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How much does wearing a condom ruin sex for you ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's quite a novelty for me after decades of not. It makes for very clean, civilised sex I find,but I don't have to get hard  "
Same here, and I don't really like semen inside me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's quite a novelty for me after decades of not. It makes for very clean, civilised sex I find,but I don't have to get hard Same here, and I don't really like semen inside me."
Its my favourite part   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's quite a novelty for me after decades of not. It makes for very clean, civilised sex I find,but I don't have to get hard Same here, and I don't really like semen inside me.
Its my favourite part "
I don't like not feeling clean inside.
I'd rather have it on my face. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It doesn't even come close to ruining sex, but no question I do prefer it without a condom, there's nothing like the feeling of someone finishing inside you. "
It’s better than taking it off, tying it in a not then throwing it in a bin.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With a trusted long standing partner? It totally ruins it! There’s nothing to beat the feel of natural sex, the warmth and the wetness on your skin.
With a casual sex meet off of the internet? It’s absolutely essential and sex would be ruined if I DIDN’T cover up! Too much worry and not just about STDs.
So they can either ruin or enhance depending on the situation!
Oh and a great tip for enhancing condom sex? A little bit of water based lube on the INSIDE at the tip (not too much so that the condom slips off of course!) but it heats up nicely in the body and slips and slides and around and feels more like natural sex! Thank me later! |
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By *yronutMan
over a year ago
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I’m with you there dude..... Show my mate a condom and it’s instant droop..... (Always has been.... even from my younger days!!)
As my prerence now is for visual sex it’s not an issue and I’d rather not embarrass myself in company so I’m fully honest on that subject.... |
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"Not at all, although some dry me out a bit, but there's lube for that. "
This  my only issue with some condoms is that they seem to dry me out. Even had one get stuck during a meet once ffs! There was the shock for us both of realising there was no condom on his cock after he pulled out... Followed 2 seconds later by uncontrollable laughter when we realised the silly thing was still inside me with the end dangling out 
Otherwise they're grand...
You can't really beat natural sex with a long-term partner though. Just be sensible about it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not at all, although some dry me out a bit, but there's lube for that.
This my only issue with some condoms is that they seem to dry me out. Even had one get stuck during a meet once ffs! There was the shock for us both of realising there was no condom on his cock after he pulled out... Followed 2 seconds later by uncontrollable laughter when we realised the silly thing was still inside me with the end dangling out
Otherwise they're grand...
You can't really beat natural sex with a long-term partner though. Just be sensible about it!"
been therelove a good fishing trip |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a problem with them, looking at the women I have woken up next to the morning after I was glad I did.
Beer goggles are not always that good. |
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I think the fact that I was primarily voyeuristic in our swinging days was because I hated using condoms .
How much did they ruin sex ? Totally , so much so that I didn’t wear one . I rarely had penetrative sex on a meet , and if I did , I fucked my wife bare .
I much preferred to receive oral bare , or wank rather than wear one .  |
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"I know it’s got to be done, but it definitely takes the edge off. Agree or no ?"
It goes without saying that I prefer not use one but unless it's a regular partner I think the risk outweighs the loss of sensation. Anyway I gain a lot of pleasure from seeing the lady having a good time and wearing a sheath can add to that so it's all good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Of course it's better with out, there is nothing like the feeling of a man cumming in you- with a trusted partner.
But would rather condoms than risk STIs. Especially as antibiotics are becoming more resistant, due to risky sex practices we could get to a stage where chlamydia and gonorrhea are too difficult to treat. And as 1 in 12 people has or has had Chlamydia you can bet that there are a few untested swingers out there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Of course it's better with out, there is nothing like the feeling of a man cumming in you- with a trusted partner.
But would rather condoms than risk STIs. Especially as antibiotics are becoming more resistant, due to risky sex practices we could get to a stage where chlamydia and gonorrhea are too difficult to treat. And as 1 in 12 people has or has had Chlamydia you can bet that there are a few untested swingers out there. "
That’s why sometimes I’d rather just have a wank. |
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"Of course it's better with out, there is nothing like the feeling of a man cumming in you- with a trusted partner.
But would rather condoms than risk STIs. Especially as antibiotics are becoming more resistant, due to risky sex practices we could get to a stage where chlamydia and gonorrhea are too difficult to treat. And as 1 in 12 people has or has had Chlamydia you can bet that there are a few untested swingers out there.
That’s why sometimes I’d rather just have a wank. "
I'd rather have a weepy willy |
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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago
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"With a trusted long standing partner? It totally ruins it! There’s nothing to beat the feel of natural sex, the warmth and the wetness on your skin.
With a casual sex meet off of the internet? It’s absolutely essential and sex would be ruined if I DIDN’T cover up! Too much worry and not just about STDs.
So they can either ruin or enhance depending on the situation!
Oh and a great tip for enhancing condom sex? A little bit of water based lube on the INSIDE at the tip (not too much so that the condom slips off of course!) but it heats up nicely in the body and slips and slides and around and feels more like natural sex! Thank me later! "
Good info! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't ruin it at all.
As most have said, bare feels amazing but I don't want my chopper to fall off.
I cannot cum with a condom on though, never happened. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some do have a drying sensation in me. But prefer to use them with meets, with my mr it’s great not having to use them and it being natural. Can’t beat that sensation of him finishing inside me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate the smell, the feel, the taste after them and the lack of spontaneity. Having said that I wouldn’t consider sex without one, unless with a long standing, trusted partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't ruin it at all.
As most have said, bare feels amazing but I don't want my chopper to fall off.
I cannot cum with a condom on though, never happened."
Take it off and wank over her boobs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I much prefer without because I know for the guy he is feeling so much more and I love feeling him cum inside me.
But as most have said I wouldn't risk it with anyone other than a partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had a bad relationship with condoms ever since the first time I used one. Probably due to my naivety and lack of experience I don’t think I put it on right and as I got going more vigorously it caused my banjo string to stretch and snap, not sure how and a I ended up with blood everywhere. Due to the cut I ended up with an infection which made the experience even worse. Psychologically I’ve had a problem with them since and it took a long time to get to the point where I could maintain an erection wearing one. It ruined NSA meets for me and was one of the contributing factors to me stopping meeting. Although I can use them now I much prefer the feel of flesh against flesh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know it’s got to be done, but it definitely takes the edge off. Agree or no ?"
Genuinely? 30-90% depending on the mood and the hotness of the other person. |
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