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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Evening all,
I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.
Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..
any advice? Thanks.
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"Evening all,
I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.
Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..
any advice? Thanks.
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We only meet bi males and there is 1000s on here wanting the same experience mmf, for us in our experience we just delete the 'hi how are you' messages we like a character who makes us laugh ,great at social meets as well as in the bedroom. We prefer regular meets too to build up a rapport. Improve your first messages to get your foot in the door so to speak xx good if guys xxx |
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"Evening all,
I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.
Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..
any advice? Thanks.
We only meet bi males and there is 1000s on here wanting the same experience mmf, for us in our experience we just delete the 'hi how are you' messages we like a character who makes us laugh ,great at social meets as well as in the bedroom. We prefer regular meets too to build up a rapport. Improve your first messages to get your foot in the door so to speak xx good if guys xxx"
Sorry good luck guys *** |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Like I said though my first message is always polite, relevant to the couple, never one liners and I always make sure they know everything is on their terms.
I don’t try to big myself up or make promises I can’t keep.
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"Bi night at a club?
You'd meet people face to face therefore bypassing the message stage where you only have text to go on. Make a good impression in person and you never know."
A lot of single guys get a bad press at clubs ,so iv been told x |
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Some of this is likely just an extension of what you'd experience if you were single straight guys here, except you need potentially to be attractive to 2 people physically and personality wise.
Once you become confident that you are bi, rather than curious, you'll probably be attractive to different people too, as some straight guys pretend curiosity and bi interests. Many people like others who know themselves and their interests - not all, of course.
I think it's great to just get out and about meeting people, including at clubs. You'll see people without needing a first message reply |
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"Evening all,
I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.
Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..
any advice? Thanks.
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make a visit to arousal in dunstable they hold some great bi party's see the club reviews for there club's details  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I think so. Do you want to embrace the whole bi experience or do you just want to play around the periphery? For us meeting a bi guy means a full on bi experience, giving and taking. You should state your expectations and limitations to clarify for people like ourselves. With your current profile if we were local to you we would not contact you for sex.
My apologies for being so abrupt, I think I have been out of line here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Almost success.... so no actual replies.
But anyone that has read my messages, hasn’t instantly deleted them, think I’m heading in the right direction.  |
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"Evening all,
I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.
Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..
any advice? Thanks.
We only meet bi males and there is 1000s on here wanting the same experience mmf, for us in our experience we just delete the 'hi how are you' messages we like a character who makes us laugh ,great at social meets as well as in the bedroom. We prefer regular meets too to build up a rapport. Improve your first messages to get your foot in the door so to speak xx good if guys xxx"
Exactly this,but rarely do guys make any effort. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like I said though my first message is always polite, relevant to the couple, never one liners and I always make sure they know everything is on their terms.
I don’t try to big myself up or make promises I can’t keep.
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I do make the effort and don’t make it all about fucking.
I think it’s catch 22, no verifications, no interest..... no interest, no verifications...
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Looking for a meet but getting nowhere unfortunately. I always read profiles and send face and body pics. Fully aware I am no young Greek god so I pick similar body shapes. I know bi couples must be inundated but message doesn’t even get read most of the time.
Any feedback or advice would be greatly appreciated x |
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"Some of mine haven’t been read.
Even one which was a reply to a request for a face pic!
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Frustrating isn’t it. If they read and delete I block so I know not to disturb again. Do you send again or not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Evening all,
I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.
Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..
any advice? Thanks.
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Are you spelling 'bi' correctly when you address them? They might just think you're saying "ta ra". |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some of mine haven’t been read.
Even one which was a reply to a request for a face pic!
Frustrating isn’t it. If they read and delete I block so I know not to disturb again. Do you send again or not!"
No don’t send again, didn’t think to block though. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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To be honest OP a lot of people will look at a profile and pics before even reading a message and if they don't like what they see will just delete unread - so take a look at your profile and ask yourself honestly if you're presenting yourself in the best possible way and if not take a look at profile advice threads for how you can improve yours.
You can write the best message ever but without a decent profile to back it up it won't necessarily get a response.
As others have suggested Bi Nights at clubs are a good way to go - you have three relatively nearby - VA near Bedford (first Friday of the month) - Naughty Bi Nature near Dunstable (second Saturday of the month I think) and one in Luton on a Tuesday but the name of the club escapes me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think the luton one would be bitastic at the greenhouse, although its on Friday now, also that's probably the easiest to access due to I believe VA and Bi nature requiring verification, falling again into catch 22 territory |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Evening all,
I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.
Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck
We are a bi married couple and only meet bi guys it’s a such a shame your so far away..
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"I can highly recommend Mingles club in Colchester... and they are having a bi night this coming Friday 
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Never been to the club but ‘the last ever bi night at Mingles’ in your status doesn’t sound too promising...
The VA bi night is brilliant fun and the Naughty Bi Nature parties too judging by the feedback I see. |
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By *afadaoMan
over a year ago
Staines |
There is a filter box you can check in the search settings to look for bi folk. So if you search for couples within xx miles that are bi then you’ll get a decent return.
Have a browser through, see who you like the look of and send a couple of messages.
Better still, save that search and you can see new couples as they join |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Evening all,
I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.
Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck
We are a bi married couple and only meet bi guys
it’s a such a shame your so far away..
I have family in Wales.
I’ll have to see them some time.
I can’t message you privately because I’m under your age bracket.
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"Evening all,
I’d been bi curious for years, had my first experience with a guy in April and a few since.
Ive always wanted to meet a bi married couple, but despite polite messages, pointing out similar interests and picking up on comments in their profiles, I try make my initial messages personal to the couple. Still not having much luck..
any advice? Thanks.
Can I join this club ?
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