I was out at the Xmas work do the other night, and a friend and work mate started to tell me he was not getting any sex at home with the missus ( he was clearly d*unk)....he went on to say that he thought it wasn't fair as both where young (36) and fit, his view was that she just wasn't bothered...he was asking me did I think it was right that she was controlling his sex life because they were married and he was being faithful, and hence couldn't? get any... |
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"What's the dilemma? Did he ask you to fuck him?
He wanting sex ( not with me lol!!) But his wife isn't bothered and he wants to be faithful?? My guess hes big time stuck"
Tell him to get rid of her. Wives are for laundry and fucking. Why should he pay for a house to keep her in if she's not giving him sex? |
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"What's the dilemma? Did he ask you to fuck him?
He wanting sex ( not with me lol!!) But his wife isn't bothered and he wants to be faithful?? My guess hes big time stuck
Tell him to get rid of her. Wives are for laundry and fucking. Why should he pay for a house to keep her in if she's not giving him sex?"
A bit harsh, I'd dare say a lot of women on here would disagree with you on that |
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"He should talk to her and/or go to counselling (individual or couples if she'll go). "
I did suggest that, but he was very d*unk so I doubt he will even remember the chat....but if Im honest can't help feeling sorry the poor guy....he is a good bloke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the dilemma? Did he ask you to fuck him?
He wanting sex ( not with me lol!!) But his wife isn't bothered and he wants to be faithful?? My guess hes big time stuck
Tell him to get rid of her. Wives are for laundry and fucking. Why should he pay for a house to keep her in if she's not giving him sex?
A bit harsh, I'd dare say a lot of women on here would disagree with you on that"
They're probably shagging their husbands. |
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"He should talk to her and/or go to counselling (individual or couples if she'll go).
I did suggest that, but he was very d*unk so I doubt he will even remember the chat....but if Im honest can't help feeling sorry the poor guy....he is a good bloke."
It's not really a conversation for anyone else or to have on the sauce. |
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"He should talk to her and/or go to counselling (individual or couples if she'll go).
I did suggest that, but he was very d*unk so I doubt he will even remember the chat....but if Im honest can't help feeling sorry the poor guy....he is a good bloke.
It's not really a conversation for anyone else or to have on the sauce. "
I agree but he was letting his mouth flow, and I just listened... |
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"Someone just messaged me to say he should join fab...and I should tell him about it....any thoughts
No. Recipe for disaster. "
Think you might be right there, besides im not keen on letting him know im on here |
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"I was out at the Xmas work do the other night, and a friend and work mate started to tell me he was not getting any sex at home with the missus ( he was clearly d*unk)....he went on to say that he thought it wasn't fair as both where young (36) and fit, his view was that she just wasn't bothered...he was asking me did I think it was right that she was controlling his sex life because they were married and he was being faithful, and hence couldn't? get any..."
so you offered to help him? Is that point of thread?
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
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Whats wrong with people who arent happy with their sex lives just speaking frankly to their partners and laying it on the line that its imprtant to them huh? It would either make or break it but cheating because you dont want to upset them or tackle an issue is just not the answer |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone just messaged me to say he should join fab...and I should tell him about it....any thoughts"
You only know his (d*unken) side of the story. Maybe he’s a shit shag and she’s fed up? Maybe she’s on fab herself? I’d keep out of it if I were you |
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"Whats wrong with people who arent happy with their sex lives just speaking frankly to their partners and laying it on the line that its imprtant to them huh? It would either make or break it but cheating because you dont want to upset them or tackle an issue is just not the answer "
Married people don't talk to each other. Why would they do that?
He should get rid or fuck around. Getting him on here is a great idea. Wall to wall pussy. He'll have the time of his life fucking hundreds of women. |
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"Someone just messaged me to say he should join fab...and I should tell him about it....any thoughts
You only know his (d*unken) side of the story. Maybe he’s a shit shag and she’s fed up? Maybe she’s on fab herself? I’d keep out of it if I were you "
I agree and I intend to keep out of it.... however I was only passing on the chat that he had with me, and interested in the opinions of fab users |
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"I was out at the Xmas work do the other night, and a friend and work mate started to tell me he was not getting any sex at home with the missus ( he was clearly d*unk)....he went on to say that he thought it wasn't fair as both where young (36) and fit, his view was that she just wasn't bothered...he was asking me did I think it was right that she was controlling his sex life because they were married and he was being faithful, and hence couldn't? get any..."
Sorry I don't get your dilemma, he might have one but you don't unless you secretly fancy him or her? |
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"I was out at the Xmas work do the other night, and a friend and work mate started to tell me he was not getting any sex at home with the missus ( he was clearly d*unk)....he went on to say that he thought it wasn't fair as both where young (36) and fit, his view was that she just wasn't bothered...he was asking me did I think it was right that she was controlling his sex life because they were married and he was being faithful, and hence couldn't? get any...
Sorry I don't get your dilemma, he might have one but you don't unless you secretly fancy him or her? "
Did I say that I had the dilemma??
Clearly it's not my dilemma, and as you have seen my profile you would see im straight and therefore not interested in a married man... |
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I always feel a bit sorry for anyone in this situation and I mean both parties. Very few people commit to long term relationships expecting them to become sexless. However anyone looking in from the outside has no idea how a couple reach the point where they aren't having sex. She might be exhausted and he might be unsympathetic to that, she might not like sex and just did it to keep him happy, he might be an inconsiderate lover...the options are endless. The only thing an outsider can do is tell them to talk to each other. |
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"What's the dilemma? Did he ask you to fuck him?
He wanting sex ( not with me lol!!) But his wife isn't bothered and he wants to be faithful?? My guess hes big time stuck
Tell him to get rid of her. Wives are for laundry and fucking. Why should he pay for a house to keep her in if she's not giving him sex?"
I. Just. Spat. My. Drink. Out.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was out at the Xmas work do the other night, and a friend and work mate started to tell me he was not getting any sex at home with the missus ( he was clearly d*unk)....he went on to say that he thought it wasn't fair as both where young (36) and fit, his view was that she just wasn't bothered...he was asking me did I think it was right that she was controlling his sex life because they were married and he was being faithful, and hence couldn't? get any..."
They should try talking to each other...not random people! |
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"I was out at the Xmas work do the other night, and a friend and work mate started to tell me he was not getting any sex at home with the missus ( he was clearly d*unk)....he went on to say that he thought it wasn't fair as both where young (36) and fit, his view was that she just wasn't bothered...he was asking me did I think it was right that she was controlling his sex life because they were married and he was being faithful, and hence couldn't? get any...
Sorry I don't get your dilemma, he might have one but you don't unless you secretly fancy him or her?
Did I say that I had the dilemma??
Clearly it's not my dilemma, and as you have seen my profile you would see im straight and therefore not interested in a married man..."
It isn't clear it isn't your dilemma at all, or why are you discussing "your friends" dilemma on a public forum, as a minimum your over invested. Oh, and straight means nothing on fabs from the number of straight men I get messaging me 
I literally cannot envisage a situation where I felt the need to discuss a close friends marriage with a bunch of strangers on a sex site. Utterly weird. Have fun i'll leave you to it. |
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"He should talk to her and/or go to counselling (individual or couples if she'll go).
I did suggest that, but he was very d*unk so I doubt he will even remember the chat....but if Im honest can't help feeling sorry the poor guy....he is a good bloke."
To be fair he could be contributing to his wife not wanting sex. How does he treat her? Is he keeping romance alive etc., etc. It's easy for the guy to think it's not him. |
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"I was out at the Xmas work do the other night, and a friend and work mate started to tell me he was not getting any sex at home with the missus ( he was clearly d*unk)....he went on to say that he thought it wasn't fair as both where young (36) and fit, his view was that she just wasn't bothered...he was asking me did I think it was right that she was controlling his sex life because they were married and he was being faithful, and hence couldn't? get any...
Sorry I don't get your dilemma, he might have one but you don't unless you secretly fancy him or her?
Did I say that I had the dilemma??
Clearly it's not my dilemma, and as you have seen my profile you would see im straight and therefore not interested in a married man...
It isn't clear it isn't your dilemma at all, or why are you discussing "your friends" dilemma on a public forum, as a minimum your over invested. Oh, and straight means nothing on fabs from the number of straight men I get messaging me
I literally cannot envisage a situation where I felt the need to discuss a close friends marriage with a bunch of strangers on a sex site. Utterly weird. Have fun i'll leave you to it. "
First the friend has not been identified in any way on here....
Two straight may mean nothing to you, but i guess I say what I mean...when Im say im straight im mean im straight
I guess your a bit sheltered on fab if you think this topic is weird on fab, I have read much stranger things |
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By *nestWoman
over a year ago
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"What's the dilemma? Did he ask you to fuck him?
He wanting sex ( not with me lol!!) But his wife isn't bothered and he wants to be faithful?? My guess hes big time stuck
Tell him to get rid of her. Wives are for laundry and fucking. Why should he pay for a house to keep her in if she's not giving him sex?
A bit harsh, I'd dare say a lot of women on here would disagree with you on that"
I’m presuming it’s a joke or sarcasm |
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