I stay and try my best to enjoy the evening but make every effort not to be flirtatious in any way at all. Normally they get the message and we part politely.

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By *iss.ddWoman over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

The one and only time I did this, I could see from a distance I'd been lied to as there was absolutely no way I could have got him mistaken for someone else..... I just kept on going.

It wasn't worth my time to deal with an out and out liar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s why I always meet for a social first.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say ‘you’re not what I expected’ and leave

Won’t that just lead to an argument? "

Cant argue with someone who just upped and left

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say ‘you’re not what I expected’ and leave

Won’t that just lead to an argument?

Cant argue with someone who just upped and left"

I knew I had to leave as soon as I walked through the door

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Say ‘you’re not what I expected’ and leave

^This^"

I’d of had a fight on my hands.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say ‘you’re not what I expected’ and leave"

Another vote for this. It would mean that they've been economical with the truth and I don't have time to waste with people like that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you turn up at a meet and the person is not what you expected in the slightest and you can’t go through with it what do you do?"

First meets are normally social, so you be honest and polite that there's no spark there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Say ‘you’re not what I expected’ and leave

Another vote for this. It would mean that they've been economical with the truth and I don't have time to waste with people like that"

Bring up the photos from the profile which have mislead you, ask the question, explain that you’re going to finish your drink and leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with Queen L and done so on two occasions one of which was a total mislead. A supposed TV with a face pick sent to me who turned out with a fullset beard. Either very good with Photoshop or outright liar. That was in my early days. No arguments and no damage other than a waste of my time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Buy her a drink and be pleasant"

Absolutely.

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By *ddibleMan over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

If they've lied to me then i make my disgust known there and then and leave, if they can't show me the respect of being honest then why should I give them my time.

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