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Do women like Inexperienced guys?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious to ask, Im an inexperienced guy, never been with a women (sadly lol). Just curious to see if women on here look for inexperienced younger guys, i know not everyone looking for a guy like me but want to see how many would be interested |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not me sorry, I like a man who knows what he’s doing and can take the lead in the bedroom x "
Fair enough Angie, probably why id prefer an inexperienced women too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you bi or straight ?
odd to say, i wanna be with women and im only attracted to women but i've only ever done stuff with guys"
How did you meet the guys ?
Online or in general life ?
I only ask because you are 20 years old
A lot of the members here are older and vastly experienced
Women here, in general, know what they want from and in a man
A 20 year old with little or no experience is not likely to be up there in the top 10
I honestly believe that Fab isn't the right place for a 20 year old to be seeking experience
Get out there with your pals, meet girls, talk to them, interact with them, get to know them
If you think that is hard, it is nothing, absolutely nothing, to getting to the stage here where sex or intimacy is involved
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you bi or straight ?
odd to say, i wanna be with women and im only attracted to women but i've only ever done stuff with guys
How did you meet the guys ?
Online or in general life ?
I only ask because you are 20 years old
A lot of the members here are older and vastly experienced
Women here, in general, know what they want from and in a man
A 20 year old with little or no experience is not likely to be up there in the top 10
I honestly believe that Fab isn't the right place for a 20 year old to be seeking experience
Get out there with your pals, meet girls, talk to them, interact with them, get to know them
If you think that is hard, it is nothing, absolutely nothing, to getting to the stage here where sex or intimacy is involved
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you bi or straight ?
odd to say, i wanna be with women and im only attracted to women but i've only ever done stuff with guys
How did you meet the guys ?
Online or in general life ?
I only ask because you are 20 years old
A lot of the members here are older and vastly experienced
Women here, in general, know what they want from and in a man
A 20 year old with little or no experience is not likely to be up there in the top 10
I honestly believe that Fab isn't the right place for a 20 year old to be seeking experience
Get out there with your pals, meet girls, talk to them, interact with them, get to know them
If you think that is hard, it is nothing, absolutely nothing, to getting to the stage here where sex or intimacy is involved
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Its just im real shy, i dont go out much, most of my mates are at uni. Not going to lie my social skills are really bad, chatting to women is hard but just as hard for men, doesn't have to be dirty just a normal conversation with a stranger can be hard to do, im alot more confident of a computer screen (like most people lol). I know on here i can find friendly people to chat to, at the end of the day im on here to meet but chatting to people at least i feel is good for me |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Are you bi or straight ?
odd to say, i wanna be with women and im only attracted to women but i've only ever done stuff with guys
How did you meet the guys ?
Online or in general life ?
I only ask because you are 20 years old
A lot of the members here are older and vastly experienced
Women here, in general, know what they want from and in a man
A 20 year old with little or no experience is not likely to be up there in the top 10
I honestly believe that Fab isn't the right place for a 20 year old to be seeking experience
Get out there with your pals, meet girls, talk to them, interact with them, get to know them
If you think that is hard, it is nothing, absolutely nothing, to getting to the stage here where sex or intimacy is involved
Its just im real shy, i dont go out much, most of my mates are at uni. Not going to lie my social skills are really bad, chatting to women is hard but just as hard for men, doesn't have to be dirty just a normal conversation with a stranger can be hard to do, im alot more confident of a computer screen (like most people lol). I know on here i can find friendly people to chat to, at the end of the day im on here to meet but chatting to people at least i feel is good for me"
I'd go and develop some, were I you.
Lots of men seem to come to Fabs thinking it will somehow be easier to have sex here than elsewhere. It categorically is not. If you cannot "pull" in the real world, you have no chance here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you bi or straight ?
odd to say, i wanna be with women and im only attracted to women but i've only ever done stuff with guys
How did you meet the guys ?
Online or in general life ?
I only ask because you are 20 years old
A lot of the members here are older and vastly experienced
Women here, in general, know what they want from and in a man
A 20 year old with little or no experience is not likely to be up there in the top 10
I honestly believe that Fab isn't the right place for a 20 year old to be seeking experience
Get out there with your pals, meet girls, talk to them, interact with them, get to know them
If you think that is hard, it is nothing, absolutely nothing, to getting to the stage here where sex or intimacy is involved
Its just im real shy, i dont go out much, most of my mates are at uni. Not going to lie my social skills are really bad, chatting to women is hard but just as hard for men, doesn't have to be dirty just a normal conversation with a stranger can be hard to do, im alot more confident of a computer screen (like most people lol). I know on here i can find friendly people to chat to, at the end of the day im on here to meet but chatting to people at least i feel is good for me
I'd go and develop some, were I you.
Lots of men seem to come to Fabs thinking it will somehow be easier to have sex here than elsewhere. It categorically is not. If you cannot "pull" in the real world, you have no chance here. "
Tbf i dont mind just chatting, tbh i wouldn't just come on here to try and "pull" |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Are you bi or straight ?
odd to say, i wanna be with women and im only attracted to women but i've only ever done stuff with guys
How did you meet the guys ?
Online or in general life ?
I only ask because you are 20 years old
A lot of the members here are older and vastly experienced
Women here, in general, know what they want from and in a man
A 20 year old with little or no experience is not likely to be up there in the top 10
I honestly believe that Fab isn't the right place for a 20 year old to be seeking experience
Get out there with your pals, meet girls, talk to them, interact with them, get to know them
If you think that is hard, it is nothing, absolutely nothing, to getting to the stage here where sex or intimacy is involved
Its just im real shy, i dont go out much, most of my mates are at uni. Not going to lie my social skills are really bad, chatting to women is hard but just as hard for men, doesn't have to be dirty just a normal conversation with a stranger can be hard to do, im alot more confident of a computer screen (like most people lol). I know on here i can find friendly people to chat to, at the end of the day im on here to meet but chatting to people at least i feel is good for me
I'd go and develop some, were I you.
Lots of men seem to come to Fabs thinking it will somehow be easier to have sex here than elsewhere. It categorically is not. If you cannot "pull" in the real world, you have no chance here.
Tbf i dont mind just chatting, tbh i wouldn't just come on here to try and "pull" "
Why?
It's what everyone else does. It's kinda the point of the place. |
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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago
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"Do you really want your first time to be a Fab meet?
Tbh i dont really care, as long as its someone whos friendly and interested in me"
Just keep plucking away bud..your be fine...chatting in forums are good way too talk so keep going....maybe some new pics..brush ya hair..lol..good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you bi or straight ?
odd to say, i wanna be with women and im only attracted to women but i've only ever done stuff with guys
How did you meet the guys ?
Online or in general life ?
I only ask because you are 20 years old
A lot of the members here are older and vastly experienced
Women here, in general, know what they want from and in a man
A 20 year old with little or no experience is not likely to be up there in the top 10
I honestly believe that Fab isn't the right place for a 20 year old to be seeking experience
Get out there with your pals, meet girls, talk to them, interact with them, get to know them
If you think that is hard, it is nothing, absolutely nothing, to getting to the stage here where sex or intimacy is involved
Its just im real shy, i dont go out much, most of my mates are at uni. Not going to lie my social skills are really bad, chatting to women is hard but just as hard for men, doesn't have to be dirty just a normal conversation with a stranger can be hard to do, im alot more confident of a computer screen (like most people lol). I know on here i can find friendly people to chat to, at the end of the day im on here to meet but chatting to people at least i feel is good for me"
Go develop your skills
I know it's not easy
I was that awkward teenager too
Go spend some time with your mates at Uni - go at a weekend when they have time to go out for a few drinks
Meet new friends online, get to know them in the real world
Hand on heart, being here will just frustrate the point even further for you if you haven't yet developed your social skills
Meeting people here is much more than a sexual experience
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its just im real shy, i dont go out much, most of my mates are at uni. Not going to lie my social skills are really bad, chatting to women is hard but just as hard for men, doesn't have to be dirty just a normal conversation with a stranger can be hard to do, im alot more confident of a computer screen (like most people lol). I know on here i can find friendly people to chat to, at the end of the day im on here to meet but chatting to people at least i feel is good for me"
Hunni, everyone can be shy, just be nice with girls and be yourself. Don't try and be something your not with them. You've been honest here so just be the same out there. They aren't scary creatures or anything, just be yourself and the rest will happen in its own time and it will be all the better for it. You do need to get out and be where they are though, they are unlikely to come to you. |
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"Are you bi or straight ?
odd to say, i wanna be with women and im only attracted to women but i've only ever done stuff with guys
How did you meet the guys ?
Online or in general life ?
I only ask because you are 20 years old
A lot of the members here are older and vastly experienced
Women here, in general, know what they want from and in a man
A 20 year old with little or no experience is not likely to be up there in the top 10
I honestly believe that Fab isn't the right place for a 20 year old to be seeking experience
Get out there with your pals, meet girls, talk to them, interact with them, get to know them
If you think that is hard, it is nothing, absolutely nothing, to getting to the stage here where sex or intimacy is involved
Its just im real shy, i dont go out much, most of my mates are at uni. Not going to lie my social skills are really bad, chatting to women is hard but just as hard for men, doesn't have to be dirty just a normal conversation with a stranger can be hard to do, im alot more confident of a computer screen (like most people lol). I know on here i can find friendly people to chat to, at the end of the day im on here to meet but chatting to people at least i feel is good for me
I'd go and develop some, were I you.
Lots of men seem to come to Fabs thinking it will somehow be easier to have sex here than elsewhere. It categorically is not. If you cannot "pull" in the real world, you have no chance here.
Tbf i dont mind just chatting, tbh i wouldn't just come on here to try and "pull"
Why?
It's what everyone else does. It's kinda the point of the place. "
Not necessarily true, a lot of people are here for the social aspect of swinging too other big social meetings like the stp wouldn't be a thing |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Are you bi or straight ?
odd to say, i wanna be with women and im only attracted to women but i've only ever done stuff with guys
How did you meet the guys ?
Online or in general life ?
I only ask because you are 20 years old
A lot of the members here are older and vastly experienced
Women here, in general, know what they want from and in a man
A 20 year old with little or no experience is not likely to be up there in the top 10
I honestly believe that Fab isn't the right place for a 20 year old to be seeking experience
Get out there with your pals, meet girls, talk to them, interact with them, get to know them
If you think that is hard, it is nothing, absolutely nothing, to getting to the stage here where sex or intimacy is involved
Its just im real shy, i dont go out much, most of my mates are at uni. Not going to lie my social skills are really bad, chatting to women is hard but just as hard for men, doesn't have to be dirty just a normal conversation with a stranger can be hard to do, im alot more confident of a computer screen (like most people lol). I know on here i can find friendly people to chat to, at the end of the day im on here to meet but chatting to people at least i feel is good for me
I'd go and develop some, were I you.
Lots of men seem to come to Fabs thinking it will somehow be easier to have sex here than elsewhere. It categorically is not. If you cannot "pull" in the real world, you have no chance here.
Tbf i dont mind just chatting, tbh i wouldn't just come on here to try and "pull"
Why?
It's what everyone else does. It's kinda the point of the place.
Not necessarily true, a lot of people are here for the social aspect of swinging too other big social meetings like the stp wouldn't be a thing"
Yeah, because nobody ever shagged anyone after meeting at a social....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So, what we're saying is that those of us who haven't had much experience and/or are really out of practice should just learn to appreciate the company of our own hands?  |
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"Just curious to ask, Im an inexperienced guy, never been with a women (sadly lol). Just curious to see if women on here look for inexperienced younger guys, i know not everyone looking for a guy like me but want to see how many would be interested "
Given the nature of the ladies' replies, I'd suggest that maybe a traditional dating site, and specifically one for plus size people (Google brings back at least two) might be a better idea.
Be happy, fella |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"So, what we're saying is that those of us who haven't had much experience and/or are really out of practice should just learn to appreciate the company of our own hands? "
The OP is young and according to his post he has never been with a woman. Stop twisting things!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you bi or straight ?
odd to say, i wanna be with women and im only attracted to women but i've only ever done stuff with guys
How did you meet the guys ?
Online or in general life ?
I only ask because you are 20 years old
A lot of the members here are older and vastly experienced
Women here, in general, know what they want from and in a man
A 20 year old with little or no experience is not likely to be up there in the top 10
I honestly believe that Fab isn't the right place for a 20 year old to be seeking experience
Get out there with your pals, meet girls, talk to them, interact with them, get to know them
If you think that is hard, it is nothing, absolutely nothing, to getting to the stage here where sex or intimacy is involved
Its just im real shy, i dont go out much, most of my mates are at uni. Not going to lie my social skills are really bad, chatting to women is hard but just as hard for men, doesn't have to be dirty just a normal conversation with a stranger can be hard to do, im alot more confident of a computer screen (like most people lol). I know on here i can find friendly people to chat to, at the end of the day im on here to meet but chatting to people at least i feel is good for me
I'd go and develop some, were I you.
Lots of men seem to come to Fabs thinking it will somehow be easier to have sex here than elsewhere. It categorically is not. If you cannot "pull" in the real world, you have no chance here.
Tbf i dont mind just chatting, tbh i wouldn't just come on here to try and "pull"
Why?
It's what everyone else does. It's kinda the point of the place.
Not necessarily true, a lot of people are here for the social aspect of swinging too other big social meetings like the stp wouldn't be a thing
Yeah, because nobody ever shagged anyone after meeting at a social.... "
I thought that's what socials were for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course they do, women since the beginning of time have loved leading men on look at eve and that leaf....... I mean one gust of wind and Adam was all over her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you bi or straight ?
odd to say, i wanna be with women and im only attracted to women but i've only ever done stuff with guys
How did you meet the guys ?
Online or in general life ?
I only ask because you are 20 years old
A lot of the members here are older and vastly experienced
Women here, in general, know what they want from and in a man
A 20 year old with little or no experience is not likely to be up there in the top 10
I honestly believe that Fab isn't the right place for a 20 year old to be seeking experience
Get out there with your pals, meet girls, talk to them, interact with them, get to know them
If you think that is hard, it is nothing, absolutely nothing, to getting to the stage here where sex or intimacy is involved
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, what we're saying is that those of us who haven't had much experience and/or are really out of practice should just learn to appreciate the company of our own hands?
The OP is young and according to his post he has never been with a woman. Stop twisting things!!"
I'm just basing my view on other people's comments on the thread. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"So, what we're saying is that those of us who haven't had much experience and/or are really out of practice should just learn to appreciate the company of our own hands?
The OP is young and according to his post he has never been with a woman. Stop twisting things!!
I'm just basing my view on other people's comments on the thread."
No, I am simply saying that likelihood of success in his endeavours is much greater elsewhere. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"So, what we're saying is that those of us who haven't had much experience and/or are really out of practice should just learn to appreciate the company of our own hands?
The OP is young and according to his post he has never been with a woman. Stop twisting things!!
I'm just basing my view on other people's comments on the thread.
No, I am simply saying that likelihood of success in his endeavours is much greater elsewhere."
Yeah, it's like jumping into the deep end on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Other men dream and wank off to the lifestyle I had...
It's pathetic...
But in reality they would end up "falling in love" if a go go dancer fucked them.... |
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"Just curious to ask, Im an inexperienced guy, never been with a women (sadly lol). Just curious to see if women on here look for inexperienced younger guys, i know not everyone looking for a guy like me but want to see how many would be interested "
Try sending a cock pic with a 2 word message “free now?” .. don’t think anyone tries it and it works for me all the time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all honesty lovely, you may struggle a little on here. I think there are a lot who would prefer to meet someone with more experience, given the nature of the site. I read further up that you have difficulties socialising. It can be scary if you feel awkward in those settings, but you sometimes need to go out of your comfort zone to gain some social skills. You.may find yourself enjoying the interactions over time. Just try and get yourself out there and hopefully you will meet someone who is willing to help you gain more experience, moving forward, as you are still young and should be enjoying spending time with your peers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest this is a swingers site...I think perhaps you should try traditional dating sites, and get your social skills from traditional dating...you can chat to people there too before meeting them, they will not all be expecting sex, some even look just for friends...that would be my avenue to follow if it were me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone's had the broom out
Rather amusing  "
Who new that ranting about Thai hookers and how all female fabbers are strategically shaved walruses could get you into trouble. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone's had the broom out
Rather amusing
Who new that ranting about Thai hookers and how all female fabbers are strategically shaved walruses could get you into trouble. "
Strategically shaved walruses. Oh brilliant! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone's had the broom out
Rather amusing
Who new that ranting about Thai hookers and how all female fabbers are strategically shaved walruses could get you into trouble. "
Might have something to do with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't Im afraid no but I'll wager there's tonnes of girls out there your age that would be looking for just that, so you can learn together no pressure. Aww. Now just go out there and find 'em |
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"I wouldn't Im afraid no but I'll wager there's tonnes of girls out there your age that would be looking for just that, so you can learn together no pressure. Aww. Now just go out there and find 'em "
I'd wager there are not ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't Im afraid no but I'll wager there's tonnes of girls out there your age that would be looking for just that, so you can learn together no pressure. Aww. Now just go out there and find 'em
I'd wager there are not ?"
Do you think  Everyone is looking for a partner with established skills already, even the inexperienced ladies? |
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"Someone's had the broom out
Rather amusing
Who new that ranting about Thai hookers and how all female fabbers are strategically shaved walruses could get you into trouble. "
Posts were removed due to their content and the fact that they took the thread away from the ops question.
It's best not to continue to discuss that |
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Just on the OP: I'm afraid not.
Later you said you didn't have social skills. I'm afraid that's something you just need to work on. Everything in life is monumentally harder if you can't get by socially. I say this kindly. Work on that, your confidence, and knowing who you are. The sex is way less important. |
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"I wouldn't Im afraid no but I'll wager there's tonnes of girls out there your age that would be looking for just that, so you can learn together no pressure. Aww. Now just go out there and find 'em
I'd wager there are not ?
Do you think Everyone is looking for a partner with established skills already, even the inexperienced ladies? "
On here yes
Have you not read daily how ladies cherry pick the very best men on this site
Have you not read daily , quite ok men but not much special, complaining out of every women on the site whom they have messaged they have received zero replies
Our friend above will be no different , the experiment has been run and we have enough data for me to place my wager. What data do you base yours
Statistically, in the country there will indeed be a tiny tiny tiny minority who , find the op physically and psychologically attractive enough to become intimate
I wish him well and encourage tenacity however realistic expectation is not an unreasonable attribute to hold either xxx |
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I'd say Fab is a terrible environment for the inexperienced in general. For men, you're unlikely to get anywhere. For women, it's strange, and can be toxic. Establish healthier norms somewhere a bit healthier, then work out if you want to risk the downsides Fab brings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't Im afraid no but I'll wager there's tonnes of girls out there your age that would be looking for just that, so you can learn together no pressure. Aww. Now just go out there and find 'em
I'd wager there are not ?
Do you think Everyone is looking for a partner with established skills already, even the inexperienced ladies?
On here yes
Have you not read daily how ladies cherry pick the very best men on this site
Have you not read daily , quite ok men but not much special, complaining out of every women on the site whom they have messaged they have received zero replies
Our friend above will be no different , the experiment has been run and we have enough data for me to place my wager. What data do you base yours
Statistically, in the country there will indeed be a tiny tiny tiny minority who , find the op physically and psychologically attractive enough to become intimate
I wish him well and encourage tenacity however realistic expectation is not an unreasonable attribute to hold either xxx"
Oh on here yes. I meant the 'real world' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think this is me done on this site, whats the point anymore, dont feel welcome anymore, some people have been constructive with what they've said and i have no issues with that, but some people on this thread have just been plain dickheads, normally people on this site are real nice and friendly but today's really thrown me off, had a shit time recently with stuff going on in my life and this site doesn't help one bit |
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"Think this is me done on this site, whats the point anymore, dont feel welcome anymore, some people have been constructive with what they've said and i have no issues with that, but some people on this thread have just been plain dickheads, normally people on this site are real nice and friendly but today's really thrown me off, had a shit time recently with stuff going on in my life and this site doesn't help one bit"
I hope you're OK. This site can be awful for mental health. Take care. Go talk to someone if you can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think this is me done on this site, whats the point anymore, dont feel welcome anymore, some people have been constructive with what they've said and i have no issues with that, but some people on this thread have just been plain dickheads, normally people on this site are real nice and friendly but today's really thrown me off, had a shit time recently with stuff going on in my life and this site doesn't help one bit"
You're right. Sites like this are not good for you.
All the best x |
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