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Ffs. Unbelievable. So mad ??
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By *oman wanted OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester |
Almost 3 weeks of messages and photo's back and forth . Turns out been talking to the man of 'womans' profile and now she's demanding my WhatsApp, my fb and my phone number etc. Because she's pissed I've been talking to her man.i don't want a man.says that on my profile.Just blocked him/her.i dunno. Crazy ?? |
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over a year ago
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"Almost 3 weeks of messages and photo's back and forth . Turns out been talking to the man of 'womans' profile and now she's demanding my WhatsApp, my fb and my phone number etc. Because she's pissed I've been talking to her man.i don't want a man.says that on my profile.Just blocked him/her.i dunno. Crazy ?? "
Did you send him any pictures that you also have on facebook? people have been known to track others down by reverse imaging pics and linking them to their page... |
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I find it better to stick with organised socials and clubs so that I know who I'm talking to. Try not to dwell, just be aware that it is usually the case that guys pretend to be the lady. I have friends who have turned up to meet a couple only to be met by the guy only... it's just not worth the hassle is it |
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By *oman wanted OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester |
"I find it better to stick with organised socials and clubs so that I know who I'm talking to. Try not to dwell, just be aware that it is usually the case that guys pretend to be the lady. I have friends who have turned up to meet a couple only to be met by the guy only... it's just not worth the hassle is it "
May take you up on that. Sick of it xx |
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"I find it better to stick with organised socials and clubs so that I know who I'm talking to. Try not to dwell, just be aware that it is usually the case that guys pretend to be the lady. I have friends who have turned up to meet a couple only to be met by the guy only... it's just not worth the hassle is it
May take you up on that. Sick of it xx"
It cuts through all the hassle on here. You can then just chat safely with people you've meet x |
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By *oman wanted OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester |
"I find it better to stick with organised socials and clubs so that I know who I'm talking to. Try not to dwell, just be aware that it is usually the case that guys pretend to be the lady. I have friends who have turned up to meet a couple only to be met by the guy only... it's just not worth the hassle is it
May take you up on that. Sick of it xx
It cuts through all the hassle on here. You can then just chat safely with people you've meet x"
Good idea  x |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I find it better to stick with organised socials and clubs so that I know who I'm talking to. Try not to dwell, just be aware that it is usually the case that guys pretend to be the lady. I have friends who have turned up to meet a couple only to be met by the guy only... it's just not worth the hassle is it
May take you up on that. Sick of it xx
It cuts through all the hassle on here. You can then just chat safely with people you've meet x"
I think this really is the way forward.  .  |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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So it was a single ladies profile and it was the ladies male partner who you've been chatting to hmmmmm. A couple then ? It's no surprise to me. I read a number of"single " ladies profiles ..where she only ever meets with her other half or similar.
I remember a quote ..
Don't believe everything you read on the internet.
© Abraham Lincoln 1983.
Delete block move on. |
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By *oman wanted OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester |
Gonna try for a couple of more weeks then I'm giving up. To many time wasters. That's My 4th similar experience.arrange meets or get close then block or ignore. None of it makes sense. Completely a waste of my time and effort. So frustrating x |
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I dislike the tendency for people to remain in text/message communication for too long, when a quick chat lets me know if I'm engaging with others that are on my wavelength: you can also validate some of the profile information etc. |
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"So it was a single ladies profile and it was the ladies male partner who you've been chatting to hmmmmm. A couple then ? It's no surprise to me. I read a number of"single " ladies profiles ..where she only ever meets with her other half or similar.
I remember a quote ..
Don't believe everything you read on the internet.
© Abraham Lincoln 1983.
Delete block move on."
I thought that was against the rules? I've seen people say that fab will make you change to a couples profile if you have a singles one but look for people to meet as a couple. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds |
"Gonna try for a couple of more weeks then I'm giving up. To many time wasters. That's My 4th similar experience.arrange meets or get close then block or ignore. None of it makes sense. Completely a waste of my time and effort. So frustrating x"
If it's a regular occurrence you are one of the common denominators change your selection process put further checks and balances in place.. any red flags delete move on |
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"So it was a single ladies profile and it was the ladies male partner who you've been chatting to hmmmmm. A couple then ? It's no surprise to me. I read a number of"single " ladies profiles ..where she only ever meets with her other half or similar.
I remember a quote ..
Don't believe everything you read on the internet.
© Abraham Lincoln 1983.
Delete block move on.
I thought that was against the rules? I've seen people say that fab will make you change to a couples profile if you have a singles one but look for people to meet as a couple."
Then the op should also have a couples profile as she also meets with her hubby?! |
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"Gonna try for a couple of more weeks then I'm giving up. To many time wasters. That's My 4th similar experience.arrange meets or get close then block or ignore. None of it makes sense. Completely a waste of my time and effort. So frustrating x"
In my experience anyone pushing for photos is a red flag, they're just looking for wank material.
They've no or little intention of meeting.
Avoid. |
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By *oman wanted OP Couple
over a year ago
Cheshire/Liverpool/Manchester |
"Gonna try for a couple of more weeks then I'm giving up. To many time wasters. That's My 4th similar experience.arrange meets or get close then block or ignore. None of it makes sense. Completely a waste of my time and effort. So frustrating x
In my experience anyone pushing for photos is a red flag, they're just looking for wank material.
They've no or little intention of meeting.
Avoid."
Good advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Almost 3 weeks of messages and photo's back and forth . Turns out been talking to the man of 'womans' profile and now she's demanding my WhatsApp, my fb and my phone number etc. Because she's pissed I've been talking to her man.i don't want a man.says that on my profile.Just blocked him/her.i dunno. Crazy ?? "
Well I never |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP -You are on a couple profile though and are a single woman. How come ? That seems confusing as well? "
I think she was on a single female profile but someone got confused and thought she was the one with the male in the background and reported her to admin. They will change a single profile to couple if there are two people meeting or talking from it. |
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"OP -You are on a couple profile though and are a single woman. How come ? That seems confusing as well?
I think she was on a single female profile but someone got confused and thought she was the one with the male in the background and reported her to admin. They will change a single profile to couple if there are two people meeting or talking from it. "
She meets with her hubby thats why its a couples profile |
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"I personally wouldn’t send any extra pictures than the ones I have here unless I’ve already met them at least socially first. "
This
You learn after a while that some are just looking for wank Bank material. They soon give up if you're not providing new material. Other than being occasionally asked for an up-to-date face pic, I think anyone who is serious about meeting you will be content with whatever pics are already on your profile and would rather have you in the flesh than see more photos  |
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Agree with others here -
Pushing for pics is a common sign of a user you don't meet, for many reasons, including them not being likely to as just want to wank.
Have a voice or quick video chat early on, so you can check they are some/all of who they say they are. It stops you all being near anonymous usernames too. Too many excuses or demands and let them go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP -You are on a couple profile though and are a single woman. How come ? That seems confusing as well?
I think she was on a single female profile but someone got confused and thought she was the one with the male in the background and reported her to admin. They will change a single profile to couple if there are two people meeting or talking from it.
She meets with her hubby thats why its a couples profile"
Did she say she meets with him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So it was a single ladies profile and it was the ladies male partner who you've been chatting to hmmmmm. A couple then ? It's no surprise to me. I read a number of"single " ladies profiles ..where she only ever meets with her other half or similar.
I remember a quote ..
Don't believe everything you read on the internet.
© Abraham Lincoln 1983.
Delete block move on.
I thought that was against the rules? I've seen people say that fab will make you change to a couples profile if you have a singles one but look for people to meet as a couple.
Then the op should also have a couples profile as she also meets with her hubby?!"
It wasn't the OP who had a male talking to another woman. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"OP -You are on a couple profile though and are a single woman. How come ? That seems confusing as well?
I think she was on a single female profile but someone got confused and thought she was the one with the male in the background and reported her to admin. They will change a single profile to couple if there are two people meeting or talking from it.
She meets with her hubby thats why its a couples profile
Did she say she meets with him?"
Her profile does. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP -You are on a couple profile though and are a single woman. How come ? That seems confusing as well?
I think she was on a single female profile but someone got confused and thought she was the one with the male in the background and reported her to admin. They will change a single profile to couple if there are two people meeting or talking from it.
She meets with her hubby thats why its a couples profile
Did she say she meets with him?
Her profile does. "
But it has no details for him. Just find that a bit strange. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP -You are on a couple profile though and are a single woman. How come ? That seems confusing as well?
I think she was on a single female profile but someone got confused and thought she was the one with the male in the background and reported her to admin. They will change a single profile to couple if there are two people meeting or talking from it.
She meets with her hubby thats why its a couples profile
Did she say she meets with him?
Her profile does. "
It says he knows she's on here. Nothing about meeting with him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP -You are on a couple profile though and are a single woman. How come ? That seems confusing as well?
I think she was on a single female profile but someone got confused and thought she was the one with the male in the background and reported her to admin. They will change a single profile to couple if there are two people meeting or talking from it.
She meets with her hubby thats why its a couples profile
Did she say she meets with him?
Her profile does.
But it has no details for him. Just find that a bit strange. "
I think her profile was changed by admin erroneously, because some one assumed she meets with her husband and reported her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP -You are on a couple profile though and are a single woman. How come ? That seems confusing as well?
I think she was on a single female profile but someone got confused and thought she was the one with the male in the background and reported her to admin. They will change a single profile to couple if there are two people meeting or talking from it.
She meets with her hubby thats why its a couples profile
Did she say she meets with him?
Her profile does.
It says he knows she's on here. Nothing about meeting with him. "
I found it now, so it's correct, but she hasn't filled in his details. |
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Sucks you had to go through that
Never stops amazing me the levels some will stoop to so as to get their rocks off.
Shuddering at how sleazy that is