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Who actually thinks fab is fab or just a big bag of shite
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I quite like it  |
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Mind you, I should not probably have posed that question, cos the last person I tried to give some positive advice to went unlos within half an hour  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lots and lots of fake profiles and messers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
Your right mate BUT think why its difficult??because there are that many idiots wasting ppls time and letting women down that so there trust in this site gets less n less i believe if tour gen im sure we can bide our time its worth the wait |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like it xx plenty of super horny people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like it xx plenty of super horny people "
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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago
Chorlton, Manchester |
"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
I love it because I stuck with it and got out and met people. Now I'm getting meets all the time. It wouldn't be half as much fun if it was easy! |
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Op most single guys who have had one meet/verification in 9 weeks would consider it fab and most definitely not shite. You’ve got 10! That’s more meets than a lot of couples and single ladies have in that short space of time.
In my opinion, the only shite part i can see is your expectations  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think fab is fab but I also see a big bag of shite photos in some profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe you need more pics OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you need more pics OP "
what is the maximum of pics one can have in their profile? Or is there no limit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you need more pics OP
what is the maximum of pics one can have in their profile? Or is there no limit?"
If ur not a site supporter then its 36 if u r unlimited  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you need more pics OP
what is the maximum of pics one can have in their profile? Or is there no limit?
If ur not a site supporter then its 36 if u r unlimited "
I am certainly not supporting the idea of having unlimited number of shite photos  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you need more pics OP
what is the maximum of pics one can have in their profile? Or is there no limit?
If ur not a site supporter then its 36 if u r unlimited
I am certainly not supporting the idea of having unlimited number of shite photos "
Hahaha brilliant |
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It's somewhere inbetween I feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you need more pics OP
what is the maximum of pics one can have in their profile? Or is there no limit?
If ur not a site supporter then its 36 if u r unlimited
I am certainly not supporting the idea of having unlimited number of shite photos
Hahaha brilliant"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you need more pics OP
what is the maximum of pics one can have in their profile? Or is there no limit?
If ur not a site supporter then its 36 if u r unlimited
I am certainly not supporting the idea of having unlimited number of shite photos
Great pics youhave btw
Hahaha brilliant
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I quite like it "
Fab or big bags of shite? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's somewhere inbetween I feel."
I'll get you some Imodium for Christmas. |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"It's somewhere inbetween I feel.
I'll get you some Imodium for Christmas."
Caring is sharing |
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"It's somewhere inbetween I feel.
I'll get you some Imodium for Christmas."
It'll be the best present I'm likely to get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you need more pics OP
what is the maximum of pics one can have in their profile? Or is there no limit?"
well 202 or more |
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys
Your right mate BUT think why its difficult??because there are that many idiots wasting ppls time and letting women down that so there trust in this site gets less n less i believe if tour gen im sure we can bide our time its worth the wait"
What he said... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you need more pics OP
what is the maximum of pics one can have in their profile? Or is there no limit? well 202 or more "
I've been informed it is unlimited! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you need more pics OP
what is the maximum of pics one can have in their profile? Or is there no limit? well 202 or more
I've been informed it is unlimited! "
i need to get taking some then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you need more pics OP
what is the maximum of pics one can have in their profile? Or is there no limit? well 202 or more
I've been informed it is unlimited! i need to get taking some then "
Noooooooooo |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
it's fun if you manage your expectations and don't rely only on FAB to find friends to play with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you need more pics OP
what is the maximum of pics one can have in their profile? Or is there no limit? well 202 or more
I've been informed it is unlimited! i need to get taking some then
Noooooooooo "
what you trying to say |
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"it's fun if you manage your expectations and don't rely only on FAB to find friends to play with. "
A man's gotta know his limitations  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
Try living In NYC..... Fab is like earth after a zombie apocalypse.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What’s not to love!
You can meet some amazing people off here and had some truly memorable encounters!
When the site works it can really work well, keep at it and hopefully things will improve! |
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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago
Over the roundabout and then turn right. |
Fab is a tool. Nothing more. If you think it's shite then you're using it wrong. A poor workman always blames his tools. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t find it hard work? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Far from shite its brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We think it's Fab!!
Jo&D.Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have low expectations, and you’ll never be disappointed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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U got 10 veris in 9 weeks what u want a different bed every night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I wanted to I could honestly have sex with a different guy every night so the site works perfectly well for me. |
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
There's probably 20 blokes for every woman who want NSA sex. Therein lies yout problem , not the site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
In fairness its difficult for all.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys
Try living In NYC..... Fab is like earth after a zombie apocalypse...."
Hahaha brilliant... Say no more!  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys
There's probably 20 blokes for every woman who want NSA sex. Therein lies yout problem , not the site"
" On the sample of the first 100 profiles seeking women we found
78 men
16 couples
3 women
3 tv/ts
The first 100 seeking men were
42 men
21 tv/ts
20 couples
17 women
Bottom line, women who want men have a huge amount of choice, the majority of people who want men are male bodied. Kinky London bi pair did this research yesterday. "
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Fab is fab...if it wasn't we wouldn't be here |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
It's what you make it!
Put in the effort and you'll get rewarded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't be here if I thought it was shit. Seems a bit of a waste of time to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes think I’m on a different site, minimum effort for maximum reward. Somedays it’s not even a challenge. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"Sometimes think I’m on a different site, minimum effort for maximum reward. Somedays it’s not even a challenge. "
You can't shit a shitter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes think I’m on a different site, minimum effort for maximum reward. Somedays it’s not even a challenge. You can't shit a shitter "
As soon as I find out what that means I’ll have a comeback |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has it's moments |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
I think it is what it is if you are expecting to be inundated with sex offers then you will be disappointed if your patient you will meet some fab people and maybe a special sexy person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It should be hard work. You cant expect people to just lie down for you. Effort is required in all aspects of life. |
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
Did you think it was going to be wall to wall vag like a fanny pick and mix?
If so you were mis-sold.
Is your life wall to wall vag like a fanny pick and mix outside of Fab?
If yes then what are you doing on here?
If no, why would you think it would be different on here?
Dial a shag it ain't.
Thems the breaks. |
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I’ve met some fabulous people and made some great friends, I think it is Fab. |
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There are very respectful users I've come across and happy to just chat if you're not into meetings.
I'm on a common known dating site but there is a box to tick saying also not looking an I got more abuse from there than here. |
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
Gosh you've not had a meet since last Friday! Must be then?  |
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Difficult to get a meet, especially in the north west of ireland, but great a great gathering spot for us horny people.
Love browsing the pics too |
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"If I wanted to I could honestly have sex with a different guy every night so the site works perfectly well for me. "
I'm sure you don't even need the site for that ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What’s a hotwife specialist? |
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
It is for some couples too x storm x
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If I was a member of something voluntarily and I thought it was a bag of shite, I would no longer be a member.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I quite like it here "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was a member of something voluntarily and I thought it was a bag of shite, I would no longer be a member.
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Too sensible. |
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"If I was a member of something voluntarily and I thought it was a bag of shite, I would no longer be a member.
Too sensible."
Story of my life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah it’s so difficult |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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10 veris in 9 weeks and you think it's shite
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been here 9 weeks and 10 verifications? I think your expectations are far too high! |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
My opinions vary from shocked to the core at the breathtaking hypocrisy and nastiness of some people on here to a fuzzy warm glow at some of the nicest, warmest and funniest people I have ever met being on here. |
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If it's a bag of shite why on earth would you stay? If I didn't like somewhere I wouldn't make an effort to complain about it yet still stay, I'd either lower my expectations, try a different approach or try elsewhere.
I think fab is great, I've made very good friends here and it's changed my way of thinking about a lot of things. |
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Fuzzy warm glow here from.looking at your pics.... Happy Thursday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never really thought of it as work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some folks just witter on truth is meeting people is easy just talk to them like a normal person not sex crazed loons nobody wants that |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
Hope, it can be a little frustrating at times but it's definately not shite; personnally, I think it's pretty great. |
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The way I see it is you have 2 issues here OP.
Firstly fab isn't the almighty fuck fest you seem to think it is, alter your expectations of the site a bit.
Secondly I have actually met you at a club and you are a lovely guy. However afterwards you bombarded me with messages and it was all just a bit too much. You came across as far too pushy which is a massive turn off. Try toning thing down a few notches and people may be a little bit more receptive towards you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's simply what you make it.
For me it's close friends and specific kink that I'd struggle to fulfil anywhere else. How successful you are is in line with the effort you put in and your ability to approach others in a way you'd like to be approached.
For me it's fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's simply what you make it."
Can I just say, this is one of the most dispiriting things someone can hear on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's simply what you make it.
Can I just say, this is one of the most dispiriting things someone can hear on this site. "
How so? |
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"It's simply what you make it.
Can I just say, this is one of the most dispiriting things someone can hear on this site. "
Why?
Very few people have what they want or desire just drop into their laps.
Most things in life require effort.
If a person isn't willing or is unable to put in the effort then maybe they need to find other goals.
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We gave met some great people on here and use it for socials and friendships too op,so i guess it depends on your expectations.
Miss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can only conclude that you must expect to get a meet in the bag everytime your online. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Fab is ultimately what you make it - if you expect too much from it and have the wrong attitude and approach then it will be frustrating and probably lead you to call it a bag of shite.
Set your expectations correctly, have the right approach and attitude and be prepared to watch and listen as well as make an effort with both your profile, pictures and things like getting involved in the forums, and getting along to clubs and socials and it can be a lot of fun and very fulfilling.
There are no guarantees of course and for some people no matter what they do it may not meet their expectations, but for a lot it can be a great place to be with some truly warm and wonderful people to be found. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well you can't deny that fab is fab. Whether it suits your needs is another matter. I find it more social online but not as good for arranging meets as other sites or , god forbid, meeting people in the real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As has been said several times already,you get out what you put in. For me fab most certainly is fab. I've met some amazing people on here, and that list of amazing people continues to grow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its hard work for everyone
couples get let down
single ladies have dodgy guys meeting them
and of course men get let down ..
try social meets first ,if your dead serious youllmake the effort for the social. |
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
Sure if was easy everyone would be at it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met some great people, had some fantastic forum socials and some wonderful sex.
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although I'm not getting anything from it, I don't think it's a bag of shite. But, even in my short time on it does appear to gettingote and more like FBk all the time, honestly expect to see a "marketplace" soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's simply what you make it.
Can I just say, this is one of the most dispiriting things someone can hear on this site.
Why?
Very few people have what they want or desire just drop into their laps.
Most things in life require effort.
If a person isn't willing or is unable to put in the effort then maybe they need to find other goals.
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Because it assumes that there's a simple equation of effort=success. This isn't the case, and when you're doing the best you can it's a bit galling to have people saying things like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everytime I see a thread like this and the disparaging comments or just responses I'm reminded of the idiom:-
"Before you judge a man, walk a mile in his shoes"
Which of course will be lost on most! |
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Think its fab. Met my better half on here. Had some great meets and met some great people before and after we got together. Met some fab people as a couple too.
Dont really get the 'single guys have no luck on here'. I'm very far from looking like Brad Pitt but I am polite, patient, chat to people, go to socials and I do ok.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It serves a purpose. Some people get caught up with it like a social media out let. Use it and the people on here for what it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
On and off here for 7 years it used to be good now a bag of shite. Get loads more action from pof? That about sums it up? More fun on a vanilla dating site |
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys
On and off here for 7 years it used to be good now a bag of shite. Get loads more action from pof? That about sums it up? More fun on a vanilla dating site"
I have to ask you and this is out of genuine interest and not meant sarcastically at all. Why do you remain? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can honestly say I love it. It’s what you make of it. I have met some amazing people over the years. Not just people I’ve fucked either but people who have become my friends. |
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"I can honestly say I love it. It’s what you make of it. I have met some amazing people over the years. Not just people I’ve fucked either but people who have become my friends. "
Your experience will be quite different to a single man's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can honestly say I love it. It’s what you make of it. I have met some amazing people over the years. Not just people I’ve fucked either but people who have become my friends.
Your experience will be quite different to a single man's."
I know plenty of single guys that have a similar experience to mine. Partly because they speak to woman like humans rather than pieces of meat. 3 I know who I class as friends have posted above saying they love it |
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"I can honestly say I love it. It’s what you make of it. I have met some amazing people over the years. Not just people I’ve fucked either but people who have become my friends.
Your experience will be quite different to a single man's.
I know plenty of single guys that have a similar experience to mine. Partly because they speak to woman like humans rather than pieces of meat. 3 I know who I class as friends have posted above saying they love it "
I'm pleased to hear it |
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I agree very hard as a single guy |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I can honestly say I love it. It’s what you make of it. I have met some amazing people over the years. Not just people I’ve fucked either but people who have become my friends.
Your experience will be quite different to a single man's.
I know plenty of single guys that have a similar experience to mine. Partly because they speak to woman like humans rather than pieces of meat. 3 I know who I class as friends have posted above saying they love it "
Agreed - I think the trouble is, because of the ratios, and the number of single men with wrongly set expectations, attitude and approach you only tend to hear about the hard luck stories and the perception of how hard it is - those that have a great experience of the site, or even those whose expectations it meets, don't tend to shout about it, just quietly go about their Fab business.
I've often thought that whilst there IS an imbalance of single guys to single women/couples profiles on here, that if you take out the guys who don't get the site, who have the wrong expectations, approach and attitude that the numbers are probably a lot more evenly balanced - and it's there that you find people of all categories that are happy and like the site for whatever they use it for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know that it's hard as a single guy really. I've been on here quite a while off and on, and when I was in the UK more often it was never a problem to have a thing or two simmering away here, much as it wasn't a problem to just go out into town and meet somebody that way in a more vanilla sense.
There are some people who would struggle to get to know a potential partner under either of those circumstances, and in those cases 'on here' isn't the root of the problem. |
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"Define "big bag of shite"? "
An unemptied colostomy bag? |
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
Hard work for us couples too. We only have very limited time for meets, so they tend to be around 5PM onwards.
Sadly, at that time, all the "single males" are at home having tea with their wives/girlfriends and are unable to meet. |
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I have to admit I got what I came for so far.... |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
11 meets in 9 weeks OP? That's pretty good going. What is it you were expecting when you joined?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"11 meets in 9 weeks OP? That's pretty good going. What is it you were expecting when you joined?!!"
I had even noticed how many meets he'd had. Changes the meaning of his 'hard work' slightly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"11 meets in 9 weeks OP? That's pretty good going. What is it you were expecting when you joined?!!
I had even noticed how many meets he'd had. Changes the meaning of his 'hard work' slightly "
Hey, the OP is knackered. |
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Wr only use fab to keep in touch with friends and to arrange our next night out with them. We prefer to randomly bump into people in clubs and take it from there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We enjoy it . And you do get idiots who spoil it for the rest . To many people won’t take the time to read profile . I’m sure it is harder for single guys however |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
Just looked on your profile...
You're having too much fun..
Plus 200 pics - Jesus you're spoiling us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plus 200 pics - Jesus you're spoiling us "
Quantity over quality darlings |
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9 weeks in so far so good you seem to be doing ok
Also you visited clubs and according to veris and had results
My advice would be carry on as you are and waste time sending messages on here but just use it to find out what’s going on where.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys
Hard work for us couples too. We only have very limited time for meets, so they tend to be around 5PM onwards.
Sadly, at that time, all the "single males" are at home having tea with their wives/girlfriends and are unable to meet."
Some of us are single??? There's the attitude all us SINGLE men get |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its great, although i have plenty of regulars each time i show my profile get bombarded, whats a girl to do ????????. Can be worrying meeting for the first time tho. |
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I think what Fab needs (in addition to verifications) is an ebay style feedback/reputation system. Positive, negative and neutral ratings with comments which are automatically published but with a team of moderators to handle any disputes (retaliatory negative ratings, for example would be stomped upon).
People might think twice about wasting time or being disrespectful if they have a visible reputation to uphold.
Wouldn’t be perfect and would require some investment of time by moderators, but might go some way to improving the otherwise no consequence behaviour which sours the site for many people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
Harder for couples I reckon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm surprised that this thread hasn't been pulled by site admin. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"I'm surprised that this thread hasn't been pulled by site admin."
Why? |
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys "
That's probably because it's a swinging site, but guys like you think it's a sex site. You are in the minority of what people are looking for but in the majority of gender. The odds aren't good but you're doing a hell of alot better than some. |
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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago
London |
I think its fab and have no complaints |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's so boring to read that men find Fab "hard work " every time I log on
This is not instashag.
If you want to say "Hi how's You" and women to drop their knickers then you should get a prostitute.
Fab is only shite for me when I read shite like this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am really just kidding myself. Northern Ireland is not big enough for me to have any hope of finding what am looking for.
But not sure what to do now or where to go from here |
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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
For me, as a tool to meet someone directly off the site . Forget it .. as a tool, to get invited to certain clubs, forget it.
But then on the flip side, It is very hard work, have been to a few good night's,
You have had 9 Verts in 10 week, I haven't had that in 10 years.. |
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"For me, as a tool to meet someone directly off the site . Forget it .. as a tool, to get invited to certain clubs, forget it.
But then on the flip side, It is very hard work, have been to a few good night's,
You have had 9 Verts in 10 week, I haven't had that in 10 years.."
Tbh I'm surprised you have found it so hard on here? Good profile pics, well written profile, and good verifications. I'd of thought you would appeal to lots of people on here. Are you fussy? Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think what Fab needs (in addition to verifications) is an ebay style feedback/reputation system. Positive, negative and neutral ratings with comments which are automatically published but with a team of moderators to handle any disputes (retaliatory negative ratings, for example would be stomped upon).
People might think twice about wasting time or being disrespectful if they have a visible reputation to uphold.
Wouldn’t be perfect and would require some investment of time by moderators, but might go some way to improving the otherwise no consequence behaviour which sours the site for many people."
I have no desire to be an item upon which to be rated thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think what Fab needs (in addition to verifications) is an ebay style feedback/reputation system. Positive, negative and neutral ratings with comments which are automatically published but with a team of moderators to handle any disputes (retaliatory negative ratings, for example would be stomped upon).
People might think twice about wasting time or being disrespectful if they have a visible reputation to uphold.
Wouldn’t be perfect and would require some investment of time by moderators, but might go some way to improving the otherwise no consequence behaviour which sours the site for many people.
I have no desire to be an item upon which to be rated thanks. "
It'll be too easy to abuse, especially with a crew of volunteer moderators dealing with disputes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think what Fab needs (in addition to verifications) is an ebay style feedback/reputation system. Positive, negative and neutral ratings with comments which are automatically published but with a team of moderators to handle any disputes (retaliatory negative ratings, for example would be stomped upon).
People might think twice about wasting time or being disrespectful if they have a visible reputation to uphold.
Wouldn’t be perfect and would require some investment of time by moderators, but might go some way to improving the otherwise no consequence behaviour which sours the site for many people.
I have no desire to be an item upon which to be rated thanks.
It'll be too easy to abuse, especially with a crew of volunteer moderators dealing with disputes."
It would be an absolute free for all just imagine |
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"I can honestly say I love it. It’s what you make of it. I have met some amazing people over the years. Not just people I’ve fucked either but people who have become my friends.
Your experience will be quite different to a single man's."
I disagree! |
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys
That's probably because it's a swinging site, but guys like you think it's a sex site. You are in the minority of what people are looking for but in the majority of gender. The odds aren't good but you're doing a hell of alot better than some. "
100% agree with this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had only a few meets but all have been enjoyable and have had some new experiences,all good although there is a couple and a guy I should like to meet.More fun tomorrow evening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s savage Iv ticked off so many things since joining here |
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No complaints about the site from us. For what you pay ( or free even ) it's pretty good.
Other sites seem to always want a credit card to anything, cost more, and don't seem to work as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is what you make it |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
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"If I wanted to I could honestly have sex with a different guy every night so the site works perfectly well for me. "
We think for most if not all women on fab that would be the case.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's alright |
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Another one of those threads decrying the site and not any mention of any attribution bias or self-responsibility.
It's worth reflecting Op on what marks some out, including yourself, from others who have great results. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I think fab is fab. I'm meeting people, having fun and doing things I wouldn't have ever thought about a couple of years ago.
I agree that sometimes it can be difficult and is hard work. Like everything else in life you don't get anything for nothing. If the effort is put in, I'm sure the rewards will come. |
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Too many fakes and what boils my piss is the profiles that say " just here to chat" chat? we could end up with a load of nosey cunts peeking and poking about but doing fuck all....Eg in chatroom 14 online 3 of them[ fem ] just here to chat well fuck off to facey thingy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many fakes and what boils my piss is the profiles that say " just here to chat" chat? we could end up with a load of nosey cunts peeking and poking about but doing fuck all....Eg in chatroom 14 online 3 of them[ fem ] just here to chat well fuck off to facey thingy."
is that not how u normally pull anyway chat ghem up convince them your worth meeting even if they say not meeting it doesnt mean they wont meet the right guy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Man up.
Go to the gym.
Grow a penis
And some charm
Stop moaning
Perfecto |
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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago
Chorlton, Manchester |
"Man up.
Go to the gym.
Grow a penis
And some charm
Stop moaning
Perfecto "
Well don't apply for a job as a diplomat but that about sums it up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everytime I see a thread like this and the disparaging comments or just responses I'm reminded of the idiom:-
"Before you judge a man, walk a mile in his shoes"
Which of course will be lost on most! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't had any meets yet but not for trying.. And I'm not giving up just yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has its peaks and troughs |
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"I haven't had any meets yet but not for trying.. And I'm not giving up just yet"
That’s a rarity .
Usually women are so popular . |
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As for the site .
It’s not the fault of the site that it’s shit . It’s the proliferation of timewaters , fakes , pic collectors , posers and wannabes that make fab a less than fab experience .
Anyone who comes onto the forums to say it’s hard to get meets , or post that they have been let down , get the regulars in here blaming the poster every time . What a joke that is !
They get told to look at themselves , their selection procedure , that they are foolish expecting to get a meet easily , that they should have a social first ( though god knows why that would make any difference ) , etc....
Without any question , the site has become hard work because of the people that use it .
Best thing to do ?
Get out into the real world , the pub or a club , and chat with people . It’s so much easier to get what you want face to face with real people and not keyboard warriors and freaks .
Try it , we have , some six months ago now . And guess what , we have way more fun now
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
the right frame of mind -London |
"Define "big bag of shite"? "
It's larger than a sandwich bag but smaller than one of those fabric skips you get at B&Q |
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I like fab and we've met a few peeps off here but most of the time we meet people at clubs.
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"Had a few hot meets off fab but let's be honest here it's fooking hard work for us single guys
Hard work for us couples too. We only have very limited time for meets, so they tend to be around 5PM onwards.
Sadly, at that time, all the "single males" are at home having tea with their wives/girlfriends and are unable to meet.
Some of us are single??? There's the attitude all us SINGLE men get"
Then the poster was UNLOS.
Maybe his wife saw his profile... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok so, I thought i'd give womem a go, being thay it would be my first time and id ratber find a lady on my terms rather than be pushed into it by man, well i can now see how much trouble men have on here, crikey, not one single bit of interest,but guys are just not giving up on me. Maybe im just not a womans cup of tea ????. Just saying !xxx |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
OP.
You've only been on here 9 weeks, but already have 10 Veriifications.
You're doing a heck of a lot better than a lot of other guys, so really you're doing ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please tell us op why you think it’s a bag of shite. Your words not mine |
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I think it's fab, had loads of fun on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I take it all back.I've had the most fabtastic time of my life on here,met some truly amazing people,exp some sexy as fuck meets and been to the some of the most wonderful and open minded clubs that can be(libs being my fave,full member now )
Here's to fab jayx |
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Fab does have its rewards if you’re willing to put the effort in, be patient and take the knocks
I’ve always found POF and Tinder to be more beneficial when it comes to NSA sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good morning or is it good evening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its alright, but yes it is a lot more work for guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends on the anal sex |
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"I take it all back.I've had the most fabtastic time of my life on here,met some truly amazing people,exp some sexy as fuck meets and been to the some of the most wonderful and open minded clubs that can be(libs being my fave,full member now )
Here's to fab jayx"
Hallelujah! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take it all back.I've had the most fabtastic time of my life on here,met some truly amazing people,exp some sexy as fuck meets and been to the some of the most wonderful and open minded clubs that can be(libs being my fave,full member now )
Here's to fab jayx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know what I think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know what I think?"
I think those that close threads down at 175 are twats! |
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