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over a year ago
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Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?
Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.
And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?
Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.
And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’
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It happens in life so not sure about blocking, just say thanks but not for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?
Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.
And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’
It happens in life so not sure about blocking, just say thanks but not for me "
Instant block from me, I’d be a sassy woman.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?
Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.
And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’
It happens in life so not sure about blocking, just say thanks but not for me
Instant block from me, I’d be a sassy woman. "
Lol ... I let all my blocks out at Christmas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s when they call me gorgeous even though they can’t see my face pics that annoys me most. Although being called babe wouldn’t make me think ooh I can’t wait to meet this guy!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s when they call me gorgeous even though they can’t see my face pics that annoys me most. Although being called babe wouldn’t make me think ooh I can’t wait to meet this guy!!"
Same |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone that would block for that needs to get over themselves IMO!! Babe and hun are common parlance, they're only being friendly, I don't mind a bit."
Hey, I don’t make the rules, that’s just how I would roll if I had a pair of tits. |
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"Anyone that would block for that needs to get over themselves IMO!! Babe and hun are common parlance, they're only being friendly, I don't mind a bit.
Hey, I don’t make the rules, that’s just how I would roll if I had a pair of tits."
Prima donna!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone that would block for that needs to get over themselves IMO!! Babe and hun are common parlance, they're only being friendly, I don't mind a bit.
Hey, I don’t make the rules, that’s just how I would roll if I had a pair of tits.
Prima donna!! "
You know it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done but usually call them lass depends on comfort
It’s ‘maid’ where I’m from.
Same here, ugh.
Maids tend to have very sturdy thighs. "
It’s all that cow riding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't give a flying fuck (how do you give a flying fuck anyway, sounds like a logistical nightmare?!) I call blokes sweetie pie, hunnie and sugar tits all the time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done but usually call them lass depends on comfort
It’s ‘maid’ where I’m from.
Same here, ugh.
Maids tend to have very sturdy thighs.
It’s all that cow riding. "
I'd always assumed it was a milking fetish  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have done but usually call them lass depends on comfort
It’s ‘maid’ where I’m from.
Same here, ugh.
Maids tend to have very sturdy thighs.
It’s all that cow riding.
I'd always assumed it was a milking fetish "
That too but that’s our secret. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind any terms of endear menu, it's when they call me slut on the first message they get blocked.... Come on save it for the second message when you know if I am or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My mate once called a girl babe in a bar . She turned round and said " do I look like a fuckin suckling pig ?" He was lost for words .
I was on the floor "
Babe = pig in the city. It’s a concealed insult innit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s when they call me gorgeous even though they can’t see my face pics that annoys me most. Although being called babe wouldn’t make me think ooh I can’t wait to meet this guy!!"
Same!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends who says it and how they say it, but usually makes my skin crawl. Got a really patronising 'darlin' last week and was surprised how much it got my back up! Much prefer a guy who slags me off a bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends who says it and how they say it, but usually makes my skin crawl. Got a really patronising 'darlin' last week and was surprised how much it got my back up! Much prefer a guy who slags me off a bit "
You prefer I guy to slag you off in a message that’s interesting
How many are brave enough to send an opening message like that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends who says it and how they say it, but usually makes my skin crawl. Got a really patronising 'darlin' last week and was surprised how much it got my back up! Much prefer a guy who slags me off a bit
You prefer I guy to slag you off in a message that’s interesting
How many are brave enough to send an opening message like that?"
I don't mean abuse. Just show some confidence and personality instead of fawning. The guy I'm likely meeting next calls me a wee dick all the time, and I love it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't block them but I do tell them not to do it.
Another one I dislike is being called 'older' or 'mature'  "
Exactly this, another one is dear that really grinds me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?
Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.
And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’
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Where I come from we call every one babe regardless of whether we know them or not it's not a sexual thing here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs u do this all the time,help!? Example of a message that’s likely to get a response and one the is a guaranteed non starter please x
Huh? "
ha ha....can I have an example of a message that is more likely to get a posative reaction please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't mean abuse. Just show some confidence and personality instead of fawning. The guy I'm likely meeting next calls me a wee dick all the time, and I love it!"
That makes more sense
I am polite, tell them a little about myself and what I liked about their profile if I have messaged them I have seen something I liked
I get a few replies and considering how women and couples get masses of messages it seems like the best approach for me
I never use anything but their username or real name when it’s given no babe or sweetie from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ffs u do this all the time,help!? Example of a message that’s likely to get a response and one the is a guaranteed non starter please x
Huh? ha ha....can I have an example of a message that is more likely to get a posative reaction please? "
“Just don’t call me babe!”
(If you’ve ever had the misfortune of watching barbed wire, you would know the outcome.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?
Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.
And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’
It happens in life so not sure about blocking, just say thanks but not for me
Instant block from me, I’d be a sassy woman. "
You'd be a total fucking pain in the hoop! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?
Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.
And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’
It happens in life so not sure about blocking, just say thanks but not for me
Instant block from me, I’d be a sassy woman.
You'd be a total fucking pain in the hoop! "
Haha, you know it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a habit of calling people babe sometimes. Oops. I think it’s more of a southern thing. Don’t call me hun though. I cannot stand it!
Guess 'hunny bunny' is out too then?  "
Aw that’s quite sweet actually |
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"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?
Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.
And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’
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Im absolutly hate it babe or baby make me boke! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a habit of calling people babe sometimes. Oops. I think it’s more of a southern thing. Don’t call me hun though. I cannot stand it! "
Me too  oops!! Although in fairness never to someone I don't know or haven't met... And would never use it in a first message!!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd avoid it in messages
I am awful for calling women 'sweets' in conversation though
It just comes out
I blame my ex Mrs
She called everyone 'sweets'
Mad how some things stick in your sub-concious |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a habit of calling people babe sometimes. Oops. I think it’s more of a southern thing. Don’t call me hun though. I cannot stand it!
Me too oops!! Although in fairness never to someone I don't know or haven't met... And would never use it in a first message!!! X"
Oh no. Definitely not. Only to people who I know quite well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s when they call me gorgeous even though they can’t see my face pics that annoys me most. Although being called babe wouldn’t make me think ooh I can’t wait to meet this guy!!
Same "
Mee too or how hot I am and they haven't even spoken to me yet.. |
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"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?
Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.
And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’
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Chill out babe |
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"Is there any woman that actually likes being called ‘babe’ in a message ?
Cause if I was a woman and some sage called me ‘babe’ that would be an instant block.
And one more thing why do men do it, cause it’s beyond me. If you’re the sort of bloke who calls women ‘babe’ in a first message, one question ‘Why, do you do it?’
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I don't reply to messages that say babe |
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Hi hate the term's babe love hun darling in a message or conversation with a bloke whom I've never had any kind of relationship with I've gone as far as blank them until used my name if known or least username. |
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