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Turn on or turn off? A women having not much experience?
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over a year ago
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Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?
I haven’t slept with many people...
D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?
So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off?    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?
I haven’t slept with many people...
D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?
So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off? "
I’m the same! Had only slept with my husband and since then, I’ve only slept with two other men  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh phew. I feel like I’m being so picky on here. But I want to make sure I find them really attractive or what’s the point?
I have had 3 including my husband.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have u ever shared that information with meets?
I was 15 when we got together. X "
I was fourteen 
And yep - I do warn them all! Both found it such a turn on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have u ever shared that information with meets?
I was 15 when we got together. X
I was fourteen
And yep - I do warn them all! Both found it such a turn on "
That’s good to hear! ;-D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t think not having been with many different people equals inexperience necessarily. It could maybe affect confidence if you’re used to the same person. It did with me at first. I’ve mostly been in relationships so haven’t been with that many men in my life but I’ve still had lots of sex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely you have had enough experience with your husband for it not to be a problem? And both experimented with each other?
It's not all about numbers is it?"
That’s sort of what I was trying to say too  |
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"Surely you have had enough experience with your husband for it not to be a problem? And both experimented with each other?
It's not all about numbers is it?"
Oh we do/ have.
it’s not a problem I was just curious on if men find it a turn on or turn off.
It’s certainly not about numbers, I’m definitely not here for numbers. Just fun experiences. |
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"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?
I haven’t slept with many people...
D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?
So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off? "
I reckon it’s less about experience than being comfortable, relaxed and uninhibited.
I reckon that’s something that comes with age - personally I’ve had better sex with women in their 30s than women in their 20s. They tend to be more confident in themselves and better at knowing what they do and don’t enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?
I haven’t slept with many people...
D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?
So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off?
I reckon it’s less about experience than being comfortable, relaxed and uninhibited.
I reckon that’s something that comes with age - personally I’ve had better sex with women in their 30s than women in their 20s. They tend to be more confident in themselves and better at knowing what they do and don’t enjoy. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely you have had enough experience with your husband for it not to be a problem? And both experimented with each other?
It's not all about numbers is it?"
Thats where experience comes from |
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"I remember how many guys offered themselves to me when I said I wasn’t very good on top, many many men were happy for me to practice on them. "
Ok let me try that strategy for myself.
I’m utterly shit in bed. In all positions. In fact, if I fell into a barrel of tits I’d end up sucking my own thumb.
Can anyone on Fab help me to improve my technique?! |
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Personally it’s nit about how many you’ve slept with, how experienced you are but if we get on and fancy each other.
The first step is the most nerve wracking but exhilarating at the same time.
If the person/people you meet doesn’t understand why your nervous and is uncaring for your needs then just tell them to go.
The experiences we have on here should be fully img needs, having fun and making good memories, in which ever way you need. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Personally it’s nit about how many you’ve slept with, how experienced you are but if we get on and fancy each other.
The first step is the most nerve wracking but exhilarating at the same time.
If the person/people you meet doesn’t understand why your nervous and is uncaring for your needs then just tell them to go.
The experiences we have on here should be fully img needs, having fun and making good memories, in which ever way you need."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I remember how many guys offered themselves to me when I said I wasn’t very good on top, many many men were happy for me to practice on them.
Ok let me try that strategy for myself.
You have to start a thread about it, follow my lead...
I’m utterly shit in bed. In all positions. In fact, if I fell into a barrel of tits I’d end up sucking my own thumb.
Can anyone on Fab help me to improve my technique?! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I remember how many guys offered themselves to me when I said I wasn’t very good on top, many many men were happy for me to practice on them.
Ok let me try that strategy for myself.
I’m utterly shit in bed. In all positions. In fact, if I fell into a barrel of tits I’d end up sucking my own thumb.
Can anyone on Fab help me to improve my technique?! "
Doesn't work for men Im afraid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don’t have any experience of me and I don’t have any experience of you. The fun part with any new partner is figuring out and stumbling upon the things that make us click |
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Experience is a funny thing. Doing the same over and over is not experience, it's just repetition. Doing different things and perfecting them is experience. This is best done with a regular partner, because you will come to know each others spoken and unspoken needs, as you will develop far more trust. |
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Well as long as you enjoy it , not a turn on if you doubt there not enjoying it , x Mrs didn’t like been ontop very shy about her body when it was amazing |
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"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?
I haven’t slept with many people...
D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?
So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off? "
But being together a long time is surely experience you don't get experience by meeting xxxxx amount of guys you probably have more experience with your husband ... Your comfortable with him experiment have fun read books .. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?
I haven’t slept with many people...
D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?
So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off? "
Not really..on or off
They have anxiety so it presents a barrier because you have to make all the advances and it's more effort.
Other than that it's not really so important. I'm impartial because there's other unrelated stuff to consider.
Inexperience anxiety is something that passes quickly. You Can overcome it in other ways.
Id teach you how to give propper handjobs, blow jobs and messages. Work on your technique |
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"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?
I haven’t slept with many people...
D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?
So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off?
But being together a long time is surely experience you don't get experience by meeting xxxxx amount of guys you probably have more experience with your husband ... Your comfortable with him experiment have fun read books .. xxx "
This, you just need some inspiration to stretch your creativity..! |
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"Do guys find it a turn on or turn off?
I haven’t slept with many people...
D and I have been together for 12 years and I really want more experiences and love sex however I don’t know weather this would be something I should share with potential meets?
So do guys see it as a turn on or turn off? "
Turn on, every guy likes to think they're teaching you something even if they're not  |
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