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How do you choose who to meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's such hard work, so many messages coming in thick and fast. How do you choose who to meet?
If you get a lot of offers do you ditch the social and just fuck to save time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just say yes to anything that might potentially have a pulse...or a crevis of some type.
Or maybe even something that looks like a crevis. I also say yes to things that move.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just say yes to anything that might potentially have a pulse...or a crevis of some type.
Or maybe even something that looks like a crevis. I also say yes to things that move. "
The only way for a lad to get anything on here isn’t it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just say yes to anything that might potentially have a pulse...or a crevis of some type.
Or maybe even something that looks like a crevis. I also say yes to things that move.
The only way for a lad to get anything on here isn’t it! "
To be honest, I have had two people arrange with me But cancel. I've had one offer that I politely declined. So I'm feeling pretty hopeful. I'm currently having some good conversations. Fingers crossed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh yeah, with my hundred odd messages a day, I try and work out who is less of a twat and meet that one.  "
You should spin your phone down the huge message list then stop it with your thumb, wherever it lands is who you pick. Like an upright roulette wheel. Never failed yet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh yeah, with my hundred odd messages a day, I try and work out who is less of a twat and meet that one.
You should spin your phone down the huge message list then stop it with your thumb, wherever it lands is who you pick. Like an upright roulette wheel. Never failed yet "
That's a good idea, I'll try that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh yeah, with my hundred odd messages a day, I try and work out who is less of a twat and meet that one. "
Are there different levels of twat then, I think I must be in the upper reaches, but I know the bar if very high ?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh yeah, with my hundred odd messages a day, I try and work out who is less of a twat and meet that one.
You should spin your phone down the huge message list then stop it with your thumb, wherever it lands is who you pick. Like an upright roulette wheel. Never failed yet "
Damn the two years! Missed out here  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"I just say yes to anything that might potentially have a pulse...or a crevis of some type.
Or maybe even something that looks like a crevis. I also say yes to things that move. "
Is next doors cat looking pretty good about now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It actually is quite difficult, not the volume of messages, that's controllable with filters, but I'm finding myself easily put off people lately  "
You can afford to be picky with a body like that |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh yeah, with my hundred odd messages a day, I try and work out who is less of a twat and meet that one.
Are there different levels of twat then, I think I must be in the upper reaches, but I know the bar if very high ?! "
Yeah, of course there is. You're a tolerable one so not that upper. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I stick with a few things.
Read my the profile
Then make me laugh while reading messages.
Or as happened last Tuesday evening after being hounded by 1 young man (41) agreed to meet for a coffee. Always sent me funny messages
Weekend started with a Bang lol |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Oh yeah, with my hundred odd messages a day, I try and work out who is less of a twat and meet that one.
Are there different levels of twat then, I think I must be in the upper reaches, but I know the bar if very high ?! "
You're an elite amateur, I'm a pro. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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Even I get loads of messages every day.
For me it's more luck than me choosing. If I find myself with a bit of free time I look at the last few messages and go from there.
Sometimes I don't log on here for a couple of days if I'm busy so if people have messaged me on those days I'm afraid they tend to miss out. |
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I have a points spreadsheet.
From messages, forum comments etc I score each man and whoever gets a high score gets a social. One or two are steadily making the formulas on the spreadsheet work well  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I stick with a few things.
Read my the profile
Then make me laugh while reading messages.
Or as happened last Tuesday evening after being hounded by 1 young man (41) agreed to meet for a coffee. Always sent me funny messages
Weekend started with a Bang lol"
Yay!  |
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A message that makes me laugh or smile goes to the top and will get a response.
(Interesting photos help.
I also check veries to see if the person actually has recent meets or is living on Fantasy Island) |
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"It's such hard work, so many messages coming in thick and fast. How do you choose who to meet?
If you get a lot of offers do you ditch the social and just fuck to save time?"
I find a ticket system helps... And those queue barrier thingies you find at banks and airports. If its a really busy day I stick Jeremy Kyle on a wall-mounted telly to keep them amused while they wait their turn. I'm considering installing a vending machine for snacks... I keep running out of cake. |
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"It's such hard work, so many messages coming in thick and fast. How do you choose who to meet?
If you get a lot of offers do you ditch the social and just fuck to save time?"
Well, obviously it takes a bit of time to wade through the hundreds of Faf messages I get on a daily basis.
It's so hard to decide who matches what I'm specifically looking for.
So I just look at the vag pics they've sent and crack one out.
*Saves time. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"It's such hard work, so many messages coming in thick and fast. How do you choose who to meet?
If you get a lot of offers do you ditch the social and just fuck to save time?
I find a ticket system helps... And those queue barrier thingies you find at banks and airports. If its a really busy day I stick Jeremy Kyle on a wall-mounted telly to keep them amused while they wait their turn. I'm considering installing a vending machine for snacks... I keep running out of cake. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's such hard work, so many messages coming in thick and fast. How do you choose who to meet?
If you get a lot of offers do you ditch the social and just fuck to save time?
I find a ticket system helps... And those queue barrier thingies you find at banks and airports. If its a really busy day I stick Jeremy Kyle on a wall-mounted telly to keep them amused while they wait their turn. I'm considering installing a vending machine for snacks... I keep running out of cake. "
My arse didn't get like this from giving cake away!
The tickets sound good. Off to the shops.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve no plans to meet now but I have met one person from fab and when we did it was after a lot of chatting.
I’ve got a gf now and I’d rather spend my spare time with her than arranging meets with someone else. |
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"I’ve no plans to meet now but I have met one person from fab and when we did it was after a lot of chatting.
I’ve got a gf now and I’d rather spend my spare time with her than arranging meets with someone else."
That's fair. I think even when meeting we prioritise those we enjoy spending time with most |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sarcastic Northern humour often sorts that issue out.. works for me
Only because you love being beaten...hmmmmm not gonna happen  "
Already has..quit your carping on cupcake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sarcastic Northern humour often sorts that issue out.. works for me
Only because you love being beaten...hmmmmm not gonna happen
Already has..quit your carping on cupcake."
stop playing coy u know your hooked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sarcastic Northern humour often sorts that issue out.. works for me
Only because you love being beaten...hmmmmm not gonna happen
Already has..quit your carping on cupcake.stop playing coy u know your hooked"
That's a shopping trolley I attached earlier.. keep tugging.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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normally a build up of messaging, chatting on the phone etc then meet.
so far the majority have been good, a couple bad ones but im sure everyone has meets they would rather forget.
thats the fab experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"normally a build up of messaging, chatting on the phone etc then meet.
so far the majority have been good, a couple bad ones but im sure everyone has meets they would rather forget.
thats the fab experience."
Hopefully after next weekend you won’t wanna forget me. Hehe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"normally a build up of messaging, chatting on the phone etc then meet.
so far the majority have been good, a couple bad ones but im sure everyone has meets they would rather forget.
thats the fab experience.
Hopefully after next weekend you won’t wanna forget me. Hehe "
when is my train outta here ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"normally a build up of messaging, chatting on the phone etc then meet.
so far the majority have been good, a couple bad ones but im sure everyone has meets they would rather forget.
thats the fab experience.
Hopefully after next weekend you won’t wanna forget me. Hehe
when is my train outta here ffs"
Cheeky sod!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"normally a build up of messaging, chatting on the phone etc then meet.
so far the majority have been good, a couple bad ones but im sure everyone has meets they would rather forget.
thats the fab experience.
Hopefully after next weekend you won’t wanna forget me. Hehe
when is my train outta here ffs
Cheeky sod!!"
anybody in plymouth want dinner then back to my hotel for the night? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"normally a build up of messaging, chatting on the phone etc then meet.
so far the majority have been good, a couple bad ones but im sure everyone has meets they would rather forget.
thats the fab experience.
Hopefully after next weekend you won’t wanna forget me. Hehe
when is my train outta here ffs
Cheeky sod!!
anybody in plymouth want dinner then back to my hotel for the night?"
8-1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"normally a build up of messaging, chatting on the phone etc then meet.
so far the majority have been good, a couple bad ones but im sure everyone has meets they would rather forget.
thats the fab experience.
Hopefully after next weekend you won’t wanna forget me. Hehe
when is my train outta here ffs
Cheeky sod!!
anybody in plymouth want dinner then back to my hotel for the night?"
You’re in my home town |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"normally a build up of messaging, chatting on the phone etc then meet.
so far the majority have been good, a couple bad ones but im sure everyone has meets they would rather forget.
thats the fab experience.
Hopefully after next weekend you won’t wanna forget me. Hehe
when is my train outta here ffs
Cheeky sod!!
anybody in plymouth want dinner then back to my hotel for the night?
You’re in my home town "
for my sins fringe. yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would generally opt for those who I could see myself having a laugh with of there wasn't any sexual chemistry in person.
That way it wouldn't feel like either of us had wasted the others time, as we'd still enjoyed each others company.
P x |
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I meet in person, in a public place. If we like each other enough, we may decide to meet again. We keep in touch until that happens. I also have a profile that scares off most of them and have preferences that exclude 99% of Fab users, so do not have the problem of getting too many messages, either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish i got enough messages that I had this problem lol"
Actually, I'm in a similar position regarding the number of messages I get, but that doesn't mean that I should accept whatever little comes my way in terms of offers.
I tend to find that the rare offers I do get are from people who clearly haven't read my profile, and so may be asking for me to meet at times that are impossible for me etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don’t.
We’re not interested in meeting strangers.
We meet people at group social’s and if we like anyone we attempt to build up a friendship and then hopefully a sexual relationship.
We’re in no rush. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don’t.
We’re not interested in meeting strangers.
We meet people at group social’s and if we like anyone we attempt to build up a friendship and then hopefully a sexual relationship.
We’re in no rush."
*flirt*
Hint hint
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don’t.
We’re not interested in meeting strangers.
We meet people at group social’s and if we like anyone we attempt to build up a friendship and then hopefully a sexual relationship.
We’re in no rush.
*flirt*
Hint hint
P x"
Hello stranger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you like me on here the choice is very simple you meet who ever agrees to meet up with you. It’s that hard to get anyone to agree when it does happen you have to grab the opportunity with both hands. |
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