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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms. "
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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms.
Oh  have things changed?"
Yep. I’ve been trying to pretend they’re not but things are going very cold here. |
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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms.
Get your arse up to Manchester on Saturday and we’ll squeeze ya till ya pop "
I’m having new extensions Saturday. I’ll be in Manchester for new year though.
Come find me around the dance floors of canal st. |
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Naked hugs are even better, nothing better than a soft warm skin to skin hug where you feel the love. Also alone this Christmas Eve/morning not looking forward to it. Sending an extra big hug to you X |
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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms.
Get your arse up to Manchester on Saturday and we’ll squeeze ya till ya pop
I’m having new extensions Saturday. I’ll be in Manchester for new year though.
Come find me around the dance floors of canal st. "
Will give you a hug in Salford Quays next weekend  |
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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms.
Oh have things changed?
Yep. I’ve been trying to pretend they’re not but things are going very cold here. "
I'm sorry to hear that. You've both had huge adjustments to deal with.
Best to you both
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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms.
Get your arse up to Manchester on Saturday and we’ll squeeze ya till ya pop
I’m having new extensions Saturday. I’ll be in Manchester for new year though.
Come find me around the dance floors of canal st. "
You’ll be missed
Hope things perk up for you xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms.
Oh have things changed?
Yep. I’ve been trying to pretend they’re not but things are going very cold here.
I'm sorry to hear that. You've both had huge adjustments to deal with.
Best to you both
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The fat bird ain’t singing yet but she’s warming up. |
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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms.
Oh have things changed?
Yep. I’ve been trying to pretend they’re not but things are going very cold here.
I'm sorry to hear that. You've both had huge adjustments to deal with.
Best to you both
The fat bird ain’t singing yet but she’s warming up. "
Any chance of her losing her voice? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms.
Oh have things changed?
Yep. I’ve been trying to pretend they’re not but things are going very cold here.
I'm sorry to hear that. You've both had huge adjustments to deal with.
Best to you both
The fat bird ain’t singing yet but she’s warming up.
Any chance of her losing her voice?"
Perhaps. I’ll punch her in the throat.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms.
Get your arse up to Manchester on Saturday and we’ll squeeze ya till ya pop
I’m having new extensions Saturday. I’ll be in Manchester for new year though.
Come find me around the dance floors of canal st.
You’ll be missed
Hope things perk up for you xx"
Is there a social on Saturday then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms.
Get your arse up to Manchester on Saturday and we’ll squeeze ya till ya pop "
I agree with that statement |
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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms.
Oh have things changed?
Yep. I’ve been trying to pretend they’re not but things are going very cold here.
I'm sorry to hear that. You've both had huge adjustments to deal with.
Best to you both
The fat bird ain’t singing yet but she’s warming up.
Any chance of her losing her voice?
Perhaps. I’ll punch her in the throat. "
It's one solution  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms.
Get your arse up to Manchester on Saturday and we’ll squeeze ya till ya pop
I’m having new extensions Saturday. I’ll be in Manchester for new year though.
Come find me around the dance floors of canal st.
You’ll be missed
Hope things perk up for you xx
Is there a social on Saturday then? "
Yeah baby!
Have you been on the moon or something?
Manchester Christmas lounge social, threads in the meet section.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thanks guys. I’m feeling very unloved at home and that’s really sinking in as Christmas looms.
Oh no, you know where there is love for you though xxx"
I know. And I really appreciate that. You lot have been amazing.
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"Spiritual hugs for all . 
Op...go on a singles break over xmas..loads of people in similar position. ..and after a few, maybe a few similar positions..lol
I’m not single yet.... hoping I won’t be.
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Have i missed something ? Have you split with your wife? |
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"Spiritual hugs for all .
Op...go on a singles break over xmas..loads of people in similar position. ..and after a few, maybe a few similar positions..lol
I’m not single yet.... hoping I won’t be.
If yr hoping u wont be...why the ."yet" Lol
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Because I fear it’s only a matter of time.
I have a counselling session booked next week but, so far, she is refusing to come with me. |
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"Spiritual hugs for all .
Op...go on a singles break over xmas..loads of people in similar position. ..and after a few, maybe a few similar positions..lol
I’m not single yet.... hoping I won’t be.
Have i missed something ? Have you split with your wife?"
Noooo. The wall of ice is very evident though.
Still getting along well as friends but nothing more. All I want is a hug now and then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spiritual hugs for all .
Op...go on a singles break over xmas..loads of people in similar position. ..and after a few, maybe a few similar positions..lol
I’m not single yet.... hoping I won’t be.
If yr hoping u wont be...why the ."yet" Lol
Because I fear it’s only a matter of time.
I have a counselling session booked next week but, so far, she is refusing to come with me. "
You can go on your own and speak to them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Spiritual hugs for all .
Op...go on a singles break over xmas..loads of people in similar position. ..and after a few, maybe a few similar positions..lol
I’m not single yet.... hoping I won’t be.
If yr hoping u wont be...why the ."yet" Lol
Because I fear it’s only a matter of time.
I have a counselling session booked next week but, so far, she is refusing to come with me.
You can go on your own and speak to them. "
I will be. x |
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"I have a big hug for you my sweet. Kiss on the forehead too.
Mwah
P x"
Go on then, we'll make it a group hug! I'll also fetch a pair of stepladders so P can plant that kiss on your nut..
B x |
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over a year ago
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"Spiritual hugs for all .
Op...go on a singles break over xmas..loads of people in similar position. ..and after a few, maybe a few similar positions..lol
I’m not single yet.... hoping I won’t be.
If yr hoping u wont be...why the ."yet" Lol
Because I fear it’s only a matter of time.
I have a counselling session booked next week but, so far, she is refusing to come with me.
You can go on your own and speak to them.
I will be. x"
Has she stood by u thro yr trans.?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Spiritual hugs for all .
Op...go on a singles break over xmas..loads of people in similar position. ..and after a few, maybe a few similar positions..lol
I’m not single yet.... hoping I won’t be.
If yr hoping u wont be...why the ."yet" Lol
Because I fear it’s only a matter of time.
I have a counselling session booked next week but, so far, she is refusing to come with me.
You can go on your own and speak to them.
I will be. x
Has she stood by u thro yr trans.??"
So far.... cracks are showing though. |
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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago
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"Spiritual hugs for all .
Op...go on a singles break over xmas..loads of people in similar position. ..and after a few, maybe a few similar positions..lol
I’m not single yet.... hoping I won’t be.
If yr hoping u wont be...why the ."yet" Lol
Because I fear it’s only a matter of time.
I have a counselling session booked next week but, so far, she is refusing to come with me.
You can go on your own and speak to them.
I will be. x
Has she stood by u thro yr trans.??
So far.... cracks are showing though. "
Well, she still there tho..talk talk talk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spiritual hugs for all .
Op...go on a singles break over xmas..loads of people in similar position. ..and after a few, maybe a few similar positions..lol
I’m not single yet.... hoping I won’t be.
If yr hoping u wont be...why the ."yet" Lol
Because I fear it’s only a matter of time.
I have a counselling session booked next week but, so far, she is refusing to come with me.
You can go on your own and speak to them.
I will be. x
Has she stood by u thro yr trans.??
So far.... cracks are showing though. "
Does she have the same level of love and support that you do? You have a lot of support on threads like this and also in real life.  I would imagine she may feel quite lonely on the sidelines.
She might not feel she can admit to bad feelings, or being sad about losing her husband. If she says this she may be thought bad of 'for not being supportive' of you.
I hope that even if you lose a wife, you will still have her as a friend. xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Spiritual hugs for all .
Op...go on a singles break over xmas..loads of people in similar position. ..and after a few, maybe a few similar positions..lol
I’m not single yet.... hoping I won’t be.
If yr hoping u wont be...why the ."yet" Lol
Because I fear it’s only a matter of time.
I have a counselling session booked next week but, so far, she is refusing to come with me.
You can go on your own and speak to them.
I will be. x
Has she stood by u thro yr trans.??
So far.... cracks are showing though.
Does she have the same level of love and support that you do? You have a lot of support on threads like this and also in real life. I would imagine she may feel quite lonely on the sidelines.
She might not feel she can admit to bad feelings, or being sad about losing her husband. If she says this she may be thought bad of 'for not being supportive' of you.
I hope that even if you lose a wife, you will still have her as a friend. xx"
She has a lot more support around where we live than I do.
We were known for a long time in the area. She worked in a couple of pubs. Been a carer. Produced vegetable boxes from her humungous veg patch.
I was her rather quiet husband. She has always been the one everyone talked to when we were out.
If we split she’ll have a massive number of people who will be there for her.
I’ll probably have to move away.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Spiritual hugs for all .
Op...go on a singles break over xmas..loads of people in similar position. ..and after a few, maybe a few similar positions..lol
I’m not single yet.... hoping I won’t be.
If yr hoping u wont be...why the ."yet" Lol
Because I fear it’s only a matter of time.
I have a counselling session booked next week but, so far, she is refusing to come with me.
You can go on your own and speak to them.
I will be. x
Has she stood by u thro yr trans.??
So far.... cracks are showing though.
Does she have the same level of love and support that you do? You have a lot of support on threads like this and also in real life. I would imagine she may feel quite lonely on the sidelines.
She might not feel she can admit to bad feelings, or being sad about losing her husband. If she says this she may be thought bad of 'for not being supportive' of you.
I hope that even if you lose a wife, you will still have her as a friend. xx
She has a lot more support around where we live than I do.
We were known for a long time in the area. She worked in a couple of pubs. Been a carer. Produced vegetable boxes from her humungous veg patch.
I was her rather quiet husband. She has always been the one everyone talked to when we were out.
If we split she’ll have a massive number of people who will be there for her.
I’ll probably have to move away.
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Ah that's a shame. You're well loved and I'm sure you'll be welcomed wherever you decide to relocate to. x |
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"Spiritual hugs for all .
Op...go on a singles break over xmas..loads of people in similar position. ..and after a few, maybe a few similar positions..lol
I’m not single yet.... hoping I won’t be.
If yr hoping u wont be...why the ."yet" Lol
Because I fear it’s only a matter of time.
I have a counselling session booked next week but, so far, she is refusing to come with me.
You can go on your own and speak to them.
I will be. x
Has she stood by u thro yr trans.??
So far.... cracks are showing though.
Does she have the same level of love and support that you do? You have a lot of support on threads like this and also in real life. I would imagine she may feel quite lonely on the sidelines.
She might not feel she can admit to bad feelings, or being sad about losing her husband. If she says this she may be thought bad of 'for not being supportive' of you.
I hope that even if you lose a wife, you will still have her as a friend. xx
She has a lot more support around where we live than I do.
We were known for a long time in the area. She worked in a couple of pubs. Been a carer. Produced vegetable boxes from her humungous veg patch.
I was her rather quiet husband. She has always been the one everyone talked to when we were out.
If we split she’ll have a massive number of people who will be there for her.
I’ll probably have to move away.
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This is one of those life situations where nobody wins. |
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"Spiritual hugs for all .
Op...go on a singles break over xmas..loads of people in similar position. ..and after a few, maybe a few similar positions..lol
I’m not single yet.... hoping I won’t be.
If yr hoping u wont be...why the ."yet" Lol
Because I fear it’s only a matter of time.
I have a counselling session booked next week but, so far, she is refusing to come with me.
You can go on your own and speak to them.
I will be. x
Has she stood by u thro yr trans.??
So far.... cracks are showing though.
Does she have the same level of love and support that you do? You have a lot of support on threads like this and also in real life. I would imagine she may feel quite lonely on the sidelines.
She might not feel she can admit to bad feelings, or being sad about losing her husband. If she says this she may be thought bad of 'for not being supportive' of you.
I hope that even if you lose a wife, you will still have her as a friend. xx
She has a lot more support around where we live than I do.
We were known for a long time in the area. She worked in a couple of pubs. Been a carer. Produced vegetable boxes from her humungous veg patch.
I was her rather quiet husband. She has always been the one everyone talked to when we were out.
If we split she’ll have a massive number of people who will be there for her.
I’ll probably have to move away.
This is one of those life situations where nobody wins. "
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