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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think I'm rubbish at it, but then find myself chatting with people when I'm not tryingbto flirt. Conversely, whenever someine is flirting with me, I'm oblivious!
Has Fab made me so jaded that:
a. I wouldn't believe someone would be interested in my personality?
b. Unless it is a faf, I can't take a hint?
c. I subconciously ignore flirting as I don't want to get my hopes up?
How is your experience of flirting on fab? |
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I'm terrible at flirting (one liners like "if I rearranged the alphabet...") both in person and online.
On here I'm complimentary about someone's pics or their bio, or just make an attempt at a joke |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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No fab flirting, not sure I've been flirted with ON Fab. On a social yes I think so.
In the real world, I would never think that anyone would be flirting with me and would miss any signs at the time (what ever they might be). Thankfully I've not had a FAF face to face as I wouldn't know where to look or what to say.
Should I be a more vigilant of the possibilities of being flirted with? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't know Op - from what I've seen of a few of your posts you're quite good at flirting! I think most people who say/think they are not are quite good at the sort of shallow, possibly with intent, possibly not sort of flirting.
I think it's the more private flirting people get nervous about. Fab makes you wonder if it's real or not. As for me - generally crap at flirting on the forum, mediocre to goodish in private. Or I just bumble on and on and hope it counts as flirting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've got no idea how to flirt, and I can't say whether I'm oblivious to people flirting with me or they just never do. "
You flirt well your Royal Thighness  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can't do it.. my Manc sarcasm ruins it every time! Incapable of taking a complement and am just not made to flirt!! "
Your sarcasm works for flirting with northerners. Although some northerners can mistake banter for flirting and vice versa |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't know Op - from what I've seen of a few of your posts you're quite good at flirting! I think most people who say/think they are not are quite good at the sort of shallow, possibly with intent, possibly not sort of flirting.
I think it's the more private flirting people get nervous about. Fab makes you wonder if it's real or not. As for me - generally crap at flirting on the forum, mediocre to goodish in private. Or I just bumble on and on and hope it counts as flirting."
You are too kind. I generally arse things up eventually though. You are a warm and caeing person as I recall from our chats in the past (in my pre-bitterness days)  |
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"No one ever flirts with me...sobs into her frikadellans....I tried. I think I tried?"
Really, I must have blinked and missed that!
These new bisexual glasses aren't the best to be honest.
But hello to you....x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No one ever flirts with me...sobs into her frikadellans....I tried. I think I tried?
Really, I must have blinked and missed that!
These new bisexual glasses aren't the best to be honest.
But hello to you....x
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I probably need to invest in a pair myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't do it.. my Manc sarcasm ruins it every time! Incapable of taking a complement and am just not made to flirt!! Your sarcasm works for flirting with northerners. Although some northerners can mistake banter for flirting and vice versa "
Ha ha I'm useless.. in my head everyone's a friend until I've met in person so ill veer onto any subject that pops into my head. Doesn't occur to me if it's appropriate or not! I have zero filter and can't read others unless I'm looking at them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got no idea how to flirt, and I can't say whether I'm oblivious to people flirting with me or they just never do.
You flirt well your Royal Thighness "
Um... Eh? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've got no idea how to flirt, and I can't say whether I'm oblivious to people flirting with me or they just never do.
You flirt well your Royal Thighness
Um... Eh?"
She knows what I mean... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got no idea how to flirt, and I can't say whether I'm oblivious to people flirting with me or they just never do.
You flirt well your Royal Thighness
Um... Eh?She knows what I mean..."
She? I think you replied to the wrong comment, the first one in the quote was me  |
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In person..I don't recognise when someone is flirting with me..I had years of being put down regarding my looks so I just think they are just trying to humiliate me but it's different on here..we're all open minded and most are open to friendly flirting  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've got no idea how to flirt, and I can't say whether I'm oblivious to people flirting with me or they just never do.
You flirt well your Royal Thighness
Um... Eh?She knows what I mean...
She? I think you replied to the wrong comment, the first one in the quote was me "
slip of the thong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a huge flirt, unless I actually really fancy the person, then I'm dreadful
Same
Oh Jesus yes, if I properly fancy you I can't flirt, I'm a gibbering knobheaded wreck!"
That explains your attitude towards me then |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"No fab flirting, not sure I've been flirted with ON Fab. On a social yes I think so.
In the real world, I would never think that anyone would be flirting with me and would miss any signs at the time (what ever they might be). Thankfully I've not had a FAF face to face as I wouldn't know where to look or what to say.
Should I be a more vigilant of the possibilities of being flirted with? "
Been told I need to practice my flirting, is there anyone who would like to help?  |
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