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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So guys, I'm intrigued...
When arranging a meet, do you want a women to dress up? Things like stockings, suspended belt, matching bra and knickers under a nice dress.
Or do you mind if she turns up in a t-shirt and jeans?
Ladies what do you wear to a meet?
What's your thoughts? |
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Personally I don't mind. Sometimes normal every day clothes can be hellishly sexy. Something about undressing a woman in normal clothes is hot. However when a woman loves wearing lingerie then that can make the meet even sexier. Especially if they have outfits to change into too!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So guys, I'm intrigued...
When arranging a meet, do you want a women to dress up? Things like stockings, suspended belt, matching bra and knickers under a nice dress.
Or do you mind if she turns up in a t-shirt and jeans?
Ladies what do you wear to a meet?
What's your thoughts? "
I like both but depends what time of year and if it's day or night eg hot sunny day done up to the nines on a day meet isn't for me required |
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"Just be comfy and yourself IMO. I’ve met women in jeans or had one turn up in my door in nothing but heels and a Mack.  "
I’ve done that before, well it was stockings and boots  If I was meeting someone I would wear a dress with nice undies on, personally I wouldn’t meet in jeans. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"So guys, I'm intrigued...
When arranging a meet, do you want a women to dress up? Things like stockings, suspended belt, matching bra and knickers under a nice dress.
Or do you mind if she turns up in a t-shirt and jeans?
Ladies what do you wear to a meet?
What's your thoughts? "
Bridget Jones knickers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So guys, I'm intrigued...
When arranging a meet, do you want a women to dress up? Things like stockings, suspended belt, matching bra and knickers under a nice dress.
Or do you mind if she turns up in a t-shirt and jeans?
Ladies what do you wear to a meet?
What's your thoughts? Bridget Jones knickers "
Better pop to the shop and get some if men like that kind of thing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just be comfy and yourself IMO. I’ve met women in jeans or had one turn up in my door in nothing but heels and a Mack.
I’ve done that before, well it was stockings and boots If I was meeting someone I would wear a dress with nice undies on, personally I wouldn’t meet in jeans."
I’m sure someone had a lot of fun that night!
The only problem with jeans, especially skinny ones, is taking them off without looking like a dick lol |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I only currently meet in clubs, but when I did meet I would wear my normal day clothes, although I do make an effort in my clothing at all times.
So for me it would be a bodycon or skater style mini dress with stockings and heels boots. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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As I often tell people I meet, when they worry about what to wear, I'm there to meet them, the person, and not their clothes, so whatever they are comfortable in is fine with me.
Besides, if it's not a social meet, and all goes well we'll probably end up naked at some point anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never dress up in anything sexy or specific, I just wear what I would normally wear if meeting friends or going out, depending on where the meet is. I like to feel comfortable and be ME. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never dress up in anything sexy or specific, I just wear what I would normally wear if meeting friends or going out, depending on where the meet is. I like to feel comfortable and be ME. "
totally the best way
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"I never dress up in anything sexy or specific, I just wear what I would normally wear if meeting friends or going out, depending on where the meet is. I like to feel comfortable and be ME. "
Yes, the anal dildo is timeless  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always “make an effort” at least hold up and a dress/shirt skirt. But I think it should be down to the lady to decide ...can’t abbide the “will you wear this will you wear that” brigade .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never dress up in anything sexy or specific, I just wear what I would normally wear if meeting friends or going out, depending on where the meet is. I like to feel comfortable and be ME. totally the best way"
I never wear stockings unless I was dressing up in the bedroom so I’m not going to wear them out to a meet, I would be uncomfortable and fidgeting. If I was staying with someone I would take something to change into but it rarely gets to that and clothes come off and nice underwear in the bag forgotten. I always wear matching underwear anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never dress up in anything sexy or specific, I just wear what I would normally wear if meeting friends or going out, depending on where the meet is. I like to feel comfortable and be ME.
Yes, the anal dildo is timeless "
Hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never dress up in anything sexy or specific, I just wear what I would normally wear if meeting friends or going out, depending on where the meet is. I like to feel comfortable and be ME. totally the best way"
I second this! |
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"I never dress up in anything sexy or specific, I just wear what I would normally wear if meeting friends or going out, depending on where the meet is. I like to feel comfortable and be ME.
Yes, the anal dildo is timeless
Hahaha"
I was a bit shocked when you suggested we wear matching ones, but hey ho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me I love the build up. I love to dress up as part of that. On a social I like to wear a pretty dress. I like to meet wearing something slightly sex but with stockings etc on to give him a clue of how I'm dressed underneath. I love to dress up in themed outfits too and I always take a costume change. One for play one that's softer but still sexy to sleep in - or not sleep in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A social straight after work (if I'm in the office) is formal attire, a social any other time is skinny jeans and a pretty top.
Personal intimacy (rare) is usually a dress and 'the rest' |
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
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I’m inclined to just be me so it’s going to depend on the situation. If it’s night time in a bar or club I’m likely in a skirt or dress and very high heels.
If you get me for coffee you’re liable to get me in my jeans and docs and have to accept that.
If it goes beyond a social - you really won’t care
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So guys, I'm intrigued...
When arranging a meet, do you want a women to dress up? Things like stockings, suspended belt, matching bra and knickers under a nice dress.
Or do you mind if she turns up in a t-shirt and jeans?
Ladies what do you wear to a meet?
What's your thoughts? "
I wear what's comfortable for me..
Im not a dress to impress type of person |
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"I never dress up in anything sexy or specific, I just wear what I would normally wear if meeting friends or going out, depending on where the meet is. I like to feel comfortable and be ME. "
Exactly this ..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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all very interesting. I have dressed up for meets before, but sometimes I want to just stick on my skinny jeans, big oversized jumper and my converse lol and then I think no man would find that sexy! lol |
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"So guys, I'm intrigued...
When arranging a meet, do you want a women to dress up? Things like stockings, suspended belt, matching bra and knickers under a nice dress.
Or do you mind if she turns up in a t-shirt and jeans?
Ladies what do you wear to a meet?
What's your thoughts? "
Over the eight years that we’ve been swinging I would say we’ve had well over a thousand meets and my wife has always dressed to impress on every single meet .
Perhaps we are old fashioned , but whether it’s a club , a house meet , a party , dogging or whatever , it’s always stockings , suspenders , no knickers , no bra , and seductive clothing .
Even though we aren’t currently meeting , she wears the same when we go out into town on a Friday night . |
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"all very interesting. I have dressed up for meets before, but sometimes I want to just stick on my skinny jeans, big oversized jumper and my converse lol and then I think no man would find that sexy! lol"
To be fair I think you could turn up in a bin liner and still look good. Not that I have a thing for bin liners! |
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"So guys, I'm intrigued...
When arranging a meet, do you want a women to dress up? Things like stockings, suspended belt, matching bra and knickers under a nice dress.
Or do you mind if she turns up in a t-shirt and jeans?
Ladies what do you wear to a meet?
What's your thoughts?
Over the eight years that we’ve been swinging I would say we’ve had well over a thousand meets and my wife has always dressed to impress on every single meet .
Perhaps we are old fashioned , but whether it’s a club , a house meet , a party , dogging or whatever , it’s always stockings , suspenders , no knickers , no bra , and seductive clothing .
Even though we aren’t currently meeting , she wears the same when we go out into town on a Friday night ."
For us it's all part of the fun. I dress up at home too sometimes. Obviously not when the vicar comes round for tea... |
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"So guys, I'm intrigued...
When arranging a meet, do you want a women to dress up? Things like stockings, suspended belt, matching bra and knickers under a nice dress.
Or do you mind if she turns up in a t-shirt and jeans?
Ladies what do you wear to a meet?
What's your thoughts?
Over the eight years that we’ve been swinging I would say we’ve had well over a thousand meets and my wife has always dressed to impress on every single meet .
Perhaps we are old fashioned , but whether it’s a club , a house meet , a party , dogging or whatever , it’s always stockings , suspenders , no knickers , no bra , and seductive clothing .
Even though we aren’t currently meeting , she wears the same when we go out into town on a Friday night .
For us it's all part of the fun. I dress up at home too sometimes. Obviously not when the vicar comes round for tea..."
I think it’s important that I stress the fact that it’s what my wife wants to wear , not what I’ve asked her to wear . And it is part of the fun , for us and for those we meet . |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
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I think women should wear what makes them feel sexy or what they're most comfortable and relaxed in. Nothing worse than a woman on edge or feeling self conscious
To be honest all the trouble of picking an outfit only to have it ripped off in the heat of passion seems like a waste, but I do appreciate it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mostly jeans/jeggings, nice top, nice bra and knickers, smart trainers/converse or flat boots. If anyone ever suggested what they would like me to wear then i wouldnt meet them and would probably block them. The only guy id dress to please is my husband, luckily he likes me in the above or naked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive become a bit more relaxed in what I wear to drive and arrive. Too many petrol station or loo stops needed in flimsy dresses and stockings in sub zero weather for me to care about sexy. I'll change when I get there if there is a look I want to achieve.  |
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I live in lycra, joggers & Converse, scruffy hair, no make up most of the week.
If I'm going out, I always like to make an effort, put on a pretty dress & heels.
A social meet, casual but smart.
Something more, then a sexy dress, definitely nice lacies, stockings when it's colder.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So guys, I'm intrigued...
When arranging a meet, do you want a women to dress up? Things like stockings, suspended belt, matching bra and knickers under a nice dress.
Or do you mind if she turns up in a t-shirt and jeans?
Ladies what do you wear to a meet?
What's your thoughts?
Over the eight years that we’ve been swinging I would say we’ve had well over a thousand meets and my wife has always dressed to impress on every single meet .
Perhaps we are old fashioned , but whether it’s a club , a house meet , a party , dogging or whatever , it’s always stockings , suspenders , no knickers , no bra , and seductive clothing .
Even though we aren’t currently meeting , she wears the same when we go out into town on a Friday night .
For us it's all part of the fun. I dress up at home too sometimes. Obviously not when the vicar comes round for tea..."
I bet the Vicar arrives with everything crossed hoping this will be the day they've dressed up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all very interesting. I have dressed up for meets before, but sometimes I want to just stick on my skinny jeans, big oversized jumper and my converse lol and then I think no man would find that sexy! lol"
Tbh, lots of men would find that sexy. |
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"So guys, I'm intrigued...
When arranging a meet, do you want a women to dress up? Things like stockings, suspended belt, matching bra and knickers under a nice dress.
Or do you mind if she turns up in a t-shirt and jeans?
Ladies what do you wear to a meet?
What's your thoughts?
Over the eight years that we’ve been swinging I would say we’ve had well over a thousand meets and my wife has always dressed to impress on every single meet .
Perhaps we are old fashioned , but whether it’s a club , a house meet , a party , dogging or whatever , it’s always stockings , suspenders , no knickers , no bra , and seductive clothing .
Even though we aren’t currently meeting , she wears the same when we go out into town on a Friday night .
For us it's all part of the fun. I dress up at home too sometimes. Obviously not when the vicar comes round for tea...
I think it’s important that I stress the fact that it’s what my wife wants to wear , not what I’ve asked her to wear . And it is part of the fun , for us and for those we meet . "
Quite! We both get pleasure from me dressing up too. Mr N buys me a lot of what he jokingly calls "skimpy outfits" I like that. I wear them because he wants me too and because I want to. I can't see a problem with wanting to please each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mostly jeans/jeggings, nice top, nice bra and knickers, smart trainers/converse or flat boots. If anyone ever suggested what they would like me to wear then i wouldnt meet them and would probably block them. The only guy id dress to please is my husband, luckily he likes me in the above or naked "
This is what i wear for a social meet.
We only meet to play at clubs so then id be wearing a sarong/towel or naked. |
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"So guys, I'm intrigued...
When arranging a meet, do you want a women to dress up? Things like stockings, suspended belt, matching bra and knickers under a nice dress.
Or do you mind if she turns up in a t-shirt and jeans?
Ladies what do you wear to a meet?
What's your thoughts?
Over the eight years that we’ve been swinging I would say we’ve had well over a thousand meets and my wife has always dressed to impress on every single meet .
Perhaps we are old fashioned , but whether it’s a club , a house meet , a party , dogging or whatever , it’s always stockings , suspenders , no knickers , no bra , and seductive clothing .
Even though we aren’t currently meeting , she wears the same when we go out into town on a Friday night .
For us it's all part of the fun. I dress up at home too sometimes. Obviously not when the vicar comes round for tea...
I bet the Vicar arrives with everything crossed hoping this will be the day they've dressed up "
 . If the vicar crossed our threshold someone would be struck by lightning and it wouldn't be him |
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I once had a meet where the lady wore grey jogging pants and a sweatshirt. This was OK apart from the various stains covering both items, a real turnoff. So long as the clothes and the lady are clean then fine by me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Leggings, slides and hoody or jeans, slides and a jumper.
I’m actually meeting someone (for a social) later this evening and I’m just wearing jeans, slides and a jumper.
It’s your face people are looking at on a first meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So guys, I'm intrigued...
When arranging a meet, do you want a women to dress up? Things like stockings, suspended belt, matching bra and knickers under a nice dress.
Or do you mind if she turns up in a t-shirt and jeans?
Ladies what do you wear to a meet?
What's your thoughts?
Over the eight years that we’ve been swinging I would say we’ve had well over a thousand meets and my wife has always dressed to impress on every single meet .
Perhaps we are old fashioned , but whether it’s a club , a house meet , a party , dogging or whatever , it’s always stockings , suspenders , no knickers , no bra , and seductive clothing .
Even though we aren’t currently meeting , she wears the same when we go out into town on a Friday night .
For us it's all part of the fun. I dress up at home too sometimes. Obviously not when the vicar comes round for tea...
I bet the Vicar arrives with everything crossed hoping this will be the day they've dressed up
. If the vicar crossed our threshold someone would be struck by lightning and it wouldn't be him "
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I go back to a single guys home, I always dress in a stockings and suspender outfit. No knickers. The suspender outfit goes just past the top of my thighs, so covers the essentials anyway! . Topped off with lace top hold up stockings and heels.
I need a better longer coat though in case someone sees what I'm wearing under my short dress. Especially with all this windy weather around here lately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As I often tell people I meet, when they worry about what to wear, I'm there to meet them, the person, and not their clothes, so whatever they are comfortable in is fine with me.
Besides, if it's not a social meet, and all goes well we'll probably end up naked at some point anyway"
This .
Probably some lingerie in there too, a stage between jeans and naked is good.
Mrs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wear whatever I feel comfortable in - dress, jeans and top, skirt and blouse.. Always matching bra and knickers. It's not about them, it's about how I feel. But if I feel good, it shows and it has nothing to do with what I'm wearing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a woman I like to turn up its her and her beautiful smile I'm interested in, not many women walk out the door looking a sight these days let's face it |
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What I wear depends on the when and where. For a daytime social having a coffee I'll be in jeans and a decent top, going out for dinner then playing I'm probably in a skirt. Either way sexy matching bra and thong underneath with more exciting lingerie to change into should I wish. Club visits and I go all out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to add another post to this...
I dislike guys who ask what I'll be wearing on a social meet!
Its an instant block from me  "
What will you be wearing? |
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I usually wear a dress, but then I usually wear a dress anyway. For a social regular knickers, and sometimes regular knickers for sex meets (usually with regular people). Matching sexy stuff underneath most of the time if I expect it to be seen. Makeup, I'll usually go vampy and provocative unless I'm trying to play around with the fact that I can look frustratingly innocent on the surface. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to add another post to this...
I dislike guys who ask what I'll be wearing on a social meet!
Its an instant block from me What will you be wearing? "
Hahahaha funny guy
Shush!!! |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
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"Just to add another post to this...
I dislike guys who ask what I'll be wearing on a social meet!
Its an instant block from me "
What happens if it's asked in innocence -i.e as a way of picking you out from a crowd in a busy pub? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to add another post to this...
I dislike guys who ask what I'll be wearing on a social meet!
Its an instant block from me
What happens if it's asked in innocence -i.e as a way of picking you out from a crowd in a busy pub?"
It was his first ever message sent to me! A fireman who put my fire out too soon! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to add another post to this...
I dislike guys who ask what I'll be wearing on a social meet!
Its an instant block from me
What happens if it's asked in innocence -i.e as a way of picking you out from a crowd in a busy pub?
It was his first ever message sent to me! A fireman who put my fire out too soon! "
Out of interest, what would you have worn?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if our conversation and build up has mentioned what we both like others wearing then I would make a suggestion as to what I would be excited to see her wear, but I always ask the lady what she would like me to wear....
For me outfits are a big turn on and part of the thrill of the meet so this element is a great way for me to see if we have synergy.
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