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Those fat and ugly days.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take a deep breath , pop on my walking boots and good music and take pooch out .
Life always seems better with a walk or good music .
I hope your cheery again soon x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you do about them? Wait for it to pass or become proactive?"
I have done both.
Waiting for it to pass usually prolongs it, but despite knowing this from experience, I still do it sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder if it really is just feeling fat and ugly or just the physical manifestation of a pissed off day/week?"
To be honest, looking at your pics, you don't know what fat is!  |
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"I wonder if it really is just feeling fat and ugly or just the physical manifestation of a pissed off day/week?
To be honest, looking at your pics, you don't know what fat is! "
Shhhh, I used to weigh nearly 21 stones...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder if it really is just feeling fat and ugly or just the physical manifestation of a pissed off day/week?"
For me it generally coincides with low moments. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Taking a break from fab helps. It does nothing for your self esteem at times (from a male perspective)"
Have to agree. Sometimes being on here isn't good for how I view myself! There are so many gorgeous women with fantastic figures!! But then I have a good talk to myself and remind myself I'm no spring chicken any more and I shouldn't compare myself to anyone else!!
OP.. we are all gorgeous in our own ways! Be kind to yourself! I always say we should talk to ourselves like we do our best friend!...we'd never tell our bestie that they are fat and ugly!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Taking a break from fab helps. It does nothing for your self esteem at times (from a male perspective)
Have to agree. Sometimes being on here isn't good for how I view myself! There are so many gorgeous women with fantastic figures!! But then I have a good talk to myself and remind myself I'm no spring chicken any more and I shouldn't compare myself to anyone else!!
OP.. we are all gorgeous in our own ways! Be kind to yourself! I always say we should talk to ourselves like we do our best friend!...we'd never tell our bestie that they are fat and ugly!! xx"
Are you real? You’ve got an amazing body!! And are gorgeous!! You should never put yourself down!
I know there are far better looking guys out there but if ppl don’t go for me then im not their type.  |
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"Taking a break from fab helps. It does nothing for your self esteem at times (from a male perspective)"
I’m an old hand here, I’ve only let the negativity in once in all my years here and a verbal slap, a massage and an epic naked party stopped that particular wallow!
This slump has to do with life ‘out there’ and it will pass, it always does, I was interested in how others handled it, I’ll be he smug bitch I always am by the morning  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Taking a break from fab helps. It does nothing for your self esteem at times (from a male perspective)
I’m an old hand here, I’ve only let the negativity in once in all my years here and a verbal slap, a massage and an epic naked party stopped that particular wallow!
This slump has to do with life ‘out there’ and it will pass, it always does, I was interested in how others handled it, I’ll be he smug bitch I always am by the morning "
Good
Life's too short for anything else! |
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"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes."
I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route.
I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves.
I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales.
Mwah |
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"What do you do about them? Wait for it to pass or become proactive? Come on this site and get showered with compliments "
You see that doesn't work for a woman as we know most of the compliments on here are tosh,or maybe that's just me. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"What do you do about them? Wait for it to pass or become proactive? Come on this site and get showered with compliments
You see that doesn't work for a woman as we know most of the compliments on here are tosh,or maybe that's just me."
you're too aware for this site  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes.
I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route.
I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves.
I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales.
Mwah "
The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out.
The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"What do you do about them? Wait for it to pass or become proactive? Come on this site and get showered with compliments
You see that doesn't work for a woman as we know most of the compliments on here are tosh,or maybe that's just me."
It's not just you |
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"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes.
I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route.
I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves.
I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales.
Mwah
The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out.
The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April "
I don't have any either, I just jump on my mates scales twice a year out of curiosity. Last time was a lovely surprise! I was tempted to chop my hair off so I was another half a stone lighter but I refrained |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes.
I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route.
I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves.
I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales.
Mwah
The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out.
The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April "
It’s acceptable this time of year as I live in hoodies so I’m ok with winter stodge. I just have to train a bit harder which warms me up never listen to scales it’s all about how you feel! |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes.
I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route.
I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves.
I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales.
Mwah
The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out.
The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April "
you're slim and small you probably weigh 126 pounds max. Average woman is 166 pounds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was 18 n half stone a few years ago. Way too many takeaways and no exercise. I don’t know what I weigh now but I did lose 4 stone then and felt scrawny but I feel happier as I am now! No six pack but fill t shirts out rather well |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
the right frame of mind -London |
I took the title to be a metaphor for the day itself -i.e a day full to the brim of unpleasant tasks. Sort of like an Alan Sugar session with a stream of inept sanitary engineers about a burst sewer in the basement -that kind of thing... |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes.
I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route.
I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves.
I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales.
Mwah
The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out.
The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April you're slim and small you probably weigh 126 pounds max. Average woman is 166 pounds."
I'm nearly 10 stone at 5ft 1  The average women is also a lot taller.
I'm ok with my shape just saying scales are not always conjuicive to our mental state. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes.
I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route.
I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves.
I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales.
Mwah
The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out.
The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April
It’s acceptable this time of year as I live in hoodies so I’m ok with winter stodge. I just have to train a bit harder which warms me up never listen to scales it’s all about how you feel! "
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I know I’m not fat but as a former fatty, it’s hard to shake that feeling off sometimes.
I hear you on this one. For me I know I'm nowhere near as I was, but sometimes just something small is enough to make me stress I'm heading back down that route.
I do think hormones and environmental factors do play a part, like you say, bad week or shit day and it can impact how we see ourselves.
I weighed myself a few weeks ago and was over a stone lighter than I thought I was, so it goes to show what's in our heads ain't always what's on the scales.
Mwah
The dreaded scales I can't have them in my house anymore because I weigh so heavy that it freaks me out.
The winter blues dont help with how we feel as well. I could hibernate until about April you're slim and small you probably weigh 126 pounds max. Average woman is 166 pounds.
I'm nearly 10 stone at 5ft 1 The average women is also a lot taller.
I'm ok with my shape just saying scales are not always conjuicive to our mental state."
it's not a lot the average woman height is 5 foot 4 inches. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I seem to feel fat and ugly most days but I do go to the gym and I'm trying really really hard to cut the bad things out like booze and chips. I also walk pooch twice a day which clears my head. |
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By *ansNotHot.Man
over a year ago
here, there & in your knickers |
"I seem to feel fat and ugly most days but I do go to the gym and I'm trying really really hard to cut the bad things out like booze and chips. I also walk pooch twice a day which clears my head. "
You look peng |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to feel fat and ugly most days but I do go to the gym and I'm trying really really hard to cut the bad things out like booze and chips. I also walk pooch twice a day which clears my head.
You look peng "
Hello you  |
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By *ansNotHot.Man
over a year ago
here, there & in your knickers |
"I seem to feel fat and ugly most days but I do go to the gym and I'm trying really really hard to cut the bad things out like booze and chips. I also walk pooch twice a day which clears my head.
You look peng
Hello you "
Hey you! How have you been? Hope you are feeling better now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you do about them? Wait for it to pass or become proactive?"
I come on here. There's always somebody more miserable than me on here so that makes me feel better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apple crumble in the oven right now, should be ready in about 20 minutes, will be serving up a healthy portion with single cream. Anyone hungry? "
Can I have a large unhealthy portion |
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"Apple crumble in the oven right now, should be ready in about 20 minutes, will be serving up a healthy portion with single cream. Anyone hungry? "
Ooh. Do you have cinnamon for sprinkling on top too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to wallow a bit then as my meh days are usually from looking and feeling work frumpy I will shower, straighten hair, put nice clothes on and go shopping or something. |
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"I tend to wallow a bit then as my meh days are usually from looking and feeling work frumpy I will shower, straighten hair, put nice clothes on and go shopping or something. "
...I may have bought shoes... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tend to wallow a bit then as my meh days are usually from looking and feeling work frumpy I will shower, straighten hair, put nice clothes on and go shopping or something.
...I may have bought shoes..."
Yay |
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"I have a kitchen disco whenever I’m down. Crank up the tunes and dance in my barefeet. "
Definitely the best idea.. Maybe with a glass of wine.. Exercise releases happy hormones.. That and stick on the 'comfy' outfit that looks good even on the 'fat and ugly days'.. Xx.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I eat a bueno and go out to take pictures
I also go out with my leaf blowers and try to find some willing tits
Mine would flap about like a flag in a hurricane. "
Stop you are turning me love ! Getting erect just at the thought of me using my leaf blower on your beautiful breast  |
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"I eat a bueno and go out to take pictures
I also go out with my leaf blowers and try to find some willing tits
Mine would flap about like a flag in a hurricane.
Stop you are turning me love ! Getting erect just at the thought of me using my leaf blower on your beautiful breast "
Just the one? Left or right? One is a whole cup bigger, see if you can guess which one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I eat a bueno and go out to take pictures
I also go out with my leaf blowers and try to find some willing tits
Mine would flap about like a flag in a hurricane.
Stop you are turning me love ! Getting erect just at the thought of me using my leaf blower on your beautiful breast
Just the one? Left or right? One is a whole cup bigger, see if you can guess which one."
If I guess right, may I lick them both ? |
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"I eat a bueno and go out to take pictures
I also go out with my leaf blowers and try to find some willing tits
Mine would flap about like a flag in a hurricane.
Stop you are turning me love ! Getting erect just at the thought of me using my leaf blower on your beautiful breast
Just the one? Left or right? One is a whole cup bigger, see if you can guess which one.
If I guess right, may I lick them both ? "
What about the heated blower? |
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"Apple crumble in the oven right now, should be ready in about 20 minutes, will be serving up a healthy portion with single cream. Anyone hungry?
Ooh. Do you have cinnamon for sprinkling on top too?"
Cinnamon, oats, and soft brown sugar, apples from my own tree, lovely  |
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"Apple crumble in the oven right now, should be ready in about 20 minutes, will be serving up a healthy portion with single cream. Anyone hungry?
Can I have a large unhealthy portion "
You’ll have to fight me for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just sat and ate nearly a whole jar of peanut butter... over 2000 calories worth. I know the feeling, but now I just enjoy it and whatever.... I wanted the peanut butter and was so worth it. Daisy x |
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