It'd depend on the person.
It's often safer than a one on one meet, people have your back. It's not as seedy as you might imagine. You only do what you feel comfortable with. You get used to dressing down and the other "weird" aspects quite quickly. Private rooms if you don't fancy being watched. Or public spaces and enormous opportunity for unusual sexual situations! |
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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago
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"If you were speaking with someone unsure if they should try a club how would you sell it to them? "
Waiting for the replys on this one good question dotz you just made me smile haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were speaking with someone unsure if they should try a club how would you sell it to them? "
just make it a dare eg are you shy, could you not get a hard on if people are watching or cmon get your money out you tightarse
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
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Firstly stay off the alcohol, that is a disaster waiting to happen if you are nervous.
Secondly, find someone who visits the club to maybe take you by the hand and show you around. Most club staff will give you a guided tour on your first visit.
Try to relax, you will be under no pressure to do anything, just treat it as any other night out. Keep your mind open and enjoy it. |
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over a year ago
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"If you were speaking with someone unsure if they should try a club how would you sell it to them? "
Come to the club with me and after you can eat a twirl out my vagina |
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If they are new to the scene then there is less pressure at a club than 1on1, 2on2 etc. planned meet. Can dip their toe in and see what they like...or might like.
If they know what they like then there’s lots of opportunities plus opportunity to try something a little different. And you can skip polite conversation if you want lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?"
not much, just contents of your wallet |
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet "
So its dogging for you then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet
So its dogging for you then "
oh no, don't mention that word to me |
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet "
Wow £40 the contents of your wallet
See thread on who should pay  |
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet
So its dogging for you then oh no, don't mention that word to me "
Or are you a hippy, free love orgy type scenario  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet
Wow £40 the contents of your wallet
See thread on who should pay "
I've seen it and at minute, remember it's Xmas , money just disappears like it's going out of fashion |
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet
Wow £40 the contents of your wallet
See thread on who should pay I've seen it and at minute, remember it's Xmas , money just disappears like it's going out of fashion "
Then forget my presents and join a club instead  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet
Wow £40 the contents of your wallet
See thread on who should pay I've seen it and at minute, remember it's Xmas , money just disappears like it's going out of fashion
Then forget my presents and join a club instead "
presents omg bet you get spoilt rotten at Xmas |
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet
Wow £40 the contents of your wallet
See thread on who should pay I've seen it and at minute, remember it's Xmas , money just disappears like it's going out of fashion
Then forget my presents and join a club instead "
Now thats a fun present |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you were speaking with someone unsure if they should try a club how would you sell it to them?
Come to the club with me and after you can eat a twirl out my vagina"
You have a vagina?!  |
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet
Wow £40 the contents of your wallet
See thread on who should pay I've seen it and at minute, remember it's Xmas , money just disappears like it's going out of fashion
Then forget my presents and join a club instead presents omg bet you get spoilt rotten at Xmas "
Presents are like a dog
Not just for Xmas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet
Wow £40 the contents of your wallet
See thread on who should pay I've seen it and at minute, remember it's Xmas , money just disappears like it's going out of fashion
Then forget my presents and join a club instead presents omg bet you get spoilt rotten at Xmas
Presents are like a dog
Not just for Xmas"
diamonds are a girls best friend |
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet
Wow £40 the contents of your wallet
See thread on who should pay I've seen it and at minute, remember it's Xmas , money just disappears like it's going out of fashion
Then forget my presents and join a club instead presents omg bet you get spoilt rotten at Xmas
Presents are like a dog
Not just for Xmasdiamonds are a girls best friend "
Got those  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet
Wow £40 the contents of your wallet
See thread on who should pay I've seen it and at minute, remember it's Xmas , money just disappears like it's going out of fashion
Then forget my presents and join a club instead presents omg bet you get spoilt rotten at Xmas
Presents are like a dog
Not just for Xmasdiamonds are a girls best friend
Got those "
What's on your list this year then? |
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet
Wow £40 the contents of your wallet
See thread on who should pay I've seen it and at minute, remember it's Xmas , money just disappears like it's going out of fashion
Then forget my presents and join a club instead presents omg bet you get spoilt rotten at Xmas
Presents are like a dog
Not just for Xmasdiamonds are a girls best friend
Got those What's on your list this year then? "
Nothing really
We don't really bother with gifts for each other.
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"It's not what you expect
Just go, be sociable, be yourself and have a great time.
If you don't like it after that, what have you lost?not much, just contents of your wallet
Wow £40 the contents of your wallet
See thread on who should pay I've seen it and at minute, remember it's Xmas , money just disappears like it's going out of fashion
Then forget my presents and join a club instead presents omg bet you get spoilt rotten at Xmas
Presents are like a dog
Not just for Xmasdiamonds are a girls best friend
Got those What's on your list this year then?
Nothing really
We don't really bother with gifts for each other.
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ahhhh yes I get that, I mean what do you get the man who has everything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were speaking with someone unsure if they should try a club how would you sell it to them? "
We could do with that advice! Drove to Blackpool, booked hotel for 2 nights with intention of infusion....came home before getting there without staying one night!!! |
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"If you were speaking with someone unsure if they should try a club how would you sell it to them?
We could do with that advice! Drove to Blackpool, booked hotel for 2 nights with intention of infusion....came home before getting there without staying one night!!! "
nerves? |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"Go, get pissed, get sex."
Not this. Being hammered in clubs isn't great etiquette. Why make it so you aren't making sober choices? I will have 1 or 2 in a club, but a d*unken arse is even sadder waving his limp dick about because he can't get it up.
If you wouldn't do someone sober, don't expect them to do you when you are d*unk.
I would just say turn up with someone you trust, mingle and see how it goes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were speaking with someone unsure if they should try a club how would you sell it to them? "
Off here, I wouldn't, would honestly rather most didn't, they wouldn't fit and wouldn't like it.
If it was somebody I thought would enjoy it and fit in, just tell them about our wonderful experiences from day 1. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were speaking with someone unsure if they should try a club how would you sell it to them? "
Go along, no pressure to play and leave at any time they want. And don't drink much. I think they are great myself but it can take a few visits to get comfortable with for a first timer. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"If you were speaking with someone unsure if they should try a club how would you sell it to them? "
. I would recommended a club I have been too and relate my experience.If the club is on Fabs I would advise read the reviews from other club goers that way you get more advice and opinions which may or may not help.I would also advise treat it as a normal club and behave like a adult not a child like some do thinking they have paid there money they are entitled to sex that’s not how it works.My attitude has always been go enjoy your night be respectful and courtesy and anything more ( sex ) is a bonus.
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"It'd depend on the person.
It's often safer than a one on one meet, people have your back. It's not as seedy as you might imagine. You only do what you feel comfortable with. You get used to dressing down and the other "weird" aspects quite quickly. Private rooms if you don't fancy being watched. Or public spaces and enormous opportunity for unusual sexual situations! "
Ok, I could be persuaded by this pitch! |
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"If they are new to the scene then there is less pressure at a club than 1on1, 2on2 etc. planned meet. Can dip their toe in and see what they like...or might like.
If they know what they like then there’s lots of opportunities plus opportunity to try something a little different. And you can skip polite conversation if you want lol"
“dip their toe in”
Kinky buggers x |
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"If you were speaking with someone unsure if they should try a club how would you sell it to them? "
We’d talk about our experiences of clubs and how they work. We’d tell them that they can say no to anything/anyone and it will be respected.
We’d also tell them to not get d*unk - it’ll ruin their evening and spoil it for others.
We’d also offer to go with them on a couples only night, so they’re not inundated by single guys on their first time x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you were speaking with someone unsure if they should try a club how would you sell it to them?
Off here, I wouldn't, would honestly rather most didn't, they wouldn't fit and wouldn't like it.
If it was somebody I thought would enjoy it and fit in, just tell them about our wonderful experiences from day 1."
What makes you say that about people on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's like going to the most chilled bar you've ever been to, where people are relaxed, open and very respectful. And yeah some people have sex, but only in the environment they want to have sex in. It's the ultimate in no pressure to do anything. |
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