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"What is nsa?
The only people I have had what I would think of as nsa(no round 2,3,4,5) were ones that I didn't particularly want to repeat  "
To me NSA means you don't want anything more than fun meets,no emotional gubbings.
I don't see that it has to be one offs, you can have fuck buddies who are on the same wavelength and want the same thing. |
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over a year ago
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Before my accident, that's exactly what I wanted - great sex and some laughs but without emotional attachment. And that's what I enjoyed, very much. However, my perspective changed greatly in the past few months (as did my life). |
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"Before my accident, that's exactly what I wanted - great sex and some laughs but without emotional attachment. And that's what I enjoyed, very much. However, my perspective changed greatly in the past few months (as did my life)."
I can understand that, we all can need different things at different stages in life x |
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"I find it amusing that the first posts are from guys with one exception
I think it was so they can check in later  nope just nosey "
Ahhh thought you were just watching out for potential conquests in the thread |
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"I find it amusing that the first posts are from guys with one exception
I think it was so they can check in later nope just nosey
Ahhh thought you were just watching out for potential conquests in the thread naa im fully booked for the next 12 years not 
I think your doing better than most  "
Its his biscuit dunking abilities, makes us women go weak at the knees  |
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Me. But my NSA needs to come with rapport, friendliness, and respect. Too many think because I'm not looking for a ring, they can send me unsolicited crude crap and I'll spread my legs in the back of their grubby car. I have bloody standards! |
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"Me. But my NSA needs to come with rapport, friendliness, and respect. Too many think because I'm not looking for a ring, they can send me unsolicited crude crap and I'll spread my legs in the back of their grubby car. I have bloody standards! "
That's terrible... I'd have my car valeted first.  |
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"Me. But my NSA needs to come with rapport, friendliness, and respect. Too many think because I'm not looking for a ring, they can send me unsolicited crude crap and I'll spread my legs in the back of their grubby car. I have bloody standards! "
I agree with this , NSA doesn't mean no standards , just less complications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Big shout out to all the women not looking for a connection.
I think your confusing connection with emotion, but we all have our perspectives."
I often think this when reading the forums.
I want a connection but not ‘feelings’. I have to feel safe and comfortable with someone and not dislike their personality, and want intimacy but not romantic attachment. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Me. But my NSA needs to come with rapport, friendliness, and respect. Too many think because I'm not looking for a ring, they can send me unsolicited crude crap and I'll spread my legs in the back of their grubby car. I have bloody standards!
I agree with this , NSA doesn't mean no standards , just less complications. "
I think that NSA has become a little bit of a dirty acronym, people seem to assume that it means a purely physical encounter where the individual looks after their own needs and that's it.
In my opinion it means no deeper emotional connection, but I guess meanings change! |
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I think sex is better with connection. But that for me means friendliness. I have friends here and we have great sex. But it can also be in the moment with someone you barely know, a sharing of pleasure.
If I just want orgasms I can wank. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think sex is better with connection. But that for me means friendliness. I have friends here and we have great sex. But it can also be in the moment with someone you barely know, a sharing of pleasure.
If I just want orgasms I can wank. "
In addition to that it’s unlikely that I’d even orgasm without any connection whatsoever |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I think sex is better with connection. But that for me means friendliness. I have friends here and we have great sex. But it can also be in the moment with someone you barely know, a sharing of pleasure.
If I just want orgasms I can wank. "
You want orgasms too? Sheesh! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"I think sex is better with connection. But that for me means friendliness. I have friends here and we have great sex. But it can also be in the moment with someone you barely know, a sharing of pleasure.
If I just want orgasms I can wank. "
In all seriousness its that kind of connection that I look for and try to build.
I think the passion and desire for another person, without the emotional ties, is essentially what most people on here are looking for. |
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"Big shout out to all the women not looking for a connection."
NSA doesn't mean no connection.
The connection is I fancy them and find them attractive.
I'm not particularly interested in their back story, their daily life or their holiday snaps.
I meet for a social, if the attraction is there we meet again.
Some are one offs, some I've seen multiple times.
The NSA is we have great sex and I don't get involved in their day to day life and they don't get involved in mine.
Works (very well) for me
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me. But my NSA needs to come with rapport, friendliness, and respect. Too many think because I'm not looking for a ring, they can send me unsolicited crude crap and I'll spread my legs in the back of their grubby car. I have bloody standards!
I agree with this , NSA doesn't mean no standards , just less complications.
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I think that NSA has become a little bit of a dirty acronym, people seem to assume that it means a purely physical encounter where the individual looks after their own needs and that's it.
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In my opinion it means no deeper emotional connection, but I guess meanings change! "
*** This is exactly how I would describe NSA.
To me, FWB isn't NSA. The friendship and respect is a string. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Big shout out to all the women not looking for a connection.
NSA doesn't mean no connection.
The connection is I fancy them and find them attractive.
I'm not particularly interested in their back story, their daily life or their holiday snaps.
I meet for a social, if the attraction is there we meet again.
Some are one offs, some I've seen multiple times.
The NSA is we have great sex and I don't get involved in their day to day life and they don't get involved in mine.
Works (very well) for me
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Absofuckinglutely
I don't want to be involved with anyone else's kids, family, money troubles - do anyone's laundry or watch them snore in front of the TV.
I just want a few laughs, drinks, days/ nights out and good sex.
A FWB for me is NSA we don't share our lives we can talk about anything but mainly we have fun. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Big shout out to all the women not looking for a connection.
NSA doesn't mean no connection.
The connection is I fancy them and find them attractive.
I'm not particularly interested in their back story, their daily life or their holiday snaps.
I meet for a social, if the attraction is there we meet again.
Some are one offs, some I've seen multiple times.
The NSA is we have great sex and I don't get involved in their day to day life and they don't get involved in mine.
Works (very well) for me
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Exactly how I see it and also works very well for me. I can have great sex and a few laughs, then we both crack on with our day |
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Ok so maybe we should just stop labelling scenarios and people and simply just be clear about communicating what we are after.
It seems NSA and FWB means different things to different peoples.
I love a good connection and a lot of anticipation - someone who turns me on to no end, someone I can have hot sex, good laughs and chat and a cuppa with and at the end of the day go home to my beautiful husband feeling great about myself and this beautiful life. Call it what you will - it’s fucking hot and certainly doesn’t mean I want any emotional commitment or complications. X :  |
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"Some kind of emotional connection would come from any meeting I'd think."
exactly if you have feelings how can you divorce them from this, it's very intimate ya know
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By *l6789Man
over a year ago
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It’s a weird balance to try get to really nsa is preferable for some but as it’s been said if you don’t get to know the person or connect how can it really be great sex?
In my experience one night stands are fun but rarely great, unless I’ve spoken to them online for a while before hand and built the anticipation. The best sex I’ve had with people comes from knowing what gets them going and being more passionate and intense. That doesn’t happen instantly, and requires effort.
A friend with benefits is better in my opinion as long as you can keep it casual.
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