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Connection on the forums??

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't know if it's just me being over sensitive but seems people have been snappy on here of late. Not always respecting that people have opinions that don't gel with your own seems to be the main issue.

So let's concentrate on the nice and ultimately what we are all have for which is naughtiness with a like minded hotty.

How many of you have clicked on the forums? Have any meets resulted from forum interaction of late? Is there someone on the forums you have your eye on? So come on folks, let's have more flirting and less bitching

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By *od ThrusterMan over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

There are plenty of people on the forum that I'd like to make a connection with, but so far no meets have come from the forum.

As for being snappy, if I disagree with someone I just ignore it rather than fan the flames. Life is too short to get into keyboard wars on here.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I tend to use the forums as a way of getting to know people and engaging with others, whether it be flirting or just general chit chat.

It's not always harmonious but sometimes that's a good thing too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im nice. And can flirt

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I have met several people from the forums and will continue to see them, but I try not to meet new people from here, it causes too much aggro.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Im nice. And can flirt

I don't think I've seen that...

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By *od ThrusterMan over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

"Im nice. And can flirt

Well you're certainly nice! No experience of your flirting capabilities though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Im nice. And can flirt

You look very nice!

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan over a year ago

Halifax

We met through a forum post 3 years. It was a Face Pic Friday thread.

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By *od ThrusterMan over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

"Im nice. And can flirt

You look very nice! "

As do you OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im nice. And can flirt

I don't think I've seen that... "

Do I dare do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im nice. And can flirt

You look very nice!

As do you OP."

Very

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Im nice. And can flirt

I don't think I've seen that...

Do I dare do

It's OK so long as there are words as well

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By *hite1100Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"I don't know if it's just me being over sensitive but seems people have been snappy on here of late. Not always respecting that people have opinions that don't gel with your own seems to be the main issue.

So let's concentrate on the nice and ultimately what we are all have for which is naughtiness with a like minded hotty.

Yep.

A couple of good meets have resulted from my interactions on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only gets bitchy when people spit their dummies out

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By *ensualbicockMan over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Spoke to a few people from forums once or twice but never met anyone. Plenty I'd like to though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All my meets baring 2 have come thru the forum i love it here i get a brief glimpse at peoples personalitys before desiding weather i like them and as humour is my biggest turn on the forum makes it easier for me

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By *an_LexaCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

Ah it’s not that bad, you just have to wear ya big girl knickers and know when to walk away

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The people I do feel a bit of a connection with are miles away!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve clicked with a few recently and quite a lot over the years, but haven’t met anyone for 4 1/2 years. I have a feeling that may change in 2019....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The people I do feel a bit of a connection with are miles away!"
thats an issue too good point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a shit flirt and hotties I like don't always like me.

C'est la vie...

(I would caveat that with I'm chatting with some absolute stunners. Yes, punching above my weight, however they are all at least 100 miles away.)

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

I have met three people from the forums for sex

All positive contributors and hot as fuck.

I also ping some Kik stuff back and forth from some fellow forumites.

The snappy ones who project misery and negativity don’t attract me.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS over a year ago

Cornwall

"Im nice. And can flirt

Can't beat a good old fashioned flirt

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

I've made several connections via the forums, which have resulted in meeting two very lovely ladies, and who I now class as genuine friends, and one 'almost' meet. I do chat with other people around the country, as this is the nature of Fab, most I will never meet because of geography, others......well, who knows?

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Most of my meets have come through the forums, but none for about the last 18 months

Faf anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All of you expect the ones who sent me private messages to insult me.

They secretly love me really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Made some amazing friends through the forums and it's helped filter the kind of people I'd like in my life.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

All of my meets have been through the forums and I don't regret a single one of them - the forums are a good way not only to make that initial connection but also to see the person beyond the profile text in the first place.

Although when they lazily trail their hand in the water as they bob along it can be a wonderful sight

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS over a year ago

Cornwall

"Made some amazing friends through the forums and it's helped filter the kind of people I'd like in my life. "

I'd like to be in someones life ... but I'm far to weird for just about most on here obviously ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of my best meets have been with forum women. Luckily they are all good friends and hopefully when logistics allow I will meet them again. It’s all good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never met anyone from the forums! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find the forums a great place to get chatting. The conversation has a place to start whereas it can take time to get going when messaging strangers.

Plus you get an idea of their personality beforehand.

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By *tirluvMan over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Im not rude or snappy -mis understood is all!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Made some amazing friends through the forums and it's helped filter the kind of people I'd like in my life.

I'd like to be in someones life ... but I'm far to weird for just about most on here obviously ...

We are all weird in our own way.. it's just about finding someone weird in the same way

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By *od ThrusterMan over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

"I find the forums a great place to get chatting. The conversation has a place to start whereas it can take time to get going when messaging strangers.

Plus you get an idea of their personality beforehand. "

The logic makes sense, but as a male unless you are a "stand-out" (and most of us aren't) the odds are still stacked against you.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

Directly through forum interaction hasn’t led to one single meet in over eight years , and I doubt it ever will . We have met a few that contribute though , but by luck rather than judgement .

I would agree that there seems to be a fractious feeling on many threads at the moment .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find the forums a great place to get chatting. The conversation has a place to start whereas it can take time to get going when messaging strangers.

Plus you get an idea of their personality beforehand.

The logic makes sense, but as a male unless you are a "stand-out" (and most of us aren't) the odds are still stacked against you."

I wouldn't say that. I've spoken with people based on a single comment having not seen them around before.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find the forums a great place to get chatting. The conversation has a place to start whereas it can take time to get going when messaging strangers.

Plus you get an idea of their personality beforehand.

The logic makes sense, but as a male unless you are a "stand-out" (and most of us aren't) the odds are still stacked against you."
so stand out theres nothing overly special about me that makes me better than anyone

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman over a year ago

sw London

"The people I do feel a bit of a connection with are miles away!thats an issue too good point"

But it’s also a great excuse for a few nights away in a hotel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The people I do feel a bit of a connection with are miles away!thats an issue too good point

But it’s also a great excuse for a few nights away in a hotel

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well theres that

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"The people I do feel a bit of a connection with are miles away!thats an issue too good point

But it’s also a great excuse for a few nights away in a hotel

well theres that

But it's not always possible for some people

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've been fortunate to meet lots of lovely forum folk, at groups socials.

STP, Heathrow, London & Manchester.

I've met some amazing people, found a group of Crazy Birds I can now call my best friends.

I've had 'encounters' with a few after initially chatting here.

Some were brief, although we still chat, and found something I didn't even know I was looking for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have noticed a certain degree of arrogance on the forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve met mostly forum people and have some really good friends also on here. There’s one particular person I like but it’s never gonna happen

. Never mind. The people on here are generally great though I think

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By *hite1100Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"I’ve met mostly forum people and have some really good friends also on here. There’s one particular person I like but it’s never gonna happen

. Never mind. The people on here are generally great though I think

Never say never Nora, we haven’t chatted that much yet (age gap might be a factor though)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve met mostly forum people and have some really good friends also on here. There’s one particular person I like but it’s never gonna happen

. Never mind. The people on here are generally great though I think

Never say never Nora, we haven’t chatted that much yet (age gap might be a factor though)

x "

Haha. Shave that beard off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve met mostly forum people and have some really good friends also on here. There’s one particular person I like but it’s never gonna happen

. Never mind. The people on here are generally great though I think

im sorry im too far and beardy

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By *hite1100Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"I’ve met mostly forum people and have some really good friends also on here. There’s one particular person I like but it’s never gonna happen

. Never mind. The people on here are generally great though I think

Never say never Nora, we haven’t chatted that much yet (age gap might be a factor though)

Haha. Shave that beard off

Yeah. It’s never gonna happen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve met one person, we didn’t meet through the forums but he started using them after I’d met him.

I have noticed sometimes forum meets end up negatively, Lots of drama on here. Might just be my interpretation though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have made a couple of good friends down to the forums and I have made a real connection to a wonderful woman who lives quite far away but we have been chatting a lot on WhatsApp and now on the phone with a weekend in Wales planned soon

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

I've only ever met forumites while over for the Lounge Socials, and have to say they are just the bestest bunch of nutters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve met one person, we didn’t meet through the forums but he started using them after I’d met him.

I have noticed sometimes forum meets end up negatively, Lots of drama on here. Might just be my interpretation though. "

Yep I’ve had that. That’s why I don’t do veris anymore, much easier

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get on well with lots of people from the Forums and have made a number of good online friends and had a number of great meets! My Fab experience both in terms of messaging and meeting has been greatly enhanced by being on here.

And there’s a few people that properly dislike me too!

Acrimonious blocks on their part but I’m too old for all that bobbins so no longer counter block back like I used to so have nobody on my block list any more!

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By *heGentleman2024Man over a year ago

North West

The forums have got me in touch with a lot of people thats on the same wavelength, plenty of flirting and meets resulted

Sometimes what people say on them comes accros in the completely wrong way.

But i enjoy them

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By *rwhite30Man over a year ago

deptford London

I notice its the same couple of people that try and act all clever and pick at some ones thread, knowing exactly what they mean but picking at it just to be a div

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

I’ve met some very lovely people from the forums. Some that I count as real friends now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like the forum and mostly everyone on it

, but I like keeping it separate from meeting too. I'm far enough away from most people that that's generally not an issue though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve been fortunate to meet a lot of forumites through the socials at the STP and Manchester. They’re a great crazy bunch, and people I’m glad to call my friends. I’ve also spoke to some on the forums that have resulted in meets. The ones that are negative I tend to give a wide birth too x

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

It would be very unlikely I would meet anyone from the forums on a one 2 one arrangement ever again (no comment). Social events when we happen to be in the same place brilliant or clubs.

Like most on here speak to some great men/womem and at times the forums can be fun. X

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"I've never met anyone from the forums! X"

You probably spend too much time in the clubs, spread your wings a little.....

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

To be fair I think a lot of intent is miss understood on forums when it is all written text devoid of facial expressions, body language and voice tone. I supppse that's why they made emoji's to help solve this. But I am still rubbish remembering to use them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be fair I think a lot of intent is miss understood on forums when it is all written text devoid of facial expressions, body language and voice tone. I supppse that's why they made emoji's to help solve this. But I am still rubbish remembering to use them."

Same here xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i have received messages from some nice women and couples from the forum in my time.

some wish to discuss a point more personally and some thankfully have made me see a mistake ive made.

i do feel a lot gets misunderstood in the heat of the moment and things do get a little out of hand.

but i can say some i have developed a message based friendship i wouldnt of had if i had not joined in here.

some check in from time to time which is nice and 1 or 2 have asked about meeting but at the moment the meets i have planned will be my last for a while.

things change in life so what you may discount today may appeal tomorrow.

never say never and all that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have noticed a certain degree of arrogance on the forums "

Arrogance in what way?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never met anyone from the forums! X

You probably spend too much time in the clubs, spread your wings a little.....

Been on/off here four years. Met people from the chatrooms and been to their adult house parties and social 1:1 meets etc!

My lifestyle - disability, limits my free time in the evening, once work is done and I have to rest!

Maybe one day, I'll be able to travel further to socialise more!

Thanks for your input sweetie, nice of you X

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By *hite1100Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"I have noticed a certain degree of arrogance on the forums

Arrogance in what way?"

Arrogance is the way forward

. If you know you’ve got it, may as well flaunt it

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By *orksRockerMan over a year ago

Bradford

Is there a way of blocking people... So you never get to see their posts?

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By *hite1100Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"Is there a way of blocking people... So you never get to see their posts?

Ignoring them works for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find the forums hard work tbf.

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I have made some lovely friends from the forums....have I had hanky panky with them? Well that’s for me to know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I chat to a few lovely ladies on the forum but all are too far away or too sensible, or both, to ever meet me. So, yes, there's a connection of sorts..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've met many Forumites over the years and enjoyed their company at Socials. I've also met a few for sex on a one to one. In my experience, fucking popular Forumites incites jealously and bitching and is not worth the aggro. I'm back to finding local guys at the moment, less drama.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met many Forumites over the years and enjoyed their company at Socials. I've also met a few for sex on a one to one. In my experience, fucking popular Forumites incites jealously and bitching and is not worth the aggro. I'm back to finding local guys at the moment, less drama. "

Perhaps you should consider fucking unpopular forumites?....

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I can’t say I’ve had a connection purely from the forums. That has come later after text chats, voice chats and meets. The forum has often been the initial place we conversed in a lot of cases. There are some pretty awesome people here.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've met two people who messaged me off the back of a forum comment I've made. Neither really used the forums with any regularity though.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Is there a way of blocking people... So you never get to see their posts?

I wish!!

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Tried chatting to a few but I'm blocked for some reason

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sadly forum bullies drag others down ... And sadly they do exist ... A real shame but that's the internet for you x

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS over a year ago

Cornwall

I'm really nice... honest I am x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sadly forum bullies drag others down ... And sadly they do exist ... A real shame but that's the internet for you x"

Don’t let them. It is the internet. It’s not real x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I come to the forums for the bantz, to see who's around, to get myself known, to put across who I am and what I'm about better than my profile dues it.

Chatted with a few I've met in the forums. No meets yet.

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

Think we met one person from the forums at a Fab social, but not ‘met’ anyone from the forum...yet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sadly forum bullies drag others down ... And sadly they do exist ... A real shame but that's the internet for you x"

yes i had some that use this forum tell others not to meet me. friend showed me what they were saying on facebook as im not on it.

some think they own the forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sadly forum bullies drag others down ... And sadly they do exist ... A real shame but that's the internet for you x"

Virtual bullies?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sadly forum bullies drag others down ... And sadly they do exist ... A real shame but that's the internet for you x"

I've yet to work out how that actually works.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

So let's concentrate on the nice and ultimately what we are all have for which is naughtiness with a like minded hotty.

Does marrying someone you met via the forums count...........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I really enjoy the forums,you can have a laugh and chat with lots of peeps.

I treat everyone with respect and generally get the same back so all in all it’s good

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

The forums are great for identifying people you think are cool and intelligent and I like to try and chat to them.

They are also great for identifying people to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps you should consider fucking unpopular forumites?....

Ooh that would be a great idea for a thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So let's concentrate on the nice and ultimately what we are all have for which is naughtiness with a like minded hotty.

Does marrying someone you met via the forums count...........

It's not a dating site. People don't meet off here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive met a couple of forumites - but a while back under the pseudonym of a different disneyfuckincharachter

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Perhaps you should consider fucking unpopular forumites?....

Ooh that would be a great idea for a thread.

I'd love that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm new to the forums and I thought you were all nuts to start with.

I sit back and giggle at lots of the quick wit.

Been drawn into some posts by annoyance which is always the tempt sometimes.

Live and learn

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By *orksRockerMan over a year ago

Bradford

"Is there a way of blocking people... So you never get to see their posts?

I wish!!

Glad to see someone was on my wavelength

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there a way of blocking people... So you never get to see their posts?

I wish!!

Glad to see someone was on my wavelength

Hope you can see mine xoxoxo gg hh xoc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve got the same opinions of lots, and different views with lots of others.

If I click with people, it’s great. If I don’t, I’m sure they have or at least will with many on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm new to the forums and I thought you were all nuts to start with.

I sit back and giggle at lots of the quick wit.

Been drawn into some posts by annoyance which is always the tempt sometimes.

Live and learn "

Good observation they are all nuts! Apart from my good self of course

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

Perhaps you should consider fucking unpopular forumites?....

Yep, queue forming here......

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS over a year ago

Cornwall

I used to use the chat rooms a lot but I've grown up now... ..many people on these forums are well funny and is probably the main reason I come on here... I post a load of inane nonsense myself mainly though, As for meeting anyone from the forums, well it's not happened as yet, but hey, one never knows I suppose .. However I think I put most off really

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By *easeme13Man over a year ago

Wellingborough Kettering harrowden isham Northampton Milton Keynes

Absolutely love your profile (having actually read it) and your pictures are all Fab!

I’d love to have a connection with you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sadly forum bullies drag others down ... And sadly they do exist ... A real shame but that's the internet for you x"

Never came across any!

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS over a year ago

Cornwall

"Absolutely love your profile (having actually read it) and your pictures are all Fab!

I’d love to have a connection with you x"

Who ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sadly forum bullies drag others down ... And sadly they do exist ... A real shame but that's the internet for you x

Don’t let them. It is the internet. It’s not real x"

I used to let them get to me, but I don't now ... It is real though when they get personal.

I now simply block and treat them with the contempt they deserve x

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By *easeme13Man over a year ago

Wellingborough Kettering harrowden isham Northampton Milton Keynes

"Absolutely love your profile (having actually read it) and your pictures are all Fab!

I’d love to have a connection with you x

Who ?"

Haha....that would’ve helped eh! Ladylick

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

I’ve met loads from the forum but I have been here a long time. There’s also loads more I’d like to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I rarely comment lately and just lurk in the corners of the forums in a rather awkward and nervous manner.

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By *easeme13Man over a year ago

Wellingborough Kettering harrowden isham Northampton Milton Keynes

"The people I do feel a bit of a connection with are miles away!"

"Absolutely love your profile (having actually read it) and your pictures are all Fab!

I’d love to have a connection with you....and not many miles away either x"

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By *uriousVoyeurMan over a year ago

Northside

"Im nice. And can flirt

"
Sweet divine...you are certainly nice!! Great pics and a stunning ass! Hope you don't mind me getting that off my chest!!!

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By *oney to the beeWoman over a year ago

Manchester

"Sadly forum bullies drag others down ... And sadly they do exist ... A real shame but that's the internet for you x

Don’t let them. It is the internet. It’s not real x

I used to let them get to me, but I don't now ... It is real though when they get personal.

I now simply block and treat them with the contempt they deserve x"

Best advice however you end up blocking a lot these days.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sadly forum bullies drag others down ... And sadly they do exist ... A real shame but that's the internet for you x

Don’t let them. It is the internet. It’s not real x

I used to let them get to me, but I don't now ... It is real though when they get personal.

I now simply block and treat them with the contempt they deserve x

Best advice however you end up blocking a lot these days.

What really makes me chuckle tho are those who think calling me fat is an insult ... I don't block them, I need a chuckle every now and then

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple over a year ago

Planet Ork

Our last meet was from the forums, plenty more that we would like to meet as well. The only trouble with connecting with people on the forums is that most of the ones you like live so far away.

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"I rarely comment lately and just lurk in the corners of the forums in a rather awkward and nervous manner.

Come out from that corner and play won’t you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Crikey the negativity of the forums, isn't really selling it to those who only watch and read lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i make a connection on this forum from a cable connected to my laptop.

this cable is then connected to a router.

then this router send the information down a cable at high speed to a oh ffs you get the picture

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Crikey the negativity of the forums, isn't really selling it to those who only watch and read lol"

Very true, even a thread encouraging to mention the good stuff gets to the point where everyone starts to boast how many people they block and why.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I’ve met mostly forum people and have some really good friends also on here. There’s one particular person I like but it’s never gonna happen

. Never mind. The people on here are generally great though I think

Hey lady! Make it happen!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve met mostly forum people and have some really good friends also on here. There’s one particular person I like but it’s never gonna happen

. Never mind. The people on here are generally great though I think

Hey lady! Make it happen! "

I’ve sort of tried. I don’t chase

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I’ve met mostly forum people and have some really good friends also on here. There’s one particular person I like but it’s never gonna happen

. Never mind. The people on here are generally great though I think

Hey lady! Make it happen!

I’ve sort of tried. I don’t chase

xx"

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've met 2 ladies from the forum and rogerd them both

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I love trawling through forum threads (most I hasten to add - some I don’t get

)

I’ve met some lovely ‘virtual’ friends here and a couple I’ve met personally. I tagged a guy in a thread weeks back and have since met and we are meeting again this weekend BINGO! So for me the forums have been good fun, at times informative and often

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve met mostly forum people and have some really good friends also on here. There’s one particular person I like but it’s never gonna happen

. Never mind. The people on here are generally great though I think

Hey lady! Make it happen!

I’ve sort of tried. I don’t chase

Why not? "
dont believe her iv had to get a cab for distance

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I’ve met mostly forum people and have some really good friends also on here. There’s one particular person I like but it’s never gonna happen

. Never mind. The people on here are generally great though I think

Hey lady! Make it happen!

I’ve sort of tried. I don’t chase

Why not? dont believe her iv had to get a cab for distance

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I’ve met mostly forum people and have some really good friends also on here. There’s one particular person I like but it’s never gonna happen

. Never mind. The people on here are generally great though I think

Hey lady! Make it happen!

I’ve sort of tried. I don’t chase

xx"

Go back and have another go then ditch it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's always the same three blokes stirring things on the forum. Then act like butter wouldn't melt either by pm or on here when pulled up on it.

As for liking someone from the forums, yes I do! We've spoken for awhile but very unlikely we'll ever meet. He really lives quite far away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’ve met mostly forum people and have some really good friends also on here. There’s one particular person I like but it’s never gonna happen

. Never mind. The people on here are generally great though I think

Hey lady! Make it happen!

I’ve sort of tried. I don’t chase

Go back and have another go then ditch it

Maybe.

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By *hite1100Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"It's always the same three blokes stirring things on the forum. Then act like butter wouldn't melt either by pm or on here when pulled up on it.

As for liking someone from the forums, yes I do! We've spoken for awhile but very unlikely we'll ever meet. He really lives quite far away. "

Who are they?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's always the same three blokes stirring things on the forum. Then act like butter wouldn't melt either by pm or on here when pulled up on it.

As for liking someone from the forums, yes I do! We've spoken for awhile but very unlikely we'll ever meet. He really lives quite far away. "

See that distance as an adventure and not a barrier.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Over the years I’ve met a lot of ‘forumites’ socially, and a handful for intimate meets. I found, with one meet in particular, that the combination of lots of interaction on the forums and private messaging, and the physical chemistry when we met, was too much of a head fuck for me. So now I dip into the forums every now and then, stay friendly with those I know, and keep the fucking for chance encounters in clubs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's always the same three blokes stirring things on the forum. Then act like butter wouldn't melt either by pm or on here when pulled up on it.

As for liking someone from the forums, yes I do! We've spoken for awhile but very unlikely we'll ever meet. He really lives quite far away. "

never know. he may make the effort to travel.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To Pat and Tame, no I can't let the distance barrier down. I want regular. Regular and long distance don't really work.

Plus you'll end up spending most of the time travelling and not having sex. I drove to Whitley Bay for a week's break away. 7hr drive! Despite two half hour pit stops at Peterborough and Wetherby services, I needed tooth picks to keep my eyes open by time I arrived at Whitby bay!

Driving all those kind of distances or slightly less just for a regular sex life, would be a killer. Especially to my bank account lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Almost there!

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By *hite1100Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"To Pat and Tame, no I can't let the distance barrier down. I want regular. Regular and long distance don't really work.

Driving all those kind of distances or slightly less just for a regular sex life, would be a killer. Especially to my bank account lol. "

Isn’t that restriction quite limiting down in your neck of the woods? Basically just Thanet and the Medway towns to draw from...

I’m starting to take the opposite approach and look at travelling further afield for meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To Pat and Tame, no I can't let the distance barrier down. I want regular. Regular and long distance don't really work.

Driving all those kind of distances or slightly less just for a regular sex life, would be a killer. Especially to my bank account lol. "

let them come to you then. or go halves.

but i understand

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To Pat and Tame, no I can't let the distance barrier down. I want regular. Regular and long distance don't really work.

Driving all those kind of distances or slightly less just for a regular sex life, would be a killer. Especially to my bank account lol.

Isn’t that restriction quite limiting down in your neck of the woods? Basically just Thanet and the Medway towns to draw from...

I’m starting to take the opposite approach and look at travelling further afield for meets. "

That's where you're wrong. Whatever works for you, go for it and I'll carry on doing the same. Works for me!

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"To Pat and Tame, no I can't let the distance barrier down. I want regular. Regular and long distance don't really work.

Driving all those kind of distances or slightly less just for a regular sex life, would be a killer. Especially to my bank account lol. "

I get this totally. If it's a one off then distance isnt an issue. However like you say for sometime regular then local is the way forward.

Like you I wouldn't bother again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Over the years I’ve met a lot of ‘forumites’ socially, and a handful for intimate meets. I found, with one meet in particular, that the combination of lots of interaction on the forums and private messaging, and the physical chemistry when we met, was too much of a head fuck for me. So now I dip into the forums every now and then, stay friendly with those I know, and keep the fucking for chance encounters in clubs

When you say ‘head fuck’ is that related to emotional attachment or something else?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To Pat and Tame, no I can't let the distance barrier down. I want regular. Regular and long distance don't really work.

Driving all those kind of distances or slightly less just for a regular sex life, would be a killer. Especially to my bank account lol.

let them come to you then. or go halves.

but i understand"

Still not regular though Pat. I've honestly gone without sex for a year by choice. For me I don't like one offs. If a guy is only offering one offs, fair enough but he's not for me. Plenty of single guys within 30 mins of me but alot do not live alone, despite their ages!

. Or during a social, I don't like them for various reasons. Such as they post pics of themselves where they no longer look that way or age anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To Pat and Tame, no I can't let the distance barrier down. I want regular. Regular and long distance don't really work.

Driving all those kind of distances or slightly less just for a regular sex life, would be a killer. Especially to my bank account lol.

I get this totally. If it's a one off then distance isnt an issue. However like you say for sometime regular then local is the way forward.

Like you I wouldn't bother again."

At lasts someone understand lol.

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By *hite1100Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"To Pat and Tame, no I can't let the distance barrier down. I want regular. Regular and long distance don't really work.

Driving all those kind of distances or slightly less just for a regular sex life, would be a killer. Especially to my bank account lol.

Isn’t that restriction quite limiting down in your neck of the woods? Basically just Thanet and the Medway towns to draw from...

I’m starting to take the opposite approach and look at travelling further afield for meets.

That's where you're wrong. Whatever works for you, go for it and I'll carry on doing the same. Works for me!

Yes absolutely. It was just a question, no judgement intended

I guess there are way more guys on here to choose from which probably helps.

You’d think london would be stacked with eligible single females on here - not based on some of the ones I’ve met so far.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When you say ‘head fuck’ is that related to emotional attachment or something else?"

Yes emotional attachment. That kind of arrangement on a no strings basis is, for me, too similar to something else and I prefer to keep feelings and bonding out of the equation altogether now