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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
Is your profile up to date? I often find that when a man expresses an interest in meeting and in the course of conversation I mention certain things that I have read on the profile. The usual response is that it needs updating or they can't even remember what's on there. Does anyone else find this frustrating? |
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over a year ago
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Mine is fashionably festive
When I revert to “normal” after Christmas it’ll be brand spanking new and up to date. (If I can be bothered to rewrite it in the meantime.
Otherwise I’ll just copy and paste the old one back!) |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I haven't changed mine in two years apart from the odd tweak here and there but it's fairly general and nothing has changed in terms of who/what I am looking for, and it's worked for me so far, so there's been no real need to change it ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Im finding I have the urge to change mine again. It still pretty much says what I need it to though. "
Me and the spiders are on first name terms now you know
As for the mice - you're not wrong, tried to put something decent on and they took a chunk out of my ankle!! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Im finding I have the urge to change mine again. It still pretty much says what I need it to though.
Me and the spiders are on first name terms now you know
As for the mice - you're not wrong, tried to put something decent on and they took a chunk out of my ankle!! "
The mice are loyal and savage The spiders are getting a bit big now though, those huge woolly ones that come in, in winter and terrorise even the dogs. It's getting scary ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Is your profile up to date? I often find that when a man expresses an interest in meeting and in the course of conversation I mention certain things that I have read on the profile. The usual response is that it needs updating or they can't even remember what's on there. Does anyone else find this frustrating?"
It’s incredibly annoying and makes us wonder why people even bother.
Our personal pet peeve is “We’re new to this...” and they’ve been here for a year or more with loads of veris. UPDATE YOUR SODDING PROFILES! |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
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"Is your profile up to date? I often find that when a man expresses an interest in meeting and in the course of conversation I mention certain things that I have read on the profile. The usual response is that it needs updating or they can't even remember what's on there. Does anyone else find this frustrating?
It’s incredibly annoying and makes us wonder why people even bother.
Our personal pet peeve is “We’re new to this...” and they’ve been here for a year or more with loads of veris. UPDATE YOUR SODDING PROFILES!" ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is your profile up to date? I often find that when a man expresses an interest in meeting and in the course of conversation I mention certain things that I have read on the profile. The usual response is that it needs updating or they can't even remember what's on there. Does anyone else find this frustrating?" naaaaa I don't find anything frustrating
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Im finding I have the urge to change mine again. It still pretty much says what I need it to though.
Me and the spiders are on first name terms now you know
As for the mice - you're not wrong, tried to put something decent on and they took a chunk out of my ankle!!
The mice are loyal and savage The spiders are getting a bit big now though, those huge woolly ones that come in, in winter and terrorise even the dogs. It's getting scary "
I've been fattening the spiders up specially - they're quite nice when you get to know them though - the mice on the other hand ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im finding I have the urge to change mine again. It still pretty much says what I need it to though.
Me and the spiders are on first name terms now you know
As for the mice - you're not wrong, tried to put something decent on and they took a chunk out of my ankle!!
The mice are loyal and savage The spiders are getting a bit big now though, those huge woolly ones that come in, in winter and terrorise even the dogs. It's getting scary "
Those big spiders are indoors all year round, they just venture out of hiding in the autumn looking for love : ) |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish) |
"Mines been undergoing tweaks and is due another one when I can decide what to put. Trying not to sound too mardy but also getting my points across is proving tricky " That is one amazing profile, it had me chuckling. |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"Im finding I have the urge to change mine again. It still pretty much says what I need it to though.
Me and the spiders are on first name terms now you know
As for the mice - you're not wrong, tried to put something decent on and they took a chunk out of my ankle!!
The mice are loyal and savage The spiders are getting a bit big now though, those huge woolly ones that come in, in winter and terrorise even the dogs. It's getting scary
Those big spiders are indoors all year round, they just venture out of hiding in the autumn looking for love : ) "
All this talk about spiders is making me shudder eeeeeew eeeeew ![](/icons/s/2/vom.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im finding I have the urge to change mine again. It still pretty much says what I need it to though.
Me and the spiders are on first name terms now you know
As for the mice - you're not wrong, tried to put something decent on and they took a chunk out of my ankle!!
The mice are loyal and savage The spiders are getting a bit big now though, those huge woolly ones that come in, in winter and terrorise even the dogs. It's getting scary
Those big spiders are indoors all year round, they just venture out of hiding in the autumn looking for love : ) "
Eek Noooooo ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im finding I have the urge to change mine again. It still pretty much says what I need it to though.
Me and the spiders are on first name terms now you know
As for the mice - you're not wrong, tried to put something decent on and they took a chunk out of my ankle!!
The mice are loyal and savage The spiders are getting a bit big now though, those huge woolly ones that come in, in winter and terrorise even the dogs. It's getting scary
Those big spiders are indoors all year round, they just venture out of hiding in the autumn looking for love : )
All this talk about spiders is making me shudder eeeeeew eeeeew "
I think I need to change my profile sooner rather than later. Giving myself the willies now ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Im finding I have the urge to change mine again. It still pretty much says what I need it to though.
Me and the spiders are on first name terms now you know
As for the mice - you're not wrong, tried to put something decent on and they took a chunk out of my ankle!!
The mice are loyal and savage The spiders are getting a bit big now though, those huge woolly ones that come in, in winter and terrorise even the dogs. It's getting scary
Those big spiders are indoors all year round, they just venture out of hiding in the autumn looking for love : )
All this talk about spiders is making me shudder eeeeeew eeeeew
I think I need to change my profile sooner rather than later. Giving myself the willies now "
You wish ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
"Mine is fashionably festive
When I revert to “normal” after Christmas it’ll be brand spanking new and up to date. (If I can be bothered to rewrite it in the meantime.
Otherwise I’ll just copy and paste the old one back!)"
It's a fun festive profile ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im finding I have the urge to change mine again. It still pretty much says what I need it to though.
Me and the spiders are on first name terms now you know
As for the mice - you're not wrong, tried to put something decent on and they took a chunk out of my ankle!!
The mice are loyal and savage The spiders are getting a bit big now though, those huge woolly ones that come in, in winter and terrorise even the dogs. It's getting scary
Those big spiders are indoors all year round, they just venture out of hiding in the autumn looking for love : )
All this talk about spiders is making me shudder eeeeeew eeeeew
I think I need to change my profile sooner rather than later. Giving myself the willies now
You wish "
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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
"Mine hadn't changed much for about 6 or 7 years, until I completely rewrote it a couple of weeks ago "
You sure went to a lot of effort to write as much as you did. ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
"I hardly ever update mine, I'm not convinced an up to date profile makes any difference. " I find when a profile says can't accommodate or they are a smoker I query why they want to meet me at theirs, shows my profile hasn't been read.
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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
"Im finding I have the urge to change mine again. It still pretty much says what I need it to though.
Me and the spiders are on first name terms now you know
As for the mice - you're not wrong, tried to put something decent on and they took a chunk out of my ankle!!
The mice are loyal and savage The spiders are getting a bit big now though, those huge woolly ones that come in, in winter and terrorise even the dogs. It's getting scary "
Did wonder why the mice and spiders joined the thread.... All makes sense now ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Mine hadn't changed much for about 6 or 7 years, until I completely rewrote it a couple of weeks ago
You sure went to a lot of effort to write as much as you did. "
Yeah, I was having a bit of banter with Steel Heels on here, I'll probably do it properly again in the not too distant future ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *pal OP Woman
over a year ago
The Bermuda Triangle in Suffolk |
"Mine hadn't changed much for about 6 or 7 years, until I completely rewrote it a couple of weeks ago
You sure went to a lot of effort to write as much as you did.
Yeah, I was having a bit of banter with Steel Heels on here, I'll probably do it properly again in the not too distant future "
Who doesn't love a bit of banter ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mines been undergoing tweaks and is due another one when I can decide what to put. Trying not to sound too mardy but also getting my points across is proving tricky "
I gave in to the mardy in a moment of meh! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hardly ever update mine, I'm not convinced an up to date profile makes any difference. I find when a profile says can't accommodate or they are a smoker I query why they want to meet me at theirs, shows my profile hasn't been read. "
Crikey a response!! Glad I was sat down for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm always tweaking my profile, just because sometimes I read it and think bits are naff so do a rewrite.. The content doesn't change that much, it's more the gramner and expression of the content. ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love the ones that start, "I'm a 29 year old guy", profile is over a year old, and their listed age is 35."
I saw one the other day from a woman and in the profile she was 52 but in the written content she was only 29.. Wierd ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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"Mines been undergoing tweaks and is due another one when I can decide what to put. Trying not to sound too mardy but also getting my points across is proving tricky
I gave in to the mardy in a moment of meh! "
Aw cheer up Brian ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine hadn't changed much for about 6 or 7 years, until I completely rewrote it a couple of weeks ago
You sure went to a lot of effort to write as much as you did.
Yeah, I was having a bit of banter with Steel Heels on here, I'll probably do it properly again in the not too distant future "
Steely's a right mardy arse, you can do better Ace. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My profile needs sorting. Been a while since I actually spruced it up. But, I’m crap at writing profiles. Messaging me is the best way to get to know me I think. I’m not the best at selling myself
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"My profile needs sorting. Been a while since I actually spruced it up. But, I’m crap at writing profiles. Messaging me is the best way to get to know me I think. I’m not the best at selling myself
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All you ladies reading this, please mail Pops. He's adorable and a lovely man. Even if you think I'm a twat because of my forum posts. Pops is awesome. ![](/icons/s/2/lovestruck.gif) |
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"My profile needs sorting. Been a while since I actually spruced it up. But, I’m crap at writing profiles. Messaging me is the best way to get to know me I think. I’m not the best at selling myself
All you ladies reading this, please mail Pops. He's adorable and a lovely man. Even if you think I'm a twat because of my forum posts. Pops is awesome. "
I wish my profile was a two word wonder like you miss.
One can dream.
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"Is your profile up to date? I often find that when a man expresses an interest in meeting and in the course of conversation I mention certain things that I have read on the profile. The usual response is that it needs updating or they can't even remember what's on there. Does anyone else find this frustrating?"
We update ours constantly... tastes are always changing as we're getting more experimental and trying new things so we like to keep it as up to date as possible ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"My profile needs sorting. Been a while since I actually spruced it up. But, I’m crap at writing profiles. Messaging me is the best way to get to know me I think. I’m not the best at selling myself
All you ladies reading this, please mail Pops. He's adorable and a lovely man. Even if you think I'm a twat because of my forum posts. Pops is awesome.
I wish my profile was a two word wonder like you miss.
One can dream.
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I only have 2 words because I'm a knob. You know I'm a knob.
I don't 'do' compliments and all that white knight shit. I honestly think you're fucking awesome. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gave mine a quick polish and shine recently; it's not too shabby I think but am always open to critique
And what about your profile? "
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"Mine hadn't changed much for about 6 or 7 years, until I completely rewrote it a couple of weeks ago
You sure went to a lot of effort to write as much as you did.
Yeah, I was having a bit of banter with Steel Heels on here, I'll probably do it properly again in the not too distant future
Steely's a right mardy arse, you can do better Ace. "
Yes Miss
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