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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Someone posted earlier about all the naughty people being elsewhere so I've been having a look around and it does seem different areas have a whole different scene. The updates pages have a few obvious differences, some have more of one gender, stone post more pics, some are more into posting meets.
Does where you live affect how you swing? Would you travel to another area if you could? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It seems the clubs are a focal point and the amount of swingers ripples out from those. "
I guess that would vastly affect things. Up in Scotland we only have 2 clubs so a lot more focus is on one to one meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems the clubs are a focal point and the amount of swingers ripples out from those.
I guess that would vastly affect things. Up in Scotland we only have 2 clubs so a lot more focus is on one to one meets. "
Yep! I’m in a super quiet part of Fife - nightmare |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It seems the clubs are a focal point and the amount of swingers ripples out from those.
I guess that would vastly affect things. Up in Scotland we only have 2 clubs so a lot more focus is on one to one meets.
Yep! I’m in a super quiet part of Fife - nightmare "
Have you ever looked at other places? It's mad the difference! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems the clubs are a focal point and the amount of swingers ripples out from those.
I guess that would vastly affect things. Up in Scotland we only have 2 clubs so a lot more focus is on one to one meets.
Yep! I’m in a super quiet part of Fife - nightmare
Have you ever looked at other places? It's mad the difference! "
Yeah if I’m bored I’ll change my location - it’s outstanding! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"up north and glasgow or edinburgh been good."
How do you judge good though?
I changed my postcode and my local updates went from relatively quiet to crazy busy. Surely more people means more potential? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Do they really have different scenes? I thought it would just be quiet/not so quiet. I know that people change to busier locations for fabs on photos.
I've been swinging while living in a few different areas and not noticed that much of a difference. Maybe more people belonging to certain trades in some areas? I guess in London there are some areas where the site might reflect the general demographic. Actually that would apply to places other than London. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"up north and glasgow or edinburgh been good.
How do you judge good though?
I changed my postcode and my local updates went from relatively quiet to crazy busy. Surely more people means more potential? "
i mean in those that meet and i have more friends north of the border as i was based near arbroath and used to live in glasgow for a few years |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"I travel round the country quite a bit an I think the North of England is better than the south.
Why? "
There seem to be more clubs and I guess I’ve just had more success. The people seem friendlier.
Scotland (Glasgow) has been pretty good. And I’ve found London really hard. The women I’ve met in London have not been locals. They have been working/staying there too. |
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We are i guess lucky.. living around Manchester, we have a lot of clubs.
But if I'm perfectly honest, weve not been to a club for a few months. Although fun socially..
A cliche, but we/I prefer to get to know someone, banter chats etc get a feel for someone, no pun. If we are hoping to meet on a more intimate level.. but to answer your question, yes we have travelled..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do they really have different scenes? I thought it would just be quiet/not so quiet. I know that people change to busier locations for fabs on photos.
I've been swinging while living in a few different areas and not noticed that much of a difference. Maybe more people belonging to certain trades in some areas? I guess in London there are some areas where the site might reflect the general demographic. Actually that would apply to places other than London."
Well from what I can tell from the updates the approaches seem to be different. The areas with clubs have more "who's going to...tonight" type updates. Some have more photos added, some have more meet today things, up here it just seems to be people complaining  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Super quiet where I am at , conservative community to make it worse . Would
Surely travel to spice it up . "
Ha! You're in a whole other country! I wouldn't know where to start! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are i guess lucky.. living around Manchester, we have a lot of clubs.
But if I'm perfectly honest, weve not been to a club for a few months. Although fun socially..
A cliche, but we/I prefer to get to know someone, banter chats etc get a feel for someone, no pun. If we are hoping to meet on a more intimate level.. but to answer your question, yes we have travelled..
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I take it you travelled for a more intimate meet? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
There are hotties all over the place that I would like to meet, but there are also a few locally that have my attention. I think I'm pretty well situated to find who I want so I'm quite happy with my location  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
A few years ago there was often a few socials being arranged in clubs for a great night, I flew down south a few times for them. But a lot has changed since those days.
And don't even speak about my area! As I really don't have anything nice to say about most of the men and their attitudes  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im in Fife and cant really complain,had some amazing meets and use my filters to get what i want..."
I guess it depends what you're looking for too.
I just wonder if there would be a bigger scene if we had more clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually , if I was to land there today . I know I would be much more happy to be closer to many like minded ppl . Haha"
Fly over. We'll look after you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually , if I was to land there today . I know I would be much more happy to be closer to many like minded ppl . Haha
Fly over. We'll look after you "
Taking a pic of this . That way when I arrive I have an invitation lol  |
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By *iss Ash42Woman
over a year ago
somewhere nowhere near you.... |
"Im in Fife and cant really complain,had some amazing meets and use my filters to get what i want...
I guess it depends what you're looking for too.
I just wonder if there would be a bigger scene if we had more clubs. "
Believe me im fussy!but tons of nice guys here...
And some of the Scottish socials are huge! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are quite a lot of people living and meeting in and around north wales but tbh i wouldnt want to meet anyone too local
I usually travel to meet people who also travel to meet if i can |
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"We are i guess lucky.. living around Manchester, we have a lot of clubs.
But if I'm perfectly honest, weve not been to a club for a few months. Although fun socially..
A cliche, but we/I prefer to get to know someone, banter chats etc get a feel for someone, no pun. If we are hoping to meet on a more intimate level.. but to answer your question, yes we have travelled..
I take it you travelled for a more intimate meet? "
It turned out that way yes, but there where no hard and fast rules.. we met with a view to a social and it evolved. We travelled a distance, we had spoken for a while developed a friendship. So wanted to meet anyway, whether there was to be any intimacy or not. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its very quiet where i am in East London/Essex..  "
I’m in south east London and wouldn’t say it’s quiet. Club wise there aren’t that many but lots of parties going on if you know where to look. |
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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago
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"Its very quiet where i am in East London/Essex..
Quiet in what way? Do you rely purely on messaging on fab? "
Sorry for the late reply, I haven't been to any socials or club nights so have to rely on messaging to make connections on here and have been lucky to have had some great meets so cant really complain but there are just so few other fabbers in my location its just not easy to make many friends especially if your a single man. |
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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago
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"Its very quiet where i am in East London/Essex..
I’m in south east London and wouldn’t say it’s quiet. Club wise there aren’t that many but lots of parties going on if you know where to look."
I'm a bit too shy to go to a party on my own not knowing anybody! would rather meet someone for a social first to have a coffee and chat and hopefully make a connection that way. |
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