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Is it that hard to meet people on here
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do want to meet in person that’s what I’m saying just not mess about on webcams,better to have the real thing if people are serious was they say on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do want to meet in person that’s what I’m saying just not mess about on webcams,better to have the real thing if people are serious was they say on here."
So go out and do it then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do want to meet in person that’s what I’m saying just not mess about on webcams,better to have the real thing if people are serious was they say on here."
the best thing you can do is either get along to a club or an organised social...otherwise its a quick hi in the chatroom |
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"I do want to meet in person that’s what I’m saying just not mess about on webcams,better to have the real thing if people are serious was they say on here."
But from my perspective, a webcam is safer for someone who's an unknown quantity. |
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"That’s what I’m mean never no who’s being serious."
It works both ways, though. How am I to know you're serious? Or you're safe? It's never a guarantee, but for me, meet verifications can give insight into a person (and what others think of them). |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
"Who else has trouble finding someone to meet you because your not verified?"
Your profile has one line and a cock pic mate, you are going to struggle to get any woman interested, and possibly even a single guy pretending to be a wonan
Go do a search and look at other guys profiles (It's not gay), put some effort in, make yours stand out and say something about yourself. Change your profile pic too do a search of past forum posts or go to the introduction forum for tips. Make an effort and you will be rewarded.
If not then buy some good quality hand lotion and a packet of tissues
Good luck
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"Give me some tips and to show you I’m genuine "
Quoting people makes it easier to know that you're talking to them.
I've given you tips above. Whether you're genuine or not is neither here nor there to me, unless you message me and your message and profile combined inspire me to reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I won't meet anyone without meet veris as I need to be absolutely certain it's not my catfishing cunt of an ex.  "
Ditto. Mine is on here. Plus there are many weirdos so as a single female, I need to feel safe. Like any meeting I life really.
Parties or clubs are always a good bet for meeting people and getting verified. Personally, I wouldn't meet someone verified just by cam. |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
"Give me some tips and to show you I’m genuine "
Make an effort. For a woman looking for a guy on here it's like shooting fish in a barrel. They don't come looking for you. Just make the effort |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Effort in helps in what you get out and a one line profile shows a serious lack of effort! Sad really that the penny dosn't drop with many on here. "
I agree. But sometimes it feels like no matter what you put, it doesn't make a difference.
It's not the case. It's just there are more men than women so it's tough out there. Just chat to people and you'd be surprised. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Give me some tips and to show you I’m genuine
Quoting people makes it easier to know that you're talking to them.
I've given you tips above. Whether you're genuine or not is neither here nor there to me, unless you message me and your message and profile combined inspire me l to reply. "
says you can’t receive my txts ?? |
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"Give me some tips and to show you I’m genuine
Quoting people makes it easier to know that you're talking to them.
I've given you tips above. Whether you're genuine or not is neither here nor there to me, unless you message me and your message and profile combined inspire me l to reply. says you can’t receive my txts ??"
I haven't blocked you or disallowed you in any way. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Getting meets is as hard or as easy as you want to make it OP - the only person that can impact that is you - have the right approach, attitude and correctly set expectations, a well thought out profile and pics that show off your body, and not your cock, an element of patience rather than desperation and it's entirely possible for most people hee to get meets.
See the site as purely a sex site and expect to be knee deep in meets in no time, and you're going to be severely disappointed 
As others have said take a look around at the various profile and can't get a meet advice threads and you'll find a lot of very good information - take heed of it and look for where you can make changes to improve your experience. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Who’s looking to meet up then
Most of us, I'd imagine. "
This
But most people look for someone they can find some common ground with and a lot (like me) like to build at least a chemistry and connection and see that some thought and effort is being put in.
Put it this way OP - you have two profiles in front of you - one is interesting and funny, has lots of well thought out pics that appeal and you can see from the way the person acts around the forums, or from meeting them at a group social etc that they have a good personality - the other has a one line profile and a couple of pics that show off their genitalia more than anything to the point you can't see what their body is like and they don't use the forums or go to socials - which would you choose? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell me the secret"
Make your profile interesting and informative.
Add more photos.
Introduce yourself politely with the intention of making friends not to shag.
Show genuine interest in other people and only message those you believe you're compatible with.
Be yourself. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
You have lots of suggestions on how to improve your profile, so that people will be more interested in you and more willing to meet.
Your profile still contains dic pics, one line of text and an age range 18 to 99.
Try acting on the advise given by successful forum users instead of just asking who wants to meet continuously. |
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"Go to a social that how i got my veri's and i was able to meet women privately and socially.
Player!  "
Nah far from it. I have had rejections, but i get over it and move on. But going to socials does help to meet people and hopefully catch their attention. After all i can't express my personality through a fab picture  |
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