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I can’t for the life of me see why anyone’s mother should want , or need to know about their children’s sex life , never mind whether they are on a swinging site .
Mine passed away a few years ago , and I’m happy to say she had no idea I was on here . |
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"I can’t for the life of me see why anyone’s mother should want , or need to know about their children’s sex life , never mind whether they are on a swinging site .
Mine passed away a few years ago , and I’m happy to say she had no idea I was on here . "
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Damn auto carrot... Try again.
Yes & No?
She knows I'm on a website & I meet people.
She refers to it as 'that online dating thing'
She's known long enough in a bit of a tart.
I think she knows, more than I think she knows! |
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"Of course...Mother knows everything 
Norman?
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Haha. Think you missed the note of sarcasm. The only way my mum ever gets information out of me is when I'm sleeping. Thankfully she on an island many miles from the UK |
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over a year ago
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Yes, she does. We are talking openly about this kind of things. A few years ago when I bought my first BDSM toys she wanted to borrow them from me. It wasn't always like this, just since my parents are divorced and I'm older.
Kitten |
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My mum knows I’m on a site for swinging. She’s given up asking me if I’ve met a nice man. I told her I’m not sure I want just one. She doesn’t ask anymore. Ha. |
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"My mum knows I’m on a site for swinging. She’s given up asking me if I’ve met a nice man. I told her I’m not sure I want just one. She doesn’t ask anymore. Ha. "
My mum knows better than to ask me what I’m doing dating wise, full stop.
We now operate on a “don’t ask, don’t tell” basis, other than the rare occasions where I take someone home to meet her.
And that has only happened twice in the last 15 years... |
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By *ea77Woman
over a year ago
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Mine does so do my older kids
I don’t like to keep things from them all but they have seen how confident I’ve become and for the better after many of shit years
They don’t ask questions and if they do I tell what they need to know
I remember a few years going from to see my mum and she said god you have a smile on your face did you get a good seeing to last night my reply oh yes I sure did end of conversation |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
Sunderland |
At 80 yr old, I don’t think that’s the sort of thing my parents want or need to know about their children.
And I definitely have much more interesting and important things to talk with them about in the precious time we have together
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My parents are our babysitters and some of the stories we have come up with i have no doubt my mother knows something is up, plus some of the wifes outfits may have given her pause for thought haha.
That being said my ma has always been a free spirit trapped inside her own insecurities. I believe my refusal to do as I'm told stems from conditioning from the things she felt she couldn't do....bloody parents |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mother is dead to me but my dad has met a few of my "friends" liked them too.
Whether he knows or not I don't care but hes happy I have a social life, I bet even as it's alternative
He encourages me to have human contact since I'm a hermit most of the time.
Although I never tell him the names of the clubs I visit just that I'm off to a club. He doesn't pry.
But rarely speak to him anyway he asks what I've been up to or any plans when we do speak.
Does he need to know?, no I don't think he does. Would he want to know what I get up to? More than likely not. |
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"No vanilla friends know I'm on here
I'm not ashamed but I like my private life to remain private"
So do most civilized human beings .
The problem with society today is that everybody seems to want to tell all and sundry about their private life .
Anyone who is proud to tell their Mother that they are on here gets no respect from me for that .
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"Yes, she does. We are talking openly about this kind of things. A few years ago when I bought my first BDSM toys she wanted to borrow them from me. It wasn't always like this, just since my parents are divorced and I'm older.
Kitten"
That's a joke...right? |
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"No vanilla friends know I'm on here
I'm not ashamed but I like my private life to remain private
So do most civilized human beings .
The problem with society today is that everybody seems to want to tell all and sundry about their private life .
Anyone who is proud to tell their Mother that they are on here gets no respect from me for that .
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Fair enough. I respect everyone has different family dynamics. I’m proud that I can talk to my mum about anything. It might not be for you and that’s okay. It would be boring if we all subscribed to the same view. |
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"No vanilla friends know I'm on here
I'm not ashamed but I like my private life to remain private
So do most civilized human beings .
The problem with society today is that everybody seems to want to tell all and sundry about their private life .
Anyone who is proud to tell their Mother that they are on here gets no respect from me for that .
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I’m very open with my family and I have no guilt with what I like doing. I don’t require respect from you or anyone that is judgemental. We all have different family dynamics. |
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"No vanilla friends know I'm on here
I'm not ashamed but I like my private life to remain private
So do most civilized human beings .
The problem with society today is that everybody seems to want to tell all and sundry about their private life .
Anyone who is proud to tell their Mother that they are on here gets no respect from me for that .
Fair enough. I respect everyone has different family dynamics. I’m proud that I can talk to my mum about anything. It might not be for you and that’s okay. It would be boring if we all subscribed to the same view. "
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"No vanilla friends know I'm on here
I'm not ashamed but I like my private life to remain private
So do most civilized human beings .
The problem with society today is that everybody seems to want to tell all and sundry about their private life .
Anyone who is proud to tell their Mother that they are on here gets no respect from me for that .
I’m very open with my family and I have no guilt with what I like doing. I don’t require respect from you or anyone that is judgemental. We all have different family dynamics. "
I don’t mind at all that you don’t require respect from me or anyone that’s judgemental .
It’s each to their own and all that again , yes that old chestnut ! My Mother would have been mortified if I discussed my sex life with her . That doesn’t mean I was ashamed of anything , just that I respected her and her feelings . |
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"No vanilla friends know I'm on here
I'm not ashamed but I like my private life to remain private
So do most civilized human beings .
The problem with society today is that everybody seems to want to tell all and sundry about their private life .
Anyone who is proud to tell their Mother that they are on here gets no respect from me for that .
Fair enough. I respect everyone has different family dynamics. I’m proud that I can talk to my mum about anything. It might not be for you and that’s okay. It would be boring if we all subscribed to the same view. "
Yes it would , I just couldn’t have imagined sitting down with my Mum and telling her about my sex life . Different strokes for different folks I guess . |
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"No vanilla friends know I'm on here
I'm not ashamed but I like my private life to remain private
So do most civilized human beings .
The problem with society today is that everybody seems to want to tell all and sundry about their private life .
Anyone who is proud to tell their Mother that they are on here gets no respect from me for that .
I’m very open with my family and I have no guilt with what I like doing. I don’t require respect from you or anyone that is judgemental. We all have different family dynamics.
I don’t mind at all that you don’t require respect from me or anyone that’s judgemental .
It’s each to their own and all that again , yes that old chestnut ! My Mother would have been mortified if I discussed my sex life with her . That doesn’t mean I was ashamed of anything , just that I respected her and her feelings ."
My family are very liberal and nothing I can’t talk about. I would be the same if I had kids. My nieces and nephews know that they can tell me anything and they do. We all have different relationships with our families I guess. |
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"No vanilla friends know I'm on here
I'm not ashamed but I like my private life to remain private
So do most civilized human beings .
The problem with society today is that everybody seems to want to tell all and sundry about their private life .
Anyone who is proud to tell their Mother that they are on here gets no respect from me for that .
I’m very open with my family and I have no guilt with what I like doing. I don’t require respect from you or anyone that is judgemental. We all have different family dynamics.
I don’t mind at all that you don’t require respect from me or anyone that’s judgemental .
It’s each to their own and all that again , yes that old chestnut ! My Mother would have been mortified if I discussed my sex life with her . That doesn’t mean I was ashamed of anything , just that I respected her and her feelings .
My family are very liberal and nothing I can’t talk about. I would be the same if I had kids. My nieces and nephews know that they can tell me anything and they do. We all have different relationships with our families I guess. "
Yep , none of my kids know either .
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