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Earnings: declare

By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Matey boy I met for a few ales earlier now bosses circa £200k in a middle office role at an investment bank. Lives in Putney, has a Russian wife (he’s a working class bloke from Somerset whose mum was a dinner lady, I have nothing but for respect for how he’s built it up himself up).

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I guess I’ve experienced spending £10k+ on a holiday, being miserable on it, and the experience of your girlfriend telling you she’s spent £5k on a handbag... Well, great... Strange how we never have sex, though...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Oh it's the scaffolder again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have nothing to declare but my genius

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Put it this way, I don't need to pay tax even though I'm employed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your insecurities shine through bright!

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"Your insecurities shine through bright!"

Which insecurities would those be?

I have insecurities, for sure... but don’t we all?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Money introduced me a life that I neither wanted nor enjoyed

It also introduced me to people I found abhorent

My ex wife relished in it - and still does

I am in a much happier place now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My trust fund keeps me going, work is for losers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ha ha ha ha ha if I earned £70K I’d be bloody lovely life.....that’s about seven years worth of work for me

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"Oh it's the scaffolder again."

They earn very good money, actually.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck me why would you mention your earnings on a site like this,,lol,,fucking naff

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By *bonynivoryCouple over a year ago

market harborough

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By *bonynivoryCouple over a year ago

market harborough

I earn fuck all.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its making me cringe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fuck me why would you mention your earnings on a site like this,,lol,,fucking naff"

Tell it like it is

I like that

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By *ee pandaWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

Maybe ur over compensating for other short comings sir. A large bank balance aint all that x

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

Nobody knows how much I earn let alone a bunch of strangers ... how odd

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I earn more than some, and considerably less than others, I’m not publishing it here to a bunch of randomers but some would think I earn a good salary, whilst others would think it was too low for them to live on.

However, I feel fortunate to have a roof over my head and live a relatively comfortable life without having any immediate fears about being unable to put food on the table. So in that respect I’m blessed. Typical Middle Englander.

To answer your question earnings only matter if they impact your happiness. A large salary doesn’t necessarily buy you happiness but it can ease a lot of the worries that a low one incurs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody knows how much I earn let alone a bunch of strangers ... how odd

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do some people feel the need to brag about money?

Sure, they might earn loads, but it generally doesn't make them nice people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh dear ...

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By *ervent_fervourMan over a year ago

Halifax

Ah.Comrade. Good to come across a fellow socialist.

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"its making me cringe

No one asked you to reply did they? It’s a serious question.

I’d you don’t like it, don’t respond to it

...

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By *MP3Man over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"Why do some people feel the need to brag about money? "

It's generally because they have magnetic personalities and huge cocks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah.Comrade. Good to come across a fellow socialist.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah.Comrade. Good to come across a fellow socialist.

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1 chocolate bar per blowjob

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By *aytona racerMan over a year ago

pontefract

What I earn is between

The bank manager

The tax man

And the VAT man

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

Coming onto this forum is like walking into a cheap supermarket at times

...

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By *orksRockerMan over a year ago

Bradford

I wouldnt generally join in on threads like this.. but ffs! Really??!!

There was a thread dedicated to you a week or so ago saying how cool you were for doing a good deed to someone.

Look how far you have dropped with this one! man o man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its making me cringe

No one asked you to reply did they? It’s a serious question.

I’d you don’t like it, don’t respond to it

... "

its an OPEN FORUM,,,do you understand that,,,please don't tell me what I can or cant do

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Coming onto this forum is like walking into a cheap supermarket at times

... "

Aw I love Lidl! So I agree. I love all you formites

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

If I earned that much first thing I would do is get my teeth fixed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d write to you once a month and let you know my progress, send pictures and Christmas cards, like a donkey.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Your insecurities shine through bright!

Which insecurities would those be?

I have insecurities, for sure... but don’t we all? "

This is Fab, inverse snobbery is the unwritten rule. Delete this thread and start one about how poor you are because *insert sob story* and you'll be knee deep in fanny by the end of the night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Richard Ashcroft said it best

“You’re a slave to the Money then you die”

It’s no bodies business on here what we earn. It’s called fab swingers not fab bank balances.

We have more than some and less than others.

Pissy and cock still taste the same

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

So, I early retired some years ago, as did hubby, worked very hard to do so, but no more work for us

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X "

Like you say, you BS a LOT on here, so I don't believe a single word, no matter what thread you post

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Possibly the most distasteful thread I've ever read.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d never declare how much I earn, much less bonuses. I’ve been low grid imprint for all my life that wasn’t off the grid or in the big friendly machine.

PO Box

........................... am a ghost

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Massive cringe.

I've got this, I've got that, I've got this car, I've got 10 bedrooms.....who gives a fuck?

Money does not make you happy, it might make things a little easier but it definitely does not make everything rosy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock"

thats what I wanted to say

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Why do some people feel the need to brag about money?

It's generally because they have magnetic personalities and huge cocks

All fur coat and no knickers here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I earn.........

Some money.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A large salary doesn’t necessarily buy you happiness but it can ease a lot of the worries that a low one incurs. "

You'd think wouldn't you ?

The last time I saw / spoke to my ex she was driving round in a Jaguar coupe, living in a farm conversion, head to toe in designer clothes, back from her 6th holiday that year ... and going to her Mums every night for tea because she was struggling to feed herself

Image is everything to some

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't concern myself with money, I'll ask one of my butlers how they cope , I think we pay them about 40k . Trifik

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By *ddibleMan over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

I work for the government, and as you know with all the cut backs we don't get paid, we do it for the love of our country and all the beautiful people in it

So fucking appreciate me you ungrateful shower of bastards!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear ..."

Exactly, who do people need to boast about their wealth, assuming they have wealth in the first place. Most people with a bit of money don't boast about it.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I’d write to you once a month and let you know my progress, send pictures and Christmas cards, like a donkey. "

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By *inkandBlue80Couple over a year ago

London

With that amount of earnings..why waste your time on here?

Go buy yourself some high class escorts..way less hassle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I really hope this is a joking thread...

I mean seriously..

70k..slumming it..yer mates on 100k income etc etc...

people are struggling to get by, people are starving, people are struggling even to heat their own homes..yet yer 'slumming' it..

Promised myself non argumentativeness tonight despite a wee beer..but I find this post quite pathetic.

Have joy in your heart as it approaches that time of year.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d write to you once a month and let you know my progress, send pictures and Christmas cards, like a donkey. "

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By *aytona racerMan over a year ago

pontefract

"Coming onto this forum is like walking into a cheap supermarket at times

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How much did you pay to sit on foggys Ducati?

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

"Put it this way, I don't need to pay tax even though I'm employed."

Same here.

The unlimited business class plane tickets I can buy for about £150 each well makes up for it, though...

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By *moothCriminal_xMan over a year ago

Redditch

worked my ass off doing 2 or 3 jobs and 50-60 hours a week for 10 years in order to afford to live on my own. I earn enough to pay my bills and run my car with some beer tokens left over. I could have chosen an easier route that paid better money or a harder route that payed less. I sold out a bit on my ideals but Im also a realist. I also intend to explore my passions more but struggle to reconcile financial reality with wanting to do this.

does money matter? not really. Passion, class, and a desire for self improvement are what is key. If these are in place then you will be successful as you will measure success in things other than wealth.

And you will enjoy life more

Im rambling.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've got two carrots, a parsnip and a pumpkin which I turn into a gold and diamond encrusted chariot at the weekend..... Just need some nags to haul it around now

I'm richer than I've ever been.... Because I love myself more today than I did this time last year.... Fuck those that think money makes you happy.... I make me happy... Oh so do the kids of course

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think he should host the next forum social .... somewhere nice

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By *iss.ddWoman over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I'm more than happy to declare my earnings. No skin off my nose.

Are you ready.......

Yes. I have them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I earned nothing as i live of fresh air these days as my money is running out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Money doesn't buy happiness. I found that out from taking a large sum to being on basically nothing but I was so, so much happier

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haha

And this right here is why I can’t bring myself to leave this place. Hat off to you Mr W

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"What I earn is between

The bank manager

The tax man

And the VAT man "

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

And you will enjoy life more

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"Your insecurities shine through bright!

Which insecurities would those be?

I have insecurities, for sure... but don’t we all?

This is Fab, inverse snobbery is the unwritten rule. Delete this thread and start one about how poor you are because *insert sob story* and you'll be knee deep in fanny by the end of the night "

I’m just glad I didn’t mention another mate of mine who earns £600k+ as a partner at a rather successful accountancy firm.

I earn around 10% of that, but I’m less bitter than many contributors to this thread.

Why? Because I like the bloke, we get on well, and we enjoy flying aeroplanes together

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One if the few things money can't buy is happiness. Or class.

This sort of bragging is really quite pitiful and incredibly crass.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Possibly the most distasteful thread I've ever read.

Go read the threads about getting pregnant in gangbangs then

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"If I earned that much first thing I would do is get my teeth fixed.

And a personality transplant

*did I just say that out loud?

Thank god someone did.. "

Unfortunately for some you can't buy class.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Money doesn't buy happiness."

It does but nobody sells happiness

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What I earn is my business

I'm not going to shout about it or show off how much I have

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I think he should host the next forum social .... somewhere nice

Bottomless Prosecco and canape for everyone!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Yeah, earnings matter or at the least solvency.

If I was looking to start a new relationship I wouldn't date a poverty stricken guy. I'm too old to be boiling ham bones to make cheap but nourishing meals

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Money doesn't buy happiness.

It does but nobody sells happiness "

oh really some people give it for free

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Possibly the most distasteful thread I've ever read.

Go read the threads about getting pregnant in gangbangs then

Or the dude that was turned on by his half sister

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By *moothCriminal_xMan over a year ago

Redditch

"Possibly the most distasteful thread I've ever read.

Go read the threads about getting pregnant in gangbangs then

I want to read this!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Haha

And this right here is why I can’t bring myself to leave this place. Hat off to you Mr W "

Pull the pin, throw the grenade, watch the ensuing chaos!

Trolling 101

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Money doesn't buy happiness.

It does but nobody sells happiness

oh really some people give it for free"

I'd give you my anal virginity for free

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"Haha

And this right here is why I can’t bring myself to leave this place. Hat off to you Mr W

Pull the pin, throw the grenade, watch the ensuing chaos!

Trolling 101

It’s lit this place up like a Christmas tree...

(Ironically I was being honest but that will only add fuel to the fire)...

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

"What I earn is between

The bank manager

The tax man

And the VAT man "

And earning little working for yourself (How we all usually start) is worth far more than mere money in my eyes. Especially if you can do it from home!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Haha

And this right here is why I can’t bring myself to leave this place. Hat off to you Mr W

Pull the pin, throw the grenade, watch the ensuing chaos!

Trolling 101

He’s got it down to a fine art. I like the bloke.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

£70K and 50p

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Haha

And this right here is why I can’t bring myself to leave this place. Hat off to you Mr W

Pull the pin, throw the grenade, watch the ensuing chaos!

Trolling 101

It’s lit this place up like a Christmas tree...

(Ironically I was being honest but that will only add fuel to the fire)... "

Irony?

Hell yeah!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Haha

And this right here is why I can’t bring myself to leave this place. Hat off to you Mr W

Pull the pin, throw the grenade, watch the ensuing chaos!

Trolling 101

He’s got it down to a fine art. I like the bloke.

He can fill a thread for sure

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

This reminds me of one of my old threads! Lol it's good to see the new anglers moving up the ranks.

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By *K430Man over a year ago

Tipperary

"Haha

And this right here is why I can’t bring myself to leave this place. Hat off to you Mr W

Pull the pin, throw the grenade, watch the ensuing chaos!

Trolling 101

He’s got it down to a fine art. I like the bloke.

He can fill a thread for sure

Think that was the plan alright

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As I saw just lately somewhere else... I’m not interested in who’s stood with the rich. I’m interested in those who’ve sat with the broken

Money has no significance in my life

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock"

Genuinely not meant like that...

I guess I’ve moved in rarefied circles in terms of earnings...

Some seriously bitter responses on here...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's all fun and games til he starts trying to feed cats into ATMS!

#ThePatrickBatemanOfHitherGreen

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By *bonynivoryCouple over a year ago

market harborough

"You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock

Genuinely not meant like that...

I guess I’ve moved in rarefied circles in terms of earnings...

Some seriously bitter responses on here... "

I suggest you sooth those you have wounded by offering everyone £100 each

Mrs

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By *bonynivoryCouple over a year ago

market harborough

*soothe

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

I notice nobody else has declared the earnings...

What are you all afraid of?

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By *bonynivoryCouple over a year ago

market harborough

"I notice nobody else has declared the earnings...

What are you all afraid of?

I declared mine. I said I earn fuck all

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone knows you still live at home with your Mum Op.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As I saw just lately somewhere else... I’m not interested in who’s stood with the rich. I’m interested in those who’ve sat with the broken

Money has no significance in my life "

Aww I like that saying. X

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I notice nobody else has declared the earnings...

What are you all afraid of?

Anyhooooo I missed out on the £100 thing before, any chance I can have mine now?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"I notice nobody else has declared the earnings...

What are you all afraid of?

Hmrc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I notice nobody else has declared the earnings...

What are you all afraid of?

I declared. I earn....some money.

Pay attention!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m declaring 7 inches

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock

Genuinely not meant like that...

I guess I’ve moved in rarefied circles in terms of earnings...

Some seriously bitter responses on here... "

‘twas always going to be the case.

But to be fair don’t you think the “slumming it on £70k” and feeling “insecure” about it was always going to be a red rag to a bull to those that are genuinely struggling to make ends meet, you can’t honestly say you didn’t expect this reaction! It would be incredibly naive to say otherwise!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I notice nobody else has declared the earnings...

What are you all afraid of?

Hmrc"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m declaring 7 inches"

gosh your hard up

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock

Genuinely not meant like that...

I guess I’ve moved in rarefied circles in terms of earnings...

Some seriously bitter responses on here...

‘twas always going to be the case.

Oh he probably didn't realise...pah hah!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did somebody say boobs?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock

Genuinely not meant like that...

I guess I’ve moved in rarefied circles in terms of earnings...

Some seriously bitter responses on here...

‘twas always going to be the case.

Maybe it will motivate them to work harder?

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We earn enough to be comfortable but not enough to retire. We are happy, enjoy our life, have our health, yes we could always find something to spend more money on if we got it but at the end of day it gets dark and money isn't everything.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I notice nobody else has declared the earnings...

What are you all afraid of?

You wouldn't believe our income if we did tell you. Its unearned anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock

Genuinely not meant like that...

I guess I’ve moved in rarefied circles in terms of earnings...

Some seriously bitter responses on here... "

certainly not bitter..my angle was you considering it 'slumming' it at 70k...never mind the bragging...I wonder if your ex cheated on ya with a pool boy though..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Coming onto this forum is like walking into a cheap supermarket at times

... "

You work on the tills at Aldi don’t you ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How much money someone makes is inconsequential. Money does not impress me, you cannot buy personality or class, that comes from within.

We are all born naked, our shit still stinks, and we are all destined for a wooden box at the end of it, regardless of social status, class or bank balance.

My Dad always said to me "never look down on others unless you are helping them up.

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Haha

And this right here is why I can’t bring myself to leave this place. Hat off to you Mr W

Pull the pin, throw the grenade, watch the ensuing chaos!

Trolling 101

He’s got it down to a fine art. I like the bloke.

He can fill a thread for sure

It's a very British thing to find discussing earnings or how much money you earn crass.

Personally I take it all with a huge gallic shrug.

I've had been successful and then made redundant. Having money doesn't make you a better person than anyone else, personally I think a touch of humility, respect and humanity does

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Coming onto this forum is like walking into a cheap supermarket at times

...

You work on the tills at Aldi don’t you ?"

if you had a face id sit on it

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock

Genuinely not meant like that...

I guess I’ve moved in rarefied circles in terms of earnings...

Some seriously bitter responses on here...

‘twas always going to be the case.

No. I genuinely feel like I’m slunming it ok £70k. Especially on London. I know many people who earn far, far more.

Not meant to sound dickish. Just a fact.

It’s all relative. I suspect many posters on here have never earned professional type salaries. I ignore their inane, banal rantings, they’re like flies on a toilet seat to me.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Have you say by all means but stop attacking the OP while doing it please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op, do you really think pounding your income drum proves to Fab folk that you are a "somebody"? Does telling others how much more you make than the average person help you to feel better about yourself? I can't fathom you out!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d write to you once a month and let you know my progress, send pictures and Christmas cards, like a donkey. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its making me cringe

No one asked you to reply did they? It’s a serious question.

I’d you don’t like it, don’t respond to it

... "

You did ask for people's thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock

Genuinely not meant like that...

I guess I’ve moved in rarefied circles in terms of earnings...

Some seriously bitter responses on here...

‘twas always going to be the case.

No. I genuinely feel like I’m slunming it ok £70k. Especially on London. I know many people who earn far, far more.

Not meant to sound dickish. Just a fact.

It’s all relative. I suspect many posters on here have never earned professional type salaries. I ignore their inane, banal rantings, they’re like flies on a toilet seat to me.

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"Coming onto this forum is like walking into a cheap supermarket at times

...

You work on the tills at Aldi don’t you ?"

Nah.

Glad to see your mum’s now at least working for Waitrose, last time she scanned my bag, though..

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By *K430Man over a year ago

Tipperary

Nobody else is declaring because a) this isn't revenue b) and why would anyone possibly give a shit what I earn and most importantly c) how is it possible that someone could seriously think that I give a shit what they earn , just to throw it out there , generally the best, most effective ( in all walks of life ) and probably the highest earning people tend to be that because they don't feel the need to talk about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I bet you drive a 3 year old boxster with fab1 as the number plate. #humblebrag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its making me cringe

No one asked you to reply did they? It’s a serious question.

I’d you don’t like it, don’t respond to it

...

You did ask for people's thoughts."

yea on a PUBLIC FORUM

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock

Genuinely not meant like that...

I guess I’ve moved in rarefied circles in terms of earnings...

Some seriously bitter responses on here...

‘twas always going to be the case.

Maybe it will motivate them to work harder? "
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stop talking stupid twatness..my gran can barely afford to heat her home, she worked fucking hard all her days while helping to raise generations.

You can be as controversial as you wish...but the complacency of some people thinking there is work for everyone and there will be work for everyone in the next 10 years...astounds me.

You can keep your short sighted responses...

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By *hunkyThighsMan over a year ago

Gloucester

Wow! Even the tax man doesn’t know what I earn

In all seriousness, health is wealth.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock

Genuinely not meant like that...

I guess I’ve moved in rarefied circles in terms of earnings...

Some seriously bitter responses on here...

‘twas always going to be the case.

No. I genuinely feel like I’m slunming it ok £70k. Especially on London. I know many people who earn far, far more.

Not meant to sound dickish. Just a fact.

It’s all relative. I suspect many posters on here have never earned professional type salaries. I ignore their inane, banal rantings, they’re like flies on a toilet seat to me.

Well let's say you were single and wanted to buy a house. Most mortgages would be 4.5x your income so you'd be looking at a £315k mortgage. With deposit that's a ~£350k house. These northern monkeys don't understand what £350k buys you in London because you can buy a row of houses in Sunderland for that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s all relative. I suspect many posters on here have never earned professional type salaries. I ignore their inane, banal rantings, they’re like flies on a toilet seat to me.

Wow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Coming onto this forum is like walking into a cheap supermarket at times

...

You work on the tills at Aldi don’t you ?

Nah.

Glad to see your mum’s now at least working for Waitrose, last time she scanned my bag, though..

Yeah, she works for free there to do her bit for the less well off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody else is declaring because a) this isn't revenue b) and why would anyone possibly give a shit what I earn and most importantly c) how is it possible that someone could seriously think that I give a shit what they earn , just to throw it out there , generally the best, most effective ( in all walks of life ) and probably the highest earning people tend to be that because they don't feel the need to talk about it"

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ha ha ha ha ha if I earned £70K I’d be bloody lovely life.....that’s about seven years worth of work for me

Yep (when I work full time).

70k is an inconceivable amount to me. At the moment I study full time, volunteer part time and work part time and 70k would be over 10 years of work for me currently. For an extremely mentally demanding and draining job with a lot of risk.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock

Genuinely not meant like that...

I guess I’ve moved in rarefied circles in terms of earnings...

Some seriously bitter responses on here... "

I really can't see bitterness in the replies. A fair bit of scorn and derision but no obvious bitterness

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Put it this way, I don't need to pay tax even though I'm employed.

Same here.

The unlimited business class plane tickets I can buy for about £150 each well makes up for it, though...

Me too

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By *illyjohnyCouple over a year ago

brighton

It's fucking Harry Enfield loads of money

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*shakes head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As if this site didn't have enough cocks already.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You realise that literally no one gives a shit how much you supposedly earn and trying to humble brag about it makes you look like a cock

Genuinely not meant like that...

I guess I’ve moved in rarefied circles in terms of earnings...

Some seriously bitter responses on here...

I really can't see bitterness in the replies. A fair bit of scorn and derision but no obvious bitterness"

its not bitter,,,ffs its just super naff talking bout yer earnings,,,lol,,,fuck me im on good money,(well it does me),but,,who fucking cares

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"Coming onto this forum is like walking into a cheap supermarket at times

...

You work on the tills at Aldi don’t you ?

Nah.

Glad to see your mum’s now at least working for Waitrose, last time she scanned my bag, though..

Yeah, she works for free there to do her bit for the less well off. "

I do my but for the less well off by paying all the tax I pay. 40%+ since I was bloody 24

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*shakes head"

I'd rather you shaked something else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X "

if it helps I just looked at my partners last P60 - and yeah, well, gosh, more than you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lend us a fiver shipwreck!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*shakes head

I'd rather you shaked something else."

I’ve realised I’m in Russian wife territory, but I’m the Russian wife

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X

if it helps I just looked at my partners last P60 - and yeah, well, gosh, more than you

Good lad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*shakes head

I'd rather you shaked something else."

I don't do that for less than 80k darling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s all relative I guess.

A youth player yet to break through at Chelsea will probably earn that in few weeks and spends most of their time at home on their X-Box.

A soldier risking their life daily on the front line in Afghanistan will probably take 3 to 4 years to earn that.

It’s all industry dependent and is not (necessarily) an indicator of hard work as others have mentioned.

For me happiness is measured by a number of factors. I’d happily take a pay cut to be truly happy in my job. I wouldn’t accept a large pay rise to worsen my work / home life balance materially.

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By *ddibleMan over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

Actually my earnings are publicly available under the freedom of information act.

But I doubt anyone gives a shit enough to go and find out

I do have a big Willy though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ha ha ha ha ha if I earned £70K I’d be bloody lovely life.....that’s about seven years worth of work for me

Yep (when I work full time).

You deffo get kudos from me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*shakes head

I'd rather you shaked something else.

I don't do that for less than 80k darling

I'd ask White for a job. But then I'd still be 10k short.

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"*shakes head

I'd rather you shaked something else.

I’ve realised I’m in Russian wife territory, but I’m the Russian wife

You’re not Lena are you? (Mate’s wife who lives in Putney)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X

if it helps I just looked at my partners last P60 - and yeah, well, gosh, more than you

Good lad

. "

I never meet anyone that earns less than 80k

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*shakes head

I'd rather you shaked something else.

I’ve realised I’m in Russian wife territory, but I’m the Russian wife

You’re not Lena are you? (Mate’s wife who lives in Putney)

No I enjoy taking it up the arse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*shakes head

I'd rather you shaked something else.

I don't do that for less than 80k darling

I'd ask White for a job. But then I'd still be 10k short."

Some people can't buy class.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple over a year ago

West Wales

I earn enough, more important to me is that I am chased down by people who wish to give me their prized possessions to work on whether they be worth a few thousand or fifty thousand plus.

Worth a lot more than money that, but it also let's you charge more for your work

When you can walk out on a job with nothing in the bank & not care two fucks if you lose everything, then you are truly rich as you have stepped off the treadmill to walk your own path.

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"*shakes head

I'd rather you shaked something else.

I don't do that for less than 80k darling

How about a dirty night in the Tigerlilly and dinner somewhere expensive?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X

if it helps I just looked at my partners last P60 - and yeah, well, gosh, more than you

Good lad

I never meet anyone that earns less than 80k "

Bed sits are expevsive down London

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you’re happy about sharing your earnings on a sex site OP, why don’t you share your cock ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just find the whole subject slightly vulgar ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*shakes head

I'd rather you shaked something else.

I’ve realised I’m in Russian wife territory, but I’m the Russian wife

Calm down, there's no need to rush.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You’re not Lena are you? (Mate’s wife who lives in Putney)

Only on the weekends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I just find the whole subject slightly vulgar .."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X

if it helps I just looked at my partners last P60 - and yeah, well, gosh, more than you

Good lad

I never meet anyone that earns less than 80k

Bed sits are expevsive down London

Correct,and us northern monkeys can't afford it..... apparently

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*shakes head

I'd rather you shaked something else.

I’ve realised I’m in Russian wife territory, but I’m the Russian wife

Calm down, there's no need to rush."

I’ve just asked Jay to maryski me

The cunt told me to lay off the vodka

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"*shakes head

I'd rather you shaked something else.

I’ve realised I’m in Russian wife territory, but I’m the Russian wife

Calm down, there's no need to rush."

I think she rushes around after him since he got her visa and paid his mortgage off on the house in Putney

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By *irky_coupleCouple over a year ago

kirky

Wouldn't get out of bed for that wage.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X

if it helps I just looked at my partners last P60 - and yeah, well, gosh, more than you

Good lad

I never meet anyone that earns less than 80k

Bed sits are expevsive down London

Correct,and us northern monkeys can't afford it..... apparently"

I wouldn’t know I’m in the midlands.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Putney ....... it’s like Dean Gaffney, you just wouldn’t

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X

if it helps I just looked at my partners last P60 - and yeah, well, gosh, more than you

Good lad

I never meet anyone that earns less than 80k

Bed sits are expevsive down London

Correct,and us northern monkeys can't afford it..... apparently

I wouldn’t know I’m in the midlands. "

Your better off there,I used to live in Walsall.....shithole

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X

if it helps I just looked at my partners last P60 - and yeah, well, gosh, more than you

Good lad

I never meet anyone that earns less than 80k

Bed sits are expevsive down London

Especially in Hither Green lol, I knew someone that had one there once...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X

if it helps I just looked at my partners last P60 - and yeah, well, gosh, more than you

Good lad

I never meet anyone that earns less than 80k

Bed sits are expevsive down London

Correct,and us northern monkeys can't afford it..... apparently

I wouldn’t know I’m in the midlands.

Your better off there,I used to live in Walsall.....shithole"

Walsall is the midlands but a bit further south.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X

if it helps I just looked at my partners last P60 - and yeah, well, gosh, more than you

Good lad

I never meet anyone that earns less than 80k

Bed sits are expevsive down London

Correct,and us northern monkeys can't afford it..... apparently

I wouldn’t know I’m in the midlands.

Your better off there,I used to live in Walsall.....shithole

Walsall is the midlands but a bit further south.

Actually it was bloxwich...Shithole full off people saying yam yam

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've read this post with interest and a giggle. Some jobs pay obscene money but that normally has consequences.

If you have health, a good brain and good family/friends, thats all that matters.

Richness is not pounds and pence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Putney ....... it’s like Dean Gaffney, you just wouldn’t "

Putney is very nice now. I wish I could afford it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X

if it helps I just looked at my partners last P60 - and yeah, well, gosh, more than you

Good lad

I never meet anyone that earns less than 80k

Bed sits are expevsive down London

Correct,and us northern monkeys can't afford it..... apparently

I wouldn’t know I’m in the midlands.

Your better off there,I used to live in Walsall.....shithole

Walsall is the midlands but a bit further south.

Actually it was bloxwich...Shithole full off people saying yam yam "

Aaaaah it yam clows Tay Wolverhampton

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But Putney just sounds tacky

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By *hite1100 OP Man over a year ago

Hither Green

"Let’s get it out there.

How much do you earn?!

I’ve changed industries and am now slumming it on circa £70k, for a 4 day week. Which is a comfortable living, but considerably less than I used to earn. I feel insecure about it...

Ex girlfriend when I was dating her earned £150k + same again as a bonus. She is now early 30s, a front office director earning £200k basic, same again as a bonus...

In our late 20s/early 30s we used to net (as in take home) over £10k per month...

I left her in the end when I realised the money wasn’t worth it any longer and I caught her cheating on me...

I know I BS a lot on here but there isn’t one word of a lie in any of the above.

But, I guess my ultimate question is, do earnings matter, or should they? I stayed with her for years, if she’d earned minumum wage, I may not have done.

Thoughts of Fab? X

if it helps I just looked at my partners last P60 - and yeah, well, gosh, more than you

Good lad

I never meet anyone that earns less than 80k

Bed sits are expevsive down London

Especially in Hither Green lol, I knew someone that had one there once...

Jesus, let’s not go there again.

What I’ve learned from this thread is if you’re succsful in life enough in order to earn a decent salary, but you know people who earn stupid salaries, and you feel a tad insecure about it.

Fab isn’t the place to moan about it

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

"I notice nobody else has declared the earnings...

What are you all afraid of?

I'm more than happy to declare my earnings/income because I'm proud of how I get it.

I'm full time, live in carer for my mum who has MS. The state very generously pays me carers allowance of £64.60 a week for "working" a minimum of 35 hours. People on the dole get £10 a week more than carers do.

I am allowed to work as well but government rules on carers allowance state I am not allowed to earn more than £120 a week.

I work 12 hours a week in a supermarket earning £9.20 an hour.

It's a difficult life having such a low income but I wouldn't consider doing things differently. My family is far more important to me than status and material possessions and will always be my first priority.

When you have very limited means you just adapt and learn to manage your money in different ways. Despite earning so little I have managed to save a little money, have a holiday to Iceland booked for the new year and can afford to run a car, even if it is an old banger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m just off to bed, strangely I think the prosseco, vodka, caviar and salmon we nailed was more than the OP makes in a week.

Just assuming.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i wont say what I earn other than not enough for the job that I do

however, I was married to a man that earned a lot of money. when we met, he earned sod all, but hard work and years of loyalty to the company saw him earn really well. but the more he earned, the more arrogant he became. and my god could he brag about what he earned.

i left him, the house, the car, the lifestyle, because it's not me at all and loathe arrogance.

I'd rather be skint.

what someone earns is irrelevant. it's about the person. earn a fortune if you want, but be a nice person, not an arrogant knob

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And I think that Yorkie lady is probably the richer.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"What I’ve learned from this thread is if you’re succsful in life enough in order to earn a decent salary, but you know people who earn stupid salaries, and you feel a tad insecure about it.

Fab isn’t the place to moan about it"

It was a painfully vulgar attempt at a humblebrag, I'd be astonished if you were not able to perceive that. Personal growth might be something you'll find more fulfilling to pursue as you mature.

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