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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What's your preference?
Prefer a toned body or a bit of a belly?
Can I opt for more than just a bit of a belly, like a chunky monkey"
Chunky monkey with a beard? If so Do you have any applications I can fill out? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, I prefer my body when I'm working out. I feel better, I feel sexier, and it's nice to move smoothly, be balanced, breath well, and have a hard, responsive body.
Gf's say they don't care.
Which is probably true. But I know I'm better, sharper, and much, much better in bed, when I'm fit, than when I'm not.
So, just for me, it's much better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that absolutely everyone will vote for "dad-bod" ,,, hope so anyway ( lol )"
The 4 million other threads on this suggest dad bod is the preference of the forum |
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By *ony 2016Man
over a year ago
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"I think that absolutely everyone will vote for "dad-bod" ,,, hope so anyway ( lol )
The 4 million other threads on this suggest dad bod is the preference of the forum"
. PHEW !!!! That's a relief |
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Since I got myself in the shape I'm in I don't think I could let it slip back to skinny arms, no chest and a belly, I feel like it's a standard I need to maintain for as long as I physically can.
Some girls like it, some don't, but I feel better about myself when I look muscular and lean and that's all that matters really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like reasonably toned but still a bit squishy. I mostly like their shoulders and arms so they can be attractive on all shapes really.
I'm not so into big muscley guys although they can be nice to look at. |
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"I like reasonably toned but still a bit squishy. I mostly like their shoulders and arms so they can be attractive on all shapes really.
I'm not so into big muscley guys although they can be nice to look at. "
*quickly retracts last statement and sets about pizzas and chips*   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like reasonably toned but still a bit squishy. I mostly like their shoulders and arms so they can be attractive on all shapes really.
I'm not so into big muscley guys although they can be nice to look at.
*quickly retracts last statement and sets about pizzas and chips* "
You're just fine as you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got a dad bod, comfortable with it, should exercise more but really busy at work so can't be bothered,I really should though,also like a cheeky kebab that's my downfall |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where does the term "dad bod" actually come from?
Mum bod is a real thing due to the fact that a woman's body changes when she carries a baby/babies inside her body!
What's a mans excuse? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where does the term "dad bod" actually come from?
Mum bod is a real thing due to the fact that a woman's body changes when she carries a baby/babies inside her body!
What's a mans excuse? "
When we do the baby to the mom our body changes do love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where does the term "dad bod" actually come from?
Mum bod is a real thing due to the fact that a woman's body changes when she carries a baby/babies inside her body!
What's a mans excuse?
When we do the baby to the mom our body changes do love "
This sentence is not right !! |
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"Where does the term "dad bod" actually come from?
Mum bod is a real thing due to the fact that a woman's body changes when she carries a baby/babies inside her body!
What's a mans excuse? "
I guess letting oneself go abit having got the lady...just a guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where does the term "dad bod" actually come from?
Mum bod is a real thing due to the fact that a woman's body changes when she carries a baby/babies inside her body!
What's a mans excuse?
When we do the baby to the mom our body changes do love
This sentence is not right !! "
No it's not! Try again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where does the term "dad bod" actually come from?
Mum bod is a real thing due to the fact that a woman's body changes when she carries a baby/babies inside her body!
What's a mans excuse?
When we do the baby to the mom our body changes do love
This sentence is not right !! "
But am sure sounds so sexy said in a French accent!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that absolutely everyone will vote for "dad-bod" ,,, hope so anyway ( lol )"
Everyone will say ‘Dadbod’ but just look at the reaction in the forums when a ripped hunk turns up. Ditto with big-cocked men. What people publically say and really mean are often somewhat different! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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looking at a lot of threads about the male image, ive seen comments from guys who think having a six
pack is more important than anything else, the body that has the lived in look was better received from most on here though, go figure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can have both!!!!!!!
I have a dad bod and a six pack, depending on the lighting and time of day.........but I genuinely only work out so I can eat what I want!
As soon as I stop I’ll give myself 6 weeks before type 2 diabetes or gout debts in. Or both |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can have both!!!!!!!
I have a dad bod and a six pack, depending on the lighting and time of day.........but I genuinely only work out so I can eat what I want!
As soon as I stop I’ll give myself 6 weeks before type 2 diabetes or gout debts in. Or both "
nice |
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"I think that absolutely everyone will vote for "dad-bod" ,,, hope so anyway ( lol )
The 4 million other threads on this suggest dad bod is the preference of the forum"
I must have told you a million times; don’t exaggerate! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All shapes and sizes for me please.
I'm not so keen on small very slim bods because I'm a fatty and wouldn't want to break anyone  "
You wouldn’t break me my love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All shapes and sizes for me please.
I'm not so keen on small very slim bods because I'm a fatty and wouldn't want to break anyone "
I wouldn't call myself a fatty (perhaps others would) but in any case I love the contrast of a slim body against my voluptuous curves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All shapes and sizes for me please.
I'm not so keen on small very slim bods because I'm a fatty and wouldn't want to break anyone
I wouldn't call myself a fatty (perhaps others would) but in any case I love the contrast of a slim body against my voluptuous curves"
This is my kind of contrast. |
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"Gym bores don't laugh me into bed "
Is there any need for you to be offensive towards all who go to the gym ?
Such a statement is as pathetic as men who say
All larger women xxx xxx
All thin women xxx
If a person thinks they can decipher a personality from a body type they are deluding themselves using a dreadful tool called prejudgmental stereotyping xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Somewhere in between I think! I wouldn't really want either extreme! If they make me laugh and make some effort to keep themselves fit.... it's more about the spark and personality! Ultimately they need to be happy in their own skin as that will shine through!! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gym bores don't laugh me into bed
Is there any need for you to be offensive towards all who go to the gym ?
Such a statement is as pathetic as men who say
All larger women xxx xxx
All thin women xxx
If a person thinks they can decipher a personality from a body type they are deluding themselves using a dreadful tool called prejudgmental stereotyping xxx"
Bloody hell .... I'd forgotten you can't try to make a joke on here ... 
Anyways i get plenty of abuse on this site for being fat but I don't get all precious about it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gym bores don't laugh me into bed
Is there any need for you to be offensive towards all who go to the gym ?
Such a statement is as pathetic as men who say
All larger women xxx xxx
All thin women xxx
If a person thinks they can decipher a personality from a body type they are deluding themselves using a dreadful tool called prejudgmental stereotyping xxx
Bloody hell .... I'd forgotten you can't try to make a joke on here ...
Anyways i get plenty of abuse on this site for being fat but I don't get all precious about it.... "
Oh and by the way...I also go to the gym. |
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"Gym bores don't laugh me into bed
Is there any need for you to be offensive towards all who go to the gym ?
Such a statement is as pathetic as men who say
All larger women xxx xxx
All thin women xxx
If a person thinks they can decipher a personality from a body type they are deluding themselves using a dreadful tool called prejudgmental stereotyping xxx"
Yeah I was kinda thinking the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gym bores don't laugh me into bed
Because getting healthy makes you boring"
health is in the mind look at michael johnson
His body gave him a stroke his mind will fix it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All shapes and sizes for me please.
I'm not so keen on small very slim bods because I'm a fatty and wouldn't want to break anyone
You wouldn’t break me my love "
I'm a little scared
Has your hatred turned into love 
I have to admit that I agree with Coquette I'm bored by the gym and people that go on about it
Just as they are bored by my excessive eating and wine drinking 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All shapes and sizes for me please.
I'm not so keen on small very slim bods because I'm a fatty and wouldn't want to break anyone
You wouldn’t break me my love
I'm a little scared
Has your hatred turned into love
I have to admit that I agree with Coquette I'm bored by the gym and people that go on about it
Just as they are bored by my excessive eating and wine drinking
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I don’t hate anyone, I’m a lover not a fighter. I find your avatar very alluring, it’s understated, yet speaks volumes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All shapes and sizes for me please.
I'm not so keen on small very slim bods because I'm a fatty and wouldn't want to break anyone
You wouldn’t break me my love
I'm a little scared
Has your hatred turned into love
I have to admit that I agree with Coquette I'm bored by the gym and people that go on about it
Just as they are bored by my excessive eating and wine drinking
I don’t hate anyone, I’m a lover not a fighter. I find your avatar very alluring, it’s understated, yet speaks volumes.
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Aw shucks  |
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"Gym bores don't laugh me into bed
Is there any need for you to be offensive towards all who go to the gym ?
Such a statement is as pathetic as men who say
All larger women xxx xxx
All thin women xxx
If a person thinks they can decipher a personality from a body type they are deluding themselves using a dreadful tool called prejudgmental stereotyping xxx
Bloody hell .... I'd forgotten you can't try to make a joke on here ...
Anyways i get plenty of abuse on this site for being fat but I don't get all precious about it.... "
Maybe you should people being personal prejudgmental or offensive about your size should not be tolerated
You were not joking you were directly saying men who like the gym have boring personalities
I may not be one of them but there are a number of fit men on the forums who are very entertaining xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite average,not ripped but not fat either. Body condition (to a point) has no bearing on sexual prowess.
Look at Ron Jeremy, hardly Mr universe lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd have to say I like a bit of both! Obviously depends on the bloke. Nothing like a hot fit guy whos ripped but theres also something fit about a sexy daddy with a dad bod |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a lady with lumps and bumps and curves, over muscled men are some what intimidating. What the hell are they thinking when they look at me naked ? A dad bod with broad shoulders wins every time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was going to say in the middle because could not find the exact wording.
"I like reasonably toned but still a bit squishy. I mostly like their shoulders and arms so they can be attractive on all shapes really.
I'm not so into big muscley guys although they can be nice to look at."
But this pretty much sums it up:
"Toned, but still a bit squishy"
I have always maintained being toned with muscles, but never had the full on 6 pac kind of ripped to shreds or the incredible hulk look |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gym bores don't laugh me into bed
Is there any need for you to be offensive towards all who go to the gym ?
Such a statement is as pathetic as men who say
All larger women xxx xxx
All thin women xxx
If a person thinks they can decipher a personality from a body type they are deluding themselves using a dreadful tool called prejudgmental stereotyping xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just my Input. I’m confident and happy in my skin and I clearly don’t have a 6 pack. I understand what people say but it’s just down to preference. After all we all like different things. X |
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"I like a mans body that’s a bit in between ... muscles and fit but not too stripped back
Fab can't cope with that. 6 pack or dad bod. Bbw or skinny bitch. We only deal with extremes here. "
Haha I see that more and more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like a mans body that’s a bit in between ... muscles and fit but not too stripped back
Fab can't cope with that. 6 pack or dad bod. Bbw or skinny bitch. We only deal with extremes here.
Haha I see that more and more "
Definitely is the case, I’ll probably say I am at 1 end of the extreme, you can choose which.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like a mans body that’s a bit in between ... muscles and fit but not too stripped back
Fab can't cope with that. 6 pack or dad bod. Bbw or skinny bitch. We only deal with extremes here.
Haha I see that more and more "
But I'm in the middle.  |
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"I like a mans body that’s a bit in between ... muscles and fit but not too stripped back
Fab can't cope with that. 6 pack or dad bod. Bbw or skinny bitch. We only deal with extremes here. "
Never has a truer thing been said. |
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"What's your preference?
Prefer a toned body or a bit of a belly? "
Depends on the guy, his personality, preferences, looks and charm. A skinny man ,athletic and big build and can all have the same personality . No preference for build here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really don't like guys with a belly that's so big it looks like he's pushing it up hill in a wind.
Once had sex with a guy and he was spooning me and i could feel his belly slapping into me, yuk, never again.
Not into skinny guys either though, doesn't have to have a six pack but definately no beer kegs!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My body varies in between being toned and a more relaxed Dad bod, depending on how often I’m away working or at home working with more choice over time spent in the gym. This year my business is the most successful it’s been since 2007, so I’m veering more towards Dad bod. Does it matter? No not really, because anyone interested in a 54yo like me is frankly less concerned about looks than other factors like ‘do we connect?’ |
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