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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm in utter shock at the amount of people who are looking for "bareback" meets on here. Could anyone explain the logic in meeting a stranger for sex and NOT using protection? My mind is boggled. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm in utter shock at the amount of people who are looking for "bareback" meets on here. Could anyone explain the logic in meeting a stranger for sex and NOT using protection? My mind is boggled. "
Personal choice, I guess. |
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To each their own I guess?
I’ve said it here before and I’ll say it again. Condoms aren’t the be all and end all and people shouldn’t think that just because they use one they’re immune to catching an Sti.
Prep, regular testing and correct use of condoms are arguably the best way to stay safe, but as I said, to each their own. |
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"I'm in utter shock at the amount of people who are looking for "bareback" meets on here. Could anyone explain the logic in meeting a stranger for sex and NOT using protection? My mind is boggled. "
No idea... Maybe the risk is part of the thrill or they are simply willing to take the risk.
After all oral without protection poses a risk. Though this is a risk most of us are willing to take.
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"I'm in utter shock at the amount of people who are looking for "bareback" meets on here. Could anyone explain the logic in meeting a stranger for sex and NOT using protection? My mind is boggled.
No idea... Maybe the risk is part of the thrill or they are simply willing to take the risk.
After all oral without protection poses a risk. Though this is a risk most of us are willing to take.
Nita"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To each their own I guess?
I’ve said it here before and I’ll say it again. Condoms aren’t the be all and end all and people shouldn’t think that just because they use one they’re immune to catching an Sti.
Prep, regular testing and correct use of condoms are arguably the best way to stay safe, but as I said, to each their own. "
Realistically the best way to stay safe is to be celibate, but who’s doing that!
I do think a lot of people think just wearing a condom and doing nothing else is going to protect them. |
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"I'm in utter shock at the amount of people who are looking for "bareback" meets on here. Could anyone explain the logic in meeting a stranger for sex and NOT using protection? My mind is boggled. "
If you are shocked, or feel effected by anything you see on fabswingers, then please use the helpline provided. Just do a forum search for "snowflake" to find it.  |
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"To each their own I guess?
I’ve said it here before and I’ll say it again. Condoms aren’t the be all and end all and people shouldn’t think that just because they use one they’re immune to catching an Sti.
Prep, regular testing and correct use of condoms are arguably the best way to stay safe, but as I said, to each their own.
Realistically the best way to stay safe is to be celibate, but who’s doing that!
I do think a lot of people think just wearing a condom and doing nothing else is going to protect them. "
Well, yeah that’s true, but I’m not about that life.
It could be argued that those people put themselves and others at more risk than any other group.
Testing is important, the more people that know that the better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To each their own I guess?
I’ve said it here before and I’ll say it again. Condoms aren’t the be all and end all and people shouldn’t think that just because they use one they’re immune to catching an Sti.
Prep, regular testing and correct use of condoms are arguably the best way to stay safe, but as I said, to each their own.
Realistically the best way to stay safe is to be celibate, but who’s doing that!
I do think a lot of people think just wearing a condom and doing nothing else is going to protect them.
Well, yeah that’s true, but I’m not about that life.
It could be argued that those people put themselves and others at more risk than any other group.
Testing is important, the more people that know that the better. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In an ideal world, everyone would play BB.
Unfortunately this isn't, which everyone knows. Therefore they have an informed choice of how they play. If it doesn't affect you, op, why should it shock you? Each to their own.
I'm not condoning those that do, just their informed choice to make. |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
"I like to double dip bareback best, pummel the foof first then jizz in the poop shoot.
If you go pink then brown, then mouth to pink, the sti's are killed by the brown anyway so no harm done. "
My mum had told me that but good to hear it from a reliable source. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems a strange place to find judgemental people especially as the majority of the population would frown upon anyone just for using this site. There are an awful lot of people here who participate in watersports, rimming and other activities that pose significant health risks in the form of nasty little bugs that can be passed on through touch and kissing which could hospitalise you or worse, there is a reason why you wash your hands after using the toilet lol. When your done judging feel free to start another thread on the dangers of rimming or just meet someone to have fun with, get laid and avoid the bare back riders, as you say they are easy to spot |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seems a strange place to find judgemental people especially as the majority of the population would frown upon anyone just for using this site. There are an awful lot of people here who participate in watersports, rimming and other activities that pose significant health risks in the form of nasty little bugs that can be passed on through touch and kissing which could hospitalise you or worse, there is a reason why you wash your hands after using the toilet lol. When your done judging feel free to start another thread on the dangers of rimming or just meet someone to have fun with, get laid and avoid the bare back riders, as you say they are easy to spot "
I wasn't judging I was merely asking that given the possible life changing ramifications of bareback, why do people do it. I was curious to hear it from someone who has carried out this activity on the site. Good idea on a new thread though I will title it "couples who know everything" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in utter shock at the amount of people who are looking for "bareback" meets on here. Could anyone explain the logic in meeting a stranger for sex and NOT using protection? My mind is boggled. "
I believe it's called "free choice" or some such nonsense 
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Personal choice, it's a wonderful thing. So long as all are happy who are we to judge somebody else's choices.
There are plenty of things that I have seen on here that have shocked and grossed me out (sometimes it better not to Google something you don't understand) but we all have our fetishes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To each their own I guess?
I’ve said it here before and I’ll say it again. Condoms aren’t the be all and end all and people shouldn’t think that just because they use one they’re immune to catching an Sti.
Prep, regular testing and correct use of condoms are arguably the best way to stay safe, but as I said, to each their own.
Realistically the best way to stay safe is to be celibate, but who’s doing that!
I do think a lot of people think just wearing a condom and doing nothing else is going to protect them.
Well, yeah that’s true, but I’m not about that life.
It could be argued that those people put themselves and others at more risk than any other group.
Testing is important, the more people that know that the better. "
It's crazy the amount of people that think condoms keep them 100% safe. |
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"To each their own I guess?
I’ve said it here before and I’ll say it again. Condoms aren’t the be all and end all and people shouldn’t think that just because they use one they’re immune to catching an Sti.
Prep, regular testing and correct use of condoms are arguably the best way to stay safe, but as I said, to each their own.
Realistically the best way to stay safe is to be celibate, but who’s doing that!
I do think a lot of people think just wearing a condom and doing nothing else is going to protect them.
Well, yeah that’s true, but I’m not about that life.
It could be argued that those people put themselves and others at more risk than any other group.
Testing is important, the more people that know that the better.
It's crazy the amount of people that think condoms keep them 100% safe. "
It frustrates me. Anyone can catch an sti, so go get tested. It’s the only way to be sure. |
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"To each their own I guess?
I’ve said it here before and I’ll say it again. Condoms aren’t the be all and end all and people shouldn’t think that just because they use one they’re immune to catching an Sti.
Prep, regular testing and correct use of condoms are arguably the best way to stay safe, but as I said, to each their own.
Realistically the best way to stay safe is to be celibate, but who’s doing that!
I do think a lot of people think just wearing a condom and doing nothing else is going to protect them.
Well, yeah that’s true, but I’m not about that life.
It could be argued that those people put themselves and others at more risk than any other group.
Testing is important, the more people that know that the better.
It's crazy the amount of people that think condoms keep them 100% safe.
It frustrates me. Anyone can catch an sti, so go get tested. It’s the only way to be sure. "
Trouble is a lot of users don't consider themselves to be swingers, therefore not high risk.  |
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If you've got as far as being about to stick your cock inside someone, i'd be suprised if they refused to fuck you because you insist on putting a condom on.
It's never been a problem for me anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To each their own I guess?
I’ve said it here before and I’ll say it again. Condoms aren’t the be all and end all and people shouldn’t think that just because they use one they’re immune to catching an Sti.
Prep, regular testing and correct use of condoms are arguably the best way to stay safe, but as I said, to each their own.
Realistically the best way to stay safe is to be celibate, but who’s doing that!
I do think a lot of people think just wearing a condom and doing nothing else is going to protect them.
Well, yeah that’s true, but I’m not about that life.
It could be argued that those people put themselves and others at more risk than any other group.
Testing is important, the more people that know that the better.
It's crazy the amount of people that think condoms keep them 100% safe. "
Exactly. I take two just to make sure. I guess people are put off swallowing them with them being rubbery but i get em down with a glass of water  |
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"I'm in utter shock at the amount of people who are looking for "bareback" meets on here. Could anyone explain the logic in meeting a stranger for sex and NOT using protection? My mind is boggled. "
If you had a health issue that can be caused by contact with other people it certainly would not be something you would participate in
Although my cancer isn’t transmitted sexually,the type I have can be caused by oral sex!!! So think on! Bareback sex is too fucking dangerous |
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"Some people enjoy bareback. "
Everybody enjoys bareback!!
But I'm not going to meet a random on the internet on a swinging site and have unprotected sex.
I'm glad people are so upfront about it on here so I know who to avoid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What consenting adults do is up to them. I valve my health and take steps to stay healthy in most aspects of life not just sex i valve ur vulva  "
Why would you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in utter shock at the amount of people who are looking for "bareback" meets on here. Could anyone explain the logic in meeting a stranger for sex and NOT using protection? My mind is boggled. "
Because they want to, why does it bother you. The same logic as mountain climbing, bike and car racing, actually they are all safer. If you don't like it then it's quite easy not to have sex with them. |
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"I'm in utter shock at the amount of people who are looking for "bareback" meets on here. Could anyone explain the logic in meeting a stranger for sex and NOT using protection? My mind is boggled. "
Seeing a bareback veri sets of a series of fan tree noting and blocking to cut down the odds of getting caught up in said sti trail  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in utter shock at the amount of people who are looking for "bareback" meets on here. Could anyone explain the logic in meeting a stranger for sex and NOT using protection? My mind is boggled. "
Is this still going!
What they do is their own beeswax. Personally I'm glad of the announcement so I can avoid ever playing with them. Not from a judgmental viewpoint but I rather not take the risk with my health |
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