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"I don't think 85% of profiles state a racial preference. " ok fair enough maybe more 60% | |||
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"I don't think 85% of profiles state a racial preference. ok fair enough maybe more 60%" I haven't read 60% of the profiles, but I don't think I see it even that often.. | |||
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"No it's FINE...I'm perfectly ok with people wanting to stick to their own or "date out"... If some person is a certain race and they only date within that race I don't judge the reason. I don't have racial preference but I DO judge nationality and CULTURE/religion... " Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference | |||
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"OK, so where do I fit ? I love mixed race (black / white) and paler skinned black people, but I'm not sexually attracted to darker skinned black people Interested to know what values you're going to project onto me on the basis of what I find attractive and what I don't" Oh shatt appp.. no values being projected. Don't be a snowflake | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence "I’m more shocked that a guy reads profiles  | |||
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"No it's FINE...I'm perfectly ok with people wanting to stick to their own or "date out"... If some person is a certain race and they only date within that race I don't judge the reason. I don't have racial preference but I DO judge nationality and CULTURE/religion... " What about people who use caps lock randomly ? | |||
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"More like closer to 5% of profiles state a race preference. " | |||
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" Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference " Ghana and philipeans are annoying. Ghana girls have really good bodies.... But they pray on white nerds and worked their charm to a fine art...it doesn't lead you anywhere any time soon... Filipeanos are dateable if they are not fanatical Catholics. (I'm a catholic)....But filipeanos are 90% fundamentalist catholic...They are stupid about science and one girl threw a tantrum at me for mentioning priests/peados... French men are pricks but the women are good. Asians are mostly good but Africans come in different categories...traditional African women are NOT my thing. I had a casual friend from Zambia for 2 years (she showed me this websight first as couple).. I liked the Zambian lady. I've fucked a german girl a few times. German girls are mostly shit left wingers but I know a few old fashion Germans. Eastern European women are good.... Women Ireland are femenists I would shag some middle eastern or Indian....But not Muslim. In Nigeria I lived with a Muslim friend and his family for a few month. Some Nigerian girls are alright but they tend to hide the pretty ones unless they are slappers. You never see pretty women on the street in Nigeria but you find them indoors. ^^^^that's because loads of men in Africa are really creepy with my friends teenage sisters... Cambodian women seem to have very deep mental problems (but that's because communists killed everyone and fucked them up) I had a Russian teacher girlfriend in thailand for a while. Russians like drugs/violence/crime/and being crazy as fuck....their families are really welcoming if you fuck the daughter (very unusual)...But you got to be streetwise because you dont want her being a bad influence (because russians are HARD) | |||
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"No it's FINE...I'm perfectly ok with people wanting to stick to their own or "date out"... If some person is a certain race and they only date within that race I don't judge the reason. I don't have racial preference but I DO judge nationality and CULTURE/religion... What about people who use caps lock randomly ? " Ahhh the random caps lock gang,didn't KNOW they were still operating on FAB......IV cought it!!! | |||
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" Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Ghana and philipeans are annoying. Ghana girls have really good bodies.... But they pray on white nerds and worked their charm to a fine art...it doesn't lead you anywhere any time soon... Filipeanos are dateable if they are not fanatical Catholics. (I'm a catholic)....But filipeanos are 90% fundamentalist catholic...They are stupid about science and one girl threw a tantrum at me for mentioning priests/peados... French men are pricks but the women are good. Asians are mostly good but Africans come in different categories...traditional African women are NOT my thing. I had a casual friend from Zambia for 2 years (she showed me this websight first as couple).. I liked the Zambian lady. I've fucked a german girl a few times. German girls are mostly shit left wingers but I know a few old fashion Germans. Eastern European women are good.... Women Ireland are femenists I would shag some middle eastern or Indian....But not Muslim. In Nigeria I lived with a Muslim friend and his family for a few month. Some Nigerian girls are alright but they tend to hide the pretty ones unless they are slappers. You never see pretty women on the street in Nigeria but you find them indoors. ^^^^that's because loads of men in Africa are really creepy with my friends teenage sisters... Cambodian women seem to have very deep mental problems (but that's because communists killed everyone and fucked them up) I had a Russian teacher girlfriend in thailand for a while. Russians like drugs/violence/crime/and being crazy as fuck....their families are really welcoming if you fuck the daughter (very unusual)...But you got to be streetwise because you dont want her being a bad influence (because russians are HARD) " Oh give it a rest FFS | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit "I'm not going to use % as it's not a factual representation. I can say I've only seen the above on a handful of profiles but I see dozens everyday, stating only looking for black/BBC All the weeny white men who view those must feel pretty shit about themselves too then? It's a preference, the same as I don't like short skinny men & state that on my profile. Don't stop them trying though | |||
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"I don't think 85% of profiles state a racial preference. ok fair enough maybe more 60%" Or maybe just any old figure you have plucked out the air? | |||
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" Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Ghana and philipeans are annoying. Ghana girls have really good bodies.... But they pray on white nerds and worked their charm to a fine art...it doesn't lead you anywhere any time soon... Filipeanos are dateable if they are not fanatical Catholics. (I'm a catholic)....But filipeanos are 90% fundamentalist catholic...They are stupid about science and one girl threw a tantrum at me for mentioning priests/peados... French men are pricks but the women are good. Asians are mostly good but Africans come in different categories...traditional African women are NOT my thing. I had a casual friend from Zambia for 2 years (she showed me this websight first as couple).. I liked the Zambian lady. I've fucked a german girl a few times. German girls are mostly shit left wingers but I know a few old fashion Germans. Eastern European women are good.... Women Ireland are femenists I would shag some middle eastern or Indian....But not Muslim. In Nigeria I lived with a Muslim friend and his family for a few month. Some Nigerian girls are alright but they tend to hide the pretty ones unless they are slappers. You never see pretty women on the street in Nigeria but you find them indoors. ^^^^that's because loads of men in Africa are really creepy with my friends teenage sisters... Cambodian women seem to have very deep mental problems (but that's because communists killed everyone and fucked them up) I had a Russian teacher girlfriend in thailand for a while. Russians like drugs/violence/crime/and being crazy as fuck....their families are really welcoming if you fuck the daughter (very unusual)...But you got to be streetwise because you dont want her being a bad influence (because russians are HARD) Oh give it a rest FFS" | |||
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" Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Ghana and philipeans are annoying. Ghana girls have really good bodies.... But they pray on white nerds and worked their charm to a fine art...it doesn't lead you anywhere any time soon... Filipeanos are dateable if they are not fanatical Catholics. (I'm a catholic)....But filipeanos are 90% fundamentalist catholic...They are stupid about science and one girl threw a tantrum at me for mentioning priests/peados... French men are pricks but the women are good. Asians are mostly good but Africans come in different categories...traditional African women are NOT my thing. I had a casual friend from Zambia for 2 years (she showed me this websight first as couple).. I liked the Zambian lady. I've fucked a german girl a few times. German girls are mostly shit left wingers but I know a few old fashion Germans. Eastern European women are good.... Women Ireland are femenists I would shag some middle eastern or Indian....But not Muslim. In Nigeria I lived with a Muslim friend and his family for a few month. Some Nigerian girls are alright but they tend to hide the pretty ones unless they are slappers. You never see pretty women on the street in Nigeria but you find them indoors. ^^^^that's because loads of men in Africa are really creepy with my friends teenage sisters... Cambodian women seem to have very deep mental problems (but that's because communists killed everyone and fucked them up) I had a Russian teacher girlfriend in thailand for a while. Russians like drugs/violence/crime/and being crazy as fuck....their families are really welcoming if you fuck the daughter (very unusual)...But you got to be streetwise because you dont want her being a bad influence (because russians are HARD) " You've seen some good films | |||
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" Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Ghana and philipeans are annoying. Ghana girls have really good bodies.... But they pray on white nerds and worked their charm to a fine art...it doesn't lead you anywhere any time soon... Filipeanos are dateable if they are not fanatical Catholics. (I'm a catholic)....But filipeanos are 90% fundamentalist catholic...They are stupid about science and one girl threw a tantrum at me for mentioning priests/peados... French men are pricks but the women are good. Asians are mostly good but Africans come in different categories...traditional African women are NOT my thing. I had a casual friend from Zambia for 2 years (she showed me this websight first as couple).. I liked the Zambian lady. I've fucked a german girl a few times. German girls are mostly shit left wingers but I know a few old fashion Germans. Eastern European women are good.... Women Ireland are femenists I would shag some middle eastern or Indian....But not Muslim. In Nigeria I lived with a Muslim friend and his family for a few month. Some Nigerian girls are alright but they tend to hide the pretty ones unless they are slappers. You never see pretty women on the street in Nigeria but you find them indoors. ^^^^that's because loads of men in Africa are really creepy with my friends teenage sisters... Cambodian women seem to have very deep mental problems (but that's because communists killed everyone and fucked them up) I had a Russian teacher girlfriend in thailand for a while. Russians like drugs/violence/crime/and being crazy as fuck....their families are really welcoming if you fuck the daughter (very unusual)...But you got to be streetwise because you dont want her being a bad influence (because russians are HARD) You've seen some good films "Didn't read it all I fell asleep zzzzz. | |||
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"I don't think 85% of profiles state a racial preference. ok fair enough maybe more 60% I haven't read 60% of the profiles, but I don't think I see it even that often.." I've never seen it on any profiles I have read...so I guess its about 3% | |||
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" Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Ghana and philipeans are annoying. Ghana girls have really good bodies.... But they pray on white nerds and worked their charm to a fine art...it doesn't lead you anywhere any time soon... Filipeanos are dateable if they are not fanatical Catholics. (I'm a catholic)....But filipeanos are 90% fundamentalist catholic...They are stupid about science and one girl threw a tantrum at me for mentioning priests/peados... French men are pricks but the women are good. Asians are mostly good but Africans come in different categories...traditional African women are NOT my thing. I had a casual friend from Zambia for 2 years (she showed me this websight first as couple).. I liked the Zambian lady. I've fucked a german girl a few times. German girls are mostly shit left wingers but I know a few old fashion Germans. Eastern European women are good.... Women Ireland are femenists I would shag some middle eastern or Indian....But not Muslim. In Nigeria I lived with a Muslim friend and his family for a few month. Some Nigerian girls are alright but they tend to hide the pretty ones unless they are slappers. You never see pretty women on the street in Nigeria but you find them indoors. ^^^^that's because loads of men in Africa are really creepy with my friends teenage sisters... Cambodian women seem to have very deep mental problems (but that's because communists killed everyone and fucked them up) I had a Russian teacher girlfriend in thailand for a while. Russians like drugs/violence/crime/and being crazy as fuck....their families are really welcoming if you fuck the daughter (very unusual)...But you got to be streetwise because you dont want her being a bad influence (because russians are HARD) " Wow you need to write a new series of 'Mind Your Language' And tell me about these traditional Germans. Just how traditional are we talking, like 1936 traditional? | |||
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" Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Ghana and philipeans are annoying. Ghana girls have really good bodies.... But they pray on white nerds and worked their charm to a fine art...it doesn't lead you anywhere any time soon... Filipeanos are dateable if they are not fanatical Catholics. (I'm a catholic)....But filipeanos are 90% fundamentalist catholic...They are stupid about science and one girl threw a tantrum at me for mentioning priests/peados... French men are pricks but the women are good. Asians are mostly good but Africans come in different categories...traditional African women are NOT my thing. I had a casual friend from Zambia for 2 years (she showed me this websight first as couple).. I liked the Zambian lady. I've fucked a german girl a few times. German girls are mostly shit left wingers but I know a few old fashion Germans. Eastern European women are good.... Women Ireland are femenists I would shag some middle eastern or Indian....But not Muslim. In Nigeria I lived with a Muslim friend and his family for a few month. Some Nigerian girls are alright but they tend to hide the pretty ones unless they are slappers. You never see pretty women on the street in Nigeria but you find them indoors. ^^^^that's because loads of men in Africa are really creepy with my friends teenage sisters... Cambodian women seem to have very deep mental problems (but that's because communists killed everyone and fucked them up) I had a Russian teacher girlfriend in thailand for a while. Russians like drugs/violence/crime/and being crazy as fuck....their families are really welcoming if you fuck the daughter (very unusual)...But you got to be streetwise because you dont want her being a bad influence (because russians are HARD) Oh give it a rest FFS" | |||
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"OK, so where do I fit ? I love mixed race (black / white) and paler skinned black people, but I'm not sexually attracted to darker skinned black people Interested to know what values you're going to project onto me on the basis of what I find attractive and what I don't Oh shatt appp.. no values being projected. Don't be a snowflake " Not quite sure how that makes me a snowflake but OK | |||
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" Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Ghana and philipeans are annoying. Ghana girls have really good bodies.... But they pray on white nerds and worked their charm to a fine art...it doesn't lead you anywhere any time soon... Filipeanos are dateable if they are not fanatical Catholics. (I'm a catholic)....But filipeanos are 90% fundamentalist catholic...They are stupid about science and one girl threw a tantrum at me for mentioning priests/peados... French men are pricks but the women are good. Asians are mostly good but Africans come in different categories...traditional African women are NOT my thing. I had a casual friend from Zambia for 2 years (she showed me this websight first as couple).. I liked the Zambian lady. I've fucked a german girl a few times. German girls are mostly shit left wingers but I know a few old fashion Germans. Eastern European women are good.... Women Ireland are femenists I would shag some middle eastern or Indian....But not Muslim. In Nigeria I lived with a Muslim friend and his family for a few month. Some Nigerian girls are alright but they tend to hide the pretty ones unless they are slappers. You never see pretty women on the street in Nigeria but you find them indoors. ^^^^that's because loads of men in Africa are really creepy with my friends teenage sisters... Cambodian women seem to have very deep mental problems (but that's because communists killed everyone and fucked them up) I had a Russian teacher girlfriend in thailand for a while. Russians like drugs/violence/crime/and being crazy as fuck....their families are really welcoming if you fuck the daughter (very unusual)...But you got to be streetwise because you dont want her being a bad influence (because russians are HARD) You've seen some good films "I go to Nigeria often and you see many beautiful girls in public. I’ve worked with a few and the working girls that used to come in our hotel were like models. | |||
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"I don’t fuck people from Manchester. They’re Northern and weird "Woooooooooaaaaa | |||
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"My audience " where? | |||
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"I don’t fuck people from Manchester. They’re Northern and weird "I don’t fuck aliens, they are the same. | |||
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" Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Ghana and philipeans are annoying. Ghana girls have really good bodies.... But they pray on white nerds and worked their charm to a fine art...it doesn't lead you anywhere any time soon... Filipeanos are dateable if they are not fanatical Catholics. (I'm a catholic)....But filipeanos are 90% fundamentalist catholic...They are stupid about science and one girl threw a tantrum at me for mentioning priests/peados... French men are pricks but the women are good. Asians are mostly good but Africans come in different categories...traditional African women are NOT my thing. I had a casual friend from Zambia for 2 years (she showed me this websight first as couple).. I liked the Zambian lady. I've fucked a german girl a few times. German girls are mostly shit left wingers but I know a few old fashion Germans. Eastern European women are good.... Women Ireland are femenists I would shag some middle eastern or Indian....But not Muslim. In Nigeria I lived with a Muslim friend and his family for a few month. Some Nigerian girls are alright but they tend to hide the pretty ones unless they are slappers. You never see pretty women on the street in Nigeria but you find them indoors. ^^^^that's because loads of men in Africa are really creepy with my friends teenage sisters... Cambodian women seem to have very deep mental problems (but that's because communists killed everyone and fucked them up) I had a Russian teacher girlfriend in thailand for a while. Russians like drugs/violence/crime/and being crazy as fuck....their families are really welcoming if you fuck the daughter (very unusual)...But you got to be streetwise because you dont want her being a bad influence (because russians are HARD) Oh give it a rest FFS" I asked. He answered. I agree about the French, German and Eastern Europeans. Some of the best meets we've had have been with Muslims though so we part company there. | |||
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"I don’t fuck people from Manchester. They’re Northern and weird
Woooooooooaaaaa"Are you from Manchester? | |||
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" I go to Nigeria often and you see many beautiful girls in public. I’ve worked with a few and the working girls that used to come in our hotel were like models. " That's not what google said when he asked it about stereotypes. | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence "I don't see it that often. I think it's a far lower percentage than that. If someone has a preference to the skin colour of those they want to have sex with, aren't they entitled to state it? I could understand it, if it was integrating with different races in general, but they are stating their sexual preference. For all we know, they could have friends of different races, they are just not attracted. | |||
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"I don't think 85% of profiles state a racial preference. ok fair enough maybe more 60% I haven't read 60% of the profiles, but I don't think I see it even that often.. I've never seen it on any profiles I have read...so I guess its about 3%" Well I said 5% further up the thread, but let’s go with your 3%. Everyone else in agreement, what’s that you say, best to round it up to 5?! Okay, 5 it is. | |||
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" I go to Nigeria often and you see many beautiful girls in public. I’ve worked with a few and the working girls that used to come in our hotel were like models. " I used to hang around outside the "Nikon hilton" in Abuja...near "liberty fountain" smoking . I didn't go anywhere near hotels. I know I saw prostitutes in the lobby area but the street hookers are disgusting and in some wierd shapes and sizes. At my friends houses in kano and kaduna the sisters were pretty got Muslim half lebonise (offered to me as brides) The women in daura have snotty noses because they are not in the modern world yet... Nigeria is good but thailand is better. I've not been to Lagos. | |||
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" I go to Nigeria often and you see many beautiful girls in public. I’ve worked with a few and the working girls that used to come in our hotel were like models. I used to hang around outside the "Nikon hilton" in Abuja...near "liberty fountain" smoking . I didn't go anywhere near hotels. I know I saw prostitutes in the lobby area but the street hookers are disgusting and in some wierd shapes and sizes. At my friends houses in kano and kaduna the sisters were pretty got Muslim half lebonise (offered to me as brides) The women in daura have snotty noses because they are not in the modern world yet... Nigeria is good but thailand is better. I've not been to Lagos." ok | |||
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"It's not 85%" No, I said 5% further up the thread, kinky bird says 3, but I think we should round it up to 5. Or shall we take a vote on it ? | |||
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"It's not 85% No, I said 5% further up the thread, kinky bird says 3, but I think we should round it up to 5. Or shall we take a vote on it ? " 4.3% | |||
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" I go to Nigeria often and you see many beautiful girls in public. I’ve worked with a few and the working girls that used to come in our hotel were like models. I used to hang around outside the "Nikon hilton" in Abuja...near "liberty fountain" smoking . I didn't go anywhere near hotels. I know I saw prostitutes in the lobby area but the street hookers are disgusting and in some wierd shapes and sizes. At my friends houses in kano and kaduna the sisters were pretty got Muslim half lebonise (offered to me as brides) The women in daura have snotty noses because they are not in the modern world yet... Nigeria is good but thailand is better. I've not been to Lagos." Try seeing these women as individuals, rather than generalising every one based on where they’re from. | |||
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" I go to Nigeria often and you see many beautiful girls in public. I’ve worked with a few and the working girls that used to come in our hotel were like models. I used to hang around outside the "Nikon hilton" in Abuja...near "liberty fountain" smoking . I didn't go anywhere near hotels. I know I saw prostitutes in the lobby area but the street hookers are disgusting and in some wierd shapes and sizes. At my friends houses in kano and kaduna the sisters were pretty got Muslim half lebonise (offered to me as brides) The women in daura have snotty noses because they are not in the modern world yet... Nigeria is good but thailand is better. I've not been to Lagos." Lagos is where I stay. Port Harcourt was another place but didn’t see any women there. | |||
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" I've not been to Lagos.ok Your boring... You have nothing to add to any conversation about anything...I'm boring look in the mirror rude. Any hobbies? Interests? Or travel? ANYTHING???? Or are you just an expert at wanking?" eeew disgusting. | |||
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"It's not sexist to meet with one gender to the exclusion of the other. It's not ageist to exclude people of a certain age range. So it is not racist to exclude a certain race. However, if you go out of your way to mention negative things about said gender or age or race then you're a bigot loser who clearly wants to insult others. I find it's only a problem when they follow up their stated preference with some bullshit like "I had too many bad experiences with (insert specific group)". You're being a racist/sexist/ageist/bigot etc. and I hope you step in dog poo. " Yea I agree with you there. | |||
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"It's not 85% No, I said 5% further up the thread, kinky bird says 3, but I think we should round it up to 5. Or shall we take a vote on it ? " Split the difference and go with 4? | |||
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" I've not been to Lagos. Lagos is where I stay. Port Harcourt was another place but didn’t see any women there. " I couldn't go to port Harcourt in 2007 because MEND and my security concerns. I stayed mostly in Abuja then had a tour of the north. We smoked loads of Indian hemp and drank cough medicine. Police wanted money from me every day and I was able to drive cars etc.. My friend (who's dead) was hausa tribe and his extended family were all public servants and in politics. | |||
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" I've not been to Lagos. Lagos is where I stay. Port Harcourt was another place but didn’t see any women there. I couldn't go to port Harcourt in 2007 because MEND and my security concerns. I stayed mostly in Abuja then had a tour of the north. We smoked loads of Indian hemp and drank cough medicine. Police wanted money from me every day and I was able to drive cars etc.. My friend (who's dead) was hausa tribe and his extended family were all public servants and in politics. " Port harcourt was work for me so it was a very brief stay and lots of armed guards. | |||
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"OP: what if somebody has an age range set on their profile with a max age of 45. Or they won't meet smokers. Or married people. Or people shorter than 5'10". Etc. People have all sorts of filters on here on who they want to meet." I see where you're going. That's all fine. It's the direct race dismissals that I feel are problematic. | |||
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" Port harcourt was work for me so it was a very brief stay and lots of armed guards. " You work for shell? I had quite alot of freedom to roam around abuja because I was with friends and his extended family/tribe and even allowed to drive. My friends cousins had armed guards (i got pics with AK) but my friends dad had a pistol only. | |||
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" Port harcourt was work for me so it was a very brief stay and lots of armed guards. You work for shell? I had quite alot of freedom to roam around abuja because I was with friends and his extended family/tribe and even allowed to drive. My friends cousins had armed guards (i got pics with AK) but my friends dad had a pistol only. " No, an airline. | |||
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"Oh well .. my profile can be your example OP. As it's highlighted on my bio who I'm looking for and who I'm not attracted too . Also it's personal preference not a race issue .. I've been polite about it too and aiming to avoid to offend anyone . However it's all written down- got many messages from people who I know sexually I'm not attracted to & and the chemistry just not going to work. I don't see any issue with that when someone clear and straight about it what /who they are looking for! We can't be everyone's tea . " Ok thanks. I hear you | |||
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" No, an airline. Oh so you're the link for cheap flights! Hi how you doing nice to meet you. "Haha, nice try | |||
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"Makes no sense explaining anything. People want what they want. It did used to bother me when I saw it but its around so much im numb to that shit now. Get in where you fit it. Shouldn't be like that but it is. Me personally couldn't say I wouldnt date/fuck someone cause of their race, cause I know there's attractive women in every race. It's about if im attracted to you. But that's just me."
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"We all have our 'preferences' but when a profile states they won't/will only meet a minority group, they come across as racist or xenophobic. Just shush your mouth and simply delete those who don't tickle your pickle to avoid looking like a bigoted loon." | |||
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"We all have our 'preferences' but when a profile states they won't/will only meet a minority group, they come across as racist or xenophobic. Just shush your mouth and simply delete those who don't tickle your pickle to avoid looking like a bigoted loon." | |||
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"We all have our 'preferences' but when a profile states they won't/will only meet a minority group, they come across as racist or xenophobic. Just shush your mouth and simply delete those who don't tickle your pickle to avoid looking like a bigoted loon." Couldn’t disagree more. It’s just a preference. I say that as someone who usually dates outside their race... | |||
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"Surely the point of the original post was not "what do you find attractive" but more "Why post that preference for a certain colour skin on your profile"?" I don’t see why someone can’t specify their preferences if that’s what they wish to do. I don’t get out my pram for profiles that are only looking for BBC for example, it’s just their taste after all. I haven’t got anything on my profile, but I’m not interested in meeting Black Guys in the odd occasion I just say thanks but no thanks. On the other hand I have plenty of work colleagues and friends from the Black and Asian Communities, none of them think I’m racist. Having said all that, it is slightly curious that you see this but don’t see (for example) not interested in blond/brunette etc. | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence "I'm not everyone's cup of tea and not everyone is mine. I don't feel shit if I'm not what someone desires or wants. I don't particularly understand why you would? Mrs | |||
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"I don’t fuck people from Manchester. They’re Northern and weird "Yep | |||
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"WTF! People can fuck who they want to! If someone only wants to meet black people then good luck to them. If you come across a profile that's say they're only looking for black men, Japanese women or Dutch transsexuals then simply move on to one that says only meets whiny politically correct sociopaths and respect their wishes and personal preferences. This is a site to indulge in sexual fantasies and desires, how else us someone going to do that if you impose constraints? And for the record I don't want to meet jaundice people, I find the skin tone unattractive!" | |||
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"No it's FINE...I'm perfectly ok with people wanting to stick to their own or "date out"... If some person is a certain race and they only date within that race I don't judge the reason. I don't have racial preference but I DO judge nationality and CULTURE/religion... " jedi women everwhere beware | |||
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"We all have our 'preferences' but when a profile states they won't/will only meet a minority group, they come across as racist or xenophobic. Just shush your mouth and simply delete those who don't tickle your pickle to avoid looking like a bigoted loon." Stop talking sense! Don’t you know this is the interweb!!!  | |||
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"No it's FINE...I'm perfectly ok with people wanting to stick to their own or "date out"... If some person is a certain race and they only date within that race I don't judge the reason. I don't have racial preference but I DO judge nationality and CULTURE/religion... Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference " Me neither, they’re all wankers! | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence "I prefer someone to state preference if they have one,then I won't bother them or myself. You shouldn't worry about it. | |||
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"No it's FINE...I'm perfectly ok with people wanting to stick to their own or "date out"... If some person is a certain race and they only date within that race I don't judge the reason. I don't have racial preference but I DO judge nationality and CULTURE/religion... Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Me neither, they’re all wankers!" More French for me then. Best lovers ever. | |||
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"No it's FINE...I'm perfectly ok with people wanting to stick to their own or "date out"... If some person is a certain race and they only date within that race I don't judge the reason. I don't have racial preference but I DO judge nationality and CULTURE/religion... Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Me neither, they’re all wankers! More French for me then. Best lovers ever. "That’s not what you told me when you asked me to wear that dress and twerk for you...  | |||
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"If you want a typical Frenchman "Ivon of yukon" (cartoon) I knew 1 Frenchman and he was a crazy d*unk violent criminal convict pervert.. I liked his farthers restraunt. I knew him too. I would have voted remain if it was not for him! " | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence "Somewhat agree with you except...why did you write you are black? I didn’t write we are white? No offence | |||
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"When you’ve lived somewhere with aparthite I think you can better understand the difference between being racist and a preference. Just coz some one don’t want to fuck you don’t mean they want to oppress your whole race. " | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence
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"No it's FINE...I'm perfectly ok with people wanting to stick to their own or "date out"... If some person is a certain race and they only date within that race I don't judge the reason. I don't have racial preference but I DO judge nationality and CULTURE/religion... Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Me neither, they’re all wankers! More French for me then. Best lovers ever.
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"No it's FINE...I'm perfectly ok with people wanting to stick to their own or "date out"... If some person is a certain race and they only date within that race I don't judge the reason. I don't have racial preference but I DO judge nationality and CULTURE/religion... Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Me neither, they’re all wankers! More French for me then. Best lovers ever.
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"No it's FINE...I'm perfectly ok with people wanting to stick to their own or "date out"... If some person is a certain race and they only date within that race I don't judge the reason. I don't have racial preference but I DO judge nationality and CULTURE/religion... Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Me neither, they’re all wankers! More French for me then. Best lovers ever.
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence "Ours, says preferably not black men, but how can that be made racist when my wife is black African. She just generally does t fancy black men. Not that she doesn't like them, she, obviously does and has loads of male friends and family. Just doesn't want se. With them, if you don't like that, tough shit. | |||
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" However, I struggle to grasp how anyone can categorically say that they are not attracted to anyone with a particular skin colour, from an entire race or from a specific country. Nita " People have racial preferences in the same way people have other overriding preferences for other physical attributes? I've had an overriding preference towards Black woman since I was a child, I realise this is unusual, this makes life more awkward than it could be for me, as it severely limits my options, but I'm comfortable enough with it, & I certainly don't see myself as a racist (or self hating, something that has been cited before). There's a handful of White/Oriental women I have a degree of physical attractiveness to, but I can't imagine sleeping with them, for whatever reason. It's also worth pointing out, there's a big difference between Not finding people with certain physical attributes unattractive (including race), & hating entire groups of people. That's a whole different kettle of fish.. | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence "Sorry but have to disagree with it being racist and of all the profiles we've been through would say it is 10%. We are an asian couple and now and again come across profiles that say White only or no asian men or no black/asians. It's a preference. Some don't like slim some don't like large, some don't like black, some don't like brown/white etc. We read and move on, simple as that. I think you're reading too much into it, if they're racist then that's their loss for being narrow minded. We have no skin colour preference, we're not, erm 'fattist' we're just not attracted to larger people as stated in our profile but that doesn't mean we dislike larger people in general if you get the gist. Mr and Mrs X | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence
Sorry but have to disagree with it being racist and of all the profiles we've been through would say it is 10%.
We are an asian couple and now and again come across profiles that say White only or no asian men or no black/asians. It's a preference. Some don't like slim some don't like large, some don't like black, some don't like brown/white etc. We read and move on, simple as that.
I think you're reading too much into it, if they're racist then that's their loss for being narrow minded.
We have no skin colour preference, we're not, erm 'fattist' we're just not attracted to larger people as stated in our profile but that doesn't mean we dislike larger people in general if you get the gist.
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence
Sorry but have to disagree with it being racist and of all the profiles we've been through would say it is 10%.
We are an asian couple and now and again come across profiles that say White only or no asian men or no black/asians. It's a preference. Some don't like slim some don't like large, some don't like black, some don't like brown/white etc. We read and move on, simple as that.
I think you're reading too much into it, if they're racist then that's their loss for being narrow minded.
We have no skin colour preference, we're not, erm 'fattist' we're just not attracted to larger people as stated in our profile but that doesn't mean we dislike larger people in general if you get the gist.
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"What did annoy us a lot is this one couple have asked us 3 times if we wanna meet so we looked at their profile and it states the following 'no black/or asian please just personal preference.' Our response 'thank you for the message, we do meet however you may have over looked the obvious.' Numpties "I've had this with people as well. I point out that I don't match their preferences. Undoubtedly a lot of the time it doesn't go down well lol. | |||
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"What did annoy us a lot is this one couple have asked us 3 times if we wanna meet so we looked at their profile and it states the following 'no black/or asian please just personal preference.' Our response 'thank you for the message, we do meet however you may have over looked the obvious.' Numpties
I've had this with people as well. I point out that I don't match their preferences. Undoubtedly a lot of the time it doesn't go down well lol. "Not matching preferences is one thing but for a couple who specifically does not want to meet asians to message a username '_siancouple4fem' pretty much takes the p.  | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence "Op if you object to people having racial preferences why do you state your skin colour on your profile? | |||
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"What did annoy us a lot is this one couple have asked us 3 times if we wanna meet so we looked at their profile and it states the following 'no black/or asian please just personal preference.' Our response 'thank you for the message, we do meet however you may have over looked the obvious.' Numpties
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" Op if you object to people having racial preferences why do you state your skin colour on your profile? You'll be surprised how some people react once they discover you're black. I put it there for those that might have a problem with it." Perhaps we should all state our race on our profiles then, so as not to offend anyone. | |||
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" Op if you object to people having racial preferences why do you state your skin colour on your profile? You'll be surprised how some people react once they discover you're black. I put it there for those that might have a problem with it." If they "discover" it you are clearly not being honest with them so the question has to be asked is why are you not up front in the first place? | |||
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" Op if you object to people having racial preferences why do you state your skin colour on your profile? You'll be surprised how some people react once they discover you're black. I put it there for those that might have a problem with it." Why not just post a public pic which clearly gives it away then there's no surprises? We've clearly stated it in ours just because it's our profile and we can... | |||
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" If they "discover" it you are clearly not being honest with them so the question has to be asked is why are you not up front in the first place?" As don't have public pics. If I didn't say it in the profile text how else will they know? How much more up front can I be? | |||
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" If they "discover" it you are clearly not being honest with them so the question has to be asked is why are you not up front in the first place? As don't have public pics. If I didn't say it in the profile text how else will they know? How much more up front can I be?" You could just put a pic up of your hand OP. | |||
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Sorry but have to disagree with it being racist and of all the profiles we've been through would say it is 10%.
We are an asian couple and now and again come across profiles that say White only or no asian men or no black/asians. It's a preference. Some don't like slim some don't like large, some don't like black, some don't like brown/white etc. We read and move on, simple as that.
I think you're reading too much into it, if they're racist then that's their loss for being narrow minded.
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"I personally couldn’t give a shit how others who I’m not interested think my profile sounds. I’m looking for something specific and I put it on my profile in order to reduce messages from those I’m not seeking currently. Does it reduce them? Yes. Does it stop them completely? No. It’s no different to seeking blondes, BBW’s, tall women, short men, or anything else that someone is physically attracted to. Also, for me it can’t be racist when I’m attracted to all races, I simply seek something different that turns me on more. Those who call it racist are no doubt the same type to get all uncomfortable when someone mentions the word “black” or talks about race. I find those who scream “racist” are the same ones stating “I don’t see colour, I see people” which is a bullshit PC get out phrase. We all have preferences we should be entitled to state them. It’s not stating them that’s the problem, it’s how you word it. "Hey I'm sorry but I feel your argument is flawed and I will tell you why, as their are good looking attractive sexy white men in the world their are also good looking sexy black men, to have a preference is fine absolutely nothing wrong with that but the Ops argument is simple you're ruling out people on the basis of colour not whether they are attractive to you and you're doing it souly to save messages or time which in the grand scheme of things is a pretty trivial excuse, some people rightly or wrongly are going to be offended by using the colour card and you I imagine don't want to deliberately offend anyone, the Op is saying he's offended by it so that's one person more than you wanted to offend duly offended, is it worth that? Have a preference by all means discount a whole race or a whole ethnicity but don't put it on your profile, people are people end of, if you avoid offending then that's what you should be doing, who cares about message levels, I don't, ask for a face pic early on and discount them on that basis | |||
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"I personally couldn’t give a shit how others who I’m not interested think my profile sounds. I’m looking for something specific and I put it on my profile in order to reduce messages from those I’m not seeking currently. Does it reduce them? Yes. Does it stop them completely? No. It’s no different to seeking blondes, BBW’s, tall women, short men, or anything else that someone is physically attracted to. Also, for me it can’t be racist when I’m attracted to all races, I simply seek something different that turns me on more. Those who call it racist are no doubt the same type to get all uncomfortable when someone mentions the word “black” or talks about race. I find those who scream “racist” are the same ones stating “I don’t see colour, I see people” which is a bullshit PC get out phrase. We all have preferences we should be entitled to state them. It’s not stating them that’s the problem, it’s how you word it. Hey I'm sorry but I feel your argument is flawed and I will tell you why, as their are good looking attractive sexy white men in the world their are also good looking sexy black men, to have a preference is fine absolutely nothing wrong with that but the Ops argument is simple you're ruling out people on the basis of colour not whether they are attractive to you and you're doing it souly to save messages or time which in the grand scheme of things is a pretty trivial excuse, some people rightly or wrongly are going to be offended by using the colour card and you I imagine don't want to deliberately offend anyone, the Op is saying he's offended by it so that's one person more than you wanted to offend duly offended, is it worth that? Have a preference by all means discount a whole race or a whole ethnicity but don't put it on your profile, people are people end of, if you avoid offending then that's what you should be doing, who cares about message levels, I don't, ask for a face pic early on and discount them on that basis "That’s your opinion. This is my profile and I can choose to write what I please on it within reason. If “seeking white men” offends some on here, they clearly weren’t for me. If “seeking BBW” offends some on here they clearly weren’t for that person. You didn’t read my post correctly as I stated I’m looking for something specific on here. I date all races, however I have chosen to search for something I rarely come across in my social circle since it’s mostly under 30, and black/mixed. That is my choice. I didn’t join this site to please others or tip toe around my preference to save others getting “offended”. I’ll continue to put what I like on my profile until admin tells me I can’t. | |||
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"I personally couldn’t give a shit how others who I’m not interested think my profile sounds. I’m looking for something specific and I put it on my profile in order to reduce messages from those I’m not seeking currently. Does it reduce them? Yes. Does it stop them completely? No. It’s no different to seeking blondes, BBW’s, tall women, short men, or anything else that someone is physically attracted to. Also, for me it can’t be racist when I’m attracted to all races, I simply seek something different that turns me on more. Those who call it racist are no doubt the same type to get all uncomfortable when someone mentions the word “black” or talks about race. I find those who scream “racist” are the same ones stating “I don’t see colour, I see people” which is a bullshit PC get out phrase. We all have preferences we should be entitled to state them. It’s not stating them that’s the problem, it’s how you word it. Hey I'm sorry but I feel your argument is flawed and I will tell you why, as their are good looking attractive sexy white men in the world their are also good looking sexy black men, to have a preference is fine absolutely nothing wrong with that but the Ops argument is simple you're ruling out people on the basis of colour not whether they are attractive to you and you're doing it souly to save messages or time which in the grand scheme of things is a pretty trivial excuse, some people rightly or wrongly are going to be offended by using the colour card and you I imagine don't want to deliberately offend anyone, the Op is saying he's offended by it so that's one person more than you wanted to offend duly offended, is it worth that? Have a preference by all means discount a whole race or a whole ethnicity but don't put it on your profile, people are people end of, if you avoid offending then that's what you should be doing, who cares about message levels, I don't, ask for a face pic early on and discount them on that basis
That’s your opinion.
This is my profile and I can choose to write what I please on it within reason.
If “seeking white men” offends some on here, they clearly weren’t for me. If “seeking BBW” offends some on here they clearly weren’t for that person.
You didn’t read my post correctly as I stated I’m looking for something specific on here. I date all races, however I have chosen to search for something I rarely come across in my social circle since it’s mostly under 30, and black/mixed.
That is my choice. I didn’t join this site to please others or tip toe around my preference to save others getting “offended”.
I’ll continue to put what I like on my profile until admin tells me I can’t. "I wasn't talking about you or your profile I havnt looked, I was making an observation based on the Ops | |||
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"I personally couldn’t give a shit how others who I’m not interested think my profile sounds. I’m looking for something specific and I put it on my profile in order to reduce messages from those I’m not seeking currently. Does it reduce them? Yes. Does it stop them completely? No. It’s no different to seeking blondes, BBW’s, tall women, short men, or anything else that someone is physically attracted to. Also, for me it can’t be racist when I’m attracted to all races, I simply seek something different that turns me on more. Those who call it racist are no doubt the same type to get all uncomfortable when someone mentions the word “black” or talks about race. I find those who scream “racist” are the same ones stating “I don’t see colour, I see people” which is a bullshit PC get out phrase. We all have preferences we should be entitled to state them. It’s not stating them that’s the problem, it’s how you word it. Hey I'm sorry but I feel your argument is flawed and I will tell you why, as their are good looking attractive sexy white men in the world their are also good looking sexy black men, to have a preference is fine absolutely nothing wrong with that but the Ops argument is simple you're ruling out people on the basis of colour not whether they are attractive to you and you're doing it souly to save messages or time which in the grand scheme of things is a pretty trivial excuse, some people rightly or wrongly are going to be offended by using the colour card and you I imagine don't want to deliberately offend anyone, the Op is saying he's offended by it so that's one person more than you wanted to offend duly offended, is it worth that? Have a preference by all means discount a whole race or a whole ethnicity but don't put it on your profile, people are people end of, if you avoid offending then that's what you should be doing, who cares about message levels, I don't, ask for a face pic early on and discount them on that basis "Also you cannot police or tell other people how to run their profiles or what they should, or shouldn’t do. It’s not your place to do that, you are not admin. If someone doesn’t like someone stating their preference on their profile they are welcome to block or ignore. It’s no different to an age preference. I am ruling out everyone under 35, and some might be offended & so what? It is allowed on here, yet you seem to have no issue with that. If you truly cared about not offending people & being PC, you’d call for Fab to take age ranges off their profiles also since that’s another way to rule out others & keep message levels down. | |||
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" Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Ghana and philipeans are annoying. Ghana girls have really good bodies.... But they pray on white nerds and worked their charm to a fine art...it doesn't lead you anywhere any time soon... Filipeanos are dateable if they are not fanatical Catholics. (I'm a catholic)....But filipeanos are 90% fundamentalist catholic...They are stupid about science and one girl threw a tantrum at me for mentioning priests/peados... French men are pricks but the women are good. Asians are mostly good but Africans come in different categories...traditional African women are NOT my thing. I had a casual friend from Zambia for 2 years (she showed me this websight first as couple).. I liked the Zambian lady. I've fucked a german girl a few times. German girls are mostly shit left wingers but I know a few old fashion Germans. Eastern European women are good.... Women Ireland are femenists I would shag some middle eastern or Indian....But not Muslim. In Nigeria I lived with a Muslim friend and his family for a few month. Some Nigerian girls are alright but they tend to hide the pretty ones unless they are slappers. You never see pretty women on the street in Nigeria but you find them indoors. ^^^^that's because loads of men in Africa are really creepy with my friends teenage sisters... Cambodian women seem to have very deep mental problems (but that's because communists killed everyone and fucked them up) I had a Russian teacher girlfriend in thailand for a while. Russians like drugs/violence/crime/and being crazy as fuck....their families are really welcoming if you fuck the daughter (very unusual)...But you got to be streetwise because you dont want her being a bad influence (because russians are HARD) " Yegods.... | |||
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"I personally couldn’t give a shit how others who I’m not interested think my profile sounds. I’m looking for something specific and I put it on my profile in order to reduce messages from those I’m not seeking currently. Does it reduce them? Yes. Does it stop them completely? No. It’s no different to seeking blondes, BBW’s, tall women, short men, or anything else that someone is physically attracted to. Also, for me it can’t be racist when I’m attracted to all races, I simply seek something different that turns me on more. Those who call it racist are no doubt the same type to get all uncomfortable when someone mentions the word “black” or talks about race. I find those who scream “racist” are the same ones stating “I don’t see colour, I see people” which is a bullshit PC get out phrase. We all have preferences we should be entitled to state them. It’s not stating them that’s the problem, it’s how you word it. Hey I'm sorry but I feel your argument is flawed and I will tell you why, as their are good looking attractive sexy white men in the world their are also good looking sexy black men, to have a preference is fine absolutely nothing wrong with that but the Ops argument is simple you're ruling out people on the basis of colour not whether they are attractive to you and you're doing it souly to save messages or time which in the grand scheme of things is a pretty trivial excuse, some people rightly or wrongly are going to be offended by using the colour card and you I imagine don't want to deliberately offend anyone, the Op is saying he's offended by it so that's one person more than you wanted to offend duly offended, is it worth that? Have a preference by all means discount a whole race or a whole ethnicity but don't put it on your profile, people are people end of, if you avoid offending then that's what you should be doing, who cares about message levels, I don't, ask for a face pic early on and discount them on that basis
Also you cannot police or tell other people how to run their profiles or what they should, or shouldn’t do.
It’s not your place to do that, you are not admin.
If someone doesn’t like someone stating their preference on their profile they are welcome to block or ignore.
It’s no different to an age preference. I am ruling out everyone under 35, and some might be offended & so what? It is allowed on here, yet you seem to have no issue with that.
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"I personally couldn’t give a shit how others who I’m not interested think my profile sounds. I’m looking for something specific and I put it on my profile in order to reduce messages from those I’m not seeking currently. Does it reduce them? Yes. Does it stop them completely? No. It’s no different to seeking blondes, BBW’s, tall women, short men, or anything else that someone is physically attracted to. Also, for me it can’t be racist when I’m attracted to all races, I simply seek something different that turns me on more. Those who call it racist are no doubt the same type to get all uncomfortable when someone mentions the word “black” or talks about race. I find those who scream “racist” are the same ones stating “I don’t see colour, I see people” which is a bullshit PC get out phrase. We all have preferences we should be entitled to state them. It’s not stating them that’s the problem, it’s how you word it. Hey I'm sorry but I feel your argument is flawed and I will tell you why, as their are good looking attractive sexy white men in the world their are also good looking sexy black men, to have a preference is fine absolutely nothing wrong with that but the Ops argument is simple you're ruling out people on the basis of colour not whether they are attractive to you and you're doing it souly to save messages or time which in the grand scheme of things is a pretty trivial excuse, some people rightly or wrongly are going to be offended by using the colour card and you I imagine don't want to deliberately offend anyone, the Op is saying he's offended by it so that's one person more than you wanted to offend duly offended, is it worth that? Have a preference by all means discount a whole race or a whole ethnicity but don't put it on your profile, people are people end of, if you avoid offending then that's what you should be doing, who cares about message levels, I don't, ask for a face pic early on and discount them on that basis
Also you cannot police or tell other people how to run their profiles or what they should, or shouldn’t do.
It’s not your place to do that, you are not admin.
If someone doesn’t like someone stating their preference on their profile they are welcome to block or ignore.
It’s no different to an age preference. I am ruling out everyone under 35, and some might be offended & so what? It is allowed on here, yet you seem to have no issue with that.
If you truly cared about not offending people & being PC, you’d call for Fab to take age ranges off their profiles also since that’s another way to rule out others & keep message levels down. in what way is an age range offensive though? "In the same way you consider having a preference for a certain race is offensive. You think writing “I like X men” on a profile is offensive but don’t consider “I like X age men” offensive, that baffled me. They are both things people cannot change about themselves, height also. So they are all in the same category. Before I had my age filter I wrote it in my profile 35+ and got plenty messages off guys getting offended that I wanted “old men” “saggy balls” or I have “daddy issues” or I’m a “gold digger”. So clearly some find it offensive. Finding someone’s preference (as long as they have politely written it & not insulted) offensive is ridiculous in my opinion. The person can’t do anything about it, so why are they bothered? | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence "Its our decision to meet black. If we state this it saves endless messages to white guys who contact us. Well it would if they actually read the profile. Its not personal just our choice | |||
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" Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Ghana and philipeans are annoying. Ghana girls have really good bodies.... But they pray on white nerds and worked their charm to a fine art...it doesn't lead you anywhere any time soon... Filipeanos are dateable if they are not fanatical Catholics. (I'm a catholic)....But filipeanos are 90% fundamentalist catholic...They are stupid about science and one girl threw a tantrum at me for mentioning priests/peados... French men are pricks but the women are good. Asians are mostly good but Africans come in different categories...traditional African women are NOT my thing. I had a casual friend from Zambia for 2 years (she showed me this websight first as couple).. I liked the Zambian lady. I've fucked a german girl a few times. German girls are mostly shit left wingers but I know a few old fashion Germans. Eastern European women are good.... Women Ireland are femenists I would shag some middle eastern or Indian....But not Muslim. In Nigeria I lived with a Muslim friend and his family for a few month. Some Nigerian girls are alright but they tend to hide the pretty ones unless they are slappers. You never see pretty women on the street in Nigeria but you find them indoors. ^^^^that's because loads of men in Africa are really creepy with my friends teenage sisters... Cambodian women seem to have very deep mental problems (but that's because communists killed everyone and fucked them up) I had a Russian teacher girlfriend in thailand for a while. Russians like drugs/violence/crime/and being crazy as fuck....their families are really welcoming if you fuck the daughter (very unusual)...But you got to be streetwise because you dont want her being a bad influence (because russians are HARD) " Wow. Just wow. | |||
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"We have "black guys only" on our profile so we can get loads of messages saying "I'm not black, but..". .
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"I completely understand preferences but ruling out people based on race is just weird imo. There are very sexy/attractive people of all races. " And of course we all must sieve through thousands of messages to find them. | |||
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"OP: what if somebody has an age range set on their profile with a max age of 45. Or they won't meet smokers. Or married people. Or people shorter than 5'10". Etc. People have all sorts of filters on here on who they want to meet. I see where you're going. That's all fine. It's the direct race dismissals that I feel are problematic." Averages. Probabilities. Aesthetic preferences. Life's experiences. Habit. Saving time. Delete as appropriate. | |||
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" Tell us about the nationalities you won't meet. Personally i can't be dealing with French people - not racist, it's just a preference Ghana and philipeans are annoying. Ghana girls have really good bodies.... But they pray on white nerds and worked their charm to a fine art...it doesn't lead you anywhere any time soon... Filipeanos are dateable if they are not fanatical Catholics. (I'm a catholic)....But filipeanos are 90% fundamentalist catholic...They are stupid about science and one girl threw a tantrum at me for mentioning priests/peados... French men are pricks but the women are good. Asians are mostly good but Africans come in different categories...traditional African women are NOT my thing. I had a casual friend from Zambia for 2 years (she showed me this websight first as couple).. I liked the Zambian lady. I've fucked a german girl a few times. German girls are mostly shit left wingers but I know a few old fashion Germans. Eastern European women are good.... Women Ireland are femenists I would shag some middle eastern or Indian....But not Muslim. In Nigeria I lived with a Muslim friend and his family for a few month. Some Nigerian girls are alright but they tend to hide the pretty ones unless they are slappers. You never see pretty women on the street in Nigeria but you find them indoors. ^^^^that's because loads of men in Africa are really creepy with my friends teenage sisters... Cambodian women seem to have very deep mental problems (but that's because communists killed everyone and fucked them up) I had a Russian teacher girlfriend in thailand for a while. Russians like drugs/violence/crime/and being crazy as fuck....their families are really welcoming if you fuck the daughter (very unusual)...But you got to be streetwise because you dont want her being a bad influence (because russians are HARD) " Shit, I missed that one.. Are you sure your surname isn't supposed to read "Aryan"?  | |||
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"I personally couldn’t give a shit how others who I’m not interested think my profile sounds. I’m looking for something specific and I put it on my profile in order to reduce messages from those I’m not seeking currently. Does it reduce them? Yes. Does it stop them completely? No. It’s no different to seeking blondes, BBW’s, tall women, short men, or anything else that someone is physically attracted to. Also, for me it can’t be racist when I’m attracted to all races, I simply seek something different that turns me on more. Those who call it racist are no doubt the same type to get all uncomfortable when someone mentions the word “black” or talks about race. I find those who scream “racist” are the same ones stating “I don’t see colour, I see people” which is a bullshit PC get out phrase. We all have preferences we should be entitled to state them. It’s not stating them that’s the problem, it’s how you word it. Hey I'm sorry but I feel your argument is flawed and I will tell you why, as their are good looking attractive sexy white men in the world their are also good looking sexy black men, to have a preference is fine absolutely nothing wrong with that but the Ops argument is simple you're ruling out people on the basis of colour not whether they are attractive to you and you're doing it souly to save messages or time which in the grand scheme of things is a pretty trivial excuse, some people rightly or wrongly are going to be offended by using the colour card and you I imagine don't want to deliberately offend anyone, the Op is saying he's offended by it so that's one person more than you wanted to offend duly offended, is it worth that? Have a preference by all means discount a whole race or a whole ethnicity but don't put it on your profile, people are people end of, if you avoid offending then that's what you should be doing, who cares about message levels, I don't, ask for a face pic early on and discount them on that basis
Also you cannot police or tell other people how to run their profiles or what they should, or shouldn’t do.
It’s not your place to do that, you are not admin.
If someone doesn’t like someone stating their preference on their profile they are welcome to block or ignore.
It’s no different to an age preference. I am ruling out everyone under 35, and some might be offended & so what? It is allowed on here, yet you seem to have no issue with that.
If you truly cared about not offending people & being PC, you’d call for Fab to take age ranges off their profiles also since that’s another way to rule out others & keep message levels down. in what way is an age range offensive though?
In the same way you consider having a preference for a certain race is offensive.
You think writing “I like X men” on a profile is offensive but don’t consider “I like X age men” offensive, that baffled me.
They are both things people cannot change about themselves, height also. So they are all in the same category.
Before I had my age filter I wrote it in my profile 35+ and got plenty messages off guys getting offended that I wanted “old men” “saggy balls” or I have “daddy issues” or I’m a “gold digger”. So clearly some find it offensive.
Finding someone’s preference (as long as they have politely written it & not insulted) offensive is ridiculous in my opinion. The person can’t do anything about it, so why are they bothered? "No I actually said the Op finds it offensive, I rarely get offended, I understand people wanting to reduce message levels and the filters are in place to help you do that, the Op feels that particular statement is too much for him and my thought is if it offends people then is it needed, age isn't offensive it's annoying but that's all it is | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence "No offence, but that 'summing-up' is fucking hilarious! | |||
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"I completely understand preferences but ruling out people based on race is just weird imo. There are very sexy/attractive people of all races. And of course we all must sieve through thousands of messages to find them." I use to sleep with all races when I was younger! I just don't fancy them now! Think I'll blame it on the menopause and have a word with myself! | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence "Hi hey you're quite new here 4 months, this topic comes up fairly often and it does get people quite uppity, 85% isn't quite correct although a lot do use it as they do the disclaimer about pics and the we don't meet cheats or people being disrespectful to their partners oh and the BBW thing, as somebody else said people who get upset get upset by many things, I'm of the opinion if it upsets just one person and you know it's upsetting that person you shouldn’t include it on your profile but some here have developed tough outer skins to deal with this sometimes hostile environment, forums tend to be the people who've been there and done that, many are self righteous and will argue a point with their erection uppermost in the argument which always makes me chuckle, if you cheat you lie is that a person whose opinion you would respect I think not, we all here are in some shape or form not the most moral examples of people but we still have an opinion whether others view it as right or wrong but that's the point of a forum to highlight how different people's opinions are. Women and couples can get very high volumes of mail/text messages and this increases with very sexy pics and status updates or meet requests or socials attended so trying to limit these messages by putting inflammatory statements on it are solely to do that it's not meant to offend unfortunately it does sometimes, I agree with you if it offends even a few people it shouldn’t be on the profile and the fact that this topic comes up a lot shows it does, the site automatically bans certain words because they are offensive, maybe that exclusion should be excluded to, have a preference yes by all means but try not to offend others with it. | |||
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"I personally couldn’t give a shit how others who I’m not interested think my profile sounds. I’m looking for something specific and I put it on my profile in order to reduce messages from those I’m not seeking currently. Does it reduce them? Yes. Does it stop them completely? No. It’s no different to seeking blondes, BBW’s, tall women, short men, or anything else that someone is physically attracted to. Also, for me it can’t be racist when I’m attracted to all races, I simply seek something different that turns me on more. Those who call it racist are no doubt the same type to get all uncomfortable when someone mentions the word “black” or talks about race. I find those who scream “racist” are the same ones stating “I don’t see colour, I see people” which is a bullshit PC get out phrase. We all have preferences we should be entitled to state them. It’s not stating them that’s the problem, it’s how you word it. Hey I'm sorry but I feel your argument is flawed and I will tell you why, as their are good looking attractive sexy white men in the world their are also good looking sexy black men, to have a preference is fine absolutely nothing wrong with that but the Ops argument is simple you're ruling out people on the basis of colour not whether they are attractive to you and you're doing it souly to save messages or time which in the grand scheme of things is a pretty trivial excuse, some people rightly or wrongly are going to be offended by using the colour card and you I imagine don't want to deliberately offend anyone, the Op is saying he's offended by it so that's one person more than you wanted to offend duly offended, is it worth that? Have a preference by all means discount a whole race or a whole ethnicity but don't put it on your profile, people are people end of, if you avoid offending then that's what you should be doing, who cares about message levels, I don't, ask for a face pic early on and discount them on that basis
Also you cannot police or tell other people how to run their profiles or what they should, or shouldn’t do.
It’s not your place to do that, you are not admin.
If someone doesn’t like someone stating their preference on their profile they are welcome to block or ignore.
It’s no different to an age preference. I am ruling out everyone under 35, and some might be offended & so what? It is allowed on here, yet you seem to have no issue with that.
If you truly cared about not offending people & being PC, you’d call for Fab to take age ranges off their profiles also since that’s another way to rule out others & keep message levels down. in what way is an age range offensive though?
In the same way you consider having a preference for a certain race is offensive.
You think writing “I like X men” on a profile is offensive but don’t consider “I like X age men” offensive, that baffled me.
They are both things people cannot change about themselves, height also. So they are all in the same category.
Before I had my age filter I wrote it in my profile 35+ and got plenty messages off guys getting offended that I wanted “old men” “saggy balls” or I have “daddy issues” or I’m a “gold digger”. So clearly some find it offensive.
Finding someone’s preference (as long as they have politely written it & not insulted) offensive is ridiculous in my opinion. The person can’t do anything about it, so why are they bothered? No I actually said the Op finds it offensive, I rarely get offended, I understand people wanting to reduce message levels and the filters are in place to help you do that, the Op feels that particular statement is too much for him and my thought is if it offends people then is it needed, age isn't offensive it's annoying but that's all it is "Age isn’t offensive to you. But it clearly is to some, I’ve had the messaged to prove it. So if you’re going to single out one preference and have a problem with it, include all of them. Or it seems personal. | |||
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"I won't meet anyone of any age, colour, race, religion, gender, etc. Does that make me an everyoneist? I don't see race preferences on many profiles I think it's 2.76% who express a preference. Bottom line it's a filter, if you don't want to meet people who say no xxx on their profile, don't meet them." Exactly. Trying to police how people run their own profile is just ridiculous. There is nothing wrong with saying “Seeking black men” for example, when its said like “Seeking black men only, not racist just don’t fancy any others” I don’t think the latter part is needed at all. Nobody needs to write an explanation as to why they like what they like. If people have a problem with others posting their race preference on their profile, maybe they need to take it up with admin, along with the age filter too. See if they agree with taking it off. | |||
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It’s 2018, let’s get offended just because we can. PC culture and all that. "It does my head in! It seems to have eradicated common sense. According to above we must not offend anyone. My resting bitch face offends people. What am I supposed to do about that!
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"Some of the criteria I have seen on profiles Age Bi-sexual/Straight Smoker/Non smoker Cock size Height Body shape / size Fitness (gym fit etc) Race Professionals only Not married or attached Intelligence level Will play with Female/Male/Couple/Other Hair colour If you don't want to offend anybody then only describe yourself on your profile, don't describe any preferences, don't set any message filters and let anyone contact you. " You definitely can't offend anyone in theory with this scenario, but I'm sure it would still happen lol. | |||
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" My resting bitch face offends people. What am I supposed to do about that!
Mrs"When your in an office or libruary and "that lady" is looking at you with dead eyes and a "resting bitch face" It does feel really awkward. ATLEAST fake a smile. If I was a new employee and you were walking down a corridore facing me. Do I bother with eye contact and a polite smile? Or do I pretend you don't exist so you don't scorn me with "bitch face" for making an effort? Takes me back to my NHS days. | |||
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"I personally couldn’t give a shit how others who I’m not interested think my profile sounds. I’m looking for something specific and I put it on my profile in order to reduce messages from those I’m not seeking currently. Does it reduce them? Yes. Does it stop them completely? No. It’s no different to seeking blondes, BBW’s, tall women, short men, or anything else that someone is physically attracted to. Also, for me it can’t be racist when I’m attracted to all races, I simply seek something different that turns me on more. Those who call it racist are no doubt the same type to get all uncomfortable when someone mentions the word “black” or talks about race. I find those who scream “racist” are the same ones stating “I don’t see colour, I see people” which is a bullshit PC get out phrase. We all have preferences we should be entitled to state them. It’s not stating them that’s the problem, it’s how you word it. Hey I'm sorry but I feel your argument is flawed and I will tell you why, as their are good looking attractive sexy white men in the world their are also good looking sexy black men, to have a preference is fine absolutely nothing wrong with that but the Ops argument is simple you're ruling out people on the basis of colour not whether they are attractive to you and you're doing it souly to save messages or time which in the grand scheme of things is a pretty trivial excuse, some people rightly or wrongly are going to be offended by using the colour card and you I imagine don't want to deliberately offend anyone, the Op is saying he's offended by it so that's one person more than you wanted to offend duly offended, is it worth that? Have a preference by all means discount a whole race or a whole ethnicity but don't put it on your profile, people are people end of, if you avoid offending then that's what you should be doing, who cares about message levels, I don't, ask for a face pic early on and discount them on that basis
Also you cannot police or tell other people how to run their profiles or what they should, or shouldn’t do.
It’s not your place to do that, you are not admin.
If someone doesn’t like someone stating their preference on their profile they are welcome to block or ignore.
It’s no different to an age preference. I am ruling out everyone under 35, and some might be offended & so what? It is allowed on here, yet you seem to have no issue with that.
If you truly cared about not offending people & being PC, you’d call for Fab to take age ranges off their profiles also since that’s another way to rule out others & keep message levels down. in what way is an age range offensive though?
In the same way you consider having a preference for a certain race is offensive.
You think writing “I like X men” on a profile is offensive but don’t consider “I like X age men” offensive, that baffled me.
They are both things people cannot change about themselves, height also. So they are all in the same category.
Before I had my age filter I wrote it in my profile 35+ and got plenty messages off guys getting offended that I wanted “old men” “saggy balls” or I have “daddy issues” or I’m a “gold digger”. So clearly some find it offensive.
Finding someone’s preference (as long as they have politely written it & not insulted) offensive is ridiculous in my opinion. The person can’t do anything about it, so why are they bothered? No I actually said the Op finds it offensive, I rarely get offended, I understand people wanting to reduce message levels and the filters are in place to help you do that, the Op feels that particular statement is too much for him and my thought is if it offends people then is it needed, age isn't offensive it's annoying but that's all it is
Age isn’t offensive to you.
But it clearly is to some, I’ve had the messaged to prove it.
So if you’re going to single out one preference and have a problem with it, include all of them. Or it seems personal. "an age preference or say an exclusion of people because they are gay or bi is a filter preference so how could that be upsetting, those people can't message because your filters don't allow them to | |||
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"Or no blacks/no white Why do 85% of profiles say something like this? Is it to make the non wanted race feel shit about themselves? And often followed by no offence/not racist. but how would you expect someone to feel after they read they ain't wanted because of the colour of your skin. Of course you're being racist, nothing to do with you're preference. Seeing race requests on a profile is really off putting whether its my race they want or not. To me. Just shows youre racist and judgemental. Just how I feel on the subject anyway. No offence
Sorry but have to disagree with it being racist and of all the profiles we've been through would say it is 10%.
We are an asian couple and now and again come across profiles that say White only or no asian men or no black/asians. It's a preference. Some don't like slim some don't like large, some don't like black, some don't like brown/white etc. We read and move on, simple as that.
I think you're reading too much into it, if they're racist then that's their loss for being narrow minded.
We have no skin colour preference, we're not, erm 'fattist' we're just not attracted to larger people as stated in our profile but that doesn't mean we dislike larger people in general if you get the gist.
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Can I treat you both to a reassuringly expensive night out in Birmingham?
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"It's not racist, it's a personal choice. We state no coloured guys because they do absolutely nothing for T, it has stopped most of the messages from black guys but the odd one still crops up now and again. At the end of the day it's our choice who we want to meet / play with and it's more polite to mention it upfront rather than having to reply to endless messages. I'm pretty sure we all have preferences when it comes to meetings etc. " Maybe "coloured" is a really bad choice of a word. Although time seems to have stopped around the 1960s in some parts of this country. Do you even have black people there?  | |||
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"Not long got home & have been reading through. I`m thinking the OP may be going through a low point, may be suffering with some insecurities, & possibly depression, which may have caused some venting? But hey, I`m no psychiatrist.." Or he's just pissed off he can't get pussy!  | |||
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