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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi fabbers. Long story short had arranged a social with a guy off here for today then messaged him this morning. No reply even though he said too... came on here as I
wanted to perv his profile and check messages. He's come off the site. The only time that's happened to me the guy was married and had been lieing all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t take this to heart, he may have changed his mind about meeting you, or he may of changed his mind about fab and swinging entirely.... annoying, but I sometimes understand why people do it. Although wouldn’t myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol man hunting is hard ! But thank you
I suspect some offers will soon be posted  "
They are usually not the right ones though! I agree with the OP, it's not easy to find suitable men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happens to us a fair bit. Water off a ducks back now...although our very first meet ghosted us while we were waiting in the pub for them . Still here though, plodding along |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol man hunting is hard ! But thank you
I suspect some offers will soon be posted
They are usually not the right ones though! I agree with the OP, it's not easy to find suitable men"
Tell me about it, I seek one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol man hunting is hard ! But thank you
I suspect some offers will soon be posted
They are usually not the right ones though! I agree with the OP, it's not easy to find suitable men"
I'll second or third that too...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a guy off Fab ghost me straight after a meet. Initially I was quite shocked as we’d gotten on really well up to that point and I genuinely thought he would have had the balls to tell me if he didn’t want to see me again. He’s still on here. His loss.
It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a guy off Fab ghost me straight after a meet. Initially I was quite shocked as we’d gotten on really well up to that point and I genuinely thought he would have had the balls to tell me if he didn’t want to see me again. He’s still on here. His loss.
It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from "
His loss? What does that even mean? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a guy off Fab ghost me straight after a meet. Initially I was quite shocked as we’d gotten on really well up to that point and I genuinely thought he would have had the balls to tell me if he didn’t want to see me again. He’s still on here. His loss.
It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from
His loss? What does that even mean?"
People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a guy off Fab ghost me straight after a meet. Initially I was quite shocked as we’d gotten on really well up to that point and I genuinely thought he would have had the balls to tell me if he didn’t want to see me again. He’s still on here. His loss.
It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from
His loss? What does that even mean?
People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss?? "
We did meet, twice, and discussed having a regular thing. At no point did he make it clear he was no longer interested. Just blocked me without a word. I’m saying his loss because he wanted a fwb and would have had one. It’s difficult to not take it personally when someone ghosts you within hours of fucking you. I hope he finds what he’s looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a guy off Fab ghost me straight after a meet. Initially I was quite shocked as we’d gotten on really well up to that point and I genuinely thought he would have had the balls to tell me if he didn’t want to see me again. He’s still on here. His loss.
It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from
His loss? What does that even mean?
People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??
We did meet, twice, and discussed having a regular thing. At no point did he make it clear he was no longer interested. Just blocked me without a word. I’m saying his loss because he wanted a fwb and would have had one. It’s difficult to not take it personally when someone ghosts you within hours of fucking you. I hope he finds what he’s looking for."
I hate to say it but he got exactly what he wanted and said what he thought he needed to say to get it. Cuntish behaviour for sure, but some people will do everything they can to seal the deal.
Single guys have to stand out to get a fuck around here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a guy off Fab ghost me straight after a meet. Initially I was quite shocked as we’d gotten on really well up to that point and I genuinely thought he would have had the balls to tell me if he didn’t want to see me again. He’s still on here. His loss.
It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from
His loss? What does that even mean?
People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss?? "
Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a guy off Fab ghost me straight after a meet. Initially I was quite shocked as we’d gotten on really well up to that point and I genuinely thought he would have had the balls to tell me if he didn’t want to see me again. He’s still on here. His loss.
It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from
His loss? What does that even mean?
People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??
We did meet, twice, and discussed having a regular thing. At no point did he make it clear he was no longer interested. Just blocked me without a word. I’m saying his loss because he wanted a fwb and would have had one. It’s difficult to not take it personally when someone ghosts you within hours of fucking you. I hope he finds what he’s looking for.
I hate to say it but he got exactly what he wanted and said what he thought he needed to say to get it. Cuntish behaviour for sure, but some people will do everything they can to seal the deal.
Single guys have to stand out to get a fuck around here."
I did think that would be the case. He could have just been up front about it. I’m not exactly looking for my future husband on here haha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I wouldn’t say you were ghosted because I believe to be ghosted you need to have invested yourself emotionally and met the person a few times. To truly be ghosted would be someone you thought you were getting along with fine and then all of a sudden they disappear with no reason or explanation, just gone, like a fart in the wind.
Ghosting is horrible and leaves you with a tonne of unanswered questions and makes you look inward at possible things you did wrong. It’s shitty.
What you’ve experienced is just someone that’s changed their mind about meeting, for whatever reason and gone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a guy off Fab ghost me straight after a meet. Initially I was quite shocked as we’d gotten on really well up to that point and I genuinely thought he would have had the balls to tell me if he didn’t want to see me again. He’s still on here. His loss.
It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from
His loss? What does that even mean?
People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??
We did meet, twice, and discussed having a regular thing. At no point did he make it clear he was no longer interested. Just blocked me without a word. I’m saying his loss because he wanted a fwb and would have had one. It’s difficult to not take it personally when someone ghosts you within hours of fucking you. I hope he finds what he’s looking for.
I hate to say it but he got exactly what he wanted and said what he thought he needed to say to get it. Cuntish behaviour for sure, but some people will do everything they can to seal the deal.
Single guys have to stand out to get a fuck around here.
I did think that would be the case. He could have just been up front about it. I’m not exactly looking for my future husband on here haha! "
People fear honesty. Look at my profile and guess how many offers I get lol... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a guy off Fab ghost me straight after a meet. Initially I was quite shocked as we’d gotten on really well up to that point and I genuinely thought he would have had the balls to tell me if he didn’t want to see me again. He’s still on here. His loss.
It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from
His loss? What does that even mean?
People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??
We did meet, twice, and discussed having a regular thing. At no point did he make it clear he was no longer interested. Just blocked me without a word. I’m saying his loss because he wanted a fwb and would have had one. It’s difficult to not take it personally when someone ghosts you within hours of fucking you. I hope he finds what he’s looking for.
I hate to say it but he got exactly what he wanted and said what he thought he needed to say to get it. Cuntish behaviour for sure, but some people will do everything they can to seal the deal.
Single guys have to stand out to get a fuck around here.
I did think that would be the case. He could have just been up front about it. I’m not exactly looking for my future husband on here haha!
People fear honesty. Look at my profile and guess how many offers I get lol..."
They do indeed. Your profile is hilarious. I’d hit you up for a coffee when I’m home for Xmas but you don’t want any friends..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a guy off Fab ghost me straight after a meet. Initially I was quite shocked as we’d gotten on really well up to that point and I genuinely thought he would have had the balls to tell me if he didn’t want to see me again. He’s still on here. His loss.
It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from
His loss? What does that even mean?
People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??
We did meet, twice, and discussed having a regular thing. At no point did he make it clear he was no longer interested. Just blocked me without a word. I’m saying his loss because he wanted a fwb and would have had one. It’s difficult to not take it personally when someone ghosts you within hours of fucking you. I hope he finds what he’s looking for.
I hate to say it but he got exactly what he wanted and said what he thought he needed to say to get it. Cuntish behaviour for sure, but some people will do everything they can to seal the deal.
Single guys have to stand out to get a fuck around here.
I did think that would be the case. He could have just been up front about it. I’m not exactly looking for my future husband on here haha!
People fear honesty. Look at my profile and guess how many offers I get lol...
They do indeed. Your profile is hilarious. I’d hit you up for a coffee when I’m home for Xmas but you don’t want any friends....."
I'm hard work. You'd be hoping I'd ghost you by the time I met you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a guy off Fab ghost me straight after a meet. Initially I was quite shocked as we’d gotten on really well up to that point and I genuinely thought he would have had the balls to tell me if he didn’t want to see me again. He’s still on here. His loss.
It’s a shitty thing to do but just move on, we have plenty to choose from
His loss? What does that even mean?
People make me chuckle when they say that. It isn't his loss. He didn't want to/ had no intention of meeting. How is it possibly his loss??
We did meet, twice, and discussed having a regular thing. At no point did he make it clear he was no longer interested. Just blocked me without a word. I’m saying his loss because he wanted a fwb and would have had one. It’s difficult to not take it personally when someone ghosts you within hours of fucking you. I hope he finds what he’s looking for.
I hate to say it but he got exactly what he wanted and said what he thought he needed to say to get it. Cuntish behaviour for sure, but some people will do everything they can to seal the deal.
Single guys have to stand out to get a fuck around here.
I did think that would be the case. He could have just been up front about it. I’m not exactly looking for my future husband on here haha!
People fear honesty. Look at my profile and guess how many offers I get lol...
They do indeed. Your profile is hilarious. I’d hit you up for a coffee when I’m home for Xmas but you don’t want any friends.....
I'm hard work. You'd be hoping I'd ghost you by the time I met you "
But I'd buy you a coffee next time I'm in Brizzle |
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