children to die because of my decision not to donate. I actually fall considerably under the minimum weight required for donors so wouldn't be eligible to even if I wanted too. I would actually be considered overweight which would damaging to my own health if I gained the weight necessary to donate. |
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"If you're willing to let a little kid die just because you can't be arsed to give something you have a limitless supply of, it weirds md out.
Nice try, but I am not allowing children to die because of my decision not to donate. I actually fall considerably under the minimum weight required for donors so wouldn't be eligible to even if I wanted too. I would actually be considered overweight which would damaging to my own health if I gained the weight necessary to donate. "
Not arsed about people can't give blood. |
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"If you're willing to let a little kid die just because you can't be arsed to give something you have a limitless supply of, it weirds md out.
Nice try, but I am not allowing children to die because of my decision not to donate. I actually fall considerably under the minimum weight required for donors so wouldn't be eligible to even if I wanted too. I would actually be considered overweight which would damaging to my own health if I gained the weight necessary to donate. "
It was wrong for that guy to play the guilt card. Everyone’s preference around donation is perfectly valid and i respect you for choosing not to. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"I choose not too. Likewise I would also choose not to receive and it would be divorce grounds if my husband ever went against my wishes on my behalf as I couldn't refuse. Just the thought makes me feel ill.
Are you a Jehovah witness?
No, though my husband's Nan has tried converting me many a time - the idea of eternal farming on my acre of land is not for me I'm afraid. I have a phobia of other peoples blood, my own doesnt bother me, but anyone else's and I come over faint, hot, bothered, nauseous - even my own children with a simple cut lip and I cannot cope. The thought of someone else's blood in my body makes me crawl.
I similarly wouldn't take an organ donation, if my body is massively failing I just consider it will be my time. I can see for others its a wonderful thing and can fully understand those who give and receive its just not for me.
That's fair enough, I won't ever knock anyone for their personal opinions on subjects like this ... You have to do what you believe in 100% "
On a side note once I'm gone I am happy for my organs and anything else to be donated to someone in need. I have no issue with that at all. |
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"If you're willing to let a little kid die just because you can't be arsed to give something you have a limitless supply of, it weirds md out.
Nice try, but I am not allowing children to die because of my decision not to donate. I actually fall considerably under the minimum weight required for donors so wouldn't be eligible to even if I wanted too. I would actually be considered overweight which would damaging to my own health if I gained the weight necessary to donate.
Not arsed about people can't give blood. "
Please respect other people’s wishes. If it weirds you out then fine - many other will donate ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"If you're willing to let a little kid die just because you can't be arsed to give something you have a limitless supply of, it weirds md out.
Nice try, but I am not allowing children to die because of my decision not to donate. I actually fall considerably under the minimum weight required for donors so wouldn't be eligible to even if I wanted too. I would actually be considered overweight which would damaging to my own health if I gained the weight necessary to donate.
Not arsed about people can't give blood.
Please respect other people’s wishes. If it weirds you out then fine - many other will donate "
I tolerate them, I won't respect them.
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"If you're willing to let a little kid die just because you can't be arsed to give something you have a limitless supply of, it weirds md out.
Nice try, but I am not allowing children to die because of my decision not to donate. I actually fall considerably under the minimum weight required for donors so wouldn't be eligible to even if I wanted too. I would actually be considered overweight which would damaging to my own health if I gained the weight necessary to donate.
Not arsed about people can't give blood.
Please respect other people’s wishes. If it weirds you out then fine - many other will donate " exactly what this sites buzz word preference no need to be narky is there |
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"If you're willing to let a little kid die just because you can't be arsed to give something you have a limitless supply of, it weirds md out.
Nice try, but I am not allowing children to die because of my decision not to donate. I actually fall considerably under the minimum weight required for donors so wouldn't be eligible to even if I wanted too. I would actually be considered overweight which would damaging to my own health if I gained the weight necessary to donate.
Not arsed about people can't give blood.
Please respect other people’s wishes. If it weirds you out then fine - many other will donate
I tolerate them, I won't respect them.
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"I choose not too. Likewise I would also choose not to receive and it would be divorce grounds if my husband ever went against my wishes on my behalf as I couldn't refuse. Just the thought makes me feel ill.
Are you a Jehovah witness?
No, though my husband's Nan has tried converting me many a time - the idea of eternal farming on my acre of land is not for me I'm afraid. I have a phobia of other peoples blood, my own doesnt bother me, but anyone else's and I come over faint, hot, bothered, nauseous - even my own children with a simple cut lip and I cannot cope. The thought of someone else's blood in my body makes me crawl.
I similarly wouldn't take an organ donation, if my body is massively failing I just consider it will be my time. I can see for others its a wonderful thing and can fully understand those who give and receive its just not for me.
That's fair enough, I won't ever knock anyone for their personal opinions on subjects like this ... You have to do what you believe in 100%
On a side note once I'm gone I am happy for my organs and anything else to be donated to someone in need. I have no issue with that at all."
It's funny you should say that because I'm not sure how I personally feel about that .. I swing from one side of it to the other when thinking about it ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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I donate every 4 months. I have a friend who receives regular blood transfusions and she asked all her friends and family to do it for her. Before that it was just one of those things I never found time for.
It's worth it for the biscuit alone! |
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"I choose not too. Likewise I would also choose not to receive and it would be divorce grounds if my husband ever went against my wishes on my behalf as I couldn't refuse. Just the thought makes me feel ill.
Are you a Jehovah witness?
No, though my husband's Nan has tried converting me many a time - the idea of eternal farming on my acre of land is not for me I'm afraid. I have a phobia of other peoples blood, my own doesnt bother me, but anyone else's and I come over faint, hot, bothered, nauseous - even my own children with a simple cut lip and I cannot cope. The thought of someone else's blood in my body makes me crawl.
I similarly wouldn't take an organ donation, if my body is massively failing I just consider it will be my time. I can see for others its a wonderful thing and can fully understand those who give and receive its just not for me.
That's fair enough, I won't ever knock anyone for their personal opinions on subjects like this ... You have to do what you believe in 100%
On a side note once I'm gone I am happy for my organs and anything else to be donated to someone in need. I have no issue with that at all.
It's funny you should say that because I'm not sure how I personally feel about that .. I swing from one side of it to the other when thinking about it "
I used to be in two minds as well. Part of me wanted to be kept intact, but I figure it could be the difference between someone existing and someone living life.
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"If you're willing to let a little kid die just because you can't be arsed to give something you have a limitless supply of, it weirds md out.
Nice try, but I am not allowing children to die because of my decision not to donate. I actually fall considerably under the minimum weight required for donors so wouldn't be eligible to even if I wanted too. I would actually be considered overweight which would damaging to my own health if I gained the weight necessary to donate.
It was wrong for that guy to play the guilt card. Everyone’s preference around donation is perfectly valid and i respect you for choosing not to. "
It was a cheap shot resorting to kids, when there's many adults in need, I suspect the number of adults far outweighs the number of children as we're all living so long.
The minimum weight for donating is 7st 12, I weigh 7st and occasionally I hit a whopping 7st 6 but I do not go beyond that regardless of what or how much I eat. It appears my choice is a pretty mute point as I don't meet the criteria anyway ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"I just dont want to
Now you could do it for us who can’t x
but i still wont
Any particular reason why you don't want to Blake, or just don't? i dont like the thought of people taking my blood it creeps me out"
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"I just dont want to
Now you could do it for us who can’t x
but i still wont
Any particular reason why you don't want to Blake, or just don't? i dont like the thought of people taking my blood it creeps me out
I’ll remember to keep my nails short " phew ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"If you're willing to let a little kid die just because you can't be arsed to give something you have a limitless supply of, it weirds md out.
Nice try, but I am not allowing children to die because of my decision not to donate. I actually fall considerably under the minimum weight required for donors so wouldn't be eligible to even if I wanted too. I would actually be considered overweight which would damaging to my own health if I gained the weight necessary to donate.
Not arsed about people can't give blood.
Please respect other people’s wishes. If it weirds you out then fine - many other will donate
I tolerate them, I won't respect them.
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"I choose not too. Likewise I would also choose not to receive and it would be divorce grounds if my husband ever went against my wishes on my behalf as I couldn't refuse. Just the thought makes me feel ill.
Are you a Jehovah witness?
No, though my husband's Nan has tried converting me many a time - the idea of eternal farming on my acre of land is not for me I'm afraid. I have a phobia of other peoples blood, my own doesnt bother me, but anyone else's and I come over faint, hot, bothered, nauseous - even my own children with a simple cut lip and I cannot cope. The thought of someone else's blood in my body makes me crawl.
I similarly wouldn't take an organ donation, if my body is massively failing I just consider it will be my time. I can see for others its a wonderful thing and can fully understand those who give and receive its just not for me.
That's fair enough, I won't ever knock anyone for their personal opinions on subjects like this ... You have to do what you believe in 100%
On a side note once I'm gone I am happy for my organs and anything else to be donated to someone in need. I have no issue with that at all.
It's funny you should say that because I'm not sure how I personally feel about that .. I swing from one side of it to the other when thinking about it
I used to be in two minds as well. Part of me wanted to be kept intact, but I figure it could be the difference between someone existing and someone living life.
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My partner and I have donated since we were 17. It used to be when we remembered but since having our second child left me very nearly needing a blood transfusion and my partner having major surgery a few months later we make sure we do it every 4 months now. |
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