Maybe you should show a clear pic of yourself on your profile and then they will be able to see you before you add them...less chance of them accepting and then blocking because you're not what they are looking for

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

If they didn't think your photos coupled up with what they are looking for then why should they carry on the initial interest?

Being added as a friend guarantees you nothing.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they didn't think your photos coupled up with what they are looking for then why should they carry on the initial interest?

Being added as a friend guarantees you nothing....."

ditto

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if its a friend invite without even chatting first, then we have a perv when they offline.

then block them for not reading our profile

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By *riendly foeWoman over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"If they didn't think your photos coupled up with what they are looking for then why should they carry on the initial interest?

Being added as a friend guarantees you nothing....."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OK Pauly's how to handle anonymous friend requests guide.

One - Be patient

Two - Dont accept them as friends until they have gone offline

Three - Use the snipit function in Windows 7 to "steal" their private photos when they go offline

Four - If they then remove you as a friend and block you start a new profile with their private pics

many - Laugh until one of your socks falls off

Note: I no way encourage this action, or condone its use, but it does stop random friend requests...... Ok, I am banned now, right? I never did it, it was the one armed man....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"they block you so as not to waste time cos you are not what they want"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What difference does it make if you accept the friends invite when there on or offline?

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By *etillanteWoman over a year ago

"What difference does it make if you accept the friends invite when there on or offline?"

Cos you can look at their pics and if you not interested unfriend them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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If they're also online and you accept the invite they can see your private pics too

Well they can until they remove you from their friends list

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ahhh good thinking, thanks x

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By *arnaclebillMan over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Ive been blocked when ive added people as friends looked at my private pics then block me just bloody timewasters thats singles aswell as couples !!!"

Welcome to the real world

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Ive been blocked when ive added people as friends looked at my private pics then block me just bloody timewasters thats singles aswell as couples !!!

Welcome to the real world"

Yes welcome to a world where not everyone likes you and so to avoid awkward second messages they block you

Such a horrid cruel cruel world how will you ever cope???

I know......go to chams

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive been blocked when ive added people as friends looked at my private pics then block me just bloody timewasters thats singles aswell as couples !!!

Welcome to the real world"
absolutely...not had the OP's problem, with me its those who get in touch expressing an interest, get u interested then just go quiet all of a sudden..i'd prefer a 'we'll b in touch' or 'sorry, changed our minds' that way u know how 2 mentally file em, instead of being left wondering

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"if its a friend invite without even chatting first, then we have a perv when they offline.

then block them for not reading our profile

Yes, we do the same!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive been blocked when ive added people as friends looked at my private pics then block me just bloody timewasters thats singles aswell as couples !!!

Welcome to the real world absolutely...not had the OP's problem, with me its those who get in touch expressing an interest, get u interested then just go quiet all of a sudden..i'd prefer a 'we'll b in touch' or 'sorry, changed our minds' that way u know how 2 mentally file em, instead of being left wondering"

Aye,I get the same thing myself now and again,but any messages I don't get a reply to I just assume they've lost interest or changed their minds and move on..........it really is that simple!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive been blocked when ive added people as friends looked at my private pics then block me just bloody timewasters thats singles aswell as couples !!!

Aye,I get the same thing myself now and again,but any messages I don't get a reply to I just assume they've lost interest or changed their minds and move on..........it really is that simple!"
yep, its all u can do..bit daft 2 insist on some sort of site etiquette..not enforceable 4 1 thing

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Welcome to the real world absolutely...not had the OP's problem, with me its those who get in touch expressing an interest, get u interested then just go quiet all of a sudden..i'd prefer a 'we'll b in touch' or 'sorry, changed our minds' that way u know how 2 mentally file em, instead of being left wondering"

That happens to me all the time! The other annoying thing is when they message me, I reply, and they never message back. Very Twilight Zone!

Doo dee doo doo, doo dee doo doo!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That happens to me all the time! The other annoying thing is when they message me, I reply, and they never message back. Very Twilight Zone!

Doo dee doo doo, doo dee doo doo!"
Hmmmm..wonder if its an ego thing.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

That happens to me all the time! The other annoying thing is when they message me, I reply, and they never message back. Very Twilight Zone!

Doo dee doo doo, doo dee doo doo! Hmmmm..wonder if its an ego thing."

I thought men got antsy when we DON'T reply. When I get a nice message and send a (reasonably) nice reply then OK, they may have changed their mind. No biggy. But it just comes across as a bit odd.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That happens to me all the time! The other annoying thing is when they message me, I reply, and they never message back. Very Twilight Zone!

Doo dee doo doo, doo dee doo doo! Hmmmm..wonder if its an ego thing.

I thought men got antsy when we DON'T reply. When I get a nice message and send a (reasonably) nice reply then OK, they may have changed their mind. No biggy. But it just comes across as a bit odd."
if they tried 2 get in touch later on down the line, would u disregard them?..thats probably a silly question...but i have been thinking about it

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

That happens to me all the time! The other annoying thing is when they message me, I reply, and they never message back. Very Twilight Zone!

Doo dee doo doo, doo dee doo doo! Hmmmm..wonder if its an ego thing.

I thought men got antsy when we DON'T reply. When I get a nice message and send a (reasonably) nice reply then OK, they may have changed their mind. No biggy. But it just comes across as a bit odd. if they tried 2 get in touch later on down the line, would u disregard them?..thats probably a silly question...but i have been thinking about it"

Well the two I am thinking about, I'd say one yes and one no, but the 'disregard' would really be because they weren't local to me. Their initial message was a bit unusual though so it caught my eye.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That happens to me all the time! The other annoying thing is when they message me, I reply, and they never message back. Very Twilight Zone!

Doo dee doo doo, doo dee doo doo! Hmmmm..wonder if its an ego thing.

I thought men got antsy when we DON'T reply. When I get a nice message and send a (reasonably) nice reply then OK, they may have changed their mind. No biggy. But it just comes across as a bit odd. if they tried 2 get in touch later on down the line, would u disregard them?..thats probably a silly question...but i have been thinking about it

Well the two I am thinking about, I'd say one yes and one no, but the 'disregard' would really be because they weren't local to me. Their initial message was a bit unusual though so it caught my eye."
wyrd woman r notoriously hard 2 impress, so it must have been good...the people i'm thinking about were localish, so perhaps i wouldn't b totally dismissive

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