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I see posts every so often about whether people meet unverified people, and there's the usual thing about someone not having a veri after a year...
However I seem to be getting a fair few messages from people recently who do have a veri or three, but they were most recently verified 3,4,5+ years ago.
What would you think was the reason for this, and would it put you off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have enough veries to prove I'm real and no interest in collecting more.
I don't rely on veries to make my judgements about others, why would I.
What someone may do with another has no relevance to what we may share, should we meet.
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My last veri was from over 4 years ago but that’s because I was very happy just meeting my partner and not seeking anyone else at the time. Life happens sometimes and maybe they have been off the site for a few years |
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Some may have taken a break, as someone else said, and others may have had repeat meets over that time and felt no need to exchange further verifications. I've been meeting someone for over 2 years and we realised it was silly to keep verifying each other, no matter how much those veris made us smile... Otherwise I'd have well over 100 from one person alone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see posts every so often about whether people meet unverified people, and there's the usual thing about someone not having a veri after a year...
However I seem to be getting a fair few messages from people recently who do have a veri or three, but they were most recently verified 3,4,5+ years ago.
What would you think was the reason for this, and would it put you off? "
They took a break?
Its allowed lol but the only thing that puts me off about that if thats the reason is if they don't reflect that in the profile |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I see posts every so often about whether people meet unverified people, and there's the usual thing about someone not having a veri after a year...
However I seem to be getting a fair few messages from people recently who do have a veri or three, but they were most recently verified 3,4,5+ years ago.
What would you think was the reason for this, and would it put you off? "
if it was a couple yeah. Would mean the wife has probably gone on a walkabout.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i’ve not been verified for over a year, my reason is i’ve had to battle with cancer. I hope you’re recovering.  "
i got the all clear a while back but just been working on getting healthy again, long road ahead of course. I’m at that stage where i can get an erection and maintain it long enough to fuck a jar of liver for about 30 seconds. |
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"i’ve not been verified for over a year, my reason is i’ve had to battle with cancer. I hope you’re recovering.
i got the all clear a while back but just been working on getting healthy again, long road ahead of course. I’m at that stage where i can get an erection and maintain it long enough to fuck a jar of liver for about 30 seconds. "
I hope your recovery continues to be positive! And that you can move on to other jarred items soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't understand this business about only meeting people with a recent verification.
I think they're completely misunderstanding the whole verification system.
A verification is there for the purpose of proving that the person is real and shows up to a meet.
It is not a performance review system.
Surely if someone is real, they continue to be so.
If someone hasn't had a verification for a long period of time, there could be a whole number of reasons.
Several people I met when on my former profile did not leave verifications. Even if I left one for them. They just weren't the sorts of people who would do them for others.
Someone might have other things going on in their lives that might get in the way, or they might hit a dry patch for some reason or another.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i’ve not been verified for over a year, my reason is i’ve had to battle with cancer. I hope you’re recovering.
i got the all clear a while back but just been working on getting healthy again, long road ahead of course. I’m at that stage where i can get an erection and maintain it long enough to fuck a jar of liver for about 30 seconds.
I hope your recovery continues to be positive! And that you can move on to other jarred items soon "
thank you  |
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"I see posts every so often about whether people meet unverified people, and there's the usual thing about someone not having a veri after a year...
However I seem to be getting a fair few messages from people recently who do have a veri or three, but they were most recently verified 3,4,5+ years ago.
What would you think was the reason for this, and would it put you off? "
Its happening more as people hide profiles rather than delete these days then reactivate years later. If someone had a 3 year old vari well they were whatever they say then so I just ask them why no recent ones if I am interested if not then no thanks. |
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"Veris aren't that important when you've been on the site for years.
Aren't they, really?  "
No, as a veri summary can show enough info that says if they have met others in the past. I've met people who dont need them or leave them anymore as they have established a good reputation on the site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It puts me off. Which I know is stupid because I'd meet an unverified person. Madness.  "
I’m the same
Although, if the unverified person has been on here for over a year, I’d really have to consider why |
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"It puts me off. Which I know is stupid because I'd meet an unverified person. Madness.
I’m the same
Although, if the unverified person has been on here for over a year, I’d really have to consider why"
I'm the same, I'll meet an unverified person but probably not if they've been on over a year. |
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I am simply curious about what impression it gives to others. 
So, actually, I couldn’t care less. Veri Smeri. 