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Getting over a good meet...
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
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As a follow on from the 'bad meet' thread I was wondering if people have ever had such a good meet that it's left them reevaluation their position on fab.
Maybe it was the post meet come down or maybe you felt something more.
Share your stories here folks and how you got over it, if you did. |
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"None that have made me reevaluate my position on fab, but now and again you find one so good that it can take the shine off talking to new people a bit. I know what I mean  "
Yes, I get that. A really good meet raises the bar for the poor buggers who come after... |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"None that have made me reevaluate my position on fab, but now and again you find one so good that it can take the shine off talking to new people a bit. I know what I mean "
I know what you mean too. How did you deal with that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None that have made me reevaluate my position on fab, but now and again you find one so good that it can take the shine off talking to new people a bit. I know what I mean
Yes, I get that. A really good meet raises the bar for the poor buggers who come after..."
I set a bar so low that the borrowers couldn't limbo under it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"None that have made me reevaluate my position on fab, but now and again you find one so good that it can take the shine off talking to new people a bit. I know what I mean
Yes, I get that. A really good meet raises the bar for the poor buggers who come after..."
 I agree.
Can always tell it was a really good meet if I get all gloomy and tearful and just want to eat everything the next day too  |
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"None that have made me reevaluate my position on fab, but now and again you find one so good that it can take the shine off talking to new people a bit. I know what I mean
Yes, I get that. A really good meet raises the bar for the poor buggers who come after...
I set a bar so low that the borrowers couldn't limbo under it. "
One of the funniest insults I've heard is " He's so short he could walk under a coffee table wearing a top hat "... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"None that have made me reevaluate my position on fab, but now and again you find one so good that it can take the shine off talking to new people a bit. I know what I mean
Yes, I get that. A really good meet raises the bar for the poor buggers who come after...
I set a bar so low that the borrowers couldn't limbo under it.
One of the funniest insults I've heard is " He's so short he could walk under a coffee table wearing a top hat "..."
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"None that have made me reevaluate my position on fab, but now and again you find one so good that it can take the shine off talking to new people a bit. I know what I mean
I know what you mean too. How did you deal with that? "
I've not quite figured that bit out yet, normally I'll have a moan about how rubbish everybody else is and then somebody else comes along and changes my mind  |
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I've had several that have been amazing.
Not just the sex, but everything.
Meeting someone who's company I totaly enjoyed, personalities that just clicked.
And yes, it has put me off meeting new people on numerous occasions.
I'd rather go without, than settle for average.
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"None that have made me reevaluate my position on fab, but now and again you find one so good that it can take the shine off talking to new people a bit. I know what I mean
Yes, I get that. A really good meet raises the bar for the poor buggers who come after..."
Thats a great way of putting it and so true. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think it's something I have had to get over - I can enjoy it for what it was. We carried on having repeat meets so maybe that helped. Or we started dating the poor sod.
Sometimes the comedown is a bit oh but normally I self care my way through it and give my head a wobble.
Sometimes you might think a meet is the absolute shit and the other might think it's shit - Meli's wise words of the day. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
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"I don't think it's something I have had to get over - I can enjoy it for what it was. We carried on having repeat meets so maybe that helped. Or we started dating the poor sod.
Sometimes the comedown is a bit oh but normally I self care my way through it and give my head a wobble.
Sometimes you might think a meet is the absolute shit and the other might think it's shit - Meli's wise words of the day."
Interesting point in there; how many people would go with the great meet and see where it went or would you just leave it and walk away? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had several that have been amazing.
Not just the sex, but everything.
Meeting someone who's company I totaly enjoyed, personalities that just clicked.
And yes, it has put me off meeting new people on numerous occasions.
I'd rather go without, than settle for average.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had several that have been amazing.
Not just the sex, but everything.
Meeting someone who's company I totaly enjoyed, personalities that just clicked.
And yes, it has put me off meeting new people on numerous occasions.
I'd rather go without, than settle for average.
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
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Fucking tell me about it -talk about the fantasy not living up to reality -my only caveat was that it was bloody dark and she could a been catfishing me -tho I'm sure she'll get nme to eat my words over that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had several that have been amazing.
Not just the sex, but everything.
Meeting someone who's company I totaly enjoyed, personalities that just clicked.
And yes, it has put me off meeting new people on numerous occasions.
I'd rather go without, than settle for average.
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I've had two meets like that, did not meet anyone for months after because of him. Did not need too. When I did go back on the scene it wasn't long before I met another amazing guy,still seeing him, just one of those rare things in life, amazing connection in and out of the bedroom.
He certainly isn't going anywhere. |
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Surely a good meet is what we’re all here for.
I’ve had lots of good, great and sometimes even perfect meets. The memories of such times have served me well in my times of need.
I don’t need to get over them. Just always looking for the next one  |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Surely a good meet is what we’re all here for.
I’ve had lots of good, great and sometimes even perfect meets. The memories of such times have served me well in my times of need.
I don’t need to get over them. Just always looking for the next one "
I probably phrased it badly, what I mean is; what do you do after a good meet, do you look to repeat it? Look for the next? Enjoy the after glow?
Do people struggle with a post great sex low?
That is more the direction of my question |
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"Surely a good meet is what we’re all here for.
I’ve had lots of good, great and sometimes even perfect meets. The memories of such times have served me well in my times of need.
I don’t need to get over them. Just always looking for the next one
I probably phrased it badly, what I mean is; what do you do after a good meet, do you look to repeat it? Look for the next? Enjoy the after glow?
Do people struggle with a post great sex low?
That is more the direction of my question"
I know. That was my answer
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I invest time in getting to know people before I meet them so when we do meet, it’s a continuation of what we’ve built up. Then if the meet is amazing, yes it’s slightly depressing but I keep in touch and keep the fire burning until we can meet again.
I love the afterglow as it shows it was a great time...  |
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"I've had several that have been amazing.
Not just the sex, but everything.
Meeting someone who's company I totaly enjoyed, personalities that just clicked.
And yes, it has put me off meeting new people on numerous occasions.
I'd rather go without, than settle for average.
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A fantastic connection with one or two people sets the bar very high. You'd rather spend time with those people again and again than take the chance that time spent with someone new might simply turn out to be a disappointment. When time is precious you learn to prioritise. |
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I’ve had some mind-blowing meets on fab.
I’ve had many, many really great meets on fab.
I’ve had a few which have been average or not good at all!
When I have a really fantastic meet I hope they’ll feel it was too and want to repeat it - they generally do!
I never get low after a great meet - they keep me smiling for days - but I sometimes do if one didn’t go so great! |
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