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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Prospective meets? Do you check who's near? The meets section? Forums? Or scour the advanced search pages?

Or maybe you're lucky enough to sit there and let them come to you!

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

We go to the club...simples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Prospective meets? Do you check who's near? The meets section? Forums? Or scour the advanced search pages?

Or maybe you're lucky enough to sit there and let them come to you!

They message me usually

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

99% forum folks

Iv had 3 none forum meets 2 messaged me 1 i messaged so we could both have a moan

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

A bit of all of them really! I like to get to know people first though so the forums have always been a good way of getting to know people in a no pressure environment. Social meets are good too.

I don't think there is any sense in limiting yourself though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Prospective meets? Do you check who's near? The meets section? Forums? Or scour the advanced search pages?

Or maybe you're lucky enough to sit there and let them come to you!

If I go to the clubs I keep it social. Get to know them then organise something otherwise through search. Forums is more of a haha and too many people on here take my comments seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Prospective meets? Do you check who's near? The meets section? Forums? Or scour the advanced search pages?

Or maybe you're lucky enough to sit there and let them come to you!

A mix of all except for "who's near". We don't use that.

Mrs

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

A mixture. My usual meets are found in the clubs. My next prospective meet randomly flirted with me in the forums and I immediately dug my claws in.

Rarely do I pursue a meet initiated from messages alone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A mix really, depends on the type of meet x

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By *rimson_RoseWoman over a year ago

Tamworth

Some message me. I message some. The forums have yielded a couple of interesting results...

I ovcasionally use local updates to keep an eye on who’s joined or pics that catch my eye to make first contact too.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

They message, most are not up to scratch though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Off the back of the forums or via messages I send from searches I do

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm becoming more proactive and just messaging those on my hotlist, having said that I did reply to a few messages today and made a new friend

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By *ot-AshMan over a year ago

London

I hang around my local bus stop.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

" Prospective meets? Do you check who's near? The meets section? Forums? Or scour the advanced search pages?

Or maybe you're lucky enough to sit there and let them come to you!

Never use 'Who's Near' I actually avoid meeting anyone too local to me.

Forums, I've met quite a few people after they've caught my attention on here, then chatting in pm.

Organised socials, have led to later encounters.

Clubs have been quite good fun too but the people I've met there have always been people I knew from the forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I set out my rod and throw some bait.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They message, most are not up to scratch though

The talkers who can't walk-ers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s been a mixture but I don’t really meet that often. Usually it’s because those I want to meet live miles away.

...and with my characteristics, it’s very difficult to sort something.

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By *orro_sMan over a year ago

Swansea

Who's near, but it's the same day in day out. More fun in the flirty forum's...

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I click my fingers...

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

I do occasionally send first messages if a profile catches my eye through searches or looking a BBW category pics. But looking back, most of my meets have come through clicking and chatting off the forum.

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

" Prospective meets? Do you check who's near? The meets section? Forums? Or scour the advanced search pages?

Or maybe you're lucky enough to sit there and let them come to you!

Never use 'Who's Near' I actually avoid meeting anyone too local to me.

Forums, I've met quite a few people after they've caught my attention on here, then chatting in pm.

Organised socials, have led to later encounters.

Clubs have been quite good fun too but the people I've met there have always been people I knew from the forums

Yeah same. I see people who are within a mile and they're someone to avoid

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By *orro_sMan over a year ago

Swansea

"I click my fingers..."

That's what that noise was... On my way xx

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I click my fingers...

That's what that noise was... On my way xx"

I also have one of those invisible dog whistles ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll have a nose, see who's near, send a wink maybe.

Tbh, it's rare I do, I don't actively look, usually get found.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Still relatively new this lifestyle and havent been to any clubs. The meets I've had have been arranged via here. Close by but not uncomfortably close by

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have a special searchlight that beams a unicorn silhouette into the sky.

We call it the snatch signal

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman over a year ago

Dublin

A lot of meets happen for me when working away from home. Its convenient as I have a hotel for a night or so and I can arrange things to suit me.

So hotlist a few a week before then see who is available the night I am in the area.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I click my fingers...

That's what that noise was... On my way xx

I also have one of those invisible dog whistles .."
yep heard that

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By *orro_sMan over a year ago

Swansea

"I click my fingers...

That's what that noise was... On my way xx

I also have one of those invisible dog whistles .."

Woof, woooooof...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All bar 1 have been from the forum.

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

A mixture for me too. Some messaged me, a couple from the forums or that I’ve messaged when they caught my attention

I’m fairly new to the club scene so no one I’ve met in that scenario yet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Every day I click browse section and search 75 Mile radius winking along the way and adding to hot list

Second meets and event section adding and winking

3rd club section ...look ar reviews and who's been clubbing adding and winking

Then start firing a few introductory messages out

Huge hot list now so I see what people are posting daily

Likewise with my Friends list.

Finally I go fabbing pics ..

More effort you put on mire you get out the site

Plus points I don't have to ask to be verified..dont have to ask for advice on my profile and don't need to ask people to fab my pics ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to get to know someone first...so some from the forums and some have got in touch with me. I don’t tend to look at who’s local but I’ve been chatting to someone local recently...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All forum related. Either other forum users, or lurkers. Had some great meets with some non-posting lurkers in the past! Come say hello!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t bother and haven’t for nearly 5 years

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