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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
I've seen a lot of negativity about this on here so I'd like to start a positive post on the subject. I'd love to hear from the girls who like calling a guy Daddy in bed and the guys who like being called it.
Please no negative comments. There's plenty of posts out there for that  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wrote out my paragraph and nearly posted it until i read your comment about but no negative comments...
Come on people, this thread needs some comments xx |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I wrote out my paragraph and nearly posted it until i read your comment about but no negative comments...
Come on people, this thread needs some comments xx"
From your response you seem like a reasonable guy do I doubt your response was the type I was referring to. But thank you anyway . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I really love it and don't see anything wrong if both parties enjoy it. I think people become hysterical assuming this means those like me condone hideous acts - far from it, I categorically despise it. Both parties know it is role play and certainly for me it is the submissive 'innocent girl' element far more than the pretend familial connection that is a turn on. Also, it is a turn on to see a clearly grown woman acting younger than she is, whereas doing anything with an actual young girl is utterly vile. It's partly the thought that a woman is willing and enjoying it herself that is attractive. |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Personally I really love it and don't see anything wrong if both parties enjoy it. I think people become hysterical assuming this means those like me condone hideous acts - far from it, I categorically despise it. Both parties know it is role play and certainly for me it is the submissive 'innocent girl' element far more than the pretend familial connection that is a turn on. Also, it is a turn on to see a clearly grown woman acting younger than she is, whereas doing anything with an actual young girl is utterly vile. It's partly the thought that a woman is willing and enjoying it herself that is attractive."
Agreed. For me it is the innocence and the intimacy of being "looked after" by a caregiver. It's rather lovely to be made to feel small and adorable and being wrapped up in big, strong, safe arms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen a lot of negativity about this on here so I'd like to start a positive post on the subject. I'd love to hear from the girls who like calling a guy Daddy in bed and the guys who like being called it.
Please no negative comments. There's plenty of posts out there for that ."
Sorry but I think it's weird, negative or not, it's just odd |
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I'm in a DD/lg role play setup with a Fab lady friend... it was quite a surprise for me when she asked me if I would like to be her Daddy as it wasn't something that had occurred to me before. We get a lot of pleasure out of it . And our close Fab friends are very understanding and supportive of it too. |
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over a year ago
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"Agreed. For me it is the innocence and the intimacy of being "looked after" by a caregiver. It's rather lovely to be made to feel small and adorable and being wrapped up in big, strong, safe arms."
Totally. At no point would you think I was your actual dad. It's a fantasy that is rewarding and exciting momentary make beleive. X
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I'm in a DD/lg role play setup with a Fab lady friend... it was quite a surprise for me when she asked me if I would like to be her Daddy as it wasn't something that had occurred to me before. We get a lot of pleasure out of it . And our close Fab friends are very understanding and supportive of it too."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen a lot of negativity about this on here so I'd like to start a positive post on the subject. I'd love to hear from the girls who like calling a guy Daddy in bed and the guys who like being called it.
Please no negative comments. There's plenty of posts out there for that ."
I prefer Papi same thing just a little more... Exotic  |
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over a year ago
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I like it, but it’s not something I will do with anyone, chemistry has a lot to do with it!
What I hate is when guys message using the word “daddy” assuming because they are older that I’m going to automatically call them that.
But, someone I’ve been meeting several times, built a connection with and have fire chemistry... yes! |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Agreed. For me it is the innocence and the intimacy of being "looked after" by a caregiver. It's rather lovely to be made to feel small and adorable and being wrapped up in big, strong, safe arms. Totally. At no point would you think I was your actual dad. It's a fantasy that is rewarding and exciting momentary make beleive. X"
Haha yes! People into BDSM slave roleplay don't wish to be an actual slave and people into pet roleplay don't wish to have sex with animals. This is the same. |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I've seen a lot of negativity about this on here so I'd like to start a positive post on the subject. I'd love to hear from the girls who like calling a guy Daddy in bed and the guys who like being called it.
Please no negative comments. There's plenty of posts out there for that .
I prefer Papi same thing just a little more... Exotic "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry but I think it's weird, negative or not, it's just odd "
Fair enough, but I'd say that most fetishes are 'weird' to those who don't subscribe to them. For example I think guys who wear adult nappies is odd, but so what? If they're happy it's really not my business. X |
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"I've seen a lot of negativity about this on here so I'd like to start a positive post on the subject. I'd love to hear from the girls who like calling a guy Daddy in bed and the guys who like being called it.
Please no negative comments. There's plenty of posts out there for that ."
You can call me Daddy anytime |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I like it, but it’s not something I will do with anyone, chemistry has a lot to do with it!
What I hate is when guys message using the word “daddy” assuming because they are older that I’m going to automatically call them that.
But, someone I’ve been meeting several times, built a connection with and have fire chemistry... yes! "
Absolutely! To me because as I said above I find a lot of it quite intimate so it isn't something I can do too lightly. It can feel quite exposing too like you're exposing a vulnerable side to yourself so I will only do it with someone I trust and as you say have a connection with. |
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"I'm in a DD/lg role play setup with a Fab lady friend... it was quite a surprise for me when she asked me if I would like to be her Daddy as it wasn't something that had occurred to me before. We get a lot of pleasure out of it . And our close Fab friends are very understanding and supportive of it too.
Aww that's lovely to hear. So pleased to hear your friends are supportive."
Thankyou. She likes to bring out her inner girl and be a little Princess while I encourage her to fully explore her sexual adventures and fantasies in a safe and relaxing setting, plus lots of aftercare after an intense session with me and our friends |
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over a year ago
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"I like it, but it’s not something I will do with anyone, chemistry has a lot to do with it!
What I hate is when guys message using the word “daddy” assuming because they are older that I’m going to automatically call them that.
But, someone I’ve been meeting several times, built a connection with and have fire chemistry... yes!
Absolutely! To me because as I said above I find a lot of it quite intimate so it isn't something I can do too lightly. It can feel quite exposing too like you're exposing a vulnerable side to yourself so I will only do it with someone I trust and as you say have a connection with."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I really love it and don't see anything wrong if both parties enjoy it. I think people become hysterical assuming this means those like me condone hideous acts - far from it, I categorically despise it. Both parties know it is role play and certainly for me it is the submissive 'innocent girl' element far more than the pretend familial connection that is a turn on. Also, it is a turn on to see a clearly grown woman acting younger than she is, whereas doing anything with an actual young girl is utterly vile. It's partly the thought that a woman is willing and enjoying it herself that is attractive."
Hit the nail on the head there!
It's very much about the intimacy and role play. Nothing at all about the vile acts some people think it means. |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!  "
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've seen a lot of negativity about this on here so I'd like to start a positive post on the subject. I'd love to hear from the girls who like calling a guy Daddy in bed and the guys who like being called it.
Please no negative comments. There's plenty of posts out there for that ."
ok I've looked at your pics and just to be consistent didn’t read your profile but I am in a positive frame of mind you can call me daddy |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I'm in a DD/lg role play setup with a Fab lady friend... it was quite a surprise for me when she asked me if I would like to be her Daddy as it wasn't something that had occurred to me before. We get a lot of pleasure out of it . And our close Fab friends are very understanding and supportive of it too.
Aww that's lovely to hear. So pleased to hear your friends are supportive.
Thankyou. She likes to bring out her inner girl and be a little Princess while I encourage her to fully explore her sexual adventures and fantasies in a safe and relaxing setting, plus lots of aftercare after an intense session with me and our friends"
DDlg aftercare is the best! Head strokes and kisses, blanket forts, hair brushing, bubble baths, kids films, curling up in Daddy's lap. *happy sighs* |
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over a year ago
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"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Yes yes yes
That's what i said  "
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right? "
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath  |
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You have to understand where the term comes from. Daddy in the sexual world came by with the popularisation of the pimp world about 50 years ago. Of course it does not mean a dad wants to fuck his daughter, some things are not meant to be taken literally. It is another form of D/S. |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Yes yes yes
That's what i said and me "
Fuck me Fergus is one of my favourite lines from a film! |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath "
I'm stealing the phrase spanky wrath! |
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"I'm in a DD/lg role play setup with a Fab lady friend... it was quite a surprise for me when she asked me if I would like to be her Daddy as it wasn't something that had occurred to me before. We get a lot of pleasure out of it . And our close Fab friends are very understanding and supportive of it too.
Aww that's lovely to hear. So pleased to hear your friends are supportive.
Thankyou. She likes to bring out her inner girl and be a little Princess while I encourage her to fully explore her sexual adventures and fantasies in a safe and relaxing setting, plus lots of aftercare after an intense session with me and our friends
DDlg aftercare is the best! Head strokes and kisses, blanket forts, hair brushing, bubble baths, kids films, curling up in Daddy's lap. *happy sighs*"
Thete has also been a bubble bath and hair washing after a very intense grouo session when she had been a Naughty girl and needed lots of aftercare... dried her and wrapped her up in a soft, comfy Throw so she could have a nap cued up with Daddy before going home back as a grown up adult woman |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath
I'm stealing the phrase spanky wrath!"
Special offer...you get slappy spanky wrath for free |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I'm in a DD/lg role play setup with a Fab lady friend... it was quite a surprise for me when she asked me if I would like to be her Daddy as it wasn't something that had occurred to me before. We get a lot of pleasure out of it . And our close Fab friends are very understanding and supportive of it too.
Aww that's lovely to hear. So pleased to hear your friends are supportive.
Thankyou. She likes to bring out her inner girl and be a little Princess while I encourage her to fully explore her sexual adventures and fantasies in a safe and relaxing setting, plus lots of aftercare after an intense session with me and our friends
DDlg aftercare is the best! Head strokes and kisses, blanket forts, hair brushing, bubble baths, kids films, curling up in Daddy's lap. *happy sighs*
Thete has also been a bubble bath and hair washing after a very intense grouo session when she had been a Naughty girl and needed lots of aftercare... dried her and wrapped her up in a soft, comfy Throw so she could have a nap cued up with Daddy before going home back as a grown up adult woman"
Ultimate happy place! |
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"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath "
Be bad, be bad for Santa haha |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath
Be bad, be bad for Santa haha"
But I don't want coal in my stockings! |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath
Be bad, be bad for Santa haha"
Im always trying to get on his naughty list...and Billy Bob Thornton...hell yes i would! |
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"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath
Be bad, be bad for Santa haha
But I don't want coal in my stockings!"
Then be a good girl and only come up for air when I tell you (strokes hair) |
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"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath
Be bad, be bad for Santa haha
But I don't want coal in my stockings!"
Your legs look better in stockings, throw that coal out hun x |
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"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath
Be bad, be bad for Santa haha
Im always trying to get on his naughty list...and Billy Bob Thornton...hell yes i would! "
Watch monster ball while picturing billy bob in a santas suit |
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"I'm in a DD/lg role play setup with a Fab lady friend... it was quite a surprise for me when she asked me if I would like to be her Daddy as it wasn't something that had occurred to me before. We get a lot of pleasure out of it . And our close Fab friends are very understanding and supportive of it too.
Aww that's lovely to hear. So pleased to hear your friends are supportive.
Thankyou. She likes to bring out her inner girl and be a little Princess while I encourage her to fully explore her sexual adventures and fantasies in a safe and relaxing setting, plus lots of aftercare after an intense session with me and our friends
DDlg aftercare is the best! Head strokes and kisses, blanket forts, hair brushing, bubble baths, kids films, curling up in Daddy's lap. *happy sighs*
Thete has also been a bubble bath and hair washing after a very intense grouo session when she had been a Naughty girl and needed lots of aftercare... dried her and wrapped her up in a soft, comfy Throw so she could have a nap cued up with Daddy before going home back as a grown up adult woman
Ultimate happy place!"
Yes it's a very happy place for her |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath
Be bad, be bad for Santa haha
But I don't want coal in my stockings!
Then be a good girl and only come up for air when I tell you (strokes hair) "
 are we going snorkelling? |
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"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath
Be bad, be bad for Santa haha
But I don't want coal in my stockings!
Then be a good girl and only come up for air when I tell you (strokes hair)
are we going snorkelling? "
Yes, only in the shallows so I can keep an eye on you while you bob for apples |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath
Be bad, be bad for Santa haha
But I don't want coal in my stockings!
Then be a good girl and only come up for air when I tell you (strokes hair)
are we going snorkelling?
Yes, only in the shallows so I can keep an eye on you while you bob for apples "
I'd better go get my armbands out then! |
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"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath
Be bad, be bad for Santa haha
But I don't want coal in my stockings!
Then be a good girl and only come up for air when I tell you (strokes hair)
are we going snorkelling?
Yes, only in the shallows so I can keep an eye on you while you bob for apples
I'd better go get my armbands out then!"
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"I think it's weirder when people call each other "baby". Kind of the opposite end of the scale  "
My husband has called me baby since we got together....I think he’s called me by my name maybe a handful of times...was weird hearing him say my full name on our wedding day
Probably calls me baby because I used to spend my days crying and sleeping. Now I spend my days crying and not sleeping.  |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"When you're riding a guy and he says "cum for Daddy" you just have to cum for him goddamit! It's just made me wet thinking about it!
Definitley! Have to be a good girl and do what Daddy says right?
Absolutely...or face his spanky wrath
Be bad, be bad for Santa haha
But I don't want coal in my stockings!
Then be a good girl and only come up for air when I tell you (strokes hair)
are we going snorkelling?
Yes, only in the shallows so I can keep an eye on you while you bob for apples
I'd better go get my armbands out then!
Can you blow hard to inflate them "
Better get my big girl panties on and try! |
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I'm a fan, and as some have mentioned, it's always awkward if you use use the word and just get silence... or worse
I did have one particular partner who was only a few years younger and really into it, our whole relationship was based on the daddy/daughter caregiver/dependant thing. It was a really fantastic and special thing, with truly amazing sex. There's one detail I'll leave out out of the post but it has delfinetely left me with special memories! |
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"You have to understand where the term comes from. Daddy in the sexual world came by with the popularisation of the pimp world about 50 years ago. Of course it does not mean a dad wants to fuck his daughter, some things are not meant to be taken literally. It is another form of D/S."
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I had a DD/Lg encounter about 4 years ago. It was intoxicating. Really amazing and sexy. However afterwards the girl disclosed to me that she’d been recently been subjected to a quite brutal sexual assault.
I felt really awkward and uncomfortable. It was as if I was adding to the abuse and her pain. But then I’d heard that sexual assault survivors often try to reclaim they’re sexual authority through promiscuity or kink.
But then I felt really angry at her. I sort of felt I’d been deliberately put in a position where I could be accused of damaging someone. So I’m really cagey about it. In my sexual imagination it’s fine.im a big deep voiced beefy guy. But I’m a lot more wary since then. |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I had a DD/Lg encounter about 4 years ago. It was intoxicating. Really amazing and sexy. However afterwards the girl disclosed to me that she’d been recently been subjected to a quite brutal sexual assault.
I felt really awkward and uncomfortable. It was as if I was adding to the abuse and her pain. But then I’d heard that sexual assault survivors often try to reclaim they’re sexual authority through promiscuity or kink.
But then I felt really angry at her. I sort of felt I’d been deliberately put in a position where I could be accused of damaging someone. So I’m really cagey about it. In my sexual imagination it’s fine.im a big deep voiced beefy guy. But I’m a lot more wary since then. "
I can understand your waryness but in all honesty the majority of women both vanilla and with kinks have at some point in their lives been sexually assaulted. Only she can tell you whether she felt it had any influence on her interactions with you or whether it did any further damage or not.
I personally know a woman who is incredibly sexually conservative as a result of previous sexual assault as sex for her is wrapped up in a lot of pain and shame which is incredibly sad. |
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I never used to give it a thought and to be honest found it a bit weird.
That was until lately when a woman I was having sexually explicit conversations with started calling me daddy!! With her, it had a very arousing effect and lived the word coming out of her mouth, made my sexual tension increase and made me extremely horny!! |
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"I had a DD/Lg encounter about 4 years ago. It was intoxicating. Really amazing and sexy. However afterwards the girl disclosed to me that she’d been recently been subjected to a quite brutal sexual assault.
I felt really awkward and uncomfortable. It was as if I was adding to the abuse and her pain. But then I’d heard that sexual assault survivors often try to reclaim they’re sexual authority through promiscuity or kink.
But then I felt really angry at her. I sort of felt I’d been deliberately put in a position where I could be accused of damaging someone. So I’m really cagey about it. In my sexual imagination it’s fine.im a big deep voiced beefy guy. But I’m a lot more wary since then.
I can understand your waryness but in all honesty the majority of women both vanilla and with kinks have at some point in their lives been sexually assaulted. Only she can tell you whether she felt it had any influence on her interactions with you or whether it did any further damage or not.
I personally know a woman who is incredibly sexually conservative as a result of previous sexual assault as sex for her is wrapped up in a lot of pain and shame which is incredibly sad."
Thanks for that. It’s been good to hear another perspective. |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I had a DD/Lg encounter about 4 years ago. It was intoxicating. Really amazing and sexy. However afterwards the girl disclosed to me that she’d been recently been subjected to a quite brutal sexual assault.
I felt really awkward and uncomfortable. It was as if I was adding to the abuse and her pain. But then I’d heard that sexual assault survivors often try to reclaim they’re sexual authority through promiscuity or kink.
But then I felt really angry at her. I sort of felt I’d been deliberately put in a position where I could be accused of damaging someone. So I’m really cagey about it. In my sexual imagination it’s fine.im a big deep voiced beefy guy. But I’m a lot more wary since then.
I can understand your waryness but in all honesty the majority of women both vanilla and with kinks have at some point in their lives been sexually assaulted. Only she can tell you whether she felt it had any influence on her interactions with you or whether it did any further damage or not.
I personally know a woman who is incredibly sexually conservative as a result of previous sexual assault as sex for her is wrapped up in a lot of pain and shame which is incredibly sad.
Thanks for that. It’s been good to hear another perspective. "
No problem. If she was using a kink as a way to deal with her trauma then that is not in any way your fault as she did not tell you beforehand. If that was the case I hope she finds healthier ways to deal with her pain. |
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