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How much do you need to see if the person do you need to see before a meet ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Face is a given obviously, but how much of their body do you need to see. I’ve been caught out before on a well known ‘dating’ app, where I only saw the face and was taken a bit by surprise when she rocked up.
Ladies do you need to see all of the goods first or are you happy taking a risk and hoping he doesn’t pull up short ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Face is a given obviously, but how much of their body do you need to see. I’ve been caught out before on a well known ‘dating’ app, where I only saw the face and was taken a bit by surprise when she rocked up.
Ladies do you need to see all of the goods first or are you happy taking a risk and hoping he doesn’t pull up short ?
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Due to the Instagram age, we always view all pics we receive with an open mind. Who really is going to send the worst picture of themselves on a swingers website? Personally we don’t use filters as we are old, but from previous meets, some people have turned up totally different in the flesh, and often are much older than their pics. We do have to find people attractive so would like to see a face pic before we meet as a start point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to see their passport
And see how many points they’ve got on there Nectar card."
That's key. Those points will come in handy during the Zombie apocalypse. Maybe. |
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"Face is a given obviously, but how much of their body do you need to see. I’ve been caught out before on a well known ‘dating’ app, where I only saw the face and was taken a bit by surprise when she rocked up.
Ladies do you need to see all of the goods first or are you happy taking a risk and hoping he doesn’t pull up short ?
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After being deliberately deceived a few times, I want to see all there is to see now!  |
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All of them. On an early social I made the rookie mistake of meeting someone based only on a pleasant enough face pic and took for granted that he'd described his body type truthfully. He hadn't, and I was annoyed I'd been fibbed to as much as the fact I didn't find him attractive overall. It wasted his time as well as mine. |
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I've rarely seen anyone I've met's cock beforehand! I tend to be attracted to artistic, creative people and that's usually reflected in their photos... Lots of tastefully teasing ones without giving too much away... I enjoy the unwrapping and discovery too much  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"All of them. On an early social I made the rookie mistake of meeting someone based only on a pleasant enough face pic and took for granted that he'd described his body type truthfully. He hadn't, and I was annoyed I'd been fibbed to as much as the fact I didn't find him attractive overall. It wasted his time as well as mine."
The meet I had where I only saw the face, she didn’t actually describe her body I just imagined what it was like, turned out I was way off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've rarely seen anyone I've met's cock beforehand! I tend to be attracted to artistic, creative people and that's usually reflected in their photos... Lots of tastefully teasing ones without giving too much away... I enjoy the unwrapping and discovery too much "
But sometimes you unwrap a present and it’s not what you wanted. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The title should read ; How much of the person do you need to see before a meet ? The Cervix, make sure it is healthy because it's gonna take some pounding.  "
I always ask when was the last time their Cervix was serviced.
(I don’t, I don’t what a Cervix is) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely ask to see their appendage haha. I don't flash mine, so it would be hypocritical of me to ask to see theirs. The face is enough for me  "
That should say never. I've never actually asked  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I rarely ask to see their appendage haha. I don't flash mine, so it would be hypocritical of me to ask to see theirs. The face is enough for me "
Beautiful face it is too. |
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"The title should read ; How much of the person do you need to see before a meet ? The Cervix, make sure it is healthy because it's gonna take some pounding.
I always ask when was the last time their Cervix was serviced.
(I don’t, I don’t what a Cervix is)"
It's a small town car that's easy to park. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"The title should read ; How much of the person do you need to see before a meet ? The Cervix, make sure it is healthy because it's gonna take some pounding.
I always ask when was the last time their Cervix was serviced.
(I don’t, I don’t what a Cervix is)
It's a small town car that's easy to park."
Nice save  |
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A bank statement
Seriously a face is a must and I'd like to see a full body photo but not bothered if it clothed or naked. Having been duped once or twice I now insist on the first meet being a social one for a limited time that can be extended. |
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"All of them. On an early social I made the rookie mistake of meeting someone based only on a pleasant enough face pic and took for granted that he'd described his body type truthfully. He hadn't, and I was annoyed I'd been fibbed to as much as the fact I didn't find him attractive overall. It wasted his time as well as mine.
The meet I had where I only saw the face, she didn’t actually describe her body I just imagined what it was like, turned out I was way off. "
Body descriptions are so subjective anyway. I describe myself very differently on a good day compared to a bad day when I'll say I look like a scarecrow or similar. And 'slim', 'average' etc mean different things to different people. I'm more 'I know what I like when I see it' - but would rather see a photo ahead of time to ascertain there's a possibility of attraction than traipse somewhere to find out without any idea at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The title should read ; How much of the person do you need to see before a meet ?
I want to see their English books full of green ticks. "
And little smiley faces? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The title should read ; How much of the person do you need to see before a meet ?
I want to see their English books full of green ticks.
And little smiley faces? "
Yes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A fully-dressed head to toe pic of them out and about, preferably sight-seeing.
I like to see how they stand in a relaxed position. "
Foot on a log, pointing at a random squirrel and laughing. |
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"I've rarely seen anyone I've met's cock beforehand! I tend to be attracted to artistic, creative people and that's usually reflected in their photos... Lots of tastefully teasing ones without giving too much away... I enjoy the unwrapping and discovery too much
But sometimes you unwrap a present and it’s not what you wanted. "
Rarely happens if you're clear to folk about what you want
If I meet someone for coffee and the chemistry isn't there, I won't be unwrapping anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A fully-dressed head to toe pic of them out and about, preferably sight-seeing.
I like to see how they stand in a relaxed position.
Foot on a log, pointing at a random squirrel and laughing. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would expect to show someone all of me without hesitation, who are the people who are genuinely willing to meet someone but not show them what they look like? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would expect to show someone all of me without hesitation, who are the people who are genuinely willing to meet someone but not show them what they look like? "
As in expecting them to show you them, in all their naked glory? |
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"I would expect to show someone all of me without hesitation, who are the people who are genuinely willing to meet someone but not show them what they look like?
As in expecting them to show you them, in all their naked glory? "
You know you want to lol. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All of them. On an early social I made the rookie mistake of meeting someone based only on a pleasant enough face pic and took for granted that he'd described his body type truthfully. He hadn't, and I was annoyed I'd been fibbed to as much as the fact I didn't find him attractive overall. It wasted his time as well as mine.
The meet I had where I only saw the face, she didn’t actually describe her body I just imagined what it was like, turned out I was way off. "
Did the deed anyway though OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would expect to show someone all of me without hesitation, who are the people who are genuinely willing to meet someone but not show them what they look like?
As in expecting them to show you them, in all their naked glory?
You know you want to lol. X "
Hahaha nice try x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"All of them. On an early social I made the rookie mistake of meeting someone based only on a pleasant enough face pic and took for granted that he'd described his body type truthfully. He hadn't, and I was annoyed I'd been fibbed to as much as the fact I didn't find him attractive overall. It wasted his time as well as mine.
The meet I had where I only saw the face, she didn’t actually describe her body I just imagined what it was like, turned out I was way off.
Did the deed anyway though OP?"
Obviously |
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