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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Left the site, or just not logged on? She might be getting herself ready ..
Although if I was her and saw this thread even if I was going to turn up I might not now!! |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd wait til 10.55 before you scrub ya balls, babe, just in case its a ball scrubbing that is wasted!"
This made me spit my coffee with laughter!!
Sorry, OP. If she’s deleted her account, then no chance... ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Left the site, or just not logged on? She might be getting herself ready ..
Although if I was her and saw this thread even if I was going to turn up I might not now!! "
Disappeared of friends, not in name search and all messages disappeared ! Do left the site . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Surely you don’t think that !! Lol"
If the person has left fab then it most probably was a fake profile. I never meet anyone straight from here. I take the chat elsewhere and get contact details. I’m guessing you never chatted over the phone first?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My 11am meet today has disappeared off fab this morning !!
Who thinks she will show up ?
Ring her/text her I am sure you didn't arrange to meet without contact details other than on here. "
No I don’t usually maybe I’m too trusting haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Left the site, or just not logged on? She might be getting herself ready ..
Although if I was her and saw this thread even if I was going to turn up I might not now!!
Disappeared of friends, not in name search and all messages disappeared ! Do left the site ."
It’s not looking promising is it?
Are you going to turn up anyway? |
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By *ansNotHot.Man
over a year ago
here, there & in your knickers |
"I don’t think HE will show up.
Surely you don’t think that !! Lol
If the person has left fab then it most probably was a fake profile. I never meet anyone straight from here. I take the chat elsewhere and get contact details. I’m guessing you never chatted over the phone first??"
But do you share face pics? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Surely you don’t think that !! Lol
If the person has left fab then it most probably was a fake profile. I never meet anyone straight from here. I take the chat elsewhere and get contact details. I’m guessing you never chatted over the phone first??
But do you share face pics? "
I usually FaceTime. Of course I share face pics. |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
Camberley/Middleton |
"My 11am meet today has disappeared off fab this morning !!
Who thinks she will show up ?
Ring her/text her I am sure you didn't arrange to meet without contact details other than on here.
No I don’t usually maybe I’m too trusting haha "
No thats called desperate not trusting if someone is serious about meeting they won't have an issue about chatting on the phone first.
Now that I know what sort of guy you are can I introduce you to a friend of mine he is a Nigerian Prince trying to get $1000000000 out of Nigeria if you help him he will give you 50% all you need to do is......... |
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By *ansNotHot.Man
over a year ago
here, there & in your knickers |
"I don’t think HE will show up.
Surely you don’t think that !! Lol
If the person has left fab then it most probably was a fake profile. I never meet anyone straight from here. I take the chat elsewhere and get contact details. I’m guessing you never chatted over the phone first??
But do you share face pics?
I usually FaceTime. Of course I share face pics. "
You are very brave.. have you had many meets? ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Surely you don’t think that !! Lol
If the person has left fab then it most probably was a fake profile. I never meet anyone straight from here. I take the chat elsewhere and get contact details. I’m guessing you never chatted over the phone first??
But do you share face pics? "
Yes shared face pics, seemed genuine during our chatting over last week or so, didn’t ask to see my cock! Lol
Meeting for a coffee at 11am
It around the corner so I will update you all from there but I will eat my hat if she turns up lol |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"My 11am meet today has disappeared off fab this morning !!
Who thinks she will show up ?
Ring her/text her I am sure you didn't arrange to meet without contact details other than on here.
No I don’t usually maybe I’m too trusting haha
No thats called desperate not trusting if someone is serious about meeting they won't have an issue about chatting on the phone first.
Now that I know what sort of guy you are can I introduce you to a friend of mine he is a Nigerian Prince trying to get $1000000000 out of Nigeria if you help him he will give you 50% all you need to do is........." ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Surely you don’t think that !! Lol
If the person has left fab then it most probably was a fake profile. I never meet anyone straight from here. I take the chat elsewhere and get contact details. I’m guessing you never chatted over the phone first??
But do you share face pics?
I usually FaceTime. Of course I share face pics.
You are very brave.. have you had many meets? "
More than enough. |
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By *ansNotHot.Man
over a year ago
here, there & in your knickers |
"I don’t think HE will show up.
Surely you don’t think that !! Lol
If the person has left fab then it most probably was a fake profile. I never meet anyone straight from here. I take the chat elsewhere and get contact details. I’m guessing you never chatted over the phone first??
But do you share face pics?
I usually FaceTime. Of course I share face pics.
You are very brave.. have you had many meets?
More than enough."
Why doesn’t it work for me and other men on here? ![](/icons/s/neutral.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Surely you don’t think that !! Lol
If the person has left fab then it most probably was a fake profile. I never meet anyone straight from here. I take the chat elsewhere and get contact details. I’m guessing you never chatted over the phone first??
But do you share face pics?
I usually FaceTime. Of course I share face pics.
You are very brave.. have you had many meets? "
Yes had a few meets ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"My 11am meet today has disappeared off fab this morning !!
Who thinks she will show up ?
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As your writing this and we're all reading it, he's probably in the shower washing his cock in readiness......
#cynicalbastard |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Op use tineye for searching pics x"
Thing is if I’m suspicious I do use tiny eye but I wasn’t in this case!
I don’t think she was s guy just like some fantasies but going through is a step yo far . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op use tineye for searching pics x
Thing is if I’m suspicious I do use tiny eye but I wasn’t in this case!
I don’t think she was s guy just like some fantasies but going through is a step yo far ."
Was she verified? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My 11am meet today has disappeared off fab this morning !!
Who thinks she will show up ?
Ring her/text her I am sure you didn't arrange to meet without contact details other than on here.
No I don’t usually maybe I’m too trusting haha
No thats called desperate not trusting if someone is serious about meeting they won't have an issue about chatting on the phone first.
Now that I know what sort of guy you are can I introduce you to a friend of mine he is a Nigerian Prince trying to get $1000000000 out of Nigeria if you help him he will give you 50% all you need to do is........."
Sure here’s my bank account details lol![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My 11am meet today has disappeared off fab this morning !!
Who thinks she will show up ?
Ring her/text her I am sure you didn't arrange to meet without contact details other than on here.
No I don’t usually maybe I’m too trusting haha "
Far too trusting... you are learning the hard way... put it down to experience and dust yourself and move on. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Surely you don’t think that !! Lol
If the person has left fab then it most probably was a fake profile. I never meet anyone straight from here. I take the chat elsewhere and get contact details. I’m guessing you never chatted over the phone first??
But do you share face pics?
I usually FaceTime. Of course I share face pics.
You are very brave.. have you had many meets?
More than enough."
More than enough is impossible IMHO, but then again that says more about my sex drive than your volume of meets ha!
To the OP I'd say probably not, sadly... Not if "she" is no longer on Fab. ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd wait til 10.55 before you scrub ya balls, babe, just in case its a ball scrubbing that is wasted!"
No ball scrubbing is ever wasted
But OP I would be wondering the same thing |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
Look at it positively- you attracted someone's interest.
Ok it's possible it was some overweight 45 year old bloke with a tub of Johnson's and a crusty sock in his mum's spare bedroom, but we have to start somewhere; it's upwards from here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Op use tineye for searching pics x
Thing is if I’m suspicious I do use tiny eye but I wasn’t in this case!
I don’t think she was s guy just like some fantasies but going through is a step yo far .
Was she verified? "
No but said she had soicials not taken any further! 6 weeks on fab
I appreciate that’s a clue but the chat didn’t indicate fake just new and cautious x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Harsh!
But sadly it’s probably the truth.
I bow to your experience, I can't even get a faker interested! "
I don’t get fakers like that, I usually get the married ones that fail to tell me they are married. |
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By *ansNotHot.Man
over a year ago
here, there & in your knickers |
"It was a man getting some wank material.
Sorry OP
Does this make the OP fabstraight?
What does that mean ?"
It’s a condition you develop after being on fab or get accused of it if you haven’t ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Harsh!
But sadly it’s probably the truth.
I bow to your experience, I can't even get a faker interested!
I don’t get fakers like that, I usually get the married ones that fail to tell me they are married. "
Oh dear! ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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By *ansNotHot.Man
over a year ago
here, there & in your knickers |
"I don’t think HE will show up.
Harsh!
But sadly it’s probably the truth.
I bow to your experience, I can't even get a faker interested!
I don’t get fakers like that, I usually get the married ones that fail to tell me they are married. "
That’s very judgemental ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op use tineye for searching pics x
Thing is if I’m suspicious I do use tiny eye but I wasn’t in this case!
I don’t think she was s guy just like some fantasies but going through is a step yo far .
Was she verified?
No but said she had soicials not taken any further! 6 weeks on fab
I appreciate that’s a clue but the chat didn’t indicate fake just new and cautious x"
Some words of advice OP, as I can "normally" wheedle out the fake profiles with a fairly good degree of success?
They generally fall into three camps and both are almost always couples/single woman profiles (who in their right mind would set up a "fake" single guy profile as they'd have to put far too much effort in to actually get any "biters"?)
I'm also aware that there will be genuine users who have profiles of this kind btw!
Type A will have something like;
"Nervous newbie(s) here, keen to dip our toe(s) into this scene. (THEIR NAIVETY HAS AN EXCUSE) Won't meet straight away as excited, but want to get into swinging gradually (SO THEY CAN HAVE A FUN EXTENDED WIND UP)"
Type B will be along the lines of;
"Filthy bitch looking for hot as fuck guys to show me what I've been missing. I want to get smashed senseless by as many fitties as possible as I'm a dirty woman and proud of it. I want cock in my arse as I love my back doors getting battered, my pussy and my mouth and I want ur cum all over me. Message me if u think u measure up.(BASICALLY A WIND UP MERCHANT LOOKING FOR AS MANY BITES AS POSSIBLE)"
OR type C;
"Fit girl seeks lots of cock (EXTREMELY VAGUE, AND THE PRESERVE OF THE JOKER THAT SIMPLY CAN'T BE ARSED)"
Hope this helps!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Harsh!
But sadly it’s probably the truth.
I bow to your experience, I can't even get a faker interested!
I don’t get fakers like that, I usually get the married ones that fail to tell me they are married.
That’s very judgemental "
How is my experiences being judgmental? That’s fact!! Stop trolling. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Harsh!
But sadly it’s probably the truth.
I bow to your experience, I can't even get a faker interested!
I don’t get fakers like that, I usually get the married ones that fail to tell me they are married. " It's like that saying " Men are like toilets, all the best 1's are taken and the rest are full of shit". Except me obviously ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Harsh!
But sadly it’s probably the truth.
I bow to your experience, I can't even get a faker interested!
I don’t get fakers like that, I usually get the married ones that fail to tell me they are married. It's like that saying " Men are like toilets, all the best 1's are taken and the rest are full of shit". Except me obviously "
They may be taken but they are still not happy ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Harsh!
But sadly it’s probably the truth.
I bow to your experience, I can't even get a faker interested!
I don’t get fakers like that, I usually get the married ones that fail to tell me they are married. It's like that saying " Men are like toilets, all the best 1's are taken and the rest are full of shit". Except me obviously "
How on earth did you come to that conclusion when she was just stating HER experience...not generalizing? ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Harsh!
But sadly it’s probably the truth.
I bow to your experience, I can't even get a faker interested!
I don’t get fakers like that, I usually get the married ones that fail to tell me they are married. It's like that saying " Men are like toilets, all the best 1's are taken and the rest are full of shit". Except me obviously
How on earth did you come to that conclusion when she was just stating HER experience...not generalizing? "
He was just joking with me. We do it all the time to each other. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Harsh!
But sadly it’s probably the truth.
I bow to your experience, I can't even get a faker interested!
I don’t get fakers like that, I usually get the married ones that fail to tell me they are married. It's like that saying " Men are like toilets, all the best 1's are taken and the rest are full of shit". Except me obviously
How on earth did you come to that conclusion when she was just stating HER experience...not generalizing?
We do it all the time to each other. " ftfy, do we now ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Harsh!
But sadly it’s probably the truth.
I bow to your experience, I can't even get a faker interested!
I don’t get fakers like that, I usually get the married ones that fail to tell me they are married. It's like that saying " Men are like toilets, all the best 1's are taken and the rest are full of shit". Except me obviously
How on earth did you come to that conclusion when she was just stating HER experience...not generalizing?
He was just joking with me. We do it all the time to each other. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hat still untouched ! Gave up waiting but I knew she wouldn’t show , I just had to turn up in case I was the one letting her down ."
At least you saw it through, respect for that mate ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hat still untouched ! Gave up waiting but I knew she wouldn’t show , I just had to turn up in case I was the one letting her down ."
Well done Sir. Despite everything indicating it would be a waste of time, you stuck to your side of the bargain.
Did you communicate with her off site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hat still untouched ! Gave up waiting but I knew she wouldn’t show , I just had to turn up in case I was the one letting her down ."
No shifty looking men about were there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hat still untouched ! Gave up waiting but I knew she wouldn’t show , I just had to turn up in case I was the one letting her down .
No shifty looking men about were there"
No one that made eye contact lol so probably all waiting for same woman lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hat still untouched ! Gave up waiting but I knew she wouldn’t show , I just had to turn up in case I was the one letting her down ."
I've done the same myself.
Been pretty convinced it was going to be a no show, but you feel obliged to go given the slim possibility that they may show up and you risk getting reported for being the no-show |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hat still untouched ! Gave up waiting but I knew she wouldn’t show , I just had to turn up in case I was the one letting her down .
Well done Sir. Despite everything indicating it would be a waste of time, you stuck to your side of the bargain.
Did you communicate with her off site?"
No but as I said all seemed genuine in our chatting yo not lead me to suspect
Otherwise I would have used various ways to confirm she was genuine.
I just think some women want to to meet but never go through with it for various reasons ! I’m sure this happens with all genders . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hat still untouched ! Gave up waiting but I knew she wouldn’t show , I just had to turn up in case I was the one letting her down ."
Suckerrrrrrrrre
You and i know the content of my inbox.... You backed the wrong horse! oh welllllllllll!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hat still untouched ! Gave up waiting but I knew she wouldn’t show , I just had to turn up in case I was the one letting her down .
I've done the same myself.
Been pretty convinced it was going to be a no show, but you feel obliged to go given the slim possibility that they may show up and you risk getting reported for being the no-show"
Not worried about being reported! I said I’d meet so I will or at least tell them before if I’m cancelling . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t think HE will show up.
Surely you don’t think that !! Lol
If the person has left fab then it most probably was a fake profile. I never meet anyone straight from here. I take the chat elsewhere and get contact details. I’m guessing you never chatted over the phone first??"
I get them to Pont a,finger clearly showing face at say eyebrow , takes seconds yet can save hours days,and even weeks and months of stupidity |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Such a bitch lol
One that you tried and failed! 1-0 to meeeee
Winner winner chicken dinner! ????
You blocked me ! Thought we where friends lol were "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im sensing an atmosphere, the temperature has suddenly dropped
Plummeted... Rather unpleasantly... Makes you wonder doesn't it? "
If that’s a dig , I feel you have mis understood ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Im sensing an atmosphere, the temperature has suddenly dropped
Plummeted... Rather unpleasantly... Makes you wonder doesn't it?
If that’s a dig , I feel you have mis understood "
Not a dig... An expression of disgust at some comments maybe ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im sensing an atmosphere, the temperature has suddenly dropped
Plummeted... Rather unpleasantly... Makes you wonder doesn't it?
If that’s a dig , I feel you have mis understood
Not a dig... An expression of disgust at some comments maybe "
I think it’s all in jest ! Mine are anyway ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im sensing an atmosphere, the temperature has suddenly dropped
Plummeted... Rather unpleasantly... Makes you wonder doesn't it?
If that’s a dig , I feel you have mis understood
Not a dig... An expression of disgust at some comments maybe
I think it’s all in jest ! Mine are anyway "
I think most were. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Genuinely sorry to hear you were let down, OP. At least you turned up and have showed a good sense of humour and no negativity about the whole thing. Perhaps do a bit more research next time. I think you have helped yourself a lot on here with your attitude on this thread, well done and I wish you luck for next time. X ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Genuinely sorry to hear you were let down, OP. At least you turned up and have showed a good sense of humour and no negativity about the whole thing. Perhaps do a bit more research next time. I think you have helped yourself a lot on here with your attitude on this thread, well done and I wish you luck for next time. X "
thanks Ms Wood x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My 11am meet today has disappeared off fab this morning !!
Who thinks she will show up ?
No I don't think he will "
I should have read the whole thread first ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My 11am meet today has disappeared off fab this morning !!
Who thinks she will show up ?
Is her name Mary Poppins or Mrs Houdini
???"
I think that referred to my no show lady! Just a coincidence Mary lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My 11am meet today has disappeared off fab this morning !!
Who thinks she will show up ?
Is her name Mary Poppins or Mrs Houdini
???
I think that referred to my no show lady! Just a coincidence Mary lol"
Yeah its not at you mary haha ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
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"Well every one she has come online today !! I wonder if she will ignore me or what her excuse will be !
Lol
Just block her and move on. "
Best option OP.
Just going on about it and watching her profile seems a bit stalkerish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hat still untouched ! Gave up waiting but I knew she wouldn’t show , I just had to turn up in case I was the one letting her down .
I've done the same myself.
Been pretty convinced it was going to be a no show, but you feel obliged to go given the slim possibility that they may show up and you risk getting reported for being the no-show"
Happened again. Got chatting last week, arranged a meet for yesterday morning. Was only when I was on fab on Sunday evening that I noticed that they'd disappeared from my friends list. When I went back to my messages and clicked on their profile, I got the 'unable to view profile' message, but had also noticed that their location had changed to Swansea.
Was pretty convinced that their account had been suspended, but, as I am true to my word, I still turned up as arranged - just to be sure, but not expecting them to turn up - and they didn't.
Reported and blocked. Onwards and upwards |
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"Well every one she has come online today !! I wonder if she will ignore me or what her excuse will be !
Lol
Just block her and move on.
Best option OP.
Just going on about it and watching her profile seems a bit stalkerish. "
Why is it stalkerish?
If someone says they’re going to meet you then they should meet you!
Everyone has a right to change their mind - but if they do it’s common courtesy to let you know!
Tbh one thing that constantly makes me about fab is that many people feel that manners, common decency and morals somehow don’t apply here!
I’ve heard ‘it’s fab’ or ‘it’s swinging ‘ used as an excuse for shitty behaviour many times!
It’s one reason I’ve decided to give dating a go - though I suspect it’ll be more of the same! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m not interested in meeting her now that she didn’t turn up to the agreed meet but I think I deserve at least a reason even if it’s just she changed her mind ! If that’s the case I will give her some friendly advise about courtesy . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My 11am meet today has disappeared off fab this morning !!
Who thinks she will show up ?
I’d have shown up op!
Sorry - happens to most of us and it’s crap! Sending hugs! Xx"
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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago
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I think we have all been catfished or been taken in by time wasters at some point here or on other sites.
Nothing wrong in genuine people changing their minds. Letting the other party know is just being polite.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think we have all been catfished or been taken in by time wasters at some point here or on other sites.
Nothing wrong in genuine people changing their minds. Letting the other party know is just being polite.
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And I’d accept that . |
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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago
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My time waster radar is normally very good....
But recently I got reeled in twice much to my annoyance....
Either they are getting better or I had a couple of off days....
On the plus side I had a good coffee and cake out of it.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My 11am meet today has disappeared off fab this morning !!
Who thinks she will show up ?
Is her name Mary Poppins or Mrs Houdini
???
I think that referred to my no show lady! Just a coincidence Mary lol
Yeah its not at you mary haha "
Oh thank god - I thought the world was out to get me for a while. But I’m ok now!! ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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