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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I have been chatting to a couple and have planned to meet and they have 3 verification and 3 pics but when I asked for face pics they replied they do not send them.as veri should be enough and not time wasters what's your opinion. On this |
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Our opinion is that if we haven't seen a face picture we won't meet but its everyone's prerogative not to send them if they don't want to. Just as its your prerogative to meet them or not.
I do wonder how you recognise people though. |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
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"So I have been chatting to a couple and have planned to meet and they have 3 verification and 3 pics but when I asked for face pics they replied they do not send them.as veri should be enough and not time wasters what's your opinion. On this"
Ask to cam with them then if they won't cam or won't send a face picture I would personally walk away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have been chatting to a couple and have planned to meet and they have 3 verification and 3 pics but when I asked for face pics they replied they do not send them.as veri should be enough and not time wasters what's your opinion. On this"
Veris are great but realistically I
Don't have time to meet half the people I am attracted to
Who would waste their time meeting someone they may or may not find repulsive |
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I don't send face pictures immediately, but I'd send them before planning to meet someone.
I'd be annoyed, given my verifications (I'm quite clearly real at this stage) being asked to play silly tricks to show that I am who I say I am. Here's my face picture (once I'm comfortable). If you don't like it, happy Fabbing/ best of luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would steer clear. If genuine and your going to be meeting what is the problem. Also how are you supposed to know who they are. Have they asked to see one of you? |
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"Our opinion is that if we haven't seen a face picture we won't meet but its everyone's prerogative not to send them if they don't want to. Just as its your prerogative to meet them or not.
I do wonder how you recognise people though."
My very first meet, I flat out forgot to send a face picture and he forgot to ask (a genuine oversight). I described where I was and what I'd be wearing, and his Kik profile picture was a face picture. It can work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s their prerogative not to send any if they don’t want to.
And it’s your prerogative to tell them to go do one if they’re not prepared to send! 
Personally, I don’t meet anyone without a face pic, they may well me in a position they can meet as many people as they need without sharing and in that case, it’s up to you whether you want to play their game or not!
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"Our opinion is that if we haven't seen a face picture we won't meet but its everyone's prerogative not to send them if they don't want to. Just as its your prerogative to meet them or not.
I do wonder how you recognise people though.
My very first meet, I flat out forgot to send a face picture and he forgot to ask (a genuine oversight). I described where I was and what I'd be wearing, and his Kik profile picture was a face picture. It can work. "
There are ways round it, you're right. The modern version of the cliched "meet me under the clock, carry a copy of The Times and wear a rose in your buttonhole"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s their prerogative not to send any if they don’t want to.
And it’s your prerogative to tell them to go do one if they’re not prepared to send!
Personally, I don’t meet anyone without a face pic, they may well me in a position they can meet as many people as they need without sharing and in that case, it’s up to you whether you want to play their game or not!
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So good you said it twice Dan  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i was talking to someone and interested in a potential meet, I would expect to see a face picture. I don't have enough free time to waste it on someone I may not like the look of. If you don't mind the blind date mindset, then got for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s their prerogative not to send any if they don’t want to.
And it’s your prerogative to tell them to go do one if they’re not prepared to send!
Personally, I don’t meet anyone without a face pic, they may well me in a position they can meet as many people as they need without sharing and in that case, it’s up to you whether you want to play their game or not!
So good you said it twice Dan "
Ha I corrected a spelling mistake but STILL let another one through! Ah well ..   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have been chatting to a couple and have planned to meet and they have 3 verification and 3 pics but when I asked for face pics they replied they do not send them.as veri should be enough and not time wasters what's your opinion. On this"
my opinion is its not blind date...and how the heck are you supposed to recognize them if you did decide to meet?
there are some right eejits on here who really dont help themselves |
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You never can tell if someone is genuine so I'd ask for one. We recently arranged a meet to the point where we have booked a hotel and everything but still turns out to be a time waster or a fake! No way of knowing. I suggest getting as many pics as you can before meeting so you can personally verify them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people really meet without seeing face pics?
Ima gettin laid yeehawwwww!!!  "
I have tried extracting a face pic out of you in the past....
And my offer still stands |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people really meet without seeing face pics?
Ima gettin laid yeehawwwww!!!
I have tried extracting a face pic out of you in the past....
And my offer still stands "
What offer? 
The one with the quavers, the bucket, the feather duster and the pineapple? |
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Face pic always, if only to catch the age liars out. We've had a few socials were the guy was a good 12/15 years older than stated. Why, they know they will be found out!. If you're going to lie about your age, say your older than you are, so when you meet, you compliment them on how young they look. Reverse physcology! |
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"Not a chance.
No pic. No meet.
If anyone refused to send me one, no matter how well verified they were, that would be the end of all contact. "
Same here. Although I’ve just remembered our first meet on here and we were stood next to the people we were meant to be meeting and didn’t recognise them from their photo! Lucky we look like our photos so they introduced themselves. They had also said they were 10 years younger than what they were! When we asked about that, they said well everyone lies about their age on Fab! I pointed out that we hadn’t! We were polite had a nice couple of hours but made it quite clear we wouldn’t be playing with them! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have been chatting to a couple and have planned to meet and they have 3 verification and 3 pics but when I asked for face pics they replied they do not send them.as veri should be enough and not time wasters what's your opinion. On this"
Sounds like blind dating. I personally wouldn’t feel confortable meeting (probably won’t) if there is no exchange of face pictures - Attraction has to be mutual, including my/their face. |
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"Not a chance.
No pic. No meet.
If anyone refused to send me one, no matter how well verified they were, that would be the end of all contact.
Same here. Although I’ve just remembered our first meet on here and we were stood next to the people we were meant to be meeting and didn’t recognise them from their photo! Lucky we look like our photos so they introduced themselves. They had also said they were 10 years younger than what they were! When we asked about that, they said well everyone lies about their age on Fab! I pointed out that we hadn’t! We were polite had a nice couple of hours but made it quite clear we wouldn’t be playing with them! Lol "
Had that happen a couple of times in my early days.
Face pics exchanged, all 'Fab dated' never occurred to me back then, that some folk would just upload the same pic repeatedly, deleting the old one, so it looked like a recent pic.
Asking for a direct/live pic on Kik soon fishes out the ones who do this. |
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"Not a chance.
No pic. No meet.
If anyone refused to send me one, no matter how well verified they were, that would be the end of all contact.
Same here. Although I’ve just remembered our first meet on here and we were stood next to the people we were meant to be meeting and didn’t recognise them from their photo! Lucky we look like our photos so they introduced themselves. They had also said they were 10 years younger than what they were! When we asked about that, they said well everyone lies about their age on Fab! I pointed out that we hadn’t! We were polite had a nice couple of hours but made it quite clear we wouldn’t be playing with them! Lol
Had that happen a couple of times in my early days.
Face pics exchanged, all 'Fab dated' never occurred to me back then, that some folk would just upload the same pic repeatedly, deleting the old one, so it looked like a recent pic.
Asking for a direct/live pic on Kik soon fishes out the ones who do this. "
Lol so many times we’ve walked in to a social and both of us have given a heavy sigh! Lol. Some people just take Fab pics (or photoshop them!) but in real life......! |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"So I have been chatting to a couple and have planned to meet and they have 3 verification and 3 pics but when I asked for face pics they replied they do not send them.as veri should be enough and not time wasters what's your opinion. On this"
You don't look at the mantle while poking the fire attitude. Face pics are essential really. Maybe if other hot couples have verified them and they sound universally attractive I might take a chance.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Face pic always, if only to catch the age liars out. We've had a few socials were the guy was a good 12/15 years older than stated. Why, they know they will be found out!. If you're going to lie about your age, say your older than you are, so when you meet, you compliment them on how young they look. Reverse physcology!"
I tell people I'm 73. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t send mine very often but I definitely wouldn’t meet anyone without sharing face pics first.
Sending them through after the bukake party was a bit of a shock "
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